Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Recorded: 10/16/2022 / Published: 4/21/2023- Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this week’s episode we are diving into another question I frequently get: “I’m new and one of my biggest fears is that I’ll do something to embarrass myself. What can I do to prevent this?”Correction from the last episode. I started the show in 2016, not 2017, so this will be my 6-year anniversary on November 6, 2022. Also, the 200th episode was a couple back, S04E43, an interview we did with Brittany from the Dungeon Store and Split Peaches.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “How to not embarrass yourself when trying BDSM-S04E45”“How to Not Embarrass Yourself When Trying Kink Play” By Gigi Fong / Sep 9, 2022https://hypebae.com/2022/9/fifty-shades-of-grey-what-is-kink-sex-tips“Kink and BDSM make sexual pleasure all the more fun — if you understand the rules. It takes a certain level of maturity to practice, while also holding a safe space for yourself and your partner(s) during sex.So, if you’d like to avoid embarrassing yourself, keep reading.Following toxic pop culture. As much as it made for great discussions, Fifty Shades is not an accurate representation of a consensual kink relationship. Opt for more boundary setting, communication and comprehension, and most importantly, respect.Unclear Boundaries. Not being sure on what you’re okay with versus not, can leave you feeling violated and sexually unsatisfied. Neutral environments, like a coffee shop or beach date, are best for having that initial boundary-setting conversation. Make sure you do this before trying something sexually new.Relying on safe words too much. Safe words are important, but if you find yourself blurting them out more often than not, you’re probably not mentally or sexually ready for this new adventure. It may be best to do more research and communicate, then revisit — or not.Be prepared to laugh. Just as with life, nothing ever rarely goes as planned — but you have your tools. For example, the gym for stress relief when something goes left. Kink play is the same. You might get caught off guard at some points and let out a nervous laugh. That’s okay. As long as you feel safe and respected.”Mayfair’s List:Manage expectations: you aren't likely to be ready for a thirty-minute whip scene right awayYou aren't the only ones playing, prepare to hear others and to not be too disruptive. (ball gags can help)Arousal can happen, if it wasn't pre-discussed leave it alone for now.Kuldrin’s List:Properly preparing for play: education, practice, “clean out”, …Become comfortable with the grunts, groans, moans, squeals, and “bodily noises”...they're all going to happenFrenzy can be embarrassing. Especially when everyone else sees you in the midst of it and you don’t recognize it.Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/445National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month):- Pro Producer ($100/month):- Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, PerfectlyThick, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, Thorn, and Iamar Kinhawk- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, and Unassuming_dude- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and MegVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist- Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)- Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeachesContact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: 9/04/2022 / Published: 4/6/2023 - You can text in your question at 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this week’s episode we are talking about erotic blueprints and the ups and downs of each one of them.. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Split Peaches and The Dungeon Stores Brittany-S04E43”https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeacheshttps://thedungeonstore.com/ Ten Licks:How long have been into Kink?Top, bottom, or switch?Relationship Status?Favorite Position?Favorite Implement?Favorite Roleplay?Favorite kink or fetish?Favorite place for kink?Strangest Place you've had sex?Something you want to try?What is the Dungeon Store?What is Split Peaches?Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/443National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers: Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, and Thorn- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, Officer Davis, and Unassuming_dude.- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg,Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)- Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: 10/02/2022 / Published: //2023- Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this week’s episode we are talking about Top Guilt and how it affects Dom/Top Drop- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Top Guilt and how it affects Dom Drop-S04E44”Red guilt:Marking guilt:Accident guilt: Newbie guilt:Religious guilt:Madonna/whore guilt:General guilt:Educating yourself as much can help prevent landmines.Self-exploration:Partnered Exploration:Negotiation:Communication, starting low and going slow:Dom/Top Guilt Defined: feelings of remorse, regret, and/or empathy felt by Doms and Tops after a scene due to the effects of the scene, whether positive or negative, on the submissive or bottom. It can also be caused by intentional or unintentional shaming. (i.e. you could have hit harder (unintentional), I thought you were a Dominant (intentional), etc)Who experiences Dom/Top guilt?:Why does Dom/Top guilt occur?:Types of Dom/Top guilt:Dealing with Dom/Top guilt:Preventing Dom/Top Guilt:Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/444National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers: Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift: Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month):- Pro Producer ($100/month):- Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, PerfectlyThick, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, Thorn, and Iamar Kinhawk- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon,Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, and Unassuming_dude- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and MegVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)- Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Published: Feb. 28, 2023I am having to take a small break while recovering from cervical spine surgery but we will be back to publishing sometime in the next few weeks. The show is NOT ending. I still have 11 unpublished episodes that I am editing for the podcast feed and new live episodes are recorded via YouTube on the first and third Sundays of every month. The show starts at 3pm est. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/YouTubeWith that said, there may or may not be a live show on March 5th, 2023, due to surgery recovery. I will have to see how I feel the day of and make the call on the fly. If you go to my YouTube channel through the link above and subscribe and follow the channel be sure to turn on the notification so you will know when we are live.As always, a HUGE THANK YOU to all of our producers and everyone that listens to the show!

