That Projector Life

We're getting back to Human Design 101 with this episode. And I can't believe it's taken me soooooo long to get to the subject of Definition. But, here we are, and I have a ton of great information for you. And some of that info will likely change how you're deconditioning! The term "definition" in Human Design has to do with your defined centers and how they're connected...or not. So in this episode, we'll talk through what definition is, how you can tell which type of definition you have, and how that energy affects your design. You'll receive a lot of eye-opening info that has the potential to give you a new avenue to focus on for deconditioning. So if you've been deconditioning your hardest, but things still feel off, listen in to this episode. It's possible your definition has something to do with it.   Episode Links Become a Patron and get access to exclusive content + early access to TPL episodes! Learn more at https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/patreon/   Looking for some free resources to jumpstart your Human Design journey? They're here: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/freebies/   Ready to start working with your Projector energy in just 5 lessons? Check out the Projector Pivot Challenge here: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/projectorpivot/   Learn more about your unique Human Design by booking a reading here.   For all the links mentioned in this episode, check out the complete show notes: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/tpl069/

Can you manifest as a Projector? Short answer: YES!  Long answer: Listen to this podcast episode. ;) Manifestation Queen Sasha Danielle is joining me to talk about all things manifestation as a Projector. We have a great conversation and share some a-ha moments that each of us have (during the chat, no less). Sasha brings a much-needed and unique perspective on Projector manifestation, so tune in to hear her words of wisdom. (Like a Projectors passive or active manifestors? She talks about this and gives an amazing answer that changes my views!) Want to hang out with Shasha more? Follow her on Instagram!   Episode Links Become a Patron and get access to exclusive content + early access to TPL episodes! Learn more at https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/patreon/   Looking for some free resources to jumpstart your Human Design journey? They're here: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/freebies/   Ready to start working with your Projector energy in just 5 lessons? Check out the Projector Pivot Challenge here: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/projectorpivot/   Learn more about your unique Human Design by booking a reading here.   For all the links mentioned in this episode, check out the complete show notes: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/tpl068/  

Projectors are experts when it comes to borrowing energy, even if we don’t realize it. Our penetrating aura makes it easy for us to energetically connect with and borrow from other people. In general, there are two ways we do this - through invitations and through being in someone’s aura. In this episode, we'll talk about borrowing energy both formally and informally as well as the challenges that come with energy borrowing. (And yeah, there is one big thing we need to watch out for when it comes to the people we choose to borrow from.)   Episode Links Become a Patron and get access to exclusive content + early access to TPL episodes! Learn more at https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/patreon/   Looking for some free resources to jumpstart your Human Design journey? They're here: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/freebies/   Ready to start working with your Projector energy in just 5 lessons? Check out the Projector Pivot Challenge here: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/projectorpivot/   Learn more about your unique Human Design by booking a reading here.   For all the links mentioned in this episode, check out the complete show notes: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/tpl067/

This week’s That Projector Life podcast episode features Reiki Master Shelby Melissa! Shelby is back on the show, and she and I chat through a lot of issues facing the collective now - stress, anxiety, overwhelm...and how to handle it. Shelby pulls from her amazing Facebook Live series Creating Impact in Turbulent Times as she walks us through how we can care for ourselves during this chaotic and stressful time so that we can, in turn, create the positive impact we desire to see. Join us as we hang out, riff on the system, and what to do when you’re feeling too overwhelmed to do any of the “de-stressing” techniques she offers. (Because honestly...sometimes it just feels easier to stay overwhelmed than it does to do EFT or meditate. - Shelby has a great suggestion for what to do if you’re in this boat.) Also, Shelby offers us all an invitation to do nothing, rest, and be Projectors (something I definitely needed when we were chatting). This is a great reminder to take care of yourself and listen to your energy. Note: Shelby's links have changed since this episode went live. Check out her most current links below.  Slow Mornings Co - https://slowmorningsco.com/ Follow Shelby on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/shelbymelissa/ Follow Slow Mornings Co on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/slowmorningsco/ Listen to Shelby's third TPL interview - Episode 119   Episode Links Become a Patron and get access to exclusive content + early access to TPL episodes! Learn more at https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/patreon/   Looking for some free resources to jumpstart your Human Design journey? They're here: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/freebies/   Ready to start working with your Projector energy in just 5 lessons? Check out the Projector Pivot Challenge here: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/projectorpivot/   Learn more about your unique Human Design by booking a reading here.   For all the links mentioned in this episode, check out the complete show notes: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/tpl066/

We all know that working with our energy is amazing and makes everything magical. Horses become unicorns. Clouds become calorie-free marshmallows, and the ugly brown water of the Gulf of Mexico becomes a beautiful, crystal-clear blue. And we also know that working against our energy makes life difficult and frustrating. But I don’t think many of us have really taken the time to compare and contrast (or maybe just contrast) the times we worked against our energy with the times we worked with our energy. Well...the good news is I’m doing it for you in this week’s That Projector Life podcast episode! I’m walking you through one time I didn’t work with my energy (because it’s a doozy of an example and I’m going to milk it for all it’s worth) and two times that I worked with my energy (once unknowingly and once knowingly). And we’ll talk about the differences and how all of this applies to your life. Ready to dive in and look at the differences between a projector working against her energy and then with her energy? Listen in!   Episode Links Become a Patron and get access to exclusive content + early access to TPL episodes! Learn more at https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/patreon/   Looking for some free resources to jumpstart your Human Design journey? They're here: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/freebies/   Ready to start working with your Projector energy in just 5 lessons? Check out the Projector Pivot Challenge here: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/projectorpivot/   Learn more about your unique Human Design by booking a reading here.   For all the links mentioned in this episode, check out the complete show notes: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/tpl065/

