Ninja Selling Podcast

Integrating Ninja into Your Existing System Welcome once again to the Ninja Selling podcast with your favorite hosts, Matt and Garrett! Today's episode is all about taking your established real estate business to the next level with the Ninja Selling approach as our hosts share practical advice on how experienced agents can integrate Ninja techniques into their existing systems. Understanding the challenges that come with adopting a new philosophy, they provide actionable steps to overcome them, and also explain how the Ninja Selling philosophy differs from other sales training programs and why understanding these differences is crucial to achieving success. During the episode, Matt and Garrett discuss how agents who already have working systems can integrate the Ninja Selling approach, and explain the benefits of working with referrals over strangers, as well as how to embed the Ninja philosophy into an existing system. The episode is filled with practical tips and valuable insights that help you take your real estate business to the next level and is a must-listen for all experienced agents looking to integrate the Ninja philosophy into their existing systems and achieve even greater success in their business. More valuable insights and advice can be found by joining the community of almost 12,000 Ninjas who collaborate, ask and answer questions, network, and more in the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook. Leave a voicemail at 208-MY-NINJA if you'd like to offer more direct feedback. Be sure to check out Ninja Selling Events for upcoming installations and other events, and if you'd like personalized help in achieving your goals, visit Ninja Coaching to connect with one of our fantastic coaches. Episode Highlights: The challenges experienced agents face when adopting a new philosophy Understanding the philosophical differences between Ninja Selling and other sales training programs How to embed Ninja philosophy into existing systems Working with referrals over strangers The importance of focusing on relationships The dangers of trying to merge other systems with Ninja Selling How experienced agents can let go of their old systems and embrace new ones The need for a growth mindset and a willingness to change Transforming buyer and seller processes, marketing, and relationships Having a team on board Quotes: "You've got to let go of some of that stuff. It's one of the biggest challenges for an experienced agent." "It all starts with the philosophy. And if you have a good expired listing strategy, you can embed a Ninja philosophy into that same thing." "My favorite is when somebody says, 'Has all this business been here the whole time?' Yeah, it has been. It's just under the surface." "When you're working with strangers, it's very difficult to have a whole lot of control over those people because again, you don't have the relationship to rely on." "We're going to change how when we make a phone call I'm not making a phone call looking for a piece of business. I'm looking for making a phone call to literally enhance my relationship with somebody and my connections with people." "It may not help you sell that home any faster. It may not help you win that listing any more than you would if you were using your old process, but you're showing up at a different level that has something click in the people that you're working with." "Surround yourself with people that are in that same thing. They're all pushing themselves to learn more, to be better, to grow in this chosen field." Links: www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email us at TSW@TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching: www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events Garrett garrett@ninjacoaching.com @ninjaredding Matt matt@ninjacoaching.com @matthewjbonelli The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group Ninja Coaching Book Study

What Exactly Does My Client Want? In this latest episode, Garrett and Matt focus on the pre-listing interview and its importance in the real estate industry. Before diving into this topic, they take a moment to highlight the large and active community that makes up the Ninja Selling podcast facebook group, and encourage listeners to join if they have not already. From there, they begin their discussion regarding the significance of asking the right questions during the pre-listing interview to gather valuable insights that can help both agents and clients succeed in the market. Our hosts review how the phrasing of questions can influence clients' answers, how it is crucial to separate emotions from the pricing process, and the value of having a clear understanding of clients' goals before setting a list price. They note that, by conducting a pre-listing interview, real estate agents can gather crucial information, guide clients towards a pricing strategy that aligns with their objectives, and position clients effectively in the market, setting them up for success. As you will hear today, the significance of conducting a thorough pre-listing interview cannot be overstated as a highly effective tool to gain valuable insights and help clients and agents alike achieve their goals in the real estate market. More valuable tools can be found by joining the community of almost 12,000 Ninjas who collaborate, ask and answer questions, network, and more in the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook. Leave a voicemail at 208-MY-NINJA