Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Breakups are tough but moving on can be even more challenging. Today, Violetta offers insights on becoming the IT girl when it comes to dating, post-breakup ways to move on from someone (based on real life experience), and some handy ghosting tricks for future use. WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/Today’s Sponsor:Download Hinge and share your Dating Intentions to find someone worth deleting the app for. https://hinge.co/ What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:01 The best revenge is to move on05:40 How to be the It Girl?13:05 Ways to let go and move on19:02 Ghosting tricksGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesEpisode Sponsor:Download Hinge and share your Dating Intentions to find someone worth deleting the app for.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Have you considered the difference between what people want versus what they truly need in relationships, and how does this understanding impact your approach to forming connections? This introspective exploration can have a profound influence on how you approach building meaningful bonds. Today's guest is Fiachra "Figs" O'Sullivan. Figs is the creator of the Empathi method and the certification process for Empathi coaches. His life’s mission is to help couples feel more connected.Violetta and Figs unveil the impact of childhood experiences on your ability to love and how self-sabotaging patterns might be holding you back and decode your attachment style and learn how taking responsibility for your actions and emotions can transform your connections. Whether you're seeking self-growth or hoping to form healthier bonds, don't miss out on this empowering conversation that peels back the layers of love, relationships, and healing.   What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:14 Are you in a toxic relationship?04:15 What can we do about a toxic partner?06:23 When you’re in a threatened vulnerable state08:02 Are you in a system together?13:36 When in your reality your partner is hurting you16:14 How childhood experiences affect our ability to love17:56 Self-sabotaging patterns 19:49 The natural fear to fall in love23:31 Struggling to open up 25:25 Know what’s your attachment style29:18 Taking responsibility of our actions and emotions33:21 Both need to show up for each other36:28 Foster empathy for yourself and others42:31 The gray area on first dates47:36 Here’s what you should focus on when dating50:07 Finding healing through forming relationships55:31 What is a co-dependent relationship?01:00:48 Doing self work to not attract what you lack01:04:19 Glorification of people protecting themselves from getting hurt01:07:29 What people really need is not what they wantConnect with Figs on:https://empathi.com/ https://www.tiktok.com/@empathinow https://www.facebook.com/EmpathiNow/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnPbjlO6Q0KBXVHXeGyivlw https://www.instagram.com/empathinow/ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesEpisode Sponsors:Get $1.49 per meal by going to EveryPlate.com/podcast and entering code 49adultingProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever wondered about the hidden stories that weave the tapestry of human existence? Brace yourselves, because in this episode, we're peeling back the layers and delving into stories that challenge our perceptions, tug at our emotions, and remind us of the complexities that make us undeniably human.Today, Violetta is back with another batch of Reddit confessions. From sacrificing parental rights to confronting the aftermath of a child's devastating lie about assault, and even exploring the unexpected dynamics of sibling relationships, get ready to listen through emotions that are as intense as they are relatable and somehow insanely eye rolling. Get ready to be moved, captivated, and reminded that beneath the surface, we're all navigating our own stories that shape who we are.If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:43 Story #1: I was asked to give up my parental rights13:19 Story #2: A child lied about being assaulted by his mother’s boyfriend20:35 Story #3: My older brother and I were sleeping togetherGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesEpisode Sponsors:Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get $5 off your Starter Pack (that's up to 40% off) with promo code DULTING at lumedeoderant.com/ADULTING #lumepodFor a limited time, you'll get 50% off up to $10 on your next order of $15+ when you sign up for DashPass Student plan and enter code ADULTINGProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back, Besties! Have you ever wondered what lies behind the facade, the moments that define us beyond the spotlight? It's a natural curiosity to wonder about the authentic stories that unfold in the quieter corners of our lives. Beyond the glamorous exterior that we often