Awesome Marriage Podcast

In this episode Dr. Kim has two friends of his share their story. Zach and Leanna join Dr. Kim to share about their first year of marriage. Leanna works at Life.Church as a Social Media Specialist and is also a very talented freelance graphic designer. Leanna has recently become our main graphic designer at Awesome Marriage and it's been such a blessing to have her talents on the team. She designs all of our monthly digital resources. Zach is a Marketing Coordinator. This couple had a unique first year of marriage with a lot of lows. They share their story and how God has used the hard things to edify them and strengthen their marriage. We pray their story encourages you! Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox! *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! NOTEWORTHY QUOTES "It's normal to freak out in a terrible situation, but I let my fear rob me of a lot of joy." - Leanna Romoser "I knew when we were walking through those hard times that God has more in store for us, He does not want us to be miserable." - Leanna Romoser "I know that God is on the side of marriages and I had to make a decision to surrender my marriage to Him and allow God to use our pain for His purpose." - Leanna Romoser "We started to receive true healing when we stopped turning away from each other and started turning towards each other. " - Leanna Romoser "The walls of anger and resentment that I had built up were hindering me from being the person that I wanted to be." - Zach Romoser "It wasn't until I learned how to truly forgive that I was able to grow spiritually and as a husband." - Zach Romoser "You can't speak defeat and expect victory." - Zach Romoser "If you're struggling in your marriage, share that with at least one person who you trust." - Leanna Romoser "After going through all that we went through it feels like our marriage has a passion and a purpose." - Leanna Romoser SPONSORS Thank you to Groove Life for sponsoring this podcast episode! Groove Life has the Groove ring that is the world's first breathable active ring that is not only super comfortable but functional. Born from need, GROOVE raises the bar on traditional silicone, activewear rings with its flexible material, patent-pending, inner breathable design, and beautiful colors. You can use the code "awesomemarriage" for 15% off your order! RESOURCES Brighten your marriage with our new resource 30 Gems of Wisdom For Your Marriage. This digital resource is an 18 page PDF that gives you 30 nuggets of God's wisdom regarding your marriage. Get it today here! Become a Marriage Changer and receive some sweet exclusive benefits. Learn more here! Sign up to get Dr. Kim's One Thing To Grow Your Marriage Each Day via email, text, or podcast here!

In this episode Dr. Kim & Christina talk about the # 7 Marriage Mistake Dr. Kim sees in marriages. Which is dishonesty. You may not think you are one to be dishonest and lie, but chances are you are less honest than you think you are. Dishonesty is never good for your marriage. In this episode Dr. Kim shares red flags to pay attention to and practical ways to grow in truthfulness and openness in your marriage. We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox! *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! NOTEWORTHY QUOTES "Sometimes we lie in what we say and sometimes we lie in what we don't say." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "The more you get comfortable lying to your spouse about small things the easier it will get to lie to your spouse about big things." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "Lies build distance whereas truth builds closeness." - Christina Dodson SPONSORS Thank you to Groove Life for sponsoring this podcast episode! Groove Life has the Groove ring that is the world's first breathable active ring that is not only super comfortable but functional. Born from need, GROOVE raises the bar on traditional silicone, activewear rings with its flexible material, patent-pending, inner breathable design, and beautiful colors. You can use the code "awesomemarriage" for 15% off your order! RESOURCES Check out the Weekly Marriage Check Up Guide Christina mentions in this episode. Use it to work on your marriage each week! Brighten your marriage with our new resource 30 Gems of Wisdom For Your Marriage. This digital resource is an 18 page PDF that gives you 30 nuggets of God's wisdom regarding your marriage. Get it today here! Become a Marriage Changer and receive some sweet exclusive benefits. Learn more here! Sign up to get Dr. Kim's One Thing To Grow Your Marriage Each Day via email, text, or podcast here!

Right now we are in our Top 10 Marriage Mistakes series. Over the years Dr. Kim has seen some central mistakes couples make that hurt their marriage. In this series we are breaking down the top ten marriage mistakes he sees. In this episode we share Marriage Mistake #8 which is nasty habits: anything that just plain annoys you that your spouse does. Can you think 1 (or 10!) things that annoys you about your spouse or that your spouse does that bugs you? I bet you can! Well Dr. Kim & Christina talk all about that in this episode and most importantly, they share how to healthily DEAL with those annoying habits. We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox! *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! NOTEWORTHY QUOTES "Small things, with the wrong perspective, can take up big space in our hearts." - Christina Dodson "Work together on the things you can change about each other." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "If you're annoyed by your spouse's habit, ask God to make it clear whether it's worth saying something to your spouse about it or if it's something you can look past to see the good in your spouse." - Christina Dodson "Do not try to manipulate your spouse out of their annoying habit, that's not going to solve the problem." - Christina Dodson "Be careful to confront your spouse's problem and not confront your spouse." - Christina Dodson SPONSORS Thank you to Groove Life for sponsoring this podcast episode! Groove Life has the Groove ring that is the world's first breathable active ring that is not only super comfortable but functional. Born from need, GROOVE raises the bar on traditional silicone, activewear rings with its flexible material, patent-pending, inner breathable design, and beautiful colors. You can use the code "awesomemarriage" for 15% off your order! RESOURCES Brighten your marriage with our new resource 30 Gems of Wisdom For Your Marriage. This digital resource is an 18 page PDF that gives you 30 nuggets of God's wisdom regarding your marriage. Get it today here! Become a Marriage Changer and receive some sweet exclusive benefits. Learn more here! Sign up to get Dr. Kim's One Thing To Grow Your Marriage Each Day via email, text, or podcast here!