if you'd like to offer more direct feedback. Be sure to check out Ninja Selling Events for upcoming installations and other events, and if you'd like personalized help in achieving your goals, visit Ninja Coaching to connect with one of our fantastic coaches. Episode Highlights: The helpful nature of Ninja Selling podcast community The buyer and seller processes The pre-listing interview Giving clients clarity in making informed decisions Success for the realtor, the homeowners and the clients Asking the right questions and getting the words to come out of the client's mouth Helping the client first Prioritizing long-term goals over day-to-day tasks The power of hypothetical questions Helping clients articulate their desires and develop a plan to achieve them Helping agents guide clients towards a list price that aligns with their goals Quotes: "If we support each other, that is going to change how homeowners experience their homes and go through these processes." "The buyer and seller processes exist primarily to help the client first." "Success in real estate is not about us. It's about them." "The conversation is what's going to wake somebody up." "I know what's wrong, I can see what's broken, and I can order parts." "Every question on there, for the most part, is designed to have the words leave their mouth where they're having to say these things out loud." "The market will determine what the home is worth. We're trying to find the range so that we can attract the people in that range that will set the right value for us and help us move forward." "When you find clarity around this, they sell themselves. They start moving on their own really fast." "It's our responsibility to make sure they have clarity so that they set the price at a point that's going to help them achieve their goal." "We need to ask the right questions and get out of these people's way." Links: www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email us at TSW@TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching: www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events Garrett garrett@ninjacoaching.com @ninjaredding Matt matt@ninjacoaching.com @matthewjbonelli The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group Ninja Coaching Book Study

Assistants Assistance with Shelley Culbertson Matt and Garrett welcome a very special guest, Shelley Culbertson, to the podcast today. A highly successful real estate agent and coach from Medford, Oregon, Shelley joins our hosts for a discussion regarding how to hire assistants effectively and efficiently. She shares her unique approach to bringing on assistants to help with your business - an approach which may seem counterintuitive to some - and explains how it has worked for her and how it can work for others. Along the way, Shelley emphasizes the importance of clear communication, documented processes, and the need to be open with employees about bringing in additional help. She also discusses the importance of letting go of employees quickly if they are not working out, notes the fact that her team dynamics follow a strict code of ethics, and shares insights into creating a successful team. A fascinating guest with a wealth of wisdom and experience, Shelley Culbertson shares so much here today that will prove extremely beneficial in helping listeners achieve their goal of maintaining an effective and sustainable business model. Even more wisdom can be yours by joining the community of almost 12,000 Ninjas who collaborate, ask and answer questions, network, and more in the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook. Leave a voicemail at 208-MY-NINJA if you'd like to offer more direct feedback. Be sure to check out Ninja Selling Events for upcoming installations and other events, and if you'd like personalized help in achieving your goals, visit Ninja Coaching to connect with one of our fantastic coaches. Episode Highlights: Shelley's background in real estate and coaching Her approach to hiring assistants and why it works Tips for finding the right assistants Training assistants effectively Letting go of assistants when the time is right The need for clear communication and documented processes Being open with employees about bringing in additional help when needed. Addressing red flags early on Employees understanding that they are representatives of the brand Team dynamics are built on a strict code of ethics Providing quality service upfront to build long-term relationships with clients Quotes: "I bring them on, I take them to a certain level, and then I kick them out of the nest." "One of my missions is to make it a better industry, one agent at a time." "You have to really put the work in upfront so that the payoff is at the end." "It's not just about hiring the right person; it's about training them properly." "Hire slow, fire fast. I think take your time to really find the right person, but if it's not the right person, you've got to get them out of your world." "These are things that you want to address early on to make that determination. Is this person going to stay and learn or is this person going to move on and build a different type of business?" "When you bring on...a buyer's agent, they are representative of your brand. They're not John Smith agent. They're a Shelley Culbertson team agent." "We will not represent a buyer or seller in the same transaction." "I did not get into this industry so I could manage agents." "At a certain point, it is not possible to accommodate everyone's preferences." Links: www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email us at TSW@TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching: www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events Garrett garrett@ninjacoaching.com @ninjaredding Matt matt@ninjacoaching.com @matthewjbonelli The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group Ninja Coaching Book Study

