

A Millennial Mind
Shivani Pau
A Millennial Mind is a podcast about perspective, because when you understand someone’s mind, you understand their world. But we all live with limited data. Our beliefs, experiences, and knowledge are just a few dots. And if you don’t collect enough dots, you can’t connect them and you can’t grow.That’s why this podcast exists: to gather those dots.Each episode, I invite experts, thought leaders, and change makers to challenge how I think, on everything from mental health, hormones, and habits to relationships, identity, and success. We bust myths, reframe narratives, and explore what it really takes to shift your mindset. Because when you change your mind, you change your thoughts.And when you change your thoughts, you change your life. So if you’re ready to think differently, welcome to the reimagined A Millennial Mind.Hit subscribe and let’s start connecting the dots together.
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Dec 16, 2025 • 30min
Homebound Movie: The Modern Impacts Of Classism and Casteism | Cast Interview | A Millennial Mind
In this insightful interview, director Neeraj Ghaywan and cast members Ishaan Khatter and Vishal Jethwa discuss the themes of classism and casteism explored in the Netflix movie 'Homebound.' They share personal experiences and reflections on how caste and class discrimination still permeates Indian society today, despite assumptions that such issues are outdated. The conversation delves into the impact of systemic discrimination, the importance of education for marginalised communities, and the transformative experiences the cast underwent while preparing for the film.
00:00 Introduction: Is Classism Still an Issue?
00:19 Personal Experiences with Class and Caste
01:14 Understanding Caste in India
02:31 The Impact of Caste on Identity
05:16 Experiences of Discrimination
08:20 Exploring Caste in Rural India
13:03 Moments of Unity and Generosity
15:33 Navigating Social Expectations
16:02 The Privilege of Career Choices
16:43 Survival vs. Ambition
18:29 Microaggressions and Their Impact
19:03 Taking Back Power and Dignity
20:14 Identity and Social Capital
25:32 Education as a Path to Empowerment
26:29 Challenging Assumptions and Division
28:06 Final Thoughts and Reflections
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Dec 9, 2025 • 1h 28min
Healing Your Relationship With Food & Yourself | Savannah Sachdev | A Millennial Mind
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In this week's episode of A Millennial Mind, I sit down with Savannah Sachdev, who bravely shares her journey with food, body image, and self-worth. Savannah opens up about her struggles with body image, the impact of society's judgment, and her transformative decision to undergo breast reduction surgery. We delve into how her relationship with exercise and food evolved, the importance of self-reflection, and the power of setting boundaries. Savannah also touches on the challenges and joys of becoming a stepmom and how that has shaped her self-acceptance process. This episode is a must-watch for anyone dealing with similar issues, offering a profound look at the complexities of self-worth and the importance of healing from within. Savannah’s story will inspire you to take actionable steps toward a healthier and happier life. Don't forget to subscribe, follow, and have your notepad ready for this enlightening conversation. 00:00 Introduction: The Complex Relationship with Food 00:07 Personal Struggles and Body Image 00:15 The Turning Point: Seeking Validation 00:21 Addiction and Self-Worth 00:31 The Impact of Judgment and Boundaries 00:57 The Longest Relationship: With Yourself 01:16 Guest Introduction: Savannah Sev 02:01 Savannah's Journey: From Struggle to Healing 02:56 The Influence of Body Image on Self-Perception 03:44 The Role of Confidence and Authenticity 11:38 The Impact of Breast Reduction Surgery 26:00 Changing Relationship with Food and Exercise 29:56 Discovering Self-Worth Beyond Appearance 30:13 The Turning Point: Embracing Fitness and New Identities 33:22 Overcoming Insecurities and Finding Comfort in Your Own Skin 35:29 The Role of Friends in Personal Growth 38:36 The Impact of Relationships on Self-Perception 40:23 Finding Solace in Running and Routine 45:38 Navigating Cultural Expectations and Personal Choices 55:12 Balancing Personal Happiness and Relationship Dynamics 59:07 Balancing Career and Personal Life 01:00:07 Navigating Relationship Dynamics 01:01:14 Becoming a Stepmom 01:02:24 Journey to Content Creation 01:03:18 Managing Multiple Jobs 01:09:03 Dealing with Disordered Eating 01:12:53 Finding Balance and Happiness 01:14:53 Advice for Overcoming Challenges 01:22:50 Concluding Thoughts on Growth Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 2, 2025 • 1h 20min
For burnt-out mums: Becoming a 'good parent' without the pressure! | Zoe Blaskey | A Millennial Mind
Motherhood is often sold as “natural” and intuitive - but for so many women, it feels overwhelming, confusing and nothing like they expected. In this episode of A Millennial Mind, I sit down with parenting expert Zoe Blaskey to explore the real, science-backed identity shift of motherhood, from hormonal changes and brain remodelling to the emotional load no one prepares us for.