Like many of y’all, I’ve been home with my family all day, every day while we weather the COVID-19 storm. I want to say upfront that I don’t have THE answer or solution - you know, the one that will make everything feel normal again even though everyone is home together. (Because...well...things aren’t normal right now.) But I do have a few tips, strategies, and suggestions to help you survive and thrive during self-isolation. In today’s podcast episode, I’m covering three different types of self-isolation: With kids, without kids but with other adults, and then true self-isolation where you’re by yourself. Above all else, remember to stay aligned with your energy. I know this can be hard to do, especially when things are so uncertain. But in times like these, the world and your friends and family, need an aligned Projector who can guide them and reassure them. We’re natural guides. We can see things other people can’t. Use that energy to offer peace and hope to your loved ones. Yes, they can be exhausting. But they need your Projector energy.   Episode Links Become a Patron and get access to exclusive content + early access to TPL episodes! Learn more at https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/patreon/   Looking for some free resources to jumpstart your Human Design journey? They're here: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/freebies/   Ready to start working with your Projector energy in just 5 lessons? Check out the Projector Pivot Challenge here: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/projectorpivot/   Learn more about your unique Human Design by booking a reading here.   For all the links mentioned in this episode, check out the complete show notes: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/tpl064/

In light of the current state of global affairs, I figure it's time to talk about the Splenic Center. This center is all about fear, survival, and the lightheartedness associated with living.  We're taking a deep dive into this center to look at how it affects us, the energy that exits there, and the 7 primal fears we face. We'll also cover the differences between a defined and undefined spleen and their energy dynamics.  Ready to understand your spleen and use it to help you get through this difficult time? Listen in.    Episode Links Become a Patron and get access to exclusive content + early access to TPL episodes! Learn more at https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/patreon/   Looking for some free resources to jumpstart your Human Design journey? They're here: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/freebies/   Ready to start working with your Projector energy in just 5 lessons? Check out the Projector Pivot Challenge here: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/projectorpivot/   Learn more about your unique Human Design by booking a reading here.   For all the links mentioned in this episode, check out the complete show notes: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/tpl063/

In this episode, we're talking about something that many of us THINK we have (and wish we had)...but that we actually don’t. If you said willpower, you’re right. Willpower - found in the willpower (or heart) center - is the foundation of society and civilization. Here exists the will to survive and thrive. (Side note: Has anyone else followed a scary story and been like “I think if I were in that story I just would’ve given up and let the creature kill me?” No? Just me?) Here also exists self-esteem and our ego. And this is where things get interesting. The majority of us don’t have a defined willpower center - which means we don’t have consistent access to willpower energy. It also means we feel pressure to prove ourselves...which we will almost always struggle to do because of our undefined will. So, how can we handle this pressure to prove ourselves? And what does it really mean if we have an undefined will center? I’m answering those questions in this week’s episode by exploring the willpower center and how it impacts our self-esteem.   Episode Links Become a Patron and get access to exclusive content + early access to TPL episodes! Learn more at https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/patreon/   Looking for some free resources to jumpstart your Human Design journey? They're here: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/freebies/   Ready to start working with your Projector energy in just 5 lessons? Check out the Projector Pivot Challenge here: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/projectorpivot/   Learn more about your unique Human Design by booking a reading here.   For all the links mentioned in this episode, check out the complete show notes: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/tpl062/

Bitter Projectors are almost like a different species of Projector. You think you’re approaching a warm, inviting aura...and then BAM you find yourself in the middle of a harsh blizzard. It’s cold. It’s hostile. And it’s draining. And that, dear friends, is one way to identify a bitter Projector. Energetically, they feel like manifestors. Or at least, they feel extra repelling - it’s almost like you can feel the bitterness and negative vibes coming off them like waves. So if you pick up on that, you have a bitter Projector on your hands. But how do you talk to them? And how else can you identify a bitter Projector? That's what we're chatting about in this episode.    Episode Links Become a Patron and get access to exclusive content + early access to TPL episodes! Learn more at https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/patreon/   Looking for some free resources to jumpstart your Human Design journey? They're here: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/freebies/   Ready to start working with your Projector energy in just 5 lessons? Check out the Projector Pivot Challenge here: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/projectorpivot/   Learn more about your unique Human Design by booking a reading here.   For all the links mentioned in this episode, check out the complete show notes: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/tpl061/

It's time to talk about something that we all have experienced throughout our lives, though we probably didn't realize it at the time. That's right, we're talking about misalignment.  We'll cover What misalignment is How it happens Signs that you may be out of alignment How to shift back into alignment Episode Links Become a Patron and get access to exclusive content + early access to TPL episodes! Learn more at https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/patreon/   Looking for some free resources to jumpstart your Human Design journey? They're here: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/freebies/   Ready to start working with your Projector energy in just 5 lessons? Check out the Projector Pivot Challenge here: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/projectorpivot/   Learn more about your unique Human Design by booking a reading here.   For all the links mentioned in this episode, check out the complete show notes: https://www.thatprojectorlife.com/tpl060/