The Angry Therapist Podcast

Today, John shares his journey of finding happiness at 51 after years of struggle and self-discovery. He reflects on his life experiences, including his marriage, fatherhood, and the loss of his home to a fire which became a catalyst for writing his first memoir.Find out more about John’s six-week intensive writing course HEREOrder John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John explores the themes of navigating life's uncertainties, the power of awakening through adversity, and the importance of finding calm amidst chaos. He also emphasizes the inevitability of suffering, the necessity of embracing uncertainty as a path to spiritual growth, and more. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John explores the tension between risk and regret, challenging listeners to rethink their fear of failure– because in the long run, it's regret that haunts us. He encourages taking small but meaningful steps toward the life we truly want and shares insights on how to break free from the illusion of safety.Find out more about John’s six-week intensive writing course HEREOrder John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John shares his reflections on moving to Costa Rica with his family. He discusses the challenges and joys of adapting to a new environment, travels and lessons learned, and the importance of community, and the value of embracing new experiences and the beauty of simplicity.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John dives into the complexities of parental influence on adult relationships, particularly focusing on 'mommy issues' in men. He reflects on his own experiences with his parents, discussing how the emotional dynamics with his mother and father shaped his understanding of love, connection, attachment, and more. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John and Lair discuss the implications of vulnerability for men, the experience of living in Costa Rica, and the societal pressures surrounding masculinity and shame. They talk about how men often struggle with expressing their emotions and the societal pressures that contribute to this, and emphasize the need for compassion towards oneself and others to foster deeper connections.Find out more about Lair HEREFollow Lair on Instagram HEREBuy Lair's book The Practice of Love: Break Old Patterns, Rebuild Trust, and Create a Connection That Lasts HEREOrder John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John explores the allure of chaotic relationships, the transition to stability, and the need for growth in love. He also discusses the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding our past experiences, how they shape our romantic lives, and more.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John reflects on the illusion of permanence in life, the necessity of letting go, and the invitation to love and live bravely. He emphasizes the urgency of embracing change, pursuing authenticity, recognizing the fleeting nature of time and to act on their desires without delay, and more. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John explores the often misunderstood aspects of relationships and intimacy, emphasizing that while the initial spark is exciting, true intimacy develops over time through curiosity, emotional closeness, and embracing discomfort. He challenges listeners to cultivate a 'slow burn' in their relationships, focusing on continuous exploration and connection rather than chasing fleeting highs.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John explores procrastination beyond its traditional association with laziness. He examines how it can serve as a tool for self-discovery and personal growth, offering a fresh perspective on how to integrate it productively into our lives.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices