The Baggage Reclaim Sessions Ep. 187: The Lather, Rinse, Repeat of the Frustrating Dating Cycle
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Jun 12, 2020 Frustrated with the dating cycle? This discussion reveals how the 'recruiter mindset' can lead to disappointment. Learn why discernment is crucial and how charming dates don't equate to long-term compatibility. It explores blind spots that keep us stuck, emphasizing that emotional availability can only be understood once a relationship is established. Discover the importance of trusting your intuition and using dating as a screening process to avoid past mistakes. Ready to break the cycle and find clarity?
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Meetings Aren't The Problem, Discernment Is
- Meeting people isn't the problem; lack of discernment about who you meet is.
- A recruiter mindset helps you screen for the person and relationship you actually want.
Be A Discerned 'Recruiter' In Dating
- Do be more discerning early on and avoid progressing anyone who shows clear red flags.
- Do clarify what type of relationship you want and screen people against that standard.
Charm On Dates Doesn't Equal Long-Term Fit
- Being great at dates doesn't predict being great in a relationship.
- Short-term charm can hide long-term incompatibilities like values or life goals.