Dr. Kim has been married for 50 years and has been a Marriage Counselor for over 40 years. Over the years he has seen some central mistakes couples make that hurt their marriage. In this series we will be breaking down the top ten marriage mistakes he sees. In this episode Dr. Kim and Christina discuss Marriage Mistake #9: Being Selfish or Greedy. We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox! *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! NOTEWORTHY QUOTES "It's really hard to live with someone who wants things to go their way all the time." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "Every couple at some point is prone to greed and selfishness because we're sinners." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "Selfishness is the root of a lot of other sins that cause issues in marriages." - Christina Dodson "You will not have a good marriage if it is a self-centered marriage." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "If you want your marriage to be what you dreamed it would be when you said 'I do,' you can't let greediness or selfishness take over." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "The more selfish you are, the less you realize it." - Christina Dodson "Don't fight selfishness with selfishness." - Christina Dodson "Ask your spouse, 'How are you perceiving me?' and be prepared to listen and receive what your spouse says." - Christina Dodson "There's value in having a time each week to ask your spouse how they feel like you are treating them, and if there is anything you can be working on as a husband or wife to make your marriage better." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "The long term gain from being selfless is worth far more than any short term gains from being selfish." - Christina Dodson "Commit to praying for your spouse everyday for 30 days as a way to learn to be selfless in your marriage." - Christina Dodson SPONSORS Thank you to Groove Life for sponsoring this podcast episode! Groove Life has the Groove ring that is the world's first breathable active ring that is not only super comfortable but functional. Born from need, GROOVE raises the bar on traditional silicone, activewear rings with its flexible material, patent-pending, inner breathable design, and beautiful colors. You can use the code "awesomemarriage" for 15% off your order! RESOURCES Brighten your marriage with our new resource 30 Gems of Wisdom For Your Marriage. This digital resource is an 18 page PDF that gives you 30 nuggets of God's wisdom regarding your marriage. Get it today here! Become a Marriage Changer and receive some sweet exclusive benefits. Learn more here! Sign up to get Dr. Kim's One Thing To Grow Your Marriage Each Day via email, text, or podcast here!

Today we are kicking off a new series on the podcast: Top 10 Marriage Mistakes. As most of you know, Dr. Kim has been married for 50 years and has been a Marriage Counselor for over 40 years. Over the years he has seen some central mistakes couples make that hurt their marriage. We will be breaking down the top ten. Today is Marriage Mistake #10. Which is Temper Tantrums: Not Fighting Fair. Not fighting fair plays out in a lot of different ways. You may think you fight fair, but after listening to this it might give you some insight you didn't have before about healthy conflict resolution. We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox! *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! NOTEWORTHY QUOTES "I saw a quote on Facebook that said 'Placing blame in marriage is like saying your side of the ship is sinking;' we're supposed to be one in marriage and placing blame on your spouse is not you operating as one." - Christina Dodson "You can be prone to fighting unfairly in your marriage if you saw your parents do that; we forget that our parent's marriages are our first textbooks on marriage." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "Anytime a situation becomes 'win/lose' in your marriage, your marriage is losing." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "When you're fighting unfairly it puts your marriage on pause; you can't move forward to connect and grow closer to each other like you should be." - Christina Dodson "If you can only think of negative things about your spouse that should be a huge red flag." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "What we are saying about our spouse in our heads matters so much." - Christina Dodson "If you're unable to get out of the habit of fighting unfairly, going to see a counselor who can give you goals and accountability is hugely beneficial." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "Getting a divorce is a lot more expensive than seeing a marriage counselor." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "Decide with your spouse what is unhealthy about how you fight and make boundaries that you both will agree to keep." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "Standard boundaries that a couple should have in fighting is no yelling, cussing, or insults." - Christina Dodson "If something is important to your spouse, make it important to you." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "If you don't forgive someone it hurts you more than them." - Dr. Kim Kimberling SPONSORS Thank you to Groove Life for sponsoring this podcast episode! Groove Life has the Groove ring that is the world's first breathable active ring that is not only super comfortable but functional. Born from need, GROOVE raises the bar on traditional silicone, activewear rings with its flexible material, patent-pending, inner breathable design, and beautiful colors. You can use the code "awesomemarriage" for 15% off your order! RESOURCES Brighten your marriage with our new resource 30 Gems of Wisdom For Your Marriage. This digital resource is an 18 page PDF that gives you 30 nuggets of God's wisdom regarding your marriage. Get it today here! Become a Marriage Changer and receive some sweet exclusive benefits. Learn more here! Sign up to get Dr. Kim's One Thing To Grow Your Marriage Each Day via email, text, or podcast here!