project to the world, there are those raw, unfiltered moments that truly define who we are – the struggles, triumphs, and personal revelations that shape us in profound ways. Today, Violetta welcomes Sasha Pieterse - American actress, singer, and model who gained significant recognition for her role as Alison DiLaurentis on the popular TV series "Pretty Little Liars." The duo dive into an intimate conversation that's all about embracing authenticity, overcoming challenges, and finding strength within ourselves. They offer a rare glimpse into the dynamics of fame and authenticity, the art of gracefully handling criticism, and insights into building trust and finding strength amidst motherhood. Let's celebrate vulnerability, growth, and the power of communication. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:44 Most people don’t know about you04:53 Fulfilling moments in the industry06:35 When roles rub off on you in real life11:09 Do you miss Pretty Little Liars?13:16 Starting young in the industry15:58 Advice for your younger self?16:44 How do you handle criticism19:52 Diagnosed with PCOS26:59 Every woman had different needs30:48 Have people around you can trust31:57 Physically and mentally stronger as a mother36:13 You can’t be another person39:57 Your purpose should be what you love doing44:00 Remember people as a whole, not just the positives47:37 Talking is important even when it’s not fun Connect with Sasha on:https://www.youtube.com/@sashapieterse https://www.facebook.com/TheSashaPietersePage/ https://www.instagram.com/sashapieterse/ https://www.instagram.com/womeninthenudepodcast/ https://www.instagram.com/sashaingoodtaste/ https://www.tiktok.com/@sashapieterse https://www.threads.net/@sashapieterse Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesEpisode Sponsors:Treat yourself to the best shape wear on the market and save 20% Off at honeylove.com/adultingAs a listeners of this podcast, you'll get $80 off your first month with Talkspace when you go to Talkspace.com/adultingProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

And we're back! Hold onto your hats because we've got a whirlwind of exciting stories and insights to share with you in another Benson Knows Best episode.Violetta excitedly shares how she unexpectedly crossed paths with her 'future' husband just last weekend. But that's just the tip of the iceberg! And she's peeling back the layers of being a "placeholder" for someone else and learning how to read in between the pages and know your worth in your partner's future plans. Plus, men often categorize the women they meet. In what category do you fall under? Listen up and find out!WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:20 I ran into my future husband this past weekend09:19 What is one thing you will never do again?10:52 Men and women look for different things12:41 You’re just a placeholder20:19 Three categories men have for the women they met20:31 Where do I buy my clothes?Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

How often do we find ourselves tangled in misconceptions about love, and what impact does this have on our relationships? Could redefining our understanding of love lead us to more fulfilling and authentic connections? As we navigate this emotional landscape, Violetta is up for a candid conversation that dismantles these misconceptions and leads us toward a more profound understanding of love's essence. It's time to bid farewell to those who don't see our value and make space for the ones who do. Let's take a look into the practical steps to mend our wounded hearts and how fall in love with ourselves once again. Afterall, it's a journey of rediscovery, embracing our worth, and rekindling our self-love flame.  WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:11 A man’s interest only grows in time, not disappear05:12 The biggest mistake we make is the idea of love07:38 Close your door to someone who won’t love you10:21 We lie to ourselves and think they’re the right person13:14 Who hurts more after the breakup?16:12 How to get over a heartbreak?20:28 Why does heartbreak hurt so much?24:11 Fall in love with yourself againGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey there, gorgeous souls! Hold onto your seats as we unveil the raw and riveting stories for another Confession Corner. We're here to dish out the juiciest details and sizzling discussions.Violetta gets candid on the complexity of relationships and emotions with the intricacies of postpartum depression and its impact on a relationship, a confession involving sibling rivalry, perceptions, and the pursuit of fairness. But we're not stopping there! We're peeling back the layers on the intoxicating world of friendship and attraction and those moments that make your heart skip a beat. WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:01 Confession #1: I cheated on my wife while she had postpartum depression12:10 Confession #2: My sister Angela is obsessed with making me the bad person20:34 Confession #3: I ended having a crush with one of my guy friendsGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

As your go-to gal for all things fun and motivational, I'm sharing with you today the conversation I had with Hannah Berner in her podcast, Berning in Hell. In this episode, Hannah and I dive into the humorous world of pet allergies and discuss the empowered choice of not having s*x by choice. From navigating emotions around watching prn to the empowering journey of reclaiming virginity, we're here to embrace every aspect of ourselves! We'll share some vulnerable moments, from the impact of getting off birth control to potentially losing hearing, reminding us to stay resilient. And, of course, we'll talk about the power of laughter and funny skiing stories that'll leave us in stitches!  It's time to live our best lives, Besties – you're in for a treat!  If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro03:42 I’m so allergic to my cat…07:24 By choice, you’re not having s*x?14:56 Working on your people-pleasing habits18:05 When something bad happens, find the fun in it23:43 How does watching p*rn make you feel?26:40 Are you a v*rgin again?28:10 Why did you get off birth control?31:23 I could potentially lose hearing in left ear37:57 The happiest times in your life isn’t always about a milestone44:59 Let’s talk about some funny skiing stories   Connect with Hannah on:https://hannahberner.com/https://www.tiktok.com/@hannah_bernerhttps://www.instagram.com/hannahberner/Berning in Hell PodcastGiggly Squad PodcastGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back, Besties! It's a brand new Benson Knows Best episode. Get ready for exciting announcements and juicy discussions as we dive into some burning questions from you guys! In this episode, Violetta is keeping it real with a candid conversation about hormones that haven't gone back to normal, the complexities of love and relationships as we address some questions you guys sent including how to get over a guy friend you developed feelings for – trust me, we've all been there, a possible narcissistic prick, who keeps you around for their ego boost, and a break down of why some men treat us poorly and how to break free from that cycle of disappointment.WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:10 I have a few announcements04:09 Make sure to check in with your friends and family06:31 My hormones have not gone back to normal13:07 Question #1: How to get over a guy friend you developed feelings for?17:57 Question #2: Is he a narcissist prick who’s trying to keep me around to make him feel better?28:08 Question #3: I’m at a loss as to why men treat me so badly?Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome, lovely souls to an enchanting podcast episode filled with the captivating realms of manifesting and tarot card reading. From debunking misconceptions about manifesting to unlocking the secrets of a powerful practice, we'll delve into the art of embracing abundance and love in our lives.Today, Violetta is joined by Sarah Perl a.k.a. Hot High Priestess. Sarah is a tarot card reader, manifestation coach, TikToker, and an entrepreneur. The duo will show us how to properly manifest your desires and tap into your intuition while also exploring the mindset required for a fulfilling practice, the irresistible love letter method to make someone obsessed with you, and some laughter as they recount hilarious stories from their teen years.As they venture into the divine practice of tarot card reading, they will unveil the basic principles behind this mystical art and even conduct love readings for the fabulous listeners. With insights into breaking old patterns and the empowering whisper method, let's manifest our wildest dreams and unleash the magic within. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:23 How did you get into manifesting and tarot card reading?04:54 What's one thing you wish the people understood better when it came to manifesting?06:29 How do you manifest properly?07:54 How can you tap into your own intuition?13:28 What mindset do you need to be in before practicing manifestation?17:52 Walk around with an identity that would make people treat you better19:38 How do you get someone obsessed over you?23:29 What is the love letter method?24:33 Give them a chance to think about you28:17 Affirmations for the next 21 days to attract abundance in your life29:27 Funny story when I was 13 years old32:29 What are the basic principles behind tarot card reading?33:33 Let’s do love reading for the listeners39:58 Love reading for Violetta46:30 Is it working for you to repeat old patterns?47:18 What is the whisper method? Connect with Hot High Priestess on:https://www.youtube.com/c/HotHighPriestess https://www.instagram.com/hothighpriestess/ https://www.tiktok.com/@hothighpriestess Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.