

The ManKind Podcast
ManKind Project USA
The ManKind Podcast is a space where modern masculinity gets redefined by real men doing real work.In a world full of outdated blueprints and noisy stereotypes, hosts Brandon Clift and Boysen Hodgson unpack what it means to be a man today with humor, honesty, and heart.This isn’t about telling you WHO to be. It’s about helping you pick up the pen and write your own story of manhood. Whether we’re breaking down leadership blind spots, sharing the messiness of personal growth, or talking to mission-driven authors and change-makers, this show offers tools, stories, and soulful conversations to help you show up as the man you're destined to become!If you’re ready to stop performing and start becoming, tune in. We’re here for the messy, meaningful, and often hilarious journey of becoming the kind of man and human you actually want to be.Created by the ManKind Project USA. Hosted by Brandon Clift & Boysen Hodgson.
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Feb 6, 2025 • 45min
189 - When Chaos Calls: Why Men Are Attracted To Conflict and How To Do The Opposite
Text Us Your Feedback! (Likes, Dislikes, Guest/Conversation Recommendations). Brandon and Boysen take a deep dive into why men are often drawn to chaos and conflict. Together, they explore how societal conditioning, personal histories, and even evolutionary instincts create a craving for drama—sometimes at the cost of peace and joy.Using examples from their own lives, they discuss the “drama triangle,” the hidden costs of chasing conflict, and how this behavior prevents men from being present with the people and moments that truly matter. Drawing on Scott Barry Kaufman’s research on the “Dark Triad,” they unpack how toxic traits like narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy fuel modern societal divides—particularly in the current political climate.But this episode isn’t just about understanding the problem; it’s about finding solutions. Learn practical strategies to replace the temporary high of chaos with the long-term fulfillment of purpose, emotional awareness, and love.Why Listen:Are you caught in a cycle of drama without realizing it?Do you want to build stronger, more peaceful connections with others?Are you tired of feeling manipulated by societal and political divisions?Join us as we challenge the narrative of modern masculinity, encourage personal responsibility, and ask the ultimate question: Is the juice worth the squeeze?Links: Scott Barry Kaufman: The Dark Triad & Impulsivity BetterHelp: Get 10% Off Your First Month Of Therapy The ManKind Podcast has partnered with Betterhelp to make it easier for listeners to access licensed mental health therapists who can aid them in their mental health journey. Brandon and Boysen stand by this service as they use BetterHelp for their therapy needs.#Sponsorship #AdSupport the showGet up to 20% off Magic Mind with our link:https://magicmind.com/MANKINDMAY Subscribe/Rate/Review on iTunes ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐: >>>HERE<<<Stay in the loop with powerful figures in the world of Men's Work. Find A Men's Circle Near You: https://mkpusa.org/mens-groupWith over 1000+ Men's Circles (Virtual + In-Person) worldwide, men are waiting to welcome you into a kind, supportive and safe brotherhood of men. FREE Online Men's Groups are available every week.The Men's Work: https://mkpusa.org/themenswork/ In just three short weeks we’ll give you a solid foundation for moving ahead in your life, and you won’t be going alone. Cohorts Launch Every Month 🎵Listen To Jim Donovan & The Sun King Warriors: Spotify: Listen Here