We talk about why becoming a mum can feel like a second adolescence, how societal pressure fuels burnout, and why guilt shows up even when we’re doing our best. Zoe shares practical tools for setting boundaries, finding yourself again, strengthening your partnership, and making motherhood feel lighter, calmer and more intentional.
If you’re a mum, planning to be one, or simply curious about the truth behind the transition into motherhood, this conversation will help you feel seen, supported and less alone.
Who This Episode Is For ✨
Mums feeling tired, overwhelmed or burnt out
Women struggling with the identity shift of motherhood (matrescence)
Anyone carrying “good mother” guilt or pressure
Parents wanting healthier boundaries and calmer homes
People curious about the science behind motherhood
What You’ll Learn ✨
Why motherhood feels harder than we’re told
The science of matrescence (your “second adolescence”)
How to set boundaries without guilt
How to lighten the mental load
How to strengthen your partnership after kids
Practical ways to enjoy motherhood more of the time
00:00 Introduction to Motherhood Myths
00:08 Guest Introduction and Initial Reactions
00:17 Understanding Mares Essence
00:53 The Neuroscience of Motherhood
01:39 Podcast and Book Journey
03:44 Personal Development and Coaching
04:58 Navigating Motherhood Challenges
06:36 Self-Compassion and Resilience
29:26 Debunking the 'Having It All' Myth
41:26 The Guilt of Self-Care for Moms
42:38 The 'One for Me, One for You' Tool
43:55 Challenging the Selfless Mother Narrative
45:32 The Concept of Minimum Viable Needs
46:17 The Mental Load and Super Mom Myth
47:17 Mother Kind Toolkit: Identifying Pressure Sources
51:10 Navigating Family Expectations and Boundaries
01:08:39 The Value of Caregiving and Shared Responsibilities
01:14:42 The Physiological Changes of Parenthood
01:17:47 Final Thoughts and Self-Compassion
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Nov 25, 2025 • 1h 29min
Get Unstuck: How To Change Your Life When You Feel Lost | Mimi Ikonn | A Millennial Mind
If you feel lost right now, stuck in the same routines, or like your life has stopped feeling like your own - this episode will feel like a deep exhale.
This week on A Millennial Mind, I sit down with Mimi Ikonn to talk about one of the most universal experiences we go through as adults:outgrowing your old life… but not yet knowing who you’re becoming.
Mimi opens up about identity shifts, evolving relationships, ego deaths, career changes, intuition, and what happens when your “perfect life” no longer fits. If you’re navigating a transition or craving reinvention, this conversation is for you.
This episode is for you if you are:
• feeling lost or “stuck” in life
• outgrowing old identities, habits or relationships
• craving a fresh start but scared to make a change
• navigating big life transitions (career, relationships, motherhood, purpose)
• wanting to reconnect with yourself again
• ready to reinvent your life from the inside out
In this episode, we dive into:
• why you feel stuck - and what that feeling is really telling you
• how to recognise when you’ve outgrown your old life
• the psychology behind feeling lost
• how to create a life that actually fits who you are now
• what identity shifts feel like in real time
• how to level up without burning your old life to the ground
• how intuition guides reinvention
• practical steps for starting over
00:00 Introduction: Embracing Change
01:14 Guest Introduction: Mimi Ikonn
02:46 Navigating Life Transitions
04:28 Facing Fear and Embracing Growth
06:42 The Importance of Self-Awareness
18:18 Modeling Healthy Boundaries
26:07 Overcoming Self-Sabotage
46:41 Facing Self-Doubt and Embracing Vulnerability
50:13 The Fear of Success and Its Implications
51:34 Balancing Ambition and Personal Life
56:51 The Reality of Parenting and Sacrifice
01:07:04 Preparing Mentally for Parenthood
01:15:32 The Power of Affirmations and Growth Mindset
01:24:24 Living Boldly and Embracing Adventure
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Nov 18, 2025 • 1h 39min
He SCAMMED £1.2 MILLION! Swindled By Anchal's Stalker Ex-Boyfriend | A Millennial Mind
Why do smart, strong women fall for toxic people?
This week on A Millennial Mind, Anchal returns to share the full, unfiltered truth about being love-bombed, manipulated, defrauded and stalked by someone she thought she could trust.
