Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Hey, Besties! Welcome to another Confession Corner episode! Let's talk about something important – emotional neglect.  It's something many of us may have experienced without even realizing it. Emotional neglect happens when our feelings, needs, and emotions are consistently ignored or invalidated, leaving us feeling unheard and unseen. It can be tough, but remember, you are not alone in this.Violetta shares her personal story with her friend and how the act of opening up to that friend unplugged so many pent up emotion, highlighting the importance of talking about feelings and embracing vulnerability. We will explore the impact of taking accountability for everything and the power of vulnerability in strengthening our connections. Crying becomes a powerhouse tool for emotional healing as we validate our emotions. Plus, find reassurance that time heals all wounds and love will find you again. Get ready to embrace your emotions, love yourself fiercely.If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:24 Taking accountability to a fault06:38 How can you tell when someone cares?11:18 Channeling your anger onto the wrong things15:02 How can people learn to love you when you’re not letting them in?19:29 Adam from Reddit said: “Scientific facts imply that crying is actually healthy.”23:06 Do you still think about the ex that you left?Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Get ready for a transformative and heartwarming journey with your caring big sister, Violetta. In this empowering podcast episode, we'll explore the magical world of shadow work, where hidden thoughts and desires reside. Join us as we uncover the top three places to encounter your shadow self and learn how relationships serve as mirrors for personal growth. Embrace the power of self-awareness and engage in an inner dialogue to face your shadow with compassion and curiosity. We'll travel back to our childhood to understand the root of our shadows and explore the four most common patterns of childhood wounds. Through integration and acceptance, we'll celebrate our wholeness and emerge stronger, wiser, and more compassionate than ever before. So, cozy up, my lovely sisters, and embark on this empowering journey of self-discovery and growth. Your big sister is here to guide you every step of the way!WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm ZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:39 The shadow is where we keep our most hidden thoughts and desires02:06 What is shadow work?04:18 Top 3 places you will meet your shadow self09:47 There’s nothing worse than trying to work on yourself but people kept blaming you12:08 When we're dating people, we end up holding a mirror to ourselves 17:58 First step is to acknowledge the existence of the shadow 19:31 Second step is cultivate self awareness22:34 How do we bring our shadows to the surface?23:17 Third step is face your shadow and engage in an inner dialogue28:00 Fourth step is to do a childhood analysis and meet your inner child30:34 Four most common patterns of childhood wounds33:24 Fifth step is integrating the shadow and embracing compassion and acceptanceGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Surviving a break-in is like being catapulted into an action movie you never auditioned for. In that moment, time seems to stand still as you navigate a maze of emotions - fear, shock, and a newfound appreciation for every breath you take. It's like a wake-up call that shakes you to your core, reminding you of the fragility of life and the resilience that resides within you. Despite the chaos and uncertainty, surviving that harrowing experience empowers you like nothing else.Today, Violetta is going to share what transpired during her recent trip to St. Tropez. The energy is electric as she tries her best to get close to her newfound friends and then realizing that despite the initial connections, something feels off. From worse to worst, the house she had been staying with the group had been robbed! The realization hits like a tidal wave - the house had been robbed. But amidst the trauma and the missing personal belongings, there's a glimmer of gratitude. She's safe, unharmed, and reminded of the irreplaceable value of life.St. Tropez may have thrown unexpected twists her way, but she's determined to let this experience shape her into a woman who cherishes every moment, holds onto what truly matters, and never takes her safety and well-being for granted.If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm ZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:19 The seven of swords from the tarot card04:49 Meeting new girlies in St. Tropez05:35 And the gossip started08:40 She dropped her glass on my foot11:53 The girls I partied with last night think I hate them15:24 No one has power over you, except yourself17:50 The more I wanted to hang out with the girls, the more I was told to stay away from them19:01 I walked into the house, the alarm didn’t go off21:14 We found out there were two break-ins in the house24:54 No one asked if I was okay and I thought I didn’t get robbed29:29 I finally realized that I was robbed33:23 I learned a lot about myself during the St. Tropez trip Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Step into a world of dating wisdom, gorgeous! In this eye-opening and empowering episode, we're diving headfirst into the realm of relationships, self-discovery, and personal growth. Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of emotions as we navigate the complexities of love. Today, Violetta sits down with dating expert Anna Kai. Anna's insights transcend the conventional narratives surrounding dating and offer a deeper understanding of the barriers to authentic connections. With a keen eye for patterns and a compassionate approach, she sheds light on the common obstacles that prevent individuals from forging fulfilling relationships.From recognizing red flags and embracing our self-worth to understanding the importance of effective communication, this episode is a guidebook for the modern woman seeking fulfillment in her relationships. We'll delve into the power of intuition, the significance of relationship labels, and the transformative journey of healing from childhood trauma. Along the way, we'll share personal stories of heartbreak and growth, debunk myths surrounding singlehood, and empower you to embrace new beginnings.Get ready to rewrite the rules of dating, Besties, and step into a world of endless possibilities.    Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm SHOPIFY - Sign up for $1 per month trial period at www.shopify.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:48 The most common question you always get asked?04:05 We fight to make up not to break up05:31 Don’t ignore the red flags08:43 How do you stop being that girl that guys wanted to date but not commit to?11:52 Do you now like relationship labels?13:57 How would you know if someone is serious about you?17:16 5 things that can save you from ending up with the wrong guy18:26 All your friends and family hate him but you don’t see it20:03 Why do you keep other ‘platonic’ relationships around?22:32 Childhood trauma26:13 “Okay, I’m done chasing these guys.”28:44 You need to be dumped by the man you love to become the woman you deserved35:49 Leaving the man you love for the man you deserve43:03 Why do some women remain single?47:30 Every breakup is actually just the beginning of another chapter of your life52:41 He didn’t change, he just stopped pretending55:47 Why you should not accept his apology01:02:26 Every guy that dumped you, led you to the guy are with right now01:04:22 Best/worst advice you've gottenConnect with Anna on:https://www.instagram.com/maybeboth/https://www.tiktok.com/@itsmaybebothhttps://maybeboth.com/ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey, Besties! Today, we welcome back Farha Khalidi for part two of the conversation I had with her last week. Get ready for candid conversations, personal stories, and the sparks of intellectual curiosity as we delve into the realms of love, self-worth, and communication. From debunking misconceptions surrounding OnlyFans to exploring the complexities of dating in the digital age, this episode dives into various intriguing chapters. It celebrates the power of communication, challenges harmful ideologies, and delves into controversial topics such as the Red Pill movement and cannibalism laws. With personal stories, insightful discussions, and a touch of controversy, this episode empowers listeners to embrace their authenticity, honor their boundaries, and foster understanding in a world filled with assumptions and judgment. Get ready to be inspired, uplifted, and encouraged to unleash your inner warrior as we embark on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment.   Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm SHOPIFY - Sign up for $1 per month trial period at www.shopify.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:21 What is the most common assumption from people?02:54 What made you decide to wait?04:50 What does your virginity mean for you?15:26 Losing my virginity during high school20:16 TikTok and OF22:07 Misconceptions about OF26:34 Being a virgin and doing OF29:03 Would you date a guy who has slept with lots of women?31:08 Dating a guy chatting with a OF model33:53 Guys going to strip clubs35:19 How do you define p*rn addiction37:52 Do you have a good relationship with your parents?41:40 Would you lose your V-card for money?42:45 Red Pill movement48:23 Dealing with hate52:24 Do men have lizard brains?55:13 Did you know that cannibalism isn’t illegal in some states?56:22 Sharing of passwords01:03:08 They are not you, so communicate01:08:43 Sharing of locationConnect with Farha on:https://www.instagram.com/farhakhalidi/https://www.tiktok.com/@farhakhalidihttps://twitter.com/farha_farha_ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome, Besties, to an episode filled with thought-provoking discussions and empowering insights that'll leave you feeling empowered and ready to conquer the world. Introducing Farha Khalidi, a TikToker, comedian, and OnlyFans model known for her political comedy videos where she combines her comedic talents with a political edge to create content that challenges commonly held conservative beliefs.       First up, Violetta and Farha talk about her guest appearance on  popular manosphere podcasts such as the Whatever Podcast and Fresh&Fit where she fearlessly confronts the hosts' purportedly problematic and sexist viewpoints. The duo challenge the notion of basing our value solely on our bodies and encourage a holistic approach to self-acceptance and discuss the art of reading between the lines, trusting our intuition, and making informed decisions.     Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm TALKSPACE - To match with a licensed therapist today, go to www.talkspace.com/adultingWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro00:16 Red Pill community07:16 What made you join these podcasts?12:19 They are nicer on the show, period!14:05 How they think they can get women18:11 My ex just wants me to stay at home23:27 Get to know his mom27:40 Empathizing with their struggles29:32 The main purpose of the Whatever podcast32:53 Would you have sex without emotional attachment?38:53 Basing your value on your body41:09 Is the third date the default?45:03 Pay attention to the signsConnect with Farha on:https://www.instagram.com/farhakhalidi/https://www.tiktok.com/@farhakhalidihttps://twitter.com/farha_farha_ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Adelaide Kane, an Australian actress known for her roles in Reign and Grey's Anatomy, shares candid insights in this engaging conversation. She reveals a surprising fact about herself and dives into what brings her happiness right now. The duo discusses the challenges of egg freezing, shedding light on the often-ignored body changes that follow. They also explore the pros and cons of birth control and the emotional complexities tied to reproductive health. It's a heartfelt chat celebrating women's experiences and journeys!