Today on the podcast we are celebrating! Because it's episode number 400 and honestly we can't believe it! Everyone on the podcast team is so honored that you loyal listeners tune in each week. This podcast isn't just work to us - it's a true joy. We love hearing the stories from you about how these conversations start real and honest conversations between you and your spouse. That's always been the hope of this podcast, that it wouldn't end here but that this would just be a conversation starter in your marriage and that it would spark conversation and invoke action that would make your marriage awesome. We love journeying along with each of you! THANK YOU for listening! In this episode we are doing an "ask us anything" episode. We polled your questions and we are answering them here! Silly, serious, personal, or about marriage - we are answering it here! We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox! *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! NOTEWORTHY QUOTES "To me, our podcast is not sparkly, it's just two people who are processing about their marriage and sharing what they've learned." - Christina Dodson "That is Dr. Kim's favorite verse, he loves to talk about being naked and unashamed." - Christina Dodson "I've never had a counseling client who was serious about it and went into counseling with an open mind regret going to counseling." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "You will want your inlaws around your kids more if your relationship with your inlaws is good." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "If you set a boundary, make sure you are willing to follow through with the consequences." - Dr. Kim Kimberling SPONSORS Thank you to Honoring Intimates for sponsoring this podcast episode! Honoring Intimates is a safe place for believers to learn about marital sex and shop for the highest quality lubricant, lotions, and lingerie items at reasonable prices. There are no inappropriate images on the site and the company uses mannequins to display their lingerie. Use the code "AWESOMEMARRIAGE" to receive 20% off your entire order. RESOURCES: In this episode we talk about mother in law issues. Here are a few other podcasts you may find helpful if that's an issue for you: What Do I Owe My In-Laws Ep 331 Dealing With A Monster In Law Ep 332 Ask Dr. Kim: Should my spouse handle all drama with their parents and extended family? Ep 101 My loyalty should be with my family of origin because they raised me Ep 77 Become a Marriage Changer and receive some sweet exclusive benefits. Learn more here! Sign up to get Dr. Kim's One Thing To Grow Your Marriage Each Day via email, text, or podcast here!

Do you feel beaten down by your spouse? Does it feel like nothing you do is ever right or good enough for your spouse? Well you certainly aren't alone. It can really wear on a marriage when one spouse is overly critical. In this episode Dr. Kim & Christina share about what to do when your spouse is critical. We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox! *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! NOTEWORTHY QUOTES "If it's not normal for your spouse to be very critical of you, ask yourself what might be going on to make them act that way. " - Christina Dodson "Use Stop, Look, Listen when communicating with your critical spouse." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "If you're delivering criticism to your spouse, make sure you do it in a loving, grace-filled way that they will hear the heart behind what you're saying." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "Give your spouse time to process any criticism that you've given them." - Christina Dodson "If my spouse has something critical that's of value to say to me, I want her to be able to say it." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "Before giving your spouse criticism, ask yourself three questions: 'Should it be said? Should it be said by me? Should it be said now?" - Dr. Kim Kimberling "When giving your spouse feedback, don't speak negatively. Speak to the potential that you see in them." - Christina Dodson SPONSORS Thank you to Honoring Intimates for sponsoring this podcast episode! Honoring Intimates is a safe place for believers to learn about marital sex and shop for the highest quality lubricant, lotions, and lingerie items at reasonable prices. There are no inappropriate images on the site and the company uses mannequins to display their lingerie. Use the code "AWESOMEMARRIAGE" to receive 20% off your entire order. RESOURCES Become a Marriage Changer and receive some sweet exclusive benefits. Learn more here! Sign up to get Dr. Kim's One Thing To Grow Your Marriage Each Day via email, text, or podcast here!

