The Thais Gibson Podcast

Discover five common habits that drain your emotional energy and hinder personal growth. Learn why resisting reality leads to overwhelm and how disconnecting from yourself breeds burnout. Unprocessed emotions create a buildup that affects your well-being, while perfectionism blocks progress and self-worth. Gain insights on effective, clear communication to replace resentment with understanding. With actionable strategies and mindset shifts, reclaim your energy and foster emotional resilience for a healthier, happier life.

14-Day All-Access Trial: Transform Your Life with Expert-Led Mental Health & Personal Growth Programs https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Fearful avoidant attachment doesn’t have to define your relationships or your life. You can rewire old patterns—and it starts with healthier habits. In this transformative episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais dives deep into essential daily habits that help fearful avoidants heal emotional wounds, reclaim healthy boundaries, and rebuild a secure relationship with themselves and others.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why repetition plus emotion reprograms your subconscious attachment patterns ✔️ How to practice true assertiveness without anger, blame, or emotional volatility ✔️ The importance of spending intentional time alone while in relationships ✔️ How journaling helps connect you to real-time emotional needs and self-validation ✔️ How to replace chronic self-criticism with compassionate self-correction ✔️ The power of substituting "thank you" for constant apologizing to rewire guilt and shame ✔️ How consistent small shifts lead to emotional resilience, connection, and empowerment Whether you're a fearful avoidant yourself or love someone who is, this episode offers practical, powerful, and deeply compassionate steps for long-term emotional transformation. Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and an internationally respected expert on attachment theory and subconscious reprogramming. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications, Thais has helped over 70,000 people heal attachment wounds and reclaim secure relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Visit the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #fearfulavoidant #attachmentstyles #emotionalhealing #healthyrelationships #selfsoothing #selfvalidation #subconsciousreprogramming #assertiveness #healingjourney #attachmenttheorypodcast Found this episode helpful? Please subscribe, rate, and share the podcast with someone ready to build better emotional habits and relationships. Healing is possible—and it starts today.

Explore how anxious attachment styles develop from inconsistent emotional support in childhood. Discover practical strategies to foster self-connection and rebuild personal worth. Learn about daily rituals that enhance emotional well-being and reduce dependency on others. Understand the importance of meeting your own needs and breaking free from emotional addiction in relationships. Finally, find out how balancing various life areas can lead to long-term healing and empowerment.

Get Free Access to All of My Attachment & Relationship Courses This Mental Health Awareness Month. Start Your 14-day Trial Now and Complete a Course Before the Offer Ends! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Is your partner emotionally unavailable—or emotionally manipulative? In this in-depth episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais is joined by co-host Mike DiZio to unpack the 9 diagnostic criteria for Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and explain how these traits differ from what you see in someone with dismissive avoidant attachment. This episode goes far beyond the surface, giving you practical tools to differentiate between personality disorders and attachment wounds, understand confusing behaviors, and protect yourself from staying in toxic relationships under the wrong assumptions.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ The 9 clinical traits of narcissism (based on DSM criteria) ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants may appear cold—but aren't manipulative ✔️ The root causes of narcissism vs. avoidant attachment ✔️ How each style relates to vulnerability, attention, and accountability ✔️ How dismissive avoidants can empathize and change—and why narcissists often don’t ✔️ Why NPD healing is rare—and how shame avoidance blocks growth ✔️ Practical examples and red flags to look for in your relationships Whether you're confused about a past partner, navigating a current dynamic, or exploring your own behavior, this episode delivers eye-opening clarity and practical insight. ⏱️ Episode Timestamps 00:00 – Attachment Style Quiz 00:42 – Intro: Why This Distinction Matters 05:15 – 1: Grandiose Sense of Self 07:57 – 2: Requires Excessive Admiration 21:33 – 3: Fantasies of Unlimited Power, Beauty, Success 29:18 – PDS Membership Program 30:12 – 4: Entitlement 39:32 – 5: Believes They're Special & Unique 43:23 – 6: Interpersonally Exploitative 48:50 – 7: Arrogant or Haughty Attitude 52:18 – 8: Jealousy of Others 53:25 – 9: Lack of Empathy 59:05 – Conclusion Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, best-selling author, and a global leader in attachment theory and subconscious reprogramming. With a Ph.D. and more than 13 certifications, Thais has helped over 70,000 people heal attachment wounds and build secure, thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #narcissistvsavoidant #attachmentstyles #emotionalhealing #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #attachmenttheorypodcast #howtofindlove #emotionalresilience #mentalhealthawareness #selfprotection #dismissiveavoidant Found this helpful? Please subscribe, rate, and share with someone who’s navigating confusing relationship dynamics. The clarity you gain could save you years of heartbreak.