Using Fear of Judgment to Your Advantage Piggybacking onto their most recent episode, today Matt and Garrett discuss the fear of judgment in the real estate industry and how it can hold agents back from being customized in their business. They examine the psychological factors that contribute to this fear, including self-judgment, comparing oneself to others, and the fear of standing out, and highlight the importance of stepping outside of one's comfort zone and using fear as a catalyst for growth. As they note here today, fear of judgment is prevalent in the real estate industry, but it is important to embrace it and use it to drive success. Acknowledging that agents are often concerned about their reputation among their peers. Matt and Garrett offer practical advice on how to navigate situations where fear of judgment may arise, such as when a client changes their mind about a deal or when an agent must stand their ground against other realtors. They emphasize the importance of prioritizing clients' best interests and building a strong reputation for standing up for them. While it may be challenging to make difficult decisions and face judgment from others, our hosts argue that doing so can ultimately lead to new business opportunities and long-term success in the industry. In the end, fear of judgment should not hold agents back from achieving their goals, and instead, it should be embraced and used as a powerful motivator for growth and success. You can discover even more powerful tools by joining the community of almost 12,000 Ninjas who collaborate, ask and answer questions, network, and more in the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook. Leave a voicemail at 208-MY-NINJA if you'd like to offer more direct feedback. Be sure to check out Ninja Selling Events for upcoming installations and other events, and if you'd like personalized help in achieving your goals, visit Ninja Coaching to connect with one of our fantastic coaches. Episode Highlights: Fear of judgment and its prevalence in the real estate industry How it can hold agents back from being customized in their business The psychological factors at play Stepping out of your comfort zone and embracing fear to grow The opportunities that arise when an agent is customized in their business Overcoming fear and using it to your advantage The role of the Ninja Selling community in helping agents overcome fear and judgment Building a strong reputation for standing up for clients Prioritizing your clients' best interests Navigating difficult situations Focusing on the long-term goals Quotes: "We're constantly watching. We're constantly looking. We're constantly hopefully not comparing in a negative way, although that's happening. And then we also are constantly judging, which is not necessarily a good thing." "The only way you can get past fear is to face it head on." "Fear is always going to be there, but it's how you react to it that matters." "The biggest thing you can do is start to listen to yourself and start to understand what you're really about and what you're trying to accomplish in this world." "Those are the moments where you've got to stop and say, 'Hey, I work for the client, and that comes first.'" "Agents should focus on the long-term goals and not just short-term gains." "Overcoming the fear of judgment can be difficult, but it can also lead to personal and professional growth." Links: www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email us at TSW@TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching: www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events Garrett garrett@ninjacoaching.com @ninjaredding Matt matt@ninjacoaching.com @matthewjbonelli The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group Ninja Coaching Book Study

Creating a Positively Unique Experience for Your Clients The power of customization in the real estate industry is the topic for this latest installment of the Ninja Selling podcast. In their conversation today, Matt and Garrett discuss various ways to personalize the experience for clients, emphasizing that customization goes beyond just logos and colors. Together, they explore the different types of customization, including from a brand perspective or a client's point of view, examine what is worth customizing and what is not, and discuss the importance of creating a unique experience for clients which can set an agent apart from the competition and encourage word-of-mouth referrals. From there, our hosts delve into the listing side of customized services, highlighting how unique services can be offered during the listing process. They discuss the benefits of hosting special open houses for the neighborhood, offering unique marketing materials, and creating a timeline to celebrate each milestone in the process. Matt and Garrett go on to emphasize the importance of having a flow and bouncing ideas off others to create a fully customized experience, and finish up by noting that customization is a powerful tool for shaping public perception of an agent's