The Baggage Reclaim Sessions
Natalie Lue
All humans have emotional baggage, and yet, so many of us are unaware of what we're carrying until we hit a low point, experience a health crisis, or recognise that we're in a painful pattern with our relationships or how we feel about and treat ourselves.
Natalie Lue expands her popular blog Baggage Reclaim into podcast form with a weekly show about how to live and love with more self-esteem by unpacking, decluttering and tidying up our excess emotional baggage. It's time to reclaim yourself and experience more love, care trust and respect.
Natalie Lue expands her popular blog Baggage Reclaim into podcast form with a weekly show about how to live and love with more self-esteem by unpacking, decluttering and tidying up our excess emotional baggage. It's time to reclaim yourself and experience more love, care trust and respect.
Episodes
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Sep 18, 2020 • 1h 2min
Ep. 196: Taking Things Too Personally
Sometimes we take things so personally that it derails us. We feel stuck in shame, rejection, rumination and resentment, and we might behave in ways that don't reflect who we are in the main. Natalie talks about why this happens and how to break the habit. Instagram | Break The Cycle Online Course | Blog | Membership
Sep 11, 2020 • 55min
Ep. 195: When 'Nice' Covers Up Anger and Control
Sometimes, how we feel on the inside doesn't match what we're doing on the outside. We act what we think is 'nice' as a way to suppress and repress ourselves. In other instances, we encounter someone who seems 'nice' but they cross our boundaries or we feel what we think is 'irrationally' annoyed, resentful or frustrated with them and can't put our finger on why. Natalie talks about why 'nice' can sometimes be a means of covering up anger and control. Instagram | Break The Cycle Online Course | Blog | Membership
Jul 31, 2020 • 59min
Ep. 194: Let's Talk About Self-Sabotage
Natalie explains why over-giving, over-responsibility, people-pleasing, perfectionism and overthinking are forms of self-sabotage. **Please note! The podcast will go on hiatus until 11th September. Instagram | Break The Cycle Online Course | Blog | Membership
Jul 24, 2020 • 51min
Ep. 193: The Landmarks of Boundaried Communication
Am I doing boundaries right? Is this an OK boundary for me to have? Natalie explains how we can use the landmarks of boundaried communication--compassion, congruency, clarity, ownership and grace--to help us see the wood for the trees and build our confidence with communicating who we are through healthier boundaries. Instagram | Break The Cycle Online Course | Blog | Membership
Jul 17, 2020 • 42min
Ep. 192: "I Guilt You So Much!"
So many of us don't realise how we spend our lives doing things from a place of guilt. We think we're being noble and loving, but near-constantly feeling bad about ourselves and avoiding healthy boundaries and self-care leads to resentment and unhealthy relationships. Natalie talks about what's really going on with our perpetual guilt. Instagram | Break The Cycle Online Course | Blog | Membership
Jul 10, 2020 • 1h 1min
Ep. 191: About Defining The Relationship
Defining the relationship is something that so many people struggle with even though they want to know where they stand and hate ambiguity and the anxiety that comes with it. Natalie talks about why defining the relationship conversations don't have to be so awkward and scary. Instagram | Break The Cycle Online Course | Blog | Membership
Jul 3, 2020 • 52min
Ep. 190: Did I scare them off? Was it my Jedi mind tricks?
Weeks, months or even years have gone by, and we're still seething or angsting over that foot we think we put wrong or what we imagine our oh-so-powerful influence caused someone or a situation to become. Natalie delves into why we languish on the notion that we scared something or someone away. Instagram | Break The Cycle Online Course | Blog | Membership
Jun 26, 2020 • 40min
Ep. 189: Let's Talk About Chemistry
Chemistry, that hard-to-put-your-finger-on feeling that we experience (or think we do) with certain people is a relationship pothole that so many of us walk into time and again. Natalie breaks down why we mistake 'chemistry' for emotional disturbance and shares tips for breaking the habit to forge healthier relationships. Instagram | Break The Cycle Online Course | Blog | Membership
Jun 19, 2020 • 37min
Ep. 188: The Landmarks of Healthy Relationships
How do we distinguish a healthy relationship from an unhealthy one? Natalie explains the landmarks of healthy relationships: balance, commitment, consistency, intimacy and progression. Instagram | Break The Cycle Online Course | Blog | Membership
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Jun 12, 2020 • 34min
Ep. 187: The Lather, Rinse, Repeat of the Frustrating Dating Cycle
Frustrated with the dating cycle? This discussion reveals how the 'recruiter mindset' can lead to disappointment. Learn why discernment is crucial and how charming dates don't equate to long-term compatibility. It explores blind spots that keep us stuck, emphasizing that emotional availability can only be understood once a relationship is established. Discover the importance of trusting your intuition and using dating as a screening process to avoid past mistakes. Ready to break the cycle and find clarity?