Feb 4, 2025 • 52min
188 - How To Achieve More Than You Ever Thought Possible In Your Relationship (The Cohesive Couple Method) with Rebecca Lockwood & Tom Bouwer
Text Us Your Feedback! (Likes, Dislikes, Guest/Conversation Recommendations). Why Every Couple Needs to Hear This EpisodeII’m beyond excited to share this episode with you because it could genuinely change your relationship. I sat down with Rebecca Lockwood and Tom Bouwer, the brilliant minds behind The Cohesive Couple, a USA Today bestseller that’s flipping the script on how we think about relationships. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the chaos of day-to-day life with your partner—raising kids, juggling work, paying bills—this conversation is for you.This isn’t your typical “communication is key” couples advice. Rebecca and Tom have developed a groundbreaking framework that applies proven business strategies to help couples escape the firefighting stage of their relationships and instead align on a bigger, bolder future together.Here’s why you need to press play:Discover a Game-Changer for Your Relationship: Rebecca and Tom share how their transformative system helped their own relationships go from barely surviving to thriving. It’s all about creating clarity, connection, and a shared vision—and they explain exactly how you can do it too.Practical Tools You Can Use Right Now: Learn about their “weekly sync” ritual, which takes just 45 minutes a week and can save you hours of miscommunication and resentment. Plus, get a sneak peek at their vision planning tools that can turn your 10-year goals into 3-year achievements.Relatable Stories with Real Impact: Whether you’re in a new marriage, juggling young kids, or navigating life as empty nesters, their stories will resonate. I even share how this system helped my wife Christine and me move from feeling like we were in two separate boats to paddling in perfect sync.If you’re serious about building a relationship that lasts, hit play now. This conversation will inspire you, challenge BetterHelp: Get 10% Off Your First Month Of Therapy The ManKind Podcast has partnered with Betterhelp to make it easier for listeners to access licensed mental health therapists who can aid them in their mental health journey. Brandon and Boysen stand by this service as they use BetterHelp for their therapy needs.#Sponsorship #AdSupport the showGet up to 20% off Magic Mind with our link:https://magicmind.com/MANKINDMAY Subscribe/Rate/Review on iTunes ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐: >>>HERE<<<Stay in the loop with powerful figures in the world of Men's Work. Find A Men's Circle Near You: https://mkpusa.org/mens-groupWith over 1000+ Men's Circles (Virtual + In-Person) worldwide, men are waiting to welcome you into a kind, supportive and safe brotherhood of men. FREE Online Men's Groups are available every week.The Men's Work: https://mkpusa.org/themenswork/ In just three short weeks we’ll give you a solid foundation for moving ahead in your life, and you won’t be going alone. Cohorts Launch Every Month 🎵Listen To Jim Donovan & The Sun King Warriors: Spotify: Listen Here

Jan 28, 2025 • 28min
187 - How To Build A Happy Life & The Secrets To Enjoying What You Already Have
Text Us Your Feedback! (Likes, Dislikes, Guest/Conversation Recommendations). In this episode of the Mankind Podcast, hosts Brandon Clift and Boysen Hodgson delve into the art and science of happiness. They explore the deeper meanings of happiness beyond fleeting emotions, emphasizing the importance of faith, family, friends, and meaningful work. The conversation highlights the significance of nurturing relationships and the pursuit of purpose in achieving lasting happiness. They also discuss practical maxims for cultivating happiness in daily life, underscoring that true fulfillment comes from habits and the love we give to others.TakeawaysHappiness is not just a feeling; it's deeper and more complex.True happiness is found in faith, family, friends, and meaningful work.Investing in relationships is crucial for lasting happiness.Happiness is a continuous process that requires effort and commitment.Gratitude plays a significant role in cultivating happiness.The journey towards happiness is often more rewarding than the destination.Meaningful work contributes to a sense of purpose and satisfaction.Real friends are those who enrich our lives without needing anything in return.Happiness is about giving love rather than seeking it.Mother nature does not prioritize human happiness; it's our responsibility to cultivate it. BetterHelp: Get 10% Off Your First Month Of Therapy The ManKind Podcast has partnered with Betterhelp to make it easier for listeners to access licensed mental health therapists who can aid them in their mental health journey. Brandon and Boysen stand by this service as they use BetterHelp for their therapy needs.#Sponsorship #AdSupport the showGet up to 20% off Magic Mind with our link:https://magicmind.com/MANKINDMAY Subscribe/Rate/Review on iTunes ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐: >>>HERE<<<Stay in the loop with powerful figures in the world of Men's Work. Find A Men's Circle Near You: https://mkpusa.org/mens-groupWith over 1000+ Men's Circles (Virtual + In-Person) worldwide, men are waiting to welcome you into a kind, supportive and safe brotherhood of men. FREE Online Men's Groups are available every week.The Men's Work: https://mkpusa.org/themenswork/ In just three short weeks we’ll give you a solid foundation for moving ahead in your life, and you won’t be going alone. Cohorts Launch Every Month 🎵Listen To Jim Donovan & The Sun King Warriors: Spotify: Listen Here