brand and leaving a lasting impression on clients. You can discover even more powerful tools by joining the community of almost 10,000 Ninjas who collaborate, ask and answer questions, network, and more in the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook. Leave a voicemail at 208-MY-NINJA if you'd like to offer more direct feedback. Be sure to check out Ninja Selling Events for upcoming installations and other events, and if you'd like personalized help in achieving your goals, visit Ninja Coaching to connect with one of our fantastic coaches. Episode Highlights: What customization can mean for real estate agents What is worth customizing and what is not Finding a balance between being unique and not wasting time and energy Customized services in the listing process Shaping an agent's brand in the community Advice on how to approach customization Creating a positive experience for clients How small gestures can make a big difference Making clients feel important and unique Focusing on the experience rather than just logos and colors The importance of having a flow and bouncing ideas off others Leaving a lasting impression on clients Quotes: "Customization is not about being different for the sake of being different. It's about creating a unique experience that sets you apart and benefits your clients." "When it comes to customization, it's important to find a balance between being unique and not wasting time and energy on things that don't matter." "The key to success in real estate is creating a positive experience for your clients. Customized services can help you do that." "There's no one-size-fits-all approach to customization. It's up to each agent to determine what is worth customizing and what is not." "Customized services can help shape public perception of your brand and set you apart from the competition." "What are the points where we can interject this feeling to the client, where they feel like something's happening just for them?" "Customization is a powerful tool that sets businesses apart and encourages word-of-mouth referrals." Links: www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email us at TSW@TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching: www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events Garrett garrett@ninjacoaching.com @ninjaredding Matt matt@ninjacoaching.com @matthewjbonelli The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group Ninja Coaching Book Study

Reigniting Your Passion In this episode of the Ninja Selling Podcast, hosts Garrett and Matt discuss the common challenge of feeling stuck in a job that no longer brings joy or fulfillment, despite having pursued it with the intention of creating a better life. While their discussion is centered around the real estate industry, they acknowledge that this can happen in any line of work. They each offer personal anecdotes and insights into recognizing when it's time to make a change and how to reignite passion and joy in work, and explore the idea of finding balance and setting boundaries to avoid burnout, highlighting the importance of taking a step back to reevaluate career choices. Our hosts also examine how real estate agents can build discipline to overcome the lack of motivation that can come with an unfulfilling job. They suggest finding hobbies or fitness programs that require regular discipline to help build the "discipline muscles" necessary to carry over into work. Additionally, they emphasize the importance of finding a bigger vision for one's life and career beyond just making money, such as helping others or investing in long-term passive income. By finding a greater purpose, individuals can achieve a greater sense of fulfillment in their work and overcome the monotony of doing the same thing every day. More valuable insights can be yours by joining the community of almost 10,000 Ninjas who collaborate, ask and answer questions, network, and more in the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook. Leave a voicemail at 208-MY-NINJA if you'd like to offer more direct feedback. Be sure to check out Ninja Selling Events for upcoming installations and other events, and if you'd like personalized help in achieving your goals, visit Ninja Coaching to connect with one of our fantastic coaches. Episode Highlights: The challenge of maintaining enthusiasm and passion for work. Finding a sense of purpose in your work How to reevaluate career choices. Finding balance and setting boundaries Strategies for reigniting passion and finding joy in work Garrett and Matt share personal anecdotes about the challenges they have faced in their own careers. Recognizing when it's time to move on to something new Building up discipline muscles Helping others and investing in long-term passive income The monotony of doing the same thing every day Focusing on the bigger vision of your lives and careers Quotes: "Sometimes in our industry, we do such a good job of creating a job for ourselves that we lose sight of the fact that we're supposed to be enjoying it." "If you're looking for a change, you've got to go out and start having conversations with people, start exploring, and start looking at other avenues that may be available to you." "I think it's really important to keep learning, keep growing, keep educating yourself." "It's okay to say 'I don't want to do this anymore.' And it's okay to have a little bit of fear behind that because change is hard." "You have to be able to let go of things that no longer serve you, and be willing to step into something that you know nothing about." "Find what really truly makes you happy, and build a business around that." "Sometimes you need to hit the reset button and start over." "All of a sudden, they start putting that together. And it's not just about showing up and making money. It's not just about showing up and working. There's a bigger vision around this now." Links: www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email us at TSW@TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching: www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events Garrett garrett@ninjacoaching.com @ninjaredding Matt matt@ninjacoaching.com @matthewjbonelli The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group Ninja Coaching Book Study