14-Day All-Access Trial: Transform Your Life with Expert-Led Mental Health & Personal Growth Programs https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Dismissive avoidants may seem confident on the outside—but is that really the full story? In this revealing episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais explores why dismissive avoidants often struggle deeply with self-esteem issues—even when they outwardly appear strong, independent, and unaffected. You'll learn the hidden emotional patterns behind dismissive avoidant behaviors and gain critical tools for healing from within.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants often battle hidden shame despite seeming confident ✔️ How early emotional neglect leads to internalized feelings of being "defective" ✔️ Why strong boundaries can sometimes be a mask for emotional pain ✔️ The role of low-level sympathetic nervous system activation (fight/flight/freeze) in daily life ✔️ How living out of alignment with emotional needs damages self-esteem over time ✔️ What emotional suppression costs avoidants—and how to start reconnecting with feelings ✔️ Practical strategies to accept vulnerability, listen to emotions, and build authentic self-worth   If you've ever wondered why you—or someone you love—seems "fine" but struggles with deep disconnection or self-sabotage, this episode offers eye-opening clarity and actionable healing steps. Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leading authority in attachment theory and subconscious reprogramming. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications, Thais has helped more than 70,000 people build emotional resilience and secure relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Listen to More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Explore the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #dismissiveavoidant #lowselfesteem #attachmentstyles #emotionalhealing #attachmenttheorypodcast #selfworth #selftrust #emotionalresilience #healingjourney #subconsciousmind Enjoying the show? If you found this episode valuable, please subscribe, rate, and share with anyone navigating emotional disconnection or healing from low self-worth.

14-Day All-Access Trial: Transform Your Life with Expert-Led Mental Health & Personal Growth Programs https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Struggling with self-esteem, emotional disconnection, or self-soothing? There’s a path to healing—and it starts within. In this supportive and empowering episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais teaches three powerful ways to reconnect with yourself emotionally, increase your self-esteem, and build lasting inner resilience. If you often seek validation from others or struggle to process emotions in a healthy way, these foundational practices will transform your relationship with yourself.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ How giving yourself the same support you seek from others heals emotional wounds ✔️ Why small daily acts of self-care (tailored to your love languages) are critical for self-connection ✔️ How internal validation through kind self-talk rebuilds self-worth ✔️ Why journaling and emotional check-ins create deeper emotional intimacy with yourself ✔️ How honoring your feelings, setting boundaries, and meeting your needs foster genuine self-trust ✔️ Simple practices to strengthen emotional regulation and boost self-esteem every day   When you consistently show up for yourself, you don’t just heal—you thrive. This episode offers real, practical steps to create the safe, empowering inner relationship you deserve.   Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and an expert in emotional reprogramming and attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications, Thais has helped more than 70,000 students worldwide build emotional security and conscious relationships.   Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Browse More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Dive into the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/   Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #selfesteem #emotionalconnection #selfsoothing #selftrust #selfworth #attachmenttheorypodcast #emotionalhealing #reprogrammingbeliefs #selflovejourney #selfawareness   Found this helpful? Please subscribe, rate, and share this podcast episode to support your community’s growth journey. 💙 Real change starts when we reconnect with ourselves.