Recorded: 9/04/2022 / Published: 2/18/2023Text in your question at 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.In this week’s episode we are talking about erotic blueprints and the ups and downs of each one of them..Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Your Erotic Blueprint-S04E42”https://camillestyles.com/wellness/erotic-blueprint/What is an Erotic Blueprint?Conceptualized and trademarked by Miss Jaiya (https://missjaiya.com/), it is a method that helps explain your sexual preferences, needs, and desires. Together, the Five Erotic Blueprints™ give couples and singles a menu of how turn-on works in your body, how you can please your partner and ask for what you want, and how to expand your definition of “sex” into a whole new world of play and erotic possibilities.What is a shadow? What are the shadow sides of each type?What are the types and what are their shadows?Energetic TypesEnergetic Types Shadow:Sensual TypesSensual Types Shadow:Sexual TypesSexual Types Shadow:Kinky TypesKinky Types Shadow:Shapeshifter TypesShapeshifter Types Shadow: How can you learn your erotic blueprint?Take the quiz! https://bit.ly/yesannemore_Quiz Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/442National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, and Thorn- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, Officer Davis, and Unassuming_dude.- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg,Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: 7/17/2022 / Published: 2/13/2023 Text questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this week’s episode we are having some fun and talking about the joined by Dan and Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast to learn about BDSM rituals. Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“BDSM Rituals with Erotic Awakening Podcast-S04E40”https://www.eroticawakening.com/Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/440National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 - Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, and Thorn- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, Officer Davis and Unassuming_dude.- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg,Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)- Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: 7/17/2022 / Published: 02/03/2023Text questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode we are having some fun and talking about the weird, bizarre, and nasty things that happen during sex. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “The Nasty Parts of Sex-S04E39”https://www.buzzfeed.com/daniellaemanuel/terrible-parts-sex?fbclid=IwAR2u8kbBY7AmQ45AMtQmw2N9jCAGQ0z3otnK1Umi6cJoHo7fGsnMfw3HbUEhttps://www.buzzfeed.com/daniellaemanuel/people-awful-sex?d_id=4742279&ref=bffbsoml&utm_source=dynamic&utm_campaign=bffbsoml&fbclid=IwAR1LvTjjmi0kNstqOKewdZmP7tUHLaTilIFjIncrZPBvLqwAbWY9H3fxT0Y Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/439National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, and Thorn- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, Officer Davis and Unassuming_dude.- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg,Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)- Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: 7/17/2022 / Published: 01/25/2023Text questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.In this week’s episode we are talking about Praise Kinks and Breeding Fetishes.Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “How to Explore a Praise Kink, According to Sex Experts-S04E38”By: Hendy Phillips, June 21, 2022https://www.popsugar.com/love/praise-kink-48857696“What is a Praise Kink:ll, student, daddy, baby, teacher, pet, term of endearment, sub, dom, etc.].- You're so good at [insert skill].- I'm so lucky to have you. I know everyone wants a _______ just like you.- You look so hot when you [insert activity].- I can't wait to show you off.- You look so good in that [insert item of clothing/fetish wear].- Your [insert body part] is irresistible.- You taste so good. I can't get enough of you.- You're doing amazing — I'm so proud of you.- Praise Kink Tips:Breeding Kink…WTF?https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-news/elon-musk-nick-cannon-breeding-kink-1382676/amp/?fbclid=IwAR1Cuyfoyfb_KOA6agVNMG_a3BJRqfGVEuKFwfrST-llixaolz3xc7dJe4g“A breeding kink is a sexual desire to impregnate as many people as possible for reasons related to power, control, or even in some cases eugenics; an impulse shared by such illustrious luminaries as Jeffrey Epstein and Donald Cline, the Indianapolis fertility doctor featured in Netflix’s Our Father who inseminated dozens of women without their consent over the course of decades. (He later pleaded guilty to two felony counts of obstruction of justice related to the investigation, receiving a one-year suspended sentence.)”Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/438National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers: Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month):- Pro Producer ($100/month):- Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, SirSilverWolf, and Thorn- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, Officer Davis and Unassuming_dude.- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg,Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist- Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin

Recorded: 7/3/2022 / Published: 01/18/2023 Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this week’s episode, we are talking about new relationship energy. Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“New Relationship Energy-S04E37”What is NRE?the strong emotional, physical, and sexual response you have towards someone when you are in a new relationship with them. NRE is most often thought about with a new partner. However, NRE can be the result of a new friendship, job, vehicle, video game, pet, or basically anything new that enters into a person’s life. How long does it last?It starts from the initial attraction and can last anywhere from three months to two years.What causes NRE?The new relationship causes changes in brain signals that cause an immense rush of hormones, particularly adrenaline and oxytocin. After an unknown time period, habituation kicks in and our brain chemistry will return to what it was prior to the hormone rush.Is it dangerous?In short, yes. First, it causes a person to act in a way they normally would not act. Often this is compared to the way addicts behave. Second, when it is a bad case of NRE, it tends to create exceptionally unhealthy and very codependent relationships.Finally, a large number of people become addicted to NRE and will constantly jump from one relationship to another. Often this is not done with ethics and people are hurt in the process.Can it be avoided?No. However, the level of NRE a person gives into can absolutely be minimized through communication with loved ones, self-awareness, not rushing things, not forgetting about other things you love, forcing yourself to maintain your hobbies, and setting boundaries within the new and preexisting relationships. Dealing with the aftermath:There are two groups of people that have to deal with NRE aftermath the person that experienced it and the people they’ve hurt.The person that experienced NRE:Accept responsibility for your actions.Atone within reason. (While you may have hurt people spending the rest of your life making up for it is typically not the way to go for anyone involved. Sometimes, people are unable to get over being hurt. When this is the case, a mature and friendly conversation about ending the relationship is typically best for all involved. With this said, this is not a decision that should be made quickly. I believe that people should work together to either improve their relationship or earn their way out by doing everything possible to make it work and reach a place of forgiveness and health. Therapy, including relationship therapy, is typically part of that process.The people caught in the wake of NRE:Try your best to be understanding toward the situation while also being true to yourself. If you have done the work and you know that forgiveness and moving forward is not a possibility then don’t punish yourself by punishing them. Have that mature and friendly conversation about how to end the relationship.Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/437National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 - Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, SirSilverWolf, and Thorn- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, and Officer Davis- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, Meg, and Unassuming_dudeVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)- Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: 6/5/2022 / Published: 1/10/2023Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this week’s episode, we are talking about moving to a new community and how to deal with the kink politic of the new community and stay to the end because there are going to be big changes coming to the podcast…so, we are going to talk about those. Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“Moving to a New Community? Playing with a friend?-S04E36”If possible, prepare early by visiting before you move. At least watch the groups in the area to see which ones are active and what the mood and tone of the groups are. After you have a pretty good idea about which ones you’d like to get involved with reach out to the leaders or active members and let them know you are moving to the area, ask about their vetting processes, and simply gather information. Just don’t send them a book of questions. Be respectful of their time.No matter how well known or respected you are in the old community, chances are the new one won't care and will be wary of you. Don't be offended, they are being protective of their group.Rule #1A: Be respectfulRule #1B: Be honestRule #2: Do not frenzy Rule #3: Do not name drop. Offer to give ways to vette you but DO NOT name names until asked unless you enjoy making yourself look like an arrogant and pompous ass…especially if your inner circle are truly well-known people within the greater BDSM community. …And on that, as one of those decently well know people, most of us absolutely respond to messages about vetting someone. I have personally had name-dropped several times by people I’ve never heard of. I’m flattered that someone would think that doing that would get them an auto pass but absolutely does not. BE HONEST!Rule #4 Be yourself. Putting on a front is a huge turn off and only a narcissist would believe they could keep the front up forever. If you’re a nerd, a geek, a “little off”, strange, weird, or whatever just be you. I have troubles because I have a really off sense of humor. Most see it as sarcasm, arrogance, cockiness, or that I’m simply just an asshole or dick. Those that get to know me understand that I am just “a little different”.The ones that take the time to get to know me become my tribe and everyone else just isn’t for me…and that is OK! Not everyone likes you!Rule #5: Do not be too quick to judge…about anything. Playing with someone new that you’re friends with.Since you already know the person you may feel more or less nervous about asking for a scene. You may think that maybe you won’t need to talk through as many negotiations since you know their style already but really it will be just as important, if not more important, with someone you already know since you may assume they know things but they don’t. Things to consider:What does your partner (if you have one or more) think about the idea of you playing with the friendDo they have other partners who might need to be contacted first?Are they someone whose friendship is strong enough to stand if something goes wrong? Things happen sometimes no matter how prepared we are and if the friendship bond isn’t strong you could lose a friend. Is their style one you enjoy from what you have observed? (Do they like more stingy things than you do, are they more about sensual play than you, etc.)Sex. Is it on the table in any manner? It can change friendships dramatically. Even if it is sexual touching or energy it can make things weird between friends if not planned or at least discussed.Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/436National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month): Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and SargeSr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and AK-47Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily, SirBNice, Neil, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ RecifeJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and MegVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt