Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Before anything else, let me put this out here, THIS episode talks about BULLYING in the office space and losing yourself in the process because the BULLIES made you believe that you’re supposed to take it all in.Last week, we talked about how to succeed in life and get THE dream job. Today, we will focus on WHY it’s okay to ditch your dream job when it’s making you miserable and unhappy. I started Daddy Issues because I was bullied and even though this alter ego is a completely different person, she is happy. She conquered her world and she thrived in the social circles she wanted to be a part of. So yes, Bestie! You can do it even if others think you can’t. Believe in what YOU can do!Follow me on:InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! We got another 2-part Solo episode. This time though, we will talk about serious stuff, like life lessons, getting a job, and having a career. Surprise! Surprise!High school didn’t have any notable academic achievements but I did have a degree in Accounting and studied business law undergrad. Why am I talking about this? Well, the LIFE LESSONS I’m going to talk about is to show you how a high school underachiever got an internship with the District Attorney’s office, got a new job position created in an accounting firm, and got to compete with overly qualified men for a promotion. You gotta work that ass, bestie!As my Dad had said to an 11-year-old Violet, “All you will have is your education and your career. So you better think smart and you better start now!”What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction02:40 Sometimes, it’s really nice to feel appreciated03:46 I was invited to a Coachella private party 06:43 This is my theory about short men…08:54 On to more celebrity news12:31 Let me tell you about this British guy16:33 That’s how bad I was in school24:23 Lesson #1: How to get a YES30:16 Lesson #2: When you hear a NO, find a way to get a YES36:39 Lesson #3: How do you perfect an interview?43:06 Lesson #4: How do you get a promotionFollow me on:InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

After the steamy 2-part episode with Dr. Emily Morse, let’s pivot a little bit and talk about life updates! Let’s talk serious, adulting stuff!So, I start the episode with finally answering why I had to leave behind TOO TIRED TO BE CRAZY for a new podcast name, the personal issues I had to address with my Daddy Issues persona, convo with my mom, and exciting DEALS and PROMOS in the podcast for you guys!Follow me on:InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's time for PART 2, b*tches! :) We ended Part 1 with how to give your man a good head and the #1 Oral Method to make a girl cum. Now listen up as Emily shows me the best way to find the REAL G-Spot. We end the episode with tips to not c*m too fast, hilarious fan sex stories and how I ended up in the ER after fingering gone wrong.Connect with Dr. Emily Morse:WebsiteInstagramSex with Emily PodcastConnect with me on:InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

From getting your taco licked to c*mming EVERY time, this week’s episode is SO good, I’m giving you TWO parts. Welcome to part 1 besties :)I begin the episode with Benny Blanco & lil dicky’s party, why it’s not cool to be a mean girl, and how to have a better week with my Better w/ Benson segment.I then have Renowned sex therapist Emily Morse join us to teach you how to cum over and over again, so take out your notepad and get ready to take some notes. We discuss how to, love your body and vageen, get your man to go down on you, tips for giving a wifey blowie, facts vs myths about sex, the #1 ORAL METHOD THAT WILL MAKE YOUR GIRL CUM EVERY TIME, and more!!!TUNE IN NEXT WEEK FOR PT. 2!!! And don’t forget to leave a 5 star review to win $5 this week ONLY!Connect with Dr. Emily Morse:WebsiteInstagramSex with Emily PodcastConnect with me on:InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Women have been struggling with weight shaming and adapting body positivity because of the misconception that there is only one body type that’s perfect. Truth is, women are built differently and we all need to learn how to appreciate the body we have and wear it with utmost confidence! Today, we welcome Remi Bader. Remi went viral in 2020 for posting realistic trys and hauls that I used to watch, and they were hilarious, where she basically showed the reality of buying clothes online when you don't have the same body type as the models on the website. Since taking over