I’ve known Anchal for a long time now - but I never knew the depth of what she survived. This isn’t just a “bad breakup story.” It’s a traumatic experience of narcissistic abuse, coercive control, love bombing, gaslighting, trauma bonds, financial manipulation, stalking behaviours and the psychology behind why victims stay.
But most importantly: how she rebuilt her life, healed her self-trust, and took her power back.
If you’ve ever questioned your intuition, blamed yourself for ignoring red flags, or felt ashamed for being manipulated — this episode will change the way you see yourself forever.
💚Who This Episode Is For:
Women who’ve experienced love bombing, people pleasing, guilt-tripping or emotional manipulation
Anyone recovering from a toxic relationship, narcissistic partner or financial betrayal
People who want to understand the psychology of narcissists and trauma bonds
Survivors of stalking, harassment, obsession, coercive control or emotional abuse
Anyone who wants to rebuild boundaries, confidence and self-trust
✍🏼What You’ll Learn:
How narcissists use love bombing, guilt and mirroring to gain control
Why strong, independent women still get targeted
How manipulation escalates into financial fraud, stalking + psychological fear
The mindset traps that keep victims from leaving
How to recognise early red flags before they escalate
How to rebuild your identity after abuse, trauma and shame
Why it is never the victim’s fault
Real examples on how to rebuild peace, safety and boundaries
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Nov 11, 2025 • 1h 11min
THIS Is Why You're A Chronic People Pleaser! (+ How To Fix It!) Annalie Howling | A Millennial Mind
Are you tired of saying yes when every part of you is screaming no?
In this week's episode of A Millennial Mind, I sit down with Annalie Howling — performance coach, trauma specialist, and boundaries queen — to unpack the truth about people pleasing, approval addiction, and why so many of us feel guilty putting ourselves first.
We dive deep into the psychology behind saying yes, how it’s linked to childhood conditioning, and what it actually takes to stop caring what everyone thinks. If you’ve ever been called “too nice,” struggled to set boundaries, or felt drained trying to please everyone — this one’s for you.
✨ Who It’s For:
Chronic people pleasers who can’t say no
Anyone struggling with guilt, shame, or overgiving
Women tired of being the “good girl”
Anyone learning to protect their peace & energy
💡 What You’ll Learn:
Why people pleasing starts — and how to break the pattern
How to set boundaries without guilt or fear
The link between self-worth and saying no
Practical tools to stop overgiving & reclaim your energy
If you’ve ever thought, “I’ll just do it to keep the peace,” this is the episode for you. It’s time to stop being 'liked' - and start being respected.
00:00 Introduction – Why We People Please
01:05 Meet Annalie Howling: Turning Pain into Purpose
04:20 The Truth About People Pleasing and Self-Abandonment
08:30 When Helping Others Becomes Self-Harm
12:45 The Guilt of Saying No
15:20 The Connection Between Guilt, Shame, and Self-Worth
18:40 Trauma, Control, and Learned Helplessness
23:10 Why Some People Resist Healing
26:00 Narcissism, Victimhood, and Emotional Boundaries
31:10 How to Set Boundaries Without Feeling Selfish
35:45 Understanding Shame in People Pleasing
40:15 Fawning: The Hidden Trauma Response
45:30 Healing from Childhood Shame and Conditioning
49:50 Recognizing and Validating Your Own Trauma
54:10 Breaking Generational Patterns of Guilt
58:30 Setting Boundaries with Family and In-Laws
01:02:10 Why “Good Girls” Struggle to Say No
01:05:00 Speaking Up When It Feels Uncomfortable
01:09:30 Letting Go of the Need to Please
01:12:00 Final Reflections – Living Unapologetically
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Nov 4, 2025 • 1h 21min
Can Energy Healing Really Fix You? Scientist & Reiki Master Explains All | A Millennial Mind
What if everything you’ve been taught about healing is only half the story? In this episode of A Millennial Mind, I sit down with Lekhmi, founder of The 111 Approach - a celebrity Reiki Master and intuitive healer who blends science and spirituality to explain how energy healing really works.
I used to think Reiki and energy work were a bit “woo-woo,” until my own experience changed everything. We talk about the science of energy healing, how your nervous system and emotions affect your body, and the small ways you can start to self-heal and reconnect with your intuition.
If you’ve ever wondered “is energy healing real?” or just want to feel more grounded, calm and connected - this episode is for you.