Explore essential questions for relationship readiness that can prevent heartbreak. Discover how identifying non-negotiables shapes lasting love, and learn to discuss crucial topics like kids and lifestyles with confidence. The power of differences and shared values is highlighted as key to attraction. Understand the importance of moral compatibility and clear expectations to foster success in long-term relationships. This conversation offers a thoughtful approach to dating intentionally and building meaningful connections.

14-Day All-Access Trial: Transform Your Life with Expert-Led Mental Health & Personal Growth Programs https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Feeling stuck in sadness? Depression often has deeper roots—and you have more power to heal than you might realize. In this powerful and compassionate episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais unpacks the three major root causes of depression—and provides practical, science-backed steps to begin your healing journey today. Whether you're personally struggling or supporting someone who is, this episode will bring you clarity, hope, and tangible action steps.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ The role of gut health and serotonin production in emotional well-being ✔️ How chronically unmet emotional needs create pain—and what to do about it ✔️ Why painful subconscious beliefs create suffering beyond the initial pain ✔️ How your brain’s need for certainty can trap you in negative meaning-making cycles ✔️ Practical steps to identify unmet needs and proactively close emotional gaps ✔️ How to reframe painful thoughts and shift out of depression patterns ✔️ Daily practices to reprogram your mind, restore your emotional resilience, and reconnect with life Thais also shares how understanding the difference between pain and suffering is crucial for long-term emotional health—and why meeting your needs consciously and proactively is one of the fastest ways to heal. Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leading voice in healing attachment wounds and subconscious reprogramming. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications, Thais has guided over 70,000 people worldwide toward deeper emotional resilience and fulfilling relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Listen to More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Dive into the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #depressionawareness #mentalhealthhealing #unmetneeds #emotionalhealing #attachmenttheorypodcast #reprogrammingthoughts #selfsoothing #mentalhealthpodcast #subconsciousmind #emotionalresilience If you found this helpful… Please subscribe, rate, and review on your favorite podcast platform. Share it with someone who might need to hear that healing is absolutely possible.

14-Day All-Access Trial: Transform Your Life with Expert-Led Mental Health & Personal Growth Programs https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Is there a hidden link between dismissive avoidant attachment and chronic depression? In this deeply insightful episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais explores the strong correlation between dismissive avoidant attachment styles and low-level, often chronic depression. Learn why emotional repression, unmet needs, and painful belief systems contribute to emotional numbness—and how true healing is possible.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why chronic emotional repression can lead to emotional "toxicity" over time ✔️ How dismissive avoidants unconsciously disconnect from core emotional needs ✔️ The role of unmet needs and negative belief imprints in depression ✔️ Why love and connection are biologically essential for emotional well-being ✔️ How painful childhood associations with vulnerability cause long-term inner conflict ✔️ The importance of reprogramming beliefs about vulnerability, love, and connection ✔️ How gradual exposure and conscious reprogramming can create profound healing   Thais also shares practical, science-backed strategies to break the cycle of emotional disconnection, reconnect with your own feelings, and heal depressive patterns at the root.   Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, best-selling author, and a leader in subconscious reprogramming and emotional healing. With a Ph.D. and over a decade of experience, she has helped tens of thousands transform their relationships and inner lives.   Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Browse More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Explore the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/   Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyles #depressionrecovery #emotionalhealing #subconsciousreprogramming #attachmenttheorypodcast #howtofindlove #emotionalprocessing #emotionalresilience #selfsoothing   Love this episode? Please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone navigating emotional shutdown or relationship struggles. Healing is possible—with the right tools. 

Dive into the complexities of dismissive avoidant attachment styles. Discover why some individuals shy away from emotional intimacy and conflict. Uncover the roots of these behaviors, often tied to childhood experiences, and how they affect relationships. Learn about the subconscious fears and shame that drive these patterns. Plus, explore practical steps for reprogramming attachment styles for healthier connections. If you've ever felt uncomfortable with vulnerability, this discussion offers vital insights into fostering emotional presence.