Jan 24, 2025 • 43min
186 - How Touch Can Heal: Moving from Isolation to Connection & Intimacy with Kyle Hoffman
Text Us Your Feedback! (Likes, Dislikes, Guest/Conversation Recommendations). Today, we’re diving into a conversation that challenges cultural taboos and explores groundbreaking approaches to men’s personal development. I’m joined by my longtime friend and collaborator, Kyle Hoffman. Kyle’s story is a testament to transformation—from joining his first men’s group at 22 to becoming a leader in life and intimacy coaching. Together, we’ll unpack themes of connection, vulnerability, and the evolving nature of men’s work. What does it mean to embrace touch, consent, and authenticity as tools for growth? Stick around—you won’t want to miss this conversation.In this thought-provoking episode, Boysen Hodgson interviews Kyle Hoffman, a life and intimacy coach whose innovative work focuses on touch, consent, and emotional connection. They reflect on Kyle’s early involvement in men’s groups through the ManKind Project, discuss the cultural stigmas surrounding platonic touch, and explore how these issues tie into the epidemic of loneliness and disconnection in modern society. Kyle shares insights from his journey and practical tools to foster deeper, healthier relationships.Episode Highlights:Kyle’s transformative experience joining his first men’s group at 22 and its lifelong impact.The importance of platonic touch and overcoming cultural taboos around men’s connection.Navigating consent as a practice of humility and emotional intelligence.How self-love and body positivity intersect with deeper intimacy and authenticity.Find Kyle Hoffman: https://www.cuddlingandcoaching.com/ BetterHelp: Get 10% Off Your First Month Of Therapy The ManKind Podcast has partnered with Betterhelp to make it easier for listeners to access licensed mental health therapists who can aid them in their mental health journey. Brandon and Boysen stand by this service as they use BetterHelp for their therapy needs.#Sponsorship #AdSupport the showGet up to 20% off Magic Mind with our link:https://magicmind.com/MANKINDMAY Subscribe/Rate/Review on iTunes ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐: >>>HERE<<<Stay in the loop with powerful figures in the world of Men's Work. Find A Men's Circle Near You: https://mkpusa.org/mens-groupWith over 1000+ Men's Circles (Virtual + In-Person) worldwide, men are waiting to welcome you into a kind, supportive and safe brotherhood of men. FREE Online Men's Groups are available every week.The Men's Work: https://mkpusa.org/themenswork/ In just three short weeks we’ll give you a solid foundation for moving ahead in your life, and you won’t be going alone. Cohorts Launch Every Month 🎵Listen To Jim Donovan & The Sun King Warriors: Spotify: Listen Here

Jan 22, 2025 • 32min
185 - The Art of Saying “No”: Mastering Boundaries to Protect Your Energy
Text Us Your Feedback! (Likes, Dislikes, Guest/Conversation Recommendations). In this conversation, Brandon Clift and Boysen Hodgson explore the art of saying no and the importance of setting boundaries to protect one's energy. They share personal experiences and insights on how saying yes to everything can lead to overwhelm and a lack of focus. The discussion emphasizes the need for self-awareness, clear communication, and understanding one's values and goals to make better decisions about what to accept or decline. The conversation also touches on the significance of maintaining boundaries in relationships and the empowerment that comes from respecting one's own limits.TakeawaysSaying no is essential for protecting your energy.Understanding your values helps clarify your yeses and noes.Personal experiences shape our ability to say no.Setting boundaries is crucial for healthy relationships.Communicating boundaries clearly is a responsibility.Saying yes to everything can lead to overwhelm.It's important to prioritize what truly matters.Boundaries help establish a sense of self-respect.Learning to say no can be a transformative experience.Self-awareness is key to making better choices. BetterHelp: Get 10% Off Your First Month Of Therapy The ManKind Podcast has partnered with Betterhelp to make it easier for listeners to access licensed mental health therapists who can aid them in their mental health journey. Brandon and Boysen stand by this service as they use BetterHelp for their therapy needs.#Sponsorship #AdSupport the showGet up to 20% off Magic Mind with our link:https://magicmind.com/MANKINDMAY Subscribe/Rate/Review on iTunes ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐: >>>HERE<<<Stay in the loop with powerful figures in the world of Men's Work. Find A Men's Circle Near You: https://mkpusa.org/mens-groupWith over 1000+ Men's Circles (Virtual + In-Person) worldwide, men are waiting to welcome you into a kind, supportive and safe brotherhood of men. FREE Online Men's Groups are available every week.The Men's Work: https://mkpusa.org/themenswork/ In just three short weeks we’ll give you a solid foundation for moving ahead in your life, and you won’t be going alone. Cohorts Launch Every Month 🎵Listen To Jim Donovan & The Sun King Warriors: Spotify: Listen Here

Jan 3, 2025 • 22min
184 - How To Make 2025 Your Greatest Year Yet!
The discussion delves into the complexities of masculinity and setting meaningful intentions for the new year. The hosts emphasize personal growth through accountability and discipline as keys to freedom. They highlight the importance of understanding deeper motivations behind goals, promoting genuine fulfillment. Community involvement is encouraged while reflecting on transformative resolutions. The value of mental health is also brought to the forefront, with insights on therapy as an essential resource for personal support.

Dec 24, 2024 • 1h 14min
183 - How To Find Magical Moments In An Increasingly Distracting Modern World with Douglas Gillette
Text Us Your Feedback! (Likes, Dislikes, Guest/Conversation Recommendations). In this episode of the Mankind Podcast, hosts Brandon Clift and Boysen Hodgson engage in a profound conversation with Douglas Gillette about his latest book, 'Soul Making: The Realization of the Mystical Life.' They explore themes of mysticism, personhood, love, and the intersection of material and spiritual realms. Douglas shares insights on the nature of psyche, the essence of love, and the importance of recognizing the layers of reality that surround us. The discussion emphasizes the significance of meaningful experiences and the presence of the divine in everyday life, inviting listeners to explore a deeper understanding of their own existence. In this conversation, Douglas Gillette and his co-hosts explore profound themes of recognition, joy, consciousness, and the purpose of existence. They discuss the importance of experiencing moments of connection and the interplay between light and darkness in our lives. The dialogue delves into the nature of good and evil, the depths of consciousness, and the significance of love and connection in our journey through life. Ultimately, they emphasize the need to be present to the divine experiences that occur in everyday life, encouraging listeners to embrace the fullness of their existence.Doug's WritingSoul Making: The Realization of the Mystical LifeKing, Warrior, Magician Lover BetterHelp: Get 10% Off Your First Month Of Therapy The ManKind Podcast has partnered with Betterhelp to make it easier for listeners to access licensed mental health therapists who can aid them in their mental health journey. Brandon and Boysen stand by this service as they use BetterHelp for their therapy needs.#Sponsorship #AdSupport the showGet up to 20% off Magic Mind with our link:https://magicmind.com/MANKINDMAY Subscribe/Rate/Review on iTunes ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐: >>>HERE<<<Stay in the loop with powerful figures in the world of Men's Work. Find A Men's Circle Near You: https://mkpusa.org/mens-groupWith over 1000+ Men's Circles (Virtual + In-Person) worldwide, men are waiting to welcome you into a kind, supportive and safe brotherhood of men. FREE Online Men's Groups are available every week.The Men's Work: https://mkpusa.org/themenswork/ In just three short weeks we’ll give you a solid foundation for moving ahead in your life, and you won’t be going alone. Cohorts Launch Every Month 🎵Listen To Jim Donovan & The Sun King Warriors: Spotify: Listen Here

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Dec 18, 2024 • 54min
182 - The Root Cause of Porn Addiction and How to Defeat It for Good with Sathiya Sam
Sathiya Sam, an international speaker and author specializing in overcoming pornography addiction, shares his powerful journey and insights. He explores the roots of addiction, including early exposure and the psychological impacts of shame. The conversation highlights the brain's ability to change, emphasizing actionable steps for recovery. Sathiya advocates for community support and healthy relationships, as well as the importance of open dialogue on this sensitive topic—ultimately empowering listeners to reclaim their freedom and integrity.

