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Jan 22, 2024 • 1h 15min

Horror, Exorcisms & the Fear of God (#232)

Does interaction with scary media "open us up to spiritual influence?" What do professional exorcists think that exorcism is actually "doing" for the possessed? Is there a legitimate role for "the fear of the Lord"? What are the benefits of telling and re-telling horrifying stories? Fuller Seminary's Kutter Callaway joins Dan this week to discuss questions like this and they discuss his podcast Be Afraid.Kutter’s website:https://www.kuttercallaway.com/Be Afraid Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/be-afraid/id1704761081Kutter’s Devotional “Don’t Look Away: The Horrors of Holy Scripture”: https://www.alabasterco.com/products/dont-look-away-the-horrors-of-holy-scripture___________________________________________Follow Dan on IG: www.instagram.com/dancoke/Or Twitter: twitter.com/DanKochFaith deconstruction resources: www.soyouredeconstructing.com/Edited by Josh Gilbert (joshgilbertmedia.com -- he is accepting more work!)Email about the "sliding scale" for the Patreon: youhavepermissionpodcast@gmail.comYHP Patron-only FB group: tinyurl.com/ycvbbf98Website: www.dankochwords.com/yhp.htmlJoin Dan's email list: www.dankochwords.com/Artwork by sprungle.co/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Jan 15, 2024 • 46min

Trump 2024 Anxiety (#231)

Speaking as much to himself as to listeners, Dan goes through three common thinking errors, known in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy as “cognitive distortions,” that he sees in news coverage around the possibility of a Donald Trump victory in 2024. Recognizing these distortions in the media as well as our own thoughts about the election and its results can 1) reduce our anxiety and 2) align our thoughts more fully with the reality that the future is uncertain but unlikely to be as catastrophic as we often assume. More episodes should come and will focus on additional cognitive distortions, as well as acceptance work.___________________________________________Follow Dan on IG: www.instagram.com/dancoke/Or Twitter: twitter.com/DanKochFaith deconstruction resources: www.soyouredeconstructing.com/Edited by Josh Gilbert (joshgilbertmedia.com -- he is accepting more work!)Email about the "sliding scale" for the Patreon: youhavepermissionpodcast@gmail.comYHP Patron-only FB group: tinyurl.com/ycvbbf98Website: www.dankochwords.com/yhp.htmlJoin Dan's email list: www.dankochwords.com/Artwork by sprungle.co/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Jan 8, 2024 • 1h 12min

I Don't Believe in That God: Joy Vetterlein (#230)

Listen to former worship director and pastor's kid Joy Vetterlein as she discusses her journey of leaving the evangelical church, the challenges of starting over, and the need for more understanding of spiritual abuse. Explore her lack of concern about going to hell, skepticism of evangelism tactics, and the importance of feeling secure in her body. Discover her process of challenging beliefs, embracing personal discernment, and seeking healing outside traditional religious practices. Also, learn about the correlation between spirituality and depression and her hope for her children's sense of safety and purpose through spirituality.
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Jan 2, 2024 • 1h 5min

When Religion Hurts You (#229)

Dan is joined by Dr. Laura Anderson, a fellow spiritual abuse/religious trauma researcher whose new book When Religion Hurts You is a pretty great and concise summary of what is known today about religious trauma and its effects on humans. They define terms like “religious trauma” and “spiritual abuse” and talk about the benefits of religion, the failures of pop psychology, the difference between PTSD and Complex PTSD, and more.Laura’s Book “When Religion Hurts You: Healing from Religious Trauma and the Impact of High-Control Religion”:https://drlauraeanderson.com/bookLaura’s Website: https://drlauraeanderson.com/https://www.traumaresolutionandrecovery.com/Laura’s Podcast - Sunday School Dropouts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sunday-school-dropouts/id1689312239The Varieties of Religious & Spiritual Abuse Episode with Paula Swindle (#90): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000498837671Saved By the City Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/saved-by-the-city/id1557930520___________________________________________Follow Dan on IG: www.instagram.com/dancoke/Or Twitter: twitter.com/DanKochFaith deconstruction resources: www.soyouredeconstructing.com/Edited by Josh Gilbert (joshgilbertmedia.com -- he is accepting more work!)Email about the "sliding scale" for the Patreon: youhavepermissionpodcast@gmail.comYHP Patron-only FB group: tinyurl.com/ycvbbf98Website: www.dankochwords.com/yhp.htmlJoin Dan's email list: www.dankochwords.com/Artwork by sprungle.co/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Dec 26, 2023 • 1h 33min

The Quagmire of Modern Missions (#70) (Re-broadcast)

