
The Angry Therapist Podcast
Audio-Only Episodes. Captain’s Log: No guests. No fluff. Just me, the mic, and whatever’s clawing at my insides. Think audio journaling meets back-of-the-bar confessions. Less psychobabble, more soul bleed. Raw, real, and mostly for me.Audio + Video Episodes. You ask, I riff. Therapy meets real talk. More structure, more insight, more of the good stuff on love, dating, and tools we need to build a healthy relationship. Awesome guests. Less navel-gazing, more crowd-serving. This one’s for you.
Latest episodes

Nov 21, 2022 • 28min
John and Vanessa's Fight Last Night
In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about three things that change their state, and dive into a fight they had last night.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.comJoin his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/homeGet his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Nov 18, 2022 • 20min
How Is Your Relationship Making You Stretch?
In this episode, John asks listeners to look at their relationships and ask themselves how their relationships are making them grow as a human.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.comJoin his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/homeGet his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Nov 14, 2022 • 51min
Fairplay with Eve Rodsky
In this episode, John and Vanessa interview Eve Rodsky, New York Times best-selling author of Fair Play and National Bestseller, Find YourUnicorn Space.Eve Rodsky transformed a “blueberries breakdown” into a catalyst for social change when she applied her Harvard-trained background in organizational management to ask the simple yet profound question: What would happen if we treated our homes as our most important organizations? Her New York Times bestselling book and Reese’s Book Club Pick, Fair Play, a gamified life-management system that helps partners rebalance their domestic workload and reimagine their relationship, has elevated the cultural conversation about the value of unpaid labor and care. In her highly anticipated follow-up, Find Your Unicorn Space: Reclaim Your Creative Life in a Too-Busy World, Rodsky explores the cross-section between the science of creativity, productivity, and resilience. Described as the ‘antidote to physical, mental, and emotional burnout,’ Rodsky aims to inspire a new narrative around the equality of time and the individual right to personal time choice that influences sustainable and lasting change on a policy level. Rodsky’s work is backed by Hello Sunshine—Reese Witherspoon’s media company whose mission is to change the narrative for women through storytelling. Rodsky was born and raised by a single mom in New York City and now lives in Los Angeles with her husband Seth and their three children.Learn more about Fair Play and Unicorn Space at fairplaylife.com
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Nov 11, 2022 • 37min
You Can Answer Hard Questions - Is There Hope In Our World?
In this episode, John brings three random people in the room to ask them hard questions. They each get a turn to ask a hard question. This ends up creating a meaningful dialogue and wasting no time to get deep fast. There is no shallow end of the pool here. Hope you enjoy. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.comJoin his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/homeGet his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Nov 9, 2022 • 17min
Punching Back
In this week's episode of The Trauma Tapes, MC and Elizabeth talk about an exercise called "punching back." In it, you take the negative beliefs that you’re carrying around and put them on paper. Then you punch back by asking what the flip side of the negative beliefs is. If you say “I’m needy” for example, you might punch back by saying, “I’m also very loving.”
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Nov 4, 2022 • 16min
You Can't Love Someone Until You Find Yourself Is A Myth
In this episode, John challenges and debunks a common quote: "you can't love someone until you find yourself."Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.comJoin his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/homeGet his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Nov 2, 2022 • 42min
The Shattered Blueprint
In this episode of The Trauma Tapes, a letter writer is facing a difficult decision. Stay in her marriage when her husband wants to be polyamorous, or leave and lose him entirely. MC and Elizabeth talk about the trauma of a profound lack of a relational home.
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Oct 31, 2022 • 14min
3 Signs of an Emotionally Safe Relationship
In this episode, John talks about his three signs that you're in an emotionally safe relationship.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.comJoin his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/homeGet his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Oct 28, 2022 • 22min
Can Long Distance Work? Should I Get Back With My Ex? Can I Heal From Infidelity?
In this episode, John answers listeners' questions such as: can long distance work, should I get back with my ex, can I heal from infidelity, and more.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.comJoin his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/homeGet his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Oct 26, 2022 • 59min
Simple vs. Complex Trauma
In today's episode of The Trauma Tapes, MC and Elizabeth talk to a letter writer about why trauma can pop up ten years later, and what to do about it. They revisit the definition of trauma that we use: unbearable emotional experience that lacks a relational home-- and talk about the difference between simple and complex trauma.
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