TikToK, Remi has made a name for herself in the fashion world, and even just signed with Victoria's Secret Pink as a brand ambassador and size consultant. What to Listen For:00:52 Everyone knows everything02:07 Getting started on TikTok04:51 A good brand with a variety of sizing08:14 Losing weight and getting a backlash11:14 Built big doesn’t mean you always support body positivity17:38 Dealing with hateful comments18:58 How did the Victoria Secret deal happen?23:21 When did you start loving your body?24:43 Confidence in the bedroom and intimate moments27:20 Parents need to learn when not to say anything30:11 Funny guys are easier to talk with31:08 Future plans and projects32:20 Do people get your sense of humor? Connect with Remi Bader:InstagramTikTokConnect with me on:InstagramTwitterFacebookSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sex therapist / author / friend of the podcast EMILY MORSE returns to answer all of Violet's hard hitting questions LIKE: Do some guys cause UTIs? How do you awaken your vulva? Is not giving oral a deal breaker? Can anyone become a deep-throater? How do you reduce your gag reflex? Should you taste yourself before sex? AND How many orgasms can you have in one sitting??? Check out my amazing sponsors! Honey: Get Honey for free today at www.JoinHoney.com/violet  Better Help: Get 10% off your first month with the discount code "TOOTIRED" - Get started today at www.betterhelp.com/tootired  Candid: Save $76 on Candid’s starter kit at www.candidco.com/violet - and use code VIOLET!   See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The advice I wish I got years ago… This hour will change your perspective baddies, I guarantee it.  Stop getting trapped in your own prisons, learn how to KNOW yourself, KNOW your partner, and make the right changes to start your new life chapter. Author and Therapist, Lori Gottlieb joins me this week with the most life changing adviced we ALL needed to hear. It's time to transform into the NEW YOU.  To learn more about Lori: https://lorigottlieb.com/  Click Here To Text me Your Podcast Question! OR just text me “Question” to my number (310) 510-6643 and I’ll get back to you! This episode is brought to you by this week's sponsors: Uncommon Goods: www.uncommongoods.com/violet?  Find your true zodiac sign and take my quiz! CLICK HERE  Thank you for listening!!! Don't forget to subscribe, give me a 5 star review, and follow the podcast @tootiredtobecrazy on IG :)  See you next Thursday Baddies! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever wonder why you're SO bad at dating? you're not alone. We ALL are and on this episode we reveal why. Joined by human connection specialist, Mark Groves, Violet goes DEEP into the psychology of human behavior and relationships. This week we're going on an in-depth analysis unpacking as to why we do the things we do while in love and while looking for love. Don’t worry, it’s been scientifically proven that love is basically a drug - so remember that stupid thing you did for your awful ex? It wasn’t your fault…you were under the influence! Even Beyonce's been Drunk In Love. Mark also elaborates on the various attachment styles we nurture from young ages and how they carry into our adult lives. Try not to get in your feels too much, and you have to PROMISE you won’t text your ex after this. You’re too tired to be crazy anyway! CHECK OUT MY SPONSORS FROM TODAY'S EP: Billie Razors: It’s just $9 to get your starter kit PLUS FREE shipping at MyBillie.com/tootired Headspace: For a free one month trial go to Headspace.com/tootired European Wax Center: Visit waxcenter.com and book your reservation today — your first wax is free! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Find your true zodiac sign and take my quiz! CLICK HERE  Click Here To Text Me Your Podcast Question! OR just text me “Question” to my number (310) 510-6643 and I’ll get back to you! This is part two of my two part episode with the beautiful Stallone Sisters, Sistine and Sophia! We continue talking about who I liiiikkee right now and can’t stop thinking about, we also talk about who Sistine and Sophia are dating, plus a discussion on our zodiac signs, and why it's SO important to know everyone's love language, including your family. Thank you for listening and if you want to support the podcast, this episode was brought to you by Uncommon Goods: www.uncommongoods.com/violet Don't forget to subscribe and follow on @tootiredtobecrazy on IG :) See you next Thursday Baddies! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.