It's not all that uncommon to experience jealousy when our spouse succeeds OR to not celebrate them well in other ways. Dr. Kim & Christina dive into this topic and give practical advice for how to best handle your spouse's success for the edifying of your marriage. We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox! *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! NOTEWORTHY QUOTES "Because you are a team as a married couple, your spouse's success is your success." - Christina Dodson "Ask God to help you celebrate your spouse's successes." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "Your spouse's success does not equal your failure." - Christina Dodson "Sometimes we really do appreciate our spouse we just forget to tell them that." - Christina Dodson "We're still a team in our marriage, even if we have different jobs and careers and wins. What happens in our relationship plays a big part in how successful we are." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "As a spouse, your words matter so much more to your spouse than anyone else's." - Christina Dodson "Never stop building up your spouse." - Christina Dodson SPONSORS Thank you to Honoring Intimates for sponsoring this podcast episode! Honoring Intimates is a safe place for believers to learn about marital sex and shop for the highest quality lubricant, lotions, and lingerie items at reasonable prices. There are no inappropriate images on the site and the company uses mannequins to display their lingerie. Use the code "AWESOMEMARRIAGE" to receive 20% off your entire order. RESOURCES Become a Marriage Changer and receive some sweet exclusive benefits. Learn more here! Sign up to get Dr. Kim's One Thing To Grow Your Marriage Each Day via email, text, or podcast here!

God loves reconciliation! Praise be to God, there are a number of couples who experience life change after divorce happens and are able to reunite and reconcile their marriage again. But starting a marriage again after the pain of divorce, naturally comes with a set of unique challenges. In this episode Dr. Kim shares some practical tips for walking through this. If you are married and thinking about divorce, we urge you to check out our resource 10 Things To Do Before You Get A Divorce. If you are walking through reconciliation with your spouse, we are praying that God would show up in mighty ways for you as you reunite together. Even if this isn't your story, there is still some wisdom to glean from this episode. Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox! *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! NOTEWORTHY QUOTES "You don't get married just to get a divorce." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "Even if you don't reconcile after a divorce you have to forgive each other or you'll carry that burden for a long time," - Dr. Kim Kimberling "You can't drag unforgiveness into your next marriage and expect it to be healthy, you just can't." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "If you choose to reconcile after divorce and put God first, He will make that happen if you let Him." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "The healthiest marriages are when both people are healthy." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "We are all sinners and all have things we need to work on." - Christina Dodson "It takes two to have an awesome marriage." - Christina Dodson "Usually if you're divorced there has been trust broken at some level." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "You have to talk about your expectations with your former spouse to make sure you are on the same page." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "Seeing a counselor when you're reconciling after divorce can provide invaluable accountability for you and your former spouse." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "Make a game plan for re-engaging with other family members as a reconciled couple; it's going to be an adjustment for everyone around you." - Christina Dodson "Give reconciliation time. There is no shortcut to see if a person has changed" - Dr. Kim Kimberling "If you were in an abusive marriage and are seeking to reconcile but your spouse hasn't gotten help for their abusive behavior, their intentions may be good but they are going to fall back into abusive behaviors." - Dr. Kim Kimberling SPONSORS Thank you to Honoring Intimates for sponsoring this podcast episode! Honoring Intimates is a safe place for believers to learn about marital sex and shop for the highest quality lubricant, lotions, and lingerie items at reasonable prices. There are no inappropriate images on the site and the company uses mannequins to display their lingerie. Use the code "AWESOMEMARRIAGE" to receive 20% off your entire order. RESOURCES 10 Things To Do Before You Get A Divorce Tiffany & Micah's podcast Become a Marriage Changer and receive some sweet exclusive benefits. Learn more here! Sign up to get Dr. Kim's One Thing To Grow Your Marriage Each Day via email, text, or podcast here!

Last episode we shared about the little things that make a marriage awesome. In this episode Dr. Kim & Christina talk about big romantic gestures, because they certainly have their place in marriage! Big romantic gestures can be great for a marriage when they are coupled with the little consistent things. This episode will give you some great ideas for valentines day around the corner and great tips for big anniversaries! Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox! *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! NOTEWORTHY QUOTES "A big romantic gesture can have the effect of supercharging your marriage." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "Big romantic gestures are really good for celebrations in your marriage." - Christina Dodson "Big romantic gestures are NOT good for fixing major issues in your marriage; they will NOT do that." - Christina Dodson "Stay within your budget and be creative when planning big romantic gestures." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "Don't compare your big romantic gestures with anyone else; everyone's marriage, budget and spouse is different." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "Commit to doing one big, romantic gesture a year." - Dr. Kim Kimberling SPONSORS Thank you to Honoring Intimates for sponsoring this podcast episode! Honoring Intimates is a safe place for believers to learn about marital sex and shop for the highest quality lubricant, lotions, and lingerie items at reasonable prices. There are no inappropriate images on the site and the company uses mannequins to display their lingerie. Use the code "AWESOMEMARRIAGE" to receive 20% off your entire order. RESOURCES Become a Marriage Changer and receive some sweet exclusive benefits. Learn more here! Sign up to get Dr. Kim's One Thing To Grow Your Marriage Each Day via email, text, or podcast here!