Dec 14, 2024 • 52min
181 - Getting Naked: How to Redefine Success Through Creative Destruction with Mark Grayson
Text Us Your Feedback! (Likes, Dislikes, Guest/Conversation Recommendations). Title: Redefining Masculinity: Mark Grayson on Vulnerability and 'Getting Naked'In this episode of the Mankind Podcast, Boysen chats with Mark Grayson about his book "Getting Naked: A Field Guide for Men," exploring the evolving landscape of masculinity and vulnerability.Mark Grayson, once a corporate leader, found his true calling in redefining manhood. Through his ventures, he has always sought meaningful impact, but his journey into understanding masculinity led him to author a transformative book. A pivotal moment came at a workshop where Mark decided to pose nude, challenging traditional views and embracing vulnerability—an experience that led to personal liberation.Mark's exploration is enriched by insights from influencers like Mark Green and Niobe Way, who have shaped his understanding of "man box culture." These relationships highlight the importance of embracing diversity in redefining masculinity.The Seven-Part JourneyMark's book presents a seven-step journey for men to embrace all facets of their identity, from vulnerability to emotional expression and redefining success. This framework guides men toward a balanced and authentic self.The conversation also explores developing empathy and understanding in relationships, crucial for deepening connections and inspiring cultural change in gender dynamics.Mark is involved in projects that foster spiritual growth and civic engagement, reflecting his holistic approach. His work invites others on a courageous journey toward authentic self-discovery.In "Getting Naked," Mark Grayson challenges societal norms and offers a framework for understanding masculinity, encouraging personal and cultural transformation.Connect with Mark: The Naked Man Collective Get the Book: Getting Naked: A BetterHelp: Get 10% Off Your First Month Of Therapy The ManKind Podcast has partnered with Betterhelp to make it easier for listeners to access licensed mental health therapists who can aid them in their mental health journey. Brandon and Boysen stand by this service as they use BetterHelp for their therapy needs.#Sponsorship #AdSupport the showGet up to 20% off Magic Mind with our link:https://magicmind.com/MANKINDMAY Subscribe/Rate/Review on iTunes ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐: >>>HERE<<<Stay in the loop with powerful figures in the world of Men's Work. Find A Men's Circle Near You: https://mkpusa.org/mens-groupWith over 1000+ Men's Circles (Virtual + In-Person) worldwide, men are waiting to welcome you into a kind, supportive and safe brotherhood of men. FREE Online Men's Groups are available every week.The Men's Work: https://mkpusa.org/themenswork/ In just three short weeks we’ll give you a solid foundation for moving ahead in your life, and you won’t be going alone. Cohorts Launch Every Month 🎵Listen To Jim Donovan & The Sun King Warriors: Spotify: Listen Here

Dec 3, 2024 • 1h 2min
180 - Are We Witnessing The Decline Of The Modern Man with Connor Beaton
Text Us Your Feedback! (Likes, Dislikes, Guest/Conversation Recommendations). In this conversation, Brandon Clift and Connor Beaton explore the evolving landscape of modern manhood, focusing on the shifting perceptions of men's mental health, social media's impact, and masculinity's complexities in today's society. They discuss the importance of addressing both men's and women's issues without diminishing either side, emphasizing the need for nuanced conversations that consider biological and social constructs of gender. They also touch on developmental differences between boys and girls, emphasizing the need to rethink the way therapists approach helping men. They discuss the importance of accountability in therapy, the challenges of navigating the fear of the unknown, and the necessity of disrupting homeostasis for personal growth. The dialogue highlights the significance of embracing the unknown for resilience and living with purpose and presence.Follow Connor's Work- Modern Wisdom Interview- Connor's How To Work With Men Program- https://mantalks.com/- Connor's YouTube Channel- Connor's Instagram BetterHelp: Get 10% Off Your First Month Of Therapy The ManKind Podcast has partnered with Betterhelp to make it easier for listeners to access licensed mental health therapists who can aid them in their mental health journey. Brandon and Boysen stand by this service as they use BetterHelp for their therapy needs.#Sponsorship #AdSupport the showGet up to 20% off Magic Mind with our link:https://magicmind.com/MANKINDMAY Subscribe/Rate/Review on iTunes ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐: >>>HERE<<<Stay in the loop with powerful figures in the world of Men's Work. Find A Men's Circle Near You: https://mkpusa.org/mens-groupWith over 1000+ Men's Circles (Virtual + In-Person) worldwide, men are waiting to welcome you into a kind, supportive and safe brotherhood of men. FREE Online Men's Groups are available every week.The Men's Work: https://mkpusa.org/themenswork/ In just three short weeks we’ll give you a solid foundation for moving ahead in your life, and you won’t be going alone. Cohorts Launch Every Month 🎵Listen To Jim Donovan & The Sun King Warriors: Spotify: Listen Here