Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Hey Besties! Welcome back to another Benson Knows Best Q&A session. What would you do if you were ghosted by the person you thought was into you?Today, Violetta discusses how clinging to one another is an important part of intimacy, but only if it's a two-way street, the importance of self-awareness in relationships and how our reactions can impact their outcome, and why you need to raise your standards and not settle for being valued solely for your looks.If you want to be featured on the next Benson Knows Best episode and call in to have a live conversation with Violetta, send a DM now!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:03 Exciting updates!03:36 This is what happened in my recent trip14:34 Is it wrong to be clingy?18:39 We don’t have a label22:41 He ghosted you and then he comes backGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Why is talking about sex in the early stages of dating such a challenge? Could it be the fear of rejection or judgment? Or maybe it's those pesky societal norms telling us to keep things hush-hush.  Today on Almost Adulting, sex and relationships therapist Todd Baratz is back! Violetta and Todd explores the ways to break down societal norms and overcome the shame associated with sex, practical tips for having open and comfortable conversations about sex with potential partners, how pornography and media influences our views about sex, and offers insights on navigating this sensitive topic with your partner. If you're ready to take your sexual relationships to the next level, don't miss out on the latest insights and expert advice!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm BABBEL - Visit www.babbel.com/ Promo Code: ADULTINGPROVINCETOWN - Check out www.ptowntourism.com SHOPIFY - Visit www.shopify.com/adulting CARE.COM - Check out www.care.com/pets What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:55 I went to this event last night…04:18 Do not be too bothered by the society’s standards06:05 How do you get past s*xual shame?07:35 Why is it difficult to have initial conversations about s*x?13:04 Should you disclose your s*xual history to your current partner?15:44 Have conversations about your expectations right at the beginning23:25 Sexual chemistry versus attraction26:07 How do you bring back attraction?33:57 How movies and p*rn have influenced our views about s*x37:16 Fact: Not everyone can org*sm42:24 Do you expect your partner to not watch p*rn?46:45 When is watching p*rn considered detrimental?52:32 When should you discuss kinks?54:17 How soon should you open up about having a child?57:57 How necessary is your kink for you?01:00:16 Expressing discomfort about kinks isn’t offensive01:02:56 Skills is a skill you constantly practice01:07:04 The relationship you have with yourself in s*xual relationshipsConnect with Todd on:https://www.instagram.com/yourdiagnonsense/https://www.facebook.com/yourdiagnonsense/https://www.tiktok.com/@yourdiagnonsensehttps://www.toddsbaratz.com/Your Diagnonsense PodcastGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER!This week, we are going to feature bad, worse, and funny s*x stories. And since we couldn’t get enough of the revelations and teas spilled last Thursday, Francesca Farago is joining us again today!  Join Violet and Francesca as they react to fan stories about getting infection over a forgotten tampon, from getting embarrassed over v*ginal farts to getting horrified over your partner accidentally sh*tting on the bed, and finding out that pushy guy you dated was actually a gay p*rn star. Listen in to find out how these stories played out!If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner call Violet at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm BABBEL - Visit www.babbel.com/ Promo Code: ADULTINGPROVINCETOWN - Check out www.ptowntourism.comSHOPIFY - Visit www.shopify.com/adultingCARE.COM - Check out www.care.com/petsWhat to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:08 Story #1: Queefing and sh*tting on the bed10:34 Story #2: It’s the size of a pinky18:56 Story #3: Turns out he was a gay p*rn star23:48 Story #4: I thought I lost my nuva ring27:26 Story #5: The forgotten tampon39:09 He booked another girl in the next roomGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! We’re finally done with the love month where we sat down with known personalities and influencers in the dating and relationship realm as they shared tips, guides, and signs to look out for with your next partner.  Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome model, content creator, businesswoman, and reality TV show Francesca Farago. Violetta and Francesca bares all by talking about Francesca’s truth and how she was portrayed as the ‘villain’, the conflicting relationships that stirred negative reactions from the viewers, and what really happened behind-the-scenes of the hit TV show Too Hot to Handle. More tea is about to spill to stay tuned to find out more!