
The Angry Therapist Podcast
Audio-Only Episodes. Captain’s Log: No guests. No fluff. Just me, the mic, and whatever’s clawing at my insides. Think audio journaling meets back-of-the-bar confessions. Less psychobabble, more soul bleed. Raw, real, and mostly for me.Audio + Video Episodes. You ask, I riff. Therapy meets real talk. More structure, more insight, more of the good stuff on love, dating, and tools we need to build a healthy relationship. Awesome guests. Less navel-gazing, more crowd-serving. This one’s for you.
Latest episodes

Dec 20, 2023 • 54min
F The Fairy Tale - Rewrite The Dating Myths and Live Your Own Love Story with Damona Hoffman
In this episode, John Kim and Damona Hoffman discuss the concept of fairy tales and how it relates to love, dating, and relationships. They explore the myths and beliefs that often hold people back from finding true compatibility. They also discuss the role of self-help jargon, the rise of emotional intelligence in younger men, and the integration of best practices in dating. You can pre order Damona's book here: https://damonahoffman.com/f-the-fairy-tale/ and follow her on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/damonahoffman/?hl=enRoughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Dec 18, 2023 • 22min
Turning Your Life Equalizer By Putting Weight On Different Things
In this episode, John talks about a journaling exercise he's been doing with his private TAT Circle community: for four days, journal about the worst thing that has ever happened to you. He talks about the revelations he and his members had during this challenge, how much time and energy we spend focusing on the future, how most people find issues in similar areas in their life, and how beneficial re-shifting your energy can be. You can sign up, or find out more about John' TAT Circle community here: https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/homeRoughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Dec 15, 2023 • 38min
Hypnobreathwork for Relationships with Francesca Sipma of Mastry
In this episode, John talks with Francesca Sipma of Mastry about hypnobreathwork. They talk about how you can use hypnobreathwork to heal your relationships with your partner and others, heal your past relationship traumas, visualizing your dreams or discovering your purpose, and practicing hypnobreathwork as a couple and how that can heal issues you have with each other, and more. Francesca is a certified breathwork coach and hypnotherapist based in San Diego, CA. Helping others come into alignment with their highest selves and live more meaningful lives of purpose and impact. You can find more about Francesca on her website: https://francescasipma.comRoughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Dec 11, 2023 • 26min
Navigating Toxic Relationships
In this episode, John talks about toxic relationships: what are signs of a toxic relationship? How do you leave a toxic relationship? Why do you keep finding yourself in toxic relationships? How to heal from toxic relationships? And more. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Dec 8, 2023 • 23min
The 4 Stages of a Relationship
In this episode, John talks about the four stages of a relationship, why they're important to know when you're dating someone, and what to do in each stage when they come. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Dec 6, 2023 • 20min
Let's Talk About Our Needs
In this podcast, the therapist discusses the complexities of our needs in relationships and how to fulfill and communicate them. They also explore the nature of love and the importance of gratitude. Additionally, they share exciting announcements and recommendations for clean eating, as well as the upcoming men's retreat and the significance of grounding oneself. The podcast highlights the role of self-awareness, effort, and ongoing communication in meeting each other's needs in relationships.

Dec 4, 2023 • 1h 7min
Guys We F*cked with Corinne Fisher and Krystyna Hutchinson
In this episode, John talks with the hosts of the "Guys We F*cked" podcast, Corinne Fisher and Krystyna Hutchinson. They talk about healthy and unhealthy childhoods, relationships, trauma bonds, the voices in our heads, and more. Krystyna is a regular in the New York City stand-up scene and has performed in clubs, colleges, bars, basements, laundromats and sushi restaurants all over the country. She is half of the comedy duo, Sorry About Last Night, with fellow stand-up, Corinne Fisher. Together, they have produced a myriad of hit stand-up shows in New York City and Los Angeles, including selling out the Main Room at The Comedy Store, and wrote and starred in a two woman self-titled show at The Upright Citizens Brigade Theater. Corinne Fisher is a stand-up comedian, author, and director based in NYC. She co-created and co-hosts the internationally known podcast Guys We Fcked: The Anti Slut-Shaming Podcast with Krystyna Hutchinson and also hosts Without A Country podcast, a news show aiming to deliver truth without political bias. She and Hutchinson also co-authored the book “Fcked: Being Sexually Explorative and Self-Confident in a World That’s Screwed”. Most recently, Corinne directed the duo’s debut comedy special “Our Special Day” which is available for free on the Guys We Fcked YouTube channel. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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Dec 1, 2023 • 24min
Why Parenting Is So Hard For Our Generation & How to Keep Your Marriage "Spicy"
Reflecting on the difficulties of parenting in their generation and how access to knowledge has shaped their approach. Exploring the influence of upbringing on the current generation and the shifts in societal expectations around parenting. The impact of societal expectations on mental health, strain it puts on marriages, and finding a middle ground in parenting styles. The importance of trust and taking time away as parents. The importance of parents setting a positive example for their children and prioritizing themselves and their relationship.

Nov 29, 2023 • 45min
The Science Behind Saunas with SpiritualQuest
Richard Ori, expert on the science behind saunas and salt rocks, joins John to discuss the impact of saunas on hormones and changing your state. They share personal stories of pulling themselves out of a low frequency state in Los Angeles. The chapter covers the benefits of saunas on cardiovascular health, the origins of Spiritual Quest, letting go of chasing and focusing on desires, exploring grounded masculinity, the power of physical activities for confidence and joy, and the benefits of investing in health.

Nov 27, 2023 • 14min
It's Okay To Not Know & Here's Why
In this episode, John talks about uncertainty and how to handle the anxiety of "not knowing" what's going to happen. He also talks about attracting vs chasing, and shares his own personal stories about training his nervous system to be okay with not knowing what's going to come, and trust that everything will work out as it should.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text
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