Quality vs. Quantity In today's episode of the Ninja Selling podcast, Matt and Garrett delve into the concept of quality time versus quantity time when it comes to building relationships in the real estate industry. They stress that simply having frequent communication is not enough, and that adding quality to interactions is crucial for developing referrals. Our hosts share practical tips on how to implement the concept of quality time, such as setting goals, focusing on the right activities, and measuring results. They also highlight the importance of building trust and providing value to clients in order to establish long-term relationships. Matt and Garrett go on to argue that the intention behind the time spent with clients is more important than the number of minutes spent. They emphasize that some relationships require more quantity time than others, and that it's essential to understand who those people are in your life. Overall, today's episode demonstrates that, by personalizing interactions and staying relevant, agents can create value for clients and avoid generic messaging that fails to resonate, and that, with the right intention and approach, their database can be turned into a source of sustainable business growth. More ideas for sustainable growth can be yours by joining the community of almost 10,000 Ninjas who collaborate, ask and answer questions, network, and more in the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook. Leave a voicemail at 208-MY-NINJA if you'd like to offer more direct feedback. Be sure to check out Ninja Selling Events for upcoming installations and other events, and if you'd like personalized help in achieving your goals, visit Ninja Coaching to connect with one of our fantastic coaches. Episode Highlights: Quantity time versus quality time How to apply the concept of quality time to your database Tips for measuring your results and staying on track Providing value to your database to build trust and long-term relationships Setting goals and focusing on the right activities to achieve success Learning more about a client's individual needs Over-reliance on generic messaging The intention behind the time spent with clients Planning quality time Understanding who in your database needs quality time and who needs quantity time Quotes: "Quantity time is important, but it's quality time that really matters." "It's not just about the activities you're doing; it's about the relationships you're building." "You need to make sure you're spending your time on the right activities that will actually move the needle." "If you want to build trust and relationships, you have to provide value to people." "Success comes from focusing on the right activities and measuring your results." "But if you really lean into the quality, that's where the referral comes out, where the quantity will maybe lead to that person doing business with you." "Overcommunicating without that relationship depth is actually more harmful than it is helpful." "Nobody has a clear idea of who gets the quality time and who gets the quantity time." "Quality time is determined by intention, not by minutes." Links: www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email us at TSW@TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching: www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events Garrett garrett@ninjacoaching.com @ninjaredding Matt matt@ninjacoaching.com @matthewjbonelli The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group Ninja Coaching Book Study

Value, Relationships, and Referrals Welcome to the latest episode of the Ninja Selling podcast, where Matt and Garrett delve into the topic of whether or not it is appropriate to ask clients if they would refer you to others. Examining both the advantages and drawbacks of this approach, our hosts highlight the importance of being aware of subtle cues that reveal clients' satisfaction with your service, and note that, in the real estate industry, it is crucial to build strong relationships, providing value to potential clients over time. They go on to advise that the goal should be to become one of the top three recommended realtors rather than the "one" for a particular client, and that, by providing value related specifically to real estate, realtors can secure referrals from satisfied clients. Using analogies from restaurants and dating, Matt and Garrett illustrate the importance of building relationships, and also stress that having a database of 150 people can result in 300 referrals within the next 12 months. Ultimately, building strong relationships and providing value are fundamental principles for success in the real estate industry, and today