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:32 Are reality shows heavily edited?02:27 On and off relationship05:20 Mental health issues in reality shows06:45 What are commonly asked questions?09:17 Why was I lied to?11:17 The secret big player on the show16:24 Relationship with Dom27:41 What’s one thing you wish you didn’t do on the show?30:12 “I thought we were on better terms…”32:25 I used to drink heavily35:21 The Kissing Challenge36:56 Too much honesty can be negative sometimes40:31 What's up with Damian?42:28 Watching you and your ex45:12 It wasn’t just for me51:47 Taking care of your mental health54:37 Are you friends now?59:46 “I’m actually really nice.”01:01:03 What are you currently working on?Connect with Francesca on:InstagramYouTubeTikTokFarago the LabelGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to another episode of Benson Knows Best!This week, due to public demand, we’re going to be sharing a few top Hollywood secrets you’d never find out through the media. The keyword being top secret, no name dropping anything. Just facts that are common in the industry but not open to the public.Today, Violetta sits down to answer questions you guys sent in. She’ll start with 8 Hollywood secrets that are so shocking you’ll start to wonder how they were able to keep them hidden from the radar of the public eye. She answers a few more questions about keeping your emotions in check and more tips on how to harmlessly flirt with a guy and get him getting interested in you. Interested to know more Hollywood secrets? Tune in and be the first to know! Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction05:17 Question #1: 8 best kept secrets in Hollywood21:58 Unknown facts about me 29:31 Question #2: How do I not become a bitter person?36:47 Question #3: How can you make a guy chase you? Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Love month is almost over. And as we come close to the end of February, let’s wrap it up with self love!Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome body confidence advocate, speaker, writer, and host of The Papaya Podcast, Sarah Landry. Violetta and Sarah focus on self-love as an essential aspect of our emotional, mental, and physical well-being. They share their thoughts on how we can develop a positive self-image, improve our relationships with others, and reduce stress and anxiety by cultivating self-love. Rebuilding self-confidence can be challenging but taking small steps such as practicing self-compassion, setting realistic goals, and celebrating small accomplishments can help us regain a sense of empowerment and self-assurance. Listen in because it’s never too late to start loving yourself more!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm LUME: Visit www.lumedeodorant.com and get 5% off of a Lume Starter Pack using the code: ADULTINGTUSHY: Visit www.helotushy.com/ADULTING and get a 10% off of your orderZOCDOC: Check out www.zocdoc.com/adultingWhat to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:07 What was your original last name?03:37 Self love before anything else06:57 Physical manifestation of anxiety11:15 We have to listen to others as well13:46 Losing 100lbs19:09 A woman’s body changes throughout her life27:31 Body insecurities31:51 Love is an action34:03 Your body is majestic39:40 S*xless pregnancy44:54 There wasn’t a lot of thinking about ‘me’46:07 You can’t build the same house again49:20 Your partner as your best friend56:04 It’s okay to ask for help01:00:02 Divorce is always on the table01:02:17 The biggest lessons learned01:05:19 Childhood dream01:11:00 Learn to love yourself while loving someone elseConnect with Sarah on:The Birds PapayaThe Papaya PodcastInstagramGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER - PART 3Hey Besties! this month's confession corner is all about your WORST first dates! We couldn’t get enough of last week’s drunken first date stories about hilarious, shocking, or just the worst ever you’re starting to have second thoughts about dating. Today, Violetta and her childhood friend Bree are back with another batch of horrible date stories. One includes giving the guy multiple chances despite the barrage of red flags in the hopes that it will somehow ‘get better’ in the end. The other ended up getting ditched for another girl in the bar. Listen up as the girls pitch in their own stories of worst first dates and some pieces of advice on how not to end up with a bad date!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm LUME: Visit www.lumedeodorant.com and get 5% off of a Lume Starter Pack using the code: ADULTINGTUSHY: Visit www.helotushy.com/ADULTING and get a 10% off of your orderZOCDOC: Check out www.zocdoc.