✨ Who It’s For:
Skeptics who want to understand the science behind energy healing
Anyone curious about Reiki, vibration, and holistic health
People looking to reduce stress, regulate their nervous system, and reconnect with themselves
✨ What You’ll Learn:
How energy healing and Reiki actually work
The link between emotions, the nervous system, and physical health
Why intuition and frequency are key to self-healing
How to tell real healers from fakes in the wellness space
Simple ways to restore balance and heal your body naturally
00:00 Introduction and Initial Skepticism
00:51 Exploring the Concept of Energy Healing
01:16 Guest Introduction: Luck Me and Her Unique Approach
02:53 Personal Experiences and Changing Perspectives
04:34 Understanding Reiki and Energy Healing
05:55 Childhood Intuition and Suppression
12:09 Reconnecting with Intuition and First Reiki Experience
14:36 Skepticism and Scientific Perspective
18:32 The Science and Practice of Reiki
28:29 Personal Stories and Spiritual Connections
38:20 A Childhood Intuition
39:34 The Power of Intuition and Skepticism
40:38 Gut Health and Intuition
41:23 Energy and Vibrations
42:30 Embracing Emotions and Healing
42:46 Connecting with Intuition and Energy Healing
44:42 Personal Stories of Energy Healing
49:22 The Placebo Effect and Healing
51:04 Scientific Studies on Energy Healing
52:13 Reiki in Hospitals
52:48 Identifying Genuine Practitioners
57:03 Empowering Self-Healing
01:03:23 One Minute Wellness Practice
01:09:12 The Power of Collective Meditation
01:14:11 Crystals and Energy
01:17:39 Final Thoughts on Energy and Intuition
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Oct 28, 2025 • 1h 5min
Biohack Your Way to Health (On a Budget!) | Coral Pearl | A Millennial Mind
What if you could feel incredible with more energy, focus and calm without spending a fortune?
In this week's episode of A Millennial Mind, Coral Pearl breaks down the truth about biohacking: what it really means, how to start biohacking on a budget, and why you don’t need expensive supplements, trackers or cold plunges to optimise your body and mind.
Coral shares practical, science-backed ways to support your nervous system, balance your hormones, improve gut health and boost natural energy. She explains how small, affordable biohacks — from better sleep and sunlight to real food and mindset shifts — can transform your wellbeing, longevity and mental clarity.
We talk about the habits our ancestors lived by, the modern wellness myths that keep us sick, and how to eat, move and live in a way that supports your biology.
I wanted to have this conversation because Coral makes wellness and biohacking feel achievable again. No elitism, no pressure — just simple, evidence-based tools to reconnect with your body and feel like yourself. If you’ve ever felt lost in the health space or overwhelmed by expensive trends, this one will remind you that real health starts with simple, accessible habits.
These are all real-world examples that Coral has tried and tested herself to turn her life around and, she says, improve her health for the better.
✨ Who this episode is for
Anyone curious about biohacking, wellness or longevity but unsure where to start
Listeners tired of expensive wellness trends and quick fixes
People looking to improve gut health, nervous system balance and natural energy
Those wanting to understand the science of stress, recovery and nutrition
Millennials searching for affordable, realistic health and lifestyle habits
💡 What you’ll learn
What biohacking really means and how to do it on a budget
The low-cost daily habits that improve focus, energy and mood
How to regulate your nervous system naturally
The connection between nutrition, inflammation and mental health
Why modern wellness gets health wrong and how to simplify it
0:00 - What if everything you’ve been taught about health is wrong?
1:00 - Why Coral stopped trusting traditional medicine
3:05 - The “ancestral living” lifestyle explained
5:00 - Biohacking isn’t just for the rich — here’s how to start for free
7:30 - Grounding, breathwork, and sunlight: the ultimate morning trio
9:45 - Coral’s wild morning routine (and the headband hack!)
11:10 - How biohacking changed her energy, sleep & focus
13:20 - The truth about mouth taping and deep sleep
15:10 - Why blue light might be ruining your health
17:00 - How to calm your nervous system instantly
20:00 - The trampoline trick that boosts your mood
25:30 - Coral’s 5AM morning routine & discipline secrets
29:00 - Her full step-by-step health routine revealed
33:00 - From vegan to ancestral eating — why she switched
36:00 - Are plant-based diets actually bad for you?
39:00 - What pesticides are doing to your gut
42:00 - The 3 foods Coral would *never* eat again
45:00 - The shocking truth about milk and pasteurisation
47:00 - How to find what really works for your body
49:00 - Coral’s message for anyone feeling stuck in their health journey
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Oct 21, 2025 • 1h 12min
My Emergency C-Section At 30 Weeks Pregnant & NICU Experience | Rhona Eskander | A Millennial Mind
Note: Some topics discussed might be triggering.