our Ninja experts share their insightful guidance on how to achieve both. More excellent insights can be yours by joining the community of almost 10,000 Ninjas who collaborate, ask and answer questions, network, and more in the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook. Leave a voicemail at 208-MY-NINJA if you'd like to offer more direct feedback. Be sure to check out Ninja Selling Events for upcoming installations and other events, and if you'd like personalized help in achieving your goals, visit Ninja Coaching to connect with one of our fantastic coaches. Episode Highlights: Asking clients if they would refer you to others and its potential drawbacks Being aware of subtle cues from clients that indicate their level of satisfaction The dangers of QR codes on billboards, especially while driving Avoiding conflicts of interest Becoming one of the top three recommended realtors Providing value related to real estate Building relationships (without being creepy) Restaurant and dating analogies Referrals and your database Quotes: "You've got to be very careful when you ask that question because it can alienate people so fast." "I think the best thing you can do is just provide great service, and those people will naturally refer you." "Subtle skills are the things that we do that maybe we don't even know we're doing that are producing great results for our clients." "It's all about creating an environment that people want to be a part of." "Your goal should not be, can I get them to tell me that I'm the one? I do believe your goal should be is can I provide a service and a value that if someone were to refer me, they might say, 'Matt's the one.'" "I want to be one of the top three." "What are we doing to educate people over time? What are we doing to learn about them and build the relationship?" Links: www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email us at TSW@TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events Garrett garrett@ninjacoaching.com @ninjaredding Matt matt@ninjacoaching.com @matthewjbonelli The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group Ninja Coaching Book Study

When Agents Sell Their Own Homes - The Bonelli Files If you've ever wanted to pick Matt apart - and, honestly, who hasn't at one point or another - today is your lucky day as Matt's experience selling his primary home while working from home with two children and two dogs, goes under the microscope. As you will hear, despite the challenges, Matt was able to make the sale happen by following the Ninja Selling process, which includes using all the available tools and knowledge. This leads our hosts to discuss the importance of involving all decision makers in the process and emphasize the need to work as a team to ensure that everyone is on the same page. By using tools like Focus First and creating a task list to get the house ready for sale, homeowners can avoid creating turmoil and damaging their working relationships. Matt and Garrett's conversation revolves around three main themes: the importance of pre-listing inspections, the value of professional photography, and finding the right real estate agent. They emphasize the need to take care of all major repairs before the house goes on the market to avoid any issues that could deter potential buyers. Additionally, investing in high-quality photography can set a home apart from others on the market and help it sell quickly and at a great price. Finally, finding the right real estate agent can make all the difference in getting the best deal possible. In this very special episode, listeners are cordially invited to come for the public grilling of Matt and his home selling actions, and stay for the invaluable and practical tips for homeowners looking to sell their homes. More excellent insights can be yours by joining the community of almost 10,000 Ninjas who collaborate, ask and answer questions, network, and more in the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook. Leave a voicemail at 208-MY-NINJA if you'd like to offer more direct feedback. Be sure to check out Ninja Selling Events for upcoming installations and other events, and if you'd like personalized help in achieving your goals, visit Ninja Coaching to connect with one of our fantastic coaches. Episode Highlights: The challenges of finding a new home Deciding whether to list the house while still living in it Following the Ninja Selling process The difficulties of selling a personal residence while being an expert in the field Having the right mindset throughout the process The impact of emotions on the decision-making process The importance of involving all decision makers in the process Using tools like Focus First Creating a task list to get the house ready for sale Some challenges of buying new construction Pre-listing inspections, professional photography, and finding the right real estate agent Making a home look like a show home Pricing a house in a changing real estate market The importance of being patient in a slower market Quotes: "It's funny when you're not only a home seller, but you're also a coach and an expert in this field and these internal voices that start to kind of come in at different times." "It's really about following a process and not cutting corners, and really just allowing things to happen." "As much as we think we can separate our emotions from the decision-making process, there's no way to separate it." "Having somebody there who can guide you through