*Re-broadcast* - The Quagmire of Modern Missions (#70)Original Description:I interview Jim and Breanna Randall, missionaries (if you want to call them that) in Myanmar. We talk about the various pitfalls that are present in modern day missions work (bad actors, psychologists breaking their oaths to do no harm, donor fragility, American/White Exceptionalism, and more), as well as some more hopeful potential ways forward.CORRECTION: I said Jamie Lee Finch was the “Worst Missionary,” but that is actually Jamie WrightBreanna’s Francis Chan piece: https://faithfullymagazine.com/myanmar-francis-chan-ministry/Desmond Tutu Children’s Bible: https://smile.amazon.com/Children-Storybook-Bible-Archbishop-Desmond/dp/0310719127/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=desmond+tutu+bible&qid=1592798668&s=books&sr=1-1Unsettling Truths: https://smile.amazon.com/Unsettling-Truths-Dehumanizing-Doctrine-Discovery/dp/0830845259/ref=sr_1_2dchild=1&keywords=unsettling+truths&qid=1592798645&s=books&sr=1-2Dangerous Territory: https://smile.amazon.com/Dangerous-Territory-Misguided-Quest-World/dp/1627075976/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=dangerous+territory&qid=1592798554&sr=8-1Assimilate or Go Home: https://smile.amazon.com/Assimilate-Go-Home-Missionary-Rediscovering/dp/0062388800/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=assimilate+or+go+home&qid=1592798542&sr=8-1Decolonizing Wealth: https://www.decolonizingwealth.com/Breanna‘s twitter: @randallbreannaBreanna’s Instagram: @br_randallKaitlin Curtice: https://kaitlincurtice.com/Christina Cleveland: http://www.christenacleveland.com/No White Saviors: https://nowhitesaviors.org/Support the Randalls: https://burmachronicle.com/blog/___________________________________________Follow Dan on IG: www.instagram.com/dancoke/Or Twitter: twitter.com/DanKochFaith deconstruction resources: www.soyouredeconstructing.com/Edited by Josh Gilbert (joshgilbertmedia.com -- he is accepting more work!)Email about the "sliding scale" for the Patreon: youhavepermissionpodcast@gmail.comYHP Patron-only FB group: tinyurl.com/ycvbbf98Website: www.dankochwords.com/yhp.htmlJoin Dan's email list: www.dankochwords.com/Artwork by sprungle.co/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Dec 18, 2023 • 1h 30min

Good News! The Bible Disagrees With Itself (#228)

The podcast delves into the multivocality of Scripture, discussing the disagreements and conversations among biblical writers. They explore Paul's belief in the imminent end of the world and the complexities of Bible stories. The speakers raise questions about the contradictions and multiple interpretations in the Bible. They also discuss the authorship of Luke and Acts, the complexities of resurrection, and the influence of Judaism and Greco-Roman culture on the New Testament. The chapter ends with a discussion about audience involvement and expressions of gratitude.
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Dec 14, 2023 • 38min

Deconstruction for Baby Boomers (#227)

In this episode, they discuss topics such as faith deconstruction, the impact of upbringing, meditative prayer, transitioning to a more unconditional relationship with God, avid reading, Catholic priest, and the challenges of leaving a religious community. They also explore the shift to Eastern Orthodox beliefs.
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Dec 12, 2023 • 1h 2min

Has Self-Care Replaced Taking Up Your Cross? Part 2 (#226)

Those of us who grew up with the Gospel's exhortation to “lay down your life” and “take up your cross” find modern culture constantly encouraging “self-care.” Is this helpful, like putting on our own oxygen masks before helping someone else, or mere selfishness in disguise? Are there limits to self-care or self-sacrifice? In today’s episode (Part 2) Matt Wright gets into this topic by way of discussing his diagnosis of Bipolar disorder.Matt's Spotify Artist Page:https://open.spotify.com/artist/4B4Remkbm9pHdBjZSeNfGC?si=API5fMyaSPWlBMtmNJI_vQMatt's Band "Telephone Friends" Artist Page:https://open.spotify.com/artist/765e7kZUsgfGp40uxNCxE9?si=a7KdANkmT5abDEvCcYspfA_____________Follow Dan on IG: www.instagram.com/dancoke/Or Twitter: twitter.com/DanKochFaith deconstruction resources: www.soyouredeconstructing.com/Edited by Josh Gilbert (joshgilbertmedia.com -- he is accepting more work!)Join the Patreon for exclusive episodes (and more) every month: patreon.com/dankochEmail about the "sliding scale" for the Patreon:YHP Patron-only FB group: tinyurl.com/ycvbbf98Website: www.dankochwords.com/yhp.htmlJoin Dan's email list: www.dankochwords.com/Artwork by sprungle.co/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Dec 11, 2023 • 46min

Has Self-Care Replaced Taking Up Your Cross? (#225) Part 1

Those of us who grew up with the Gospels exhortation to “lay down your life” and “take up your cross” find modern culture constantly encouraging “self-care.” Is this helpful, like putting on our own oxygen masks before helping someone else, or mere selfishness in disguise? Are there limits to self-care or self-sacrifice? In today’s episode (Part 1), returning guest Andy Squires expresses some concern. Part 2 (featuring Matt Wright) drops tomorrow!Andy’s “Worries About Progressive Christianity” Episode:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000617706730Andy’s Website:andysquyres.comAndy’s Instagram: @andysquyresAndy’s Linktree: https://linktr.ee/andysquyres_____________Follow Dan on IG: www.instagram.com/dancoke/Or Twitter: twitter.com/DanKochFaith deconstruction resources: www.soyouredeconstructing.com/Edited by Josh Gilbert (joshgilbertmedia.com -- he is accepting more work!)Join the Patreon for exclusive episodes (and more) every month: patreon.com/dankochEmail about the "sliding scale" for the Patreon:YHP Patron-only FB group: tinyurl.com/ycvbbf98Website: www.dankochwords.com/yhp.htmlJoin Dan's email list: www.dankochwords.com/Artwork by sprungle.co/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Dec 4, 2023 • 1h 17min

Hell is a Psychological Construct (#224)

Derek Kubilus, a Methodist minister, challenges the popular concept of Hell and discusses its psychological impact. He explores different interpretations of Hell and the role of poetry in theology. The podcast delves into the Bible, its depth, and the origins of the concept of Hell, highlighting its political influence. Kubilus advocates for empathy and compassion towards different perspectives on justice and mercy.

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