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:24 Hoping for a better date until the end06:37 One time I had a bad date…11:28 We dated for 48 hours14:56 He was a virgin24:54 What it means when they say, “You’re so high maintenance?”29:33 Sexual dancing with another girl33:57 Do FaceTime before you date44:54 Average boyfriend penis is for marriage50:54 Stay away from s*x workers onlineGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Happy Heart’s Day! It’s Valentine’s week so it’s only natural that we talk about being in love and experiencing these strong feelings with the right partner.  Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome back celebrity heartthrob, best-selling author, esteemed host of The Viall Files podcast, and adored member of Bachelor Nation, Nick Viall. A year ago or so, Violet and Nick talked about dating advice from a man's perspective. This time, their conversation revolves around growing in love instead of staying in love, the value of being consistent throughout the relationship which people don’t talk about a lot, how trust and open communication, despite sounding cliché, is the ultimate key to a lasting love! All these and of course making each other a priority works too! So listen in to find out more simple yet realistic love advice!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm HONEYLOVE: Visit www.honeylove.com and use code: ADULTINGWhat to Listen For:00:00 Introduction02:09 The love story05:43 Try to make it work07:41 Those times we felt the most09:20 What did she DM?11:35 Feeling unsure 14:37 Building emotional connection19:11 Feelings change22:30 Making each other a priority26:17 Growing in love28:23 Trust and communication35:24 Do you want a life partner?38:11 Situationship 40:19 Meet and greet with family & friends42:15 Grocery store rule44:31 The biggest red flag47:44 I like you, BUT…52:25 Choose your partner everyday56:17 Being cheated on01:00:55 Be an old school lover  Connect with Nick on:InstagramYouTubeTikTokThe Viall FilesDon't Text Your Ex Happy BirthdayGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER - PART 2Hey Besties! this month's confession corner is all about your WORST first dates where you call in with YOUR hilarious stories - Today, Violetta and her childhood friend Bree sit down to listen to some of your horrible date stories. Specifically the ones that include a drunk and/or drugged story that ended up in a failed date and for some, an actual relationship. Listen as these two besties from high school give their best drunk perspectives while also catching up on their new techniques of ways that they masturbate.Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:0:00 Intro2:05 Bree got a Lexus in high school7:20 Bree loves sex11:20 Take a shot of 194211:49 Caller #117:22 Caller #220:08 Samantha from Sex and the City23:52 First time I ever masturbated25:23 Caller #326:40 Trip to Mexico30:10 Caller #438:00 How to Virgos show love42:00 EndingGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! In the second week of the LOVE month, we will focus on dating - when to know when you’ve found the right man for you.Today on Almost Adulting, Violet is once again joined by Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger. There is no stopping the two from going deep into the dating game. They discuss how success can affect the relationship depending on who’s more successful, turning casual dates into serious relationships (that can potentially lead to engagement, and eventually marriage), how a man’s attitude is dependent on whether he’s found the ‘right’ girl for him, the ups and downs that comes with dating, and so much more! Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm BABBEL: Go to www.babbel.com/ADULTINGPROVINCETOWN: Visit www.ptwontourism.com SHOPIFY: Visit www.shopify.com/ADULTING TALKSPACE: Go to www.talkspace.com code: ADULTINGWhat to Listen For:00:00 Introduction04:03 Securing the ring08:44 You own a home and you’re successful13:57 Cheating15:30 Casual to serious dating24:27 Don’t live together if you’re not engaged28:40 When he decides to marry you31:44 The switch34:54 Attachment style and love language40:29 The man is consistent, the boy is not45:36 They will be romantic for the right girl49:40 Men bond through emotions and consistency55:16 Not everyday is perfect59:01 Sex magic01:06:02 When you can’t see a future with someone01:08:50 A pair and a spare01:15:19 The motherly partner01:19:06 When you know you’re the deal01:21:07 A restart or a negotiation?01:25:59 Tips to better dating life Connect with Patti on:InstagramTwitterBooksMillionaire's ClubMatchmaker FragranceGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.