Adelaide Kane, an Australian actress known for her roles in Teen Wolf and Grey's Anatomy, joins for a lively chat about love and self-care. They explore the balance between chasing dreams and savoring personal moments. Friendship evolves over time, and both share insights on the complexities of love languages. The discussion touches on coming out, online negativity, and the journey of embracing one's identity. With heartfelt stories and empowering messages, they emphasize trusting the journey and celebrating love in all its forms.

Hey there, Besties! For our last episode of the hookup month, let's dive into the bittersweet journey of letting go. We know, it can be extra tough to let go when you're caught up in the heat of the moment. Trust your instincts and know that you deserve a love that ignites passion and brings you joy. It's all about finding the courage to embrace your worth, celebrate your fabulous self, and create space for the unexpected. Violetta shares a story of loss and heartache, where we explore the raw vulnerability of sudden loss, to the emotional weight that comes when a family member falls ill. She also talks about the trap of comparison and helps you break free from that toxic cycle. Join us for a packed episode filled with helpful insights, self-love reminders, and positive vibes to leave you feeling unstoppable. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm SHOPIFY - Sign up for $1 per month trial period at www.shopify.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:52 Story of the day: He’s father suddenly passed13:37 Don’t sit there and blame yourself15:06 It takes a toll on you when a family member gets sick19:44 How you’re feeling about a situation is valid24:26 He just wasted your time28:47 With time, you’ll start comparing yourself to other peopleGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Your go to guide on how to survive the first 3 months of dating and turn it into a committed relationship!!What are the pros and cons of those thrilling first stages of dating? It's common to experience feelings of uncertainty, anxiety, and even fear of rejection. The pressure to make a good impression and the ambiguity of early intentions can also add to the mix. Well, let's take a closer look. Today, Violetta explores the mixed emotions that come with the exciting yet nerve-wracking journey of the beginning stages of dating. From the thrill of new connections to the underlying fears and insecurities, the common struggles of anxiety, doubt, seeking validation, withdrawal, and battling our own insecurities to the value of authentic connection, how it can lead to a fulfilling and lasting relationship, and challenging the perception of negative emotions and highlight their potential for growth and transformation.  Tune in to this enlightening episode as we navigate the ups and downs of dating, uncover the lessons that relationships teach us, and explore how vulnerability and communication can lead to authentic and thriving connections. WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/adultingETSY: Use code: NEW for 10% off of your first purchase. Visit https://www.etsy.com/KITSCH - Get 30% off of your order by visiting https://myKITSCh.com/adulting  What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:44 The beginning stages of dating is fun but also scary05:01 The biggest teachers are those who didn’t truly love us06:29 There’s no perfect partner, but a person who truly wants to be with you will stay08:53 We are the worst narrators of our own lives11:29 Pause and ask yourself, “Why am I reacting like this?”16:41 Instead of pushing your partner away, communicate19:08 Our reactions are hurting our partner as well24:59 Negative emotions can be helpful26:39 A healthy relationships happens when you show up for each otherGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.