The Pleasure Positive Podcast

In this episode, the hosts welcome Marcella Hill, an author and advocate for sexual empowerment who recently went viral on TikTok for sharing her journey from a suppressed religious background to becoming an advocate for her own sexual wellbeing. Marcella discusses her new book, Wake Her Up, and shares how she went from a low libido to a heightened sex drive. [00:04:06] Religious beliefs and shame.[06:13:00] Shame around sexuality.[00:08:15] Suppression around sexuality.[00:14:29] Pleasure in Sexual Relationship.[00:16:33] Enjoying oral sex and blowjobs.[00:23:35] Hormone therapy and libido.[00:24:16] Sexual exploration and discovery.[00:30:10] The heart below.[00:32:09] Orgasm and meditation.[00:35:47] Pleasure as self-discovery.[00:40:25] Women deserve pleasure.[00:44:13] Hormones and sex education.Stay Connected with Marcella HillInstagram: @beingmarcellahillWebsite: https://marcellahill.com/Private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/785908958415961/?ref=share Download our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo.VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access.Support the showSupport the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks.💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed.💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo.VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access.Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, the hosts interview Kevin Patterson, a polyamory educator and author. They discuss the concept of toxic monogamy and how it affects romantic relationships. Patterson discusses the need to divorce oneself from the idea of possessiveness in relationships, as well as the impact of racism and systematic oppression on the way people date and become intimate. He also addresses the idea that polyamory is exclusively for affluent people and aims to normalize this relationship structure.[00:01:22] Toxic Monogamy. [00:04:52] Polyamorous relationships. [00:11:22] Race and polyamory. [00:11:39] Lack of diversity in events. [00:16:26] Examining our mindset. [00:19:05] Celebrity politics and societal progress. [00:23:23] Polyamory course and resources.Stay Connected with Kevin PattersonInstagram: @polyrolemodelsDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual IntimacyVISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up.Support the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks.💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed.💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo.VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access.Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode:[00:03:30] Sacred Sexuality Coaching.[00:04:13] Patriarchal sex culture.[00:07:58] Internalized slut shaming.[00:11:32] Bringing emotions to the space.[00:16:34] Self love vs. self lust.[00:18:51] Sexual objectification of women.[00:23:59] Entitlement in relationships.[00:26:34] Self objectification.[00:32:03] Women's beauty standards throughout history.[00:33:09] Sexual Worthiness and Pleasure.[00:38:14] Committing to self-love.[00:40:06] Forgiveness and self-love.[00:44:18] Emotion as sensation.[00:47:50] Normalizing vulnerability.Stay Connected with Michelle MartinezInstagram: @themichellemartinezWebsite: https://michelle-martinez.netDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo.VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access.Support the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks.💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed.💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo.VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access.Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Have you ever wondered what it was like inside a swingers club? Are you curious about the swinger, open or poly relationship models? Don't know where to start? Well today we have some guests that might have you “swinging,” from the chandelier by the end of the episode. They are the creators of the OpenLove101 lifestyle organization and Podcast. Together this power couple has over 35 years combined experience in consensual non monogamy and for over a decade they have coached hundreds of couples in educating them in the swinger lifestyle. Please welcome Jackie and John of Open Love101! Support the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy 💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo. VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access. Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Throwback to the time we went to a sex party... as a cast... for research, of course. We've come so far in our sexual empowerment journey. Blast back to the past with us as we recount our experience of going to a sex party.Download our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Clit Talk, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo.VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide  to sign up and get access.Stay Connected with Pleasure Positive LivingVisit our Website | https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/ Subscribe to our YouTube Channel | https://www.youtube.com/c/ClitTalk Follow us on Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/clittalkshow/ Checkout Our Pleasure Positive Digital Courses | https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/ Shop Pleasure Positive Products | https://clittalkshow.com/pleasure-store Checkout our Discounts | https://clittalkshow.com/discounts Support the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy 💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo. VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access. Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We recorded this episode a year and a half ago… it has remained in the archives… until today… mwahaha. Lindsey and Sugar went as single ladies to a sex party and they explicitly shared about the highlights from their epic night out. This episode is a party in and of itself. In this episode: Highlights from Lindsey and Sugar’s night out  The kinds of conversations to have to set yourself up powerfully  An inside look at what actually goes down at a sex party (aka play party)  Upcoming RetreatJoin Sugar for 5 days of pure pleasure on the Big Island of Hawaii for the PLEASURE PURPOSE POWER Retreat. Visit pleasurepositiveliving.com/retreat to learn more. Download our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Clit Talk, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo.VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide  to sign up and get access.Stay Connected with Pleasure Positive LivingVisit our Website | https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/ Subscribe to our YouTube Channel | https://www.youtube.com/c/ClitTalk Follow us on Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/clittalkshow/ Checkout Our Pleasure Positive Digital Courses | https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/ Shop Pleasure Positive Products | https://clittalkshow.com/pleasure-store Checkout our Discounts | https://clittalkshow.com/discounts Support the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy 💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo. VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access. Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Where are all our readers out there? This podcast started as a book club reading Regena Thomashauer’s Pussy: A Reclamation and we have another great author on here today, Jessica Graham! In her book, Good Sex: Getting Off Without Checking Out, she teaches us about intimacy, love, fucking, compassion and our own hearts and minds, encouraging us to live our most authentic lives in and out of the bedroom. She started as a meditation teacher, actor and works with individual clients as well as couples. In this episode you will learn about: The connection between meditation and sexuality  How to be “conscious” or in your body during sexual experiences. Can you tell us more about that and how you got to where you are today as a sex coach?  How to deal with a partner who has a low sex drive Open-eyed orgasms Limbic resonance in relationships.  Stay connected with Jessica Graham:WebsiteInstagramYouTubeFacebookTwitterJessica Graham’s Book: Order Good Sex Download our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Clit Talk, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo.VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide  to sign up and get access. Support the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy 💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo. VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access. Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You’ve heard of an Early Bird Sale. Well, this is a Naughty Night Owl Sale- we wanted to take a moment to reward procrastination!That’s right… Registration for the Sex & Empowerment Signature Masterclass ended but we decided to open the door back up only until  9pm Tuesday, March 14th.So there’s a final chance to join us this year! We get you’re busy, you’ve got a lot going on and you may or may not have been procrastinating on your pleasure and signing up for this badass pleasure filled course. SO we wanted to really reward you for that and give you our Naughty Night Owl exclusive discount for the Sex & Empowerment Signature Masterclass.You can get started for just $134.Click here to learn more or sign up. What do you get? The Program: Our Entire Sex and Empowerment Signature Masterclass (valued at $2,997) 7 Lesson Modules, Filled with our Best Expert Tips, Tricks, & Skills Weekly LIVE virtual classrooms Additional Video, Audio, and PDF Guides Direct Coaching with Katie, Lindsey & Madison Weekly Q&A sessions Access to private community 3 complimentary bonuses Bonus #1: 21-Day Self-Worth Reset: an easy to follow reset with only the best methods and exercises we have tried ourselves and know truly make a difference. ($199 value) Bonus #2: Lifetime access to ever growing Hottest Sex Tips Portal where all our top doctors, sexperts, and more give their best hacks for better sex and intimacy! ($499 value) Bonus #3: Intimacy by Design: Know how to communicate your fantasies, sexual edges and sustainably honor your eroticism both with yourself, your partner or partners. ($499 value) Get started for $134 today.How will this change your life? You will have the tools and confidence to have the conversations you have been avoiding (both with yourself and others) when it comes to your sex and empowerment. You will discover the root of where you get stopped, so you no longer self-sabotage and can tap into your turn on at any moment...rather than be in breakdown for a week straight. You’ll have a  crystal clear vision and step-by-step guide to turn all your deepest desires into a reality.  You will be able to let go of anything from your past that is holding you back from having the best sex of your life. You’ll have greater intimacy in all your current and/or future relationships on a physical, mental and emotional level. And you will have a new level of appreciation for just how beautiful and amazing you are and be able to sustain that newfound unconditional love. But hurry, your exclusive registration window is closing on Tuesday, March 14th at 9pm PST. The next live classroom is Thursday, March 16th at 5:30pm PST.https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/naughSupport the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy 💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo. VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access. Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Get our best deep throating tips to take your head game to the next level. Stay connected with us on Instagram | @pleasurepositiveliving https://www.instagram.com/pleasurepositiveliving/ Show Notes:https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/blog/ep253-how-to-deep-throat Support the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy 💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo. VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access. Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We have got another doctor in the house and this man is a powerhouse releasing hilarious and often scathing remarks on the state of sex education in our current culture. He received his doctorate in clinical psychology, completed a postdoctoral fellowship in sexual health, and was awarded tenure in the Department of Psychology at Minnesota State University where he is currently an Associate Professor, Co-Director of the Sexuality Studies program, and leads the Sexual Health Research Team examining the intersections of sexuality, stigma, and Satanism. He has published articles on the effects of sexually explicit material, older adult sexuality, sex worker affirmative therapy, and Satanic sexuality. We want to dive deep with this man today because we’ve never had anyone quite like him in over 250 episodes. Please welcome the infamous Dr. Eric Sprankle!In this episode you will learn about:​ The relationships between Satanism, stigma, mental health, and sexuality Ways to overcome religious trauma/sexual shame How can we improve sex education in the United States specifically and across the board Stay Connected with Dr. Eric SprankleInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/drsprankle/ Download our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Clit Talk, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo.VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide  to sign up and get access. Support the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy 💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and masturbation hacks. 💦Take your self pleasure game from 0 to 100 real quick and blow any partner's mind in bed. 💦This FREE Audio Training takes you step by step to explore your sexuality, communicate more meaningfully around desires and up-level your bedroom mojo. VISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide to sign up and get access. Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices