The Pleasure Positive Podcast

EP254 How to Go Down on a Vulva Owner

Mar 7, 2023
This discussion dives into the art of oral pleasure and builds confidence in the bedroom. The hosts break down different types of clitorises and how to customize techniques for each. Breathing and vocal cues are explored as vital tools for gauging arousal. They advocate for longer foreplay to enhance intimacy and pleasure. Transition techniques are highlighted, alongside the benefits of adding fingers and lube for deeper sensations. Personal anecdotes about squirting and preferences add a relatable and intimate touch.
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ADVICE

Match Technique To Clit Type

  • Learn the five clit types to tailor your technique and approach to each partner's anatomy.
  • Enter slower for small or unhooded clits and be firmer/quicker with hooded clits when appropriate.
ADVICE

Let Breath And Voice Guide You

  • Use the partner's breathing and authentic vocalizations as real-time feedback to guide pressure and rhythm.
  • If sounds and breath deepen, you’re likely on the right track; if not, adjust or ask.
ADVICE

Invest Time In Foreplay First

  • Prioritize long, patient foreplay because many vulva owners need time to engorge and turn on.
  • Use kissing, full-body touching, and gentle stroking instead of going straight for the vulva.
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