the process, who has your best interests in mind, who can take that emotion out of the equation, is invaluable." "It's really about having the right mindset and just keeping yourself focused on the end goal." "I had to keep reminding myself, listen, I control the process. I get to control some of the decisions, but all the owners also control the decisions." "We came up with a list, and we used the Reminders App on Apple to share a task list of all the things that we needed to do." "The photos that people take are really their first impression of that house when they get to see it online." "I think that's really where an agent can make a huge difference, is finding those people that are the right fit." "When you're pricing a property, if you price it down to wholesale, guess what? You pick up wholesale purchasers." "The decision-making process involved in selling a property requires careful consideration of the needs of the client, the state of the market, and the potential benefits and drawbacks of various negotiating tactics." Links: www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email us at TSW@TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching: www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events Garrett garrett@ninjacoaching.com @ninjaredding Matt matt@ninjacoaching.com @matthewjbonelli The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group Ninja Coaching Book Study

Balancing Emotional Attachment and Detachment Today, Matt and Garrett shine their spotlight on the challenging task of detaching emotionally from outcomes in the real estate business - another excellent topic suggested by questions from the Facebook group. Highlighting the importance of empathy and sympathy in dealing with clients, and the need to prioritize the customer's needs above all else, our hosts discuss the difficulties of being a detached guide for clients during emotionally charged situations, and the role of gratitude in maintaining perspective. Our hosts emphasize the importance of building strong relationships with clients while also maintaining a healthy distance to avoid burnout, and letting go of specific outcomes. They explore the various levels of relationships between agents and clients, suggesting that it is crucial to maintain positive relationships regardless of specific outcomes, and highlight the importance of being supportive of others in the real estate business, including family and friends. Listen in today to gain valuable insights into the importance of building relationships, letting go of specific outcomes, and finding a balance between emotional attachment and detachment for continued success in the real estate industry. More excellent insights can be yours by joining the community of almost 10,000 Ninjas who collaborate, ask and answer questions, network, and more in the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook. Leave a voicemail at 208-MY-NINJA if you'd like to offer more direct feedback. Be sure to check out Ninja Selling Events for upcoming installations and other events, and if you'd like personalized help in achieving your goals, visit Ninja Coaching to connect with one of our fantastic coaches. Episode Highlights: An update on Matt and Garrett's health issues How to let go when things go wrong How to overcome obstacles in today's market and not be attached to the outcome Detachment as a fundamental principle of the Ninja selling mindset The role of empathy and sympathy in real estate dealings Putting the customer's needs first. Being a detached guide for clients in emotional situations The role of gratitude in maintaining a clear perspective Focusing on the next action to move forward Finding a balance between emotional attachment and detachment in real estate Maintaining a database of clients while avoiding burnout Being supportive of others in the real estate business Maintaining positive relationships with clients, regardless of specific outcomes The Four Agreements Quotes: "There's one side of it where people need to get a sale. They're looking at their financials, and they're saying, 'If this sale comes together, this will make everything okay.'" "Sometimes we have to let go of things and let them be what they're going to be." "The Ninja mindset is to focus on the process, not the outcome." "When you care about people and you see them hurting or struggling or you know that the path that they're going down is going to be challenging for them, it's hard not to be attached to that outcome." "I think gratitude is a big part of this." "Your job as a realtor is not to sit there and bask in the feelings. It's to understand that and then figure out, 'Okay, well, what are we going to do now?'" "You can't be so emotionally involved and attached that you're burning yourself up all the time." "I'm going to continue to be a good person. This isn't all about real estate. This isn't all about my success as a realtor." "That ability of letting go, taking a step back, taking a breath, actually preserves all the other systems and relationships that you're building and working with." Links: www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email us at TSW@TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching: www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events Garrett garrett@ninjacoaching.com @ninjaredding Matt matt@ninjacoaching.com @matthewjbonelli The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group Ninja Coaching Book Study The Four Agreements