In this deeply personal and heartfelt episode of 'A Millennial Mind,' I sit down with one of my closest friends, Dr. Rhona Eskander, as she opens up for the first time about her harrowing journey into motherhood.
From experiencing a traumatic miscarriage and the emotional turmoil that followed, to navigating the complexities of fertility treatments, and finally, the unforeseen challenges of a high-risk pregnancy that led to an emergency C-section and a NICU stay for her baby, Rhona bravely shares it all.
This conversation sheds light on the silent struggles many parents face, the societal pressures around fertility, and the importance of mental health and support during such times. I am incredibly grateful for Rhona's vulnerability and hope this episode fosters understanding and compassion for those facing similar battles. Please listen with care, and if you know someone who might benefit from this, share it with them.
✨ Who This Episode Is For
Anyone who has faced pregnancy loss or fertility struggles
Mothers navigating premature birth or NICU experiences
Women processing grief, anxiety, or trauma after childbirth
Parents learning to find strength and gratitude through adversity
Anyone seeking an honest look at modern motherhood
00:00 Opening Up About a Personal Journey
00:05 The Miscarriage Experience
00:20 Navigating Fertility Challenges
00:34 Emergency C-Section and NICU
00:52 Introduction to the Episode
02:17 Rona's Fertility Journey
03:05 Egg Freezing and Societal Pressures
05:12 Struggles with Conception
06:06 The Miscarriage and Its Aftermath
07:05 IUI and Pregnancy Success
15:15 The Trauma of Miscarriage
24:40 Pregnancy Journey and Mental Health
30:40 Concerns About Baby's Growth
34:58 Discovering the Gentle Birthing Method
36:02 Dealing with Placental Insufficiency
36:54 The Pressure of Not Showing During Pregnancy
38:57 Navigating Public Perception and Body Image
42:26 The Trauma of an Emergency C-Section
49:15 The NICU Journey
51:05 The Importance of Mental Health and Support
01:07:28 Reflections on the NHS and Final Thoughts
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Oct 14, 2025 • 1h 15min
Healthy Phone Habits: Are You Being Controlled By Your Devices? Dr Martha | A Millennial Mind
In this episode of 'A Millennial Mind,' I sit down with Dr. Marta Deiros Collado, a clinical psychologist with 20 years of experience and a mother of two. We dive into the hot topic of smartphones and social media, exploring whether they're helpful tools or harmful threats, especially for children and parents.
Dr. Marta shares her insights on the fear and misconceptions surrounding technology, and offers evidence-based strategies for finding balance and boundaries in our digital lives. We also discuss the impact of screen time on relationships and mental health, and how parents can build healthier tech habits for themselves and their kids.
If you've ever struggled with screen time or are concerned about your children's digital habits, you won't want to miss this enlightening conversation. Please don't forget to like, follow, and subscribe to support more meaningful and impactful discussions like this.
✨ Who This Episode Is For:
Anyone who feels anxious, guilty, or overwhelmed by their phone use
Parents trying to help children build healthy screen habits
Millennials and Gen Z struggling with digital burnout or social media anxiety
People who want to create boundaries with technology without a digital detox
Anyone curious about the psychology of screen time and mental health
💡 What You’ll Learn:
Why notifications trigger anxiety and how to calm your brain’s response
The science behind phone addiction and emotional overstimulation
How to build a healthier relationship with social media and tech
Practical tools to set digital boundaries at home and work
How parents and kids can find balance and connection offline
Why technology itself isn’t bad, it’s how we use it that matters
Jump to:
00:00 Introduction: Are Smartphones a Tool or a Threat?
01:06 Challenging the Smartphone Narrative with Dr. Marta
02:07 Meet Dr. Marta: Clinical Psychologist and Mother
02:39 The Dual Nature of Smartphones: Tool and Threat
03:23 The Emotional Impact of Smartphone Use
04:34 The Importance of Awareness and Mindful Use
05:46 The Role of Technology in Modern Life
08:09 The Science Behind Smartphone Use and Its Effects
08:56 Addressing Misconceptions and Media Fear-Mongering
10:23 The Balance Between Technology and Human Experience
15:02 Smartphone Habits and Compulsive Behaviors
36:25 The Impact of Smartphones on Relationships
38:52 Balancing Screen Time and Family Time
40:08 Deciding When to Give Kids Smartphones
42:26 Navigating Social Pressures and Exclusion
45:28 Building Trust and Open Communication
48:12 Creating Healthy Digital Habits
51:21 The Impact of Social Media on Self-Esteem
01:01:46 Setting Boundaries and Family Phone Pledges
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