Hey Besties! Guess what? Violetta just hit the big 3-5, and she's feeling fabulous! In today's episode, she's spilling all the tea about her unconventional birthday celebration. No Confession Corner or Benson Knows Best this time – it's all about Violetta and her epic birthday escapade.Picture this: a day at the Huntington Library with the parents, a series of unexpected hiccups, and a plot twist that turns everything around. Violetta shares the highs, the lows, and the heartwarming surprise from her ride-or-die friends. And because she's the queen of adulting, she decided to take her birthday off work. But did it turn into a serene day of self-reflection? Nope! The aftermath involved a serious ice cream marathon and some well-deserved beauty sleep. Living her best life? Absolutely!  Today’s Sponsors:Revolve - Revolve always delivers with free and fast two-day shipping and returns, so visit https://www.revolve.com/adulting to shop your favorites for all your upcoming plans this season.Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://www.shopify.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:02 Scorpios are the most underrated sign 04:34 Let me share how I spent my birthday07:22 My parents and I went to Huntington Library13:16 Gifts I got from my good friends20:09 Your birthday should be the day you are most relaxed21:33 I reached out to 12 of my favorite brands23:47 My father’s gift is my favorite of all26:08 Back to work mode a day after my birthday  30:19 By Friday, I slept and ate as much as I wantGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Ready to take a peek into the mysterious world of dreams? Violetta's got you covered in today's episode! From crazy coincidences to weird symbols, she's sharing her personal dream stories, including a surprise appearance by an estranged friend. Get ready for a wild ride as we break down the meanings behind those dreamy escapades.Ever wondered why you're dreaming about knives, houses, or even pregnancy? Violetta spills the tea on dream interpretation, giving you the lowdown on what your subconscious might be trying to tell you. And for those late-night rendezvous with an ex who broke your heart, she's got the insights on that too! It's dream analysis, Almost Adulting style – fun, enlightening, and, of course, a little bit cheeky. Don't miss out on unlocking the secrets of your slumber!  Today’s Sponsor:EveryPlate - Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.49 per meal by going to https://www.everyplate.com and enter the code 49ADULTINGClean Simple Eats - Visit https://cleansimpleeats.com/ and use code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first order.Skylight Frames - As a special, limited time offer for the listeners, get $15 off your purchase of a Skylight Frame when you go to https://www.skylightframe.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro00:38 Falling out with my BFF03:42 I dreamt about the end of the world10:02 What does your dream mean?13:09 Dreams about knives14:50 Other dreams and their meanings16:40 Dreams of being in a fight18:15 Different dreams about an ex loverGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Ready for another wild ride in the Confession Corner? Violetta's got the juiciest stories for you. Ever been on a date where you had to do some quick thinking, maybe tell a little white lie? Trust me, you're not alone! We're diving into those hilarious and awkward moments as they take unexpected turns. And, oh boy, get ready for some spice! We're talking about turning up the heat in the bedroom, and yes, it involves food. From a delightful encounter with key lime pie that leaves you questioning cleanliness to accidentally turning a passionate moment into a bit of a bloodbath – these stories are wild, unpredictable, and oh-so-relatable. You won't believe where these confessions lead, but one thing's for sure –  it's a rollercoaster of laughs and surprises. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsors:Lume - Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get $5 off off your Starter Pack (that’s over 40% off) with promo code ADULTING at https://lumedeodorant.com/ Nutrafol - Find out why over 4,000 healthcare professionals recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Visit https://nutrafol.com/ and use promo code ADULTINGUrban Outfitters - Shop https://www.urbanoutfitters.com/ and receive an additional 10% off when you use the code VIOLET10 at checkoutWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:59 Story #1: He cut himself while opening my window on our first date05:20 Story #2: Eating key lime pie from her p*ssy10:14 Story #3: I scrapped his d*ck with my nails while I was about to clim*x17:57 Story #4: I was broken up by him through his motherGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta sits down with her good friend Manon Mathews. You know her – comedian, actress, social media maven, and soon-to-be mom! When you put two girlfriends with a penchant for humor together, what do you get? Pure comedic gold and a whole lot of real talk.Manon spills the beans on everything, from those awkward moments of mispronouncing names to the origins of their middle names. And oh boy, we dive into the adventure of pregnancy – the lessons, the laughs, and the exciting future ahead. But it's not all giggles; Manon opens up about dealing with an ex who's basically a walking red flag, the rollercoaster of self-worth, and the importance of surrounding yourself with those who let you be your unapologetic self. Laughter, heartbreak, and life-altering decisions – this episode's got it all, and it's guaranteed to lift your spirits! WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/Today’s Sponsor:Shopify - Go to https://www.shopify.com/adulting now to grow your business - no matter what stage you're in. What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:02 Names easy to pronounce, middle name origin03:59 One of us is pregnant06:11 Favorite s*x position06:40 S*x can help in child delivery08:46 Who is Manon Mathews?09:52 “I manifested this interview.”14:26 How are you taking the pregnancy?19:00 Lessons learned from becoming pregnant21:30 What’s your zodiac?23:17 Unexpected complications25:21 Erewhon Shop   26:52 “He has accent? He must be my husband!”37:29 He has been an attention-seeker all this time43:13 Love bombing and red flags51:43 There are good men out there55:40 What’s motherhood for you?59:00 Do you feel like a burden now?01:05:59 Feeling like you don’t matter01:10:00 Sometimes people just need to be heard01:16:22 Being with friends you can be yourself01:20:09 “Don’t just do something, sit there.” - pun intendedConnect with Manon on:https://www.instagram.com/manonmathews https://www.facebook.com/manonLmathews/ https://www.tiktok.com/@manonmathews https://www.youtube.com/user/ManonMathews https://www.linkedin.com/in/manon-mathews-11a8bb81/ Funny How It Works Out Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Besties, let's talk real for a sec. Has social media thrown a wrench in the dating game? We're bombarded with models and influencers flaunting their 'perfect' lives, making a regular relationship seem like a unicorn. Today, Violetta is back with the latest Benson Knows Best episode – and trust me, you're in for a ride! From a DM-sliding dilemma to a tangled love triangle, and even a happily married gal crushing on a gym buddy – we've got it all. Tune in for the tea, the laughs, and maybe a reality check or two! If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsor:Clean Simple Eats - Visit https://cleansimpleeats.com/ and use code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off of your first order.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:58 The guy I’m seeing follows a lot of models and influencers on IG07:41 How to know if he’s pulling away to get your attention or he just doesn’t like you?11:00 Are crushes or attraction to other men even when I’m married normal?15:37 He would gaslight me into believing that I’m crazyGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Although Halloween is over, we are not done yet with the spooky feels. Today, we will talk about dreams - the good ones, scary ones, and even the weirdest story while having a dream. Violetta shares how men and women experience and interpret dreams differently, facts about dreams that you have not heard of yet, and why one shouldn’t take anything from the dream world especially when it's handed over by a dead person. There are even fascinating inventions made from recalling past dreams. Together, let’s find out which type of dream you have had recently. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsor:Skims - Believe the hype - SKIMS has over 100,000 five star reviews for a reason. Visit www.skims.com/ Doordash - That's 50% off up to $10 on your next order of $15+ when you sign up for the DashPass Student plan when you enter code ADULTING. Visit https://www.doordash.com/  What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:51 I saw my grandma in my dream 06:31 Dreams have more meaning than you think07:05 Men and women dream differently08:34 Random facts about dream11:54 First time I met my grandma in my dream15:11 Mind blowing facts about dreams17:16 More random facts about dreams20:14 Cool inventions derived from dreams20:54 Dreams that predict the future23:41 People known to sleepwalkGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! The juiciest, most jaw-dropping tales are about to unfold on the Almost Adulting podcast! In this episode, Violetta is sharing some of the wildest, most outrageous confessions she's ever come across. From office escapades with a ahem unconventional boss to movie dates gone hilariously wrong, these stories will leave you gasping, cringing, and laughing all at once. It's a rollercoaster of dating debacles and unexpected encounters that will have you both shocked and entertained. If you're in need of some spicy tales to brighten your day, tune in to this sizzling episode where nothing is off-limits, and prepare to be thoroughly entertained! If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/Today’s Sponsor:Talkspace - To match with a licensed therapist today, go to https://www.talkspace.com/adulting to get $80 off of your first month and show your support for the show.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:40 I hooked up with my creepy boss while he watches interracial p*rn09:57 I went on a date with a guy who didn’t pay for my movie ticket18:20 I met an ex-cult member who brings a bowling ball and I licked his butth*le22:31 I slept with a guy who went to prison for k*lling five peopleGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! It’s November and we’re going to start the month with the most requested topic - CHEATING. In this episode, Violetta dives into the intriguing and often complicated world of relationships. She kicks it off by uncovering some intriguing signs that might indicate he's cheating on you. From suspicious behaviors to gut feelings, Violetta explores the clues that can leave you questioning your partner's fidelity.It's a captivating exploration of the various factors, from emotional gaps to simple curiosity, that can lead people to make such complex and painful choices. If you've ever been curious about the intricacies of human relationships, the reasons people cheat, and how to spot the signs, this episode is your ultimate guide. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsor:Clean Simple Eats - Visit https://cleansimpleeats.com/ and use code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first order. What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:05 Signs he is cheating on you11:36 Why do people cheat?16:25 What happens when you cheat on someone?22:54 Don’t blame the other woman24:16 Why does the people who hurt us mean the most to us?Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Prepare to be shocked because Violetta is diving deep into a collection of jaw-dropping confessions from the depths of Reddit. From the shocking tale of catching a girlfriend in the act with a so-called "friend" (on their own bed, no less!) to the heart-wrenching confession of accidentally causing harm to a best friend's baby, Violetta's reactions will keep you on the edge of your seat.  But it's not all doom and gloom – she's got an eye-opening story of road rage that ended with a twist involving a savvy lawyer. Throughout this episode, you'll experience the full spectrum of human behavior, from the darkest moments to unexpected redemption. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsor:Nutrafol - Find out why over 4,000 healthcare professionals recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Visit https://nutrafol.com/ and use promo code ADULTINGShopify - Shopify is your no-excuse business partner. Sell without code or design. Just bring your best ideas and Shopify will help you open up a shop. Visit https://www.shopify.com/ What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:48 I caught my girlfriend scr*wing my friend on our bed13:29 I accidentally killed my best friend's baby16:50 I’m a victim of road rage and got myself a good lawyerGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Get ready for a delightful and insightful episode of Almost Adulting with Violetta Benson as she chats with the wonderful Tara Schuster! You'll be intrigued by the backstory of Tara's book title, "Buy The F*cking Lilies," and how it resonated with countless readers. They dive into the contents of the book, exploring chapters like "When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong." Tara candidly shares her journey, highlighting the challenges of writing about her relationship with her father, offering valuable insights on self-improvement and setting boundaries. You'll discover how vulnerability has played a vital role in Tara's ability to connect with people, and how active journaling can transform your life.Her revelations about the far-reaching impact of our actions on the world will leave you with a profound sense of responsibility and the understanding that we're not here to merely suffer but to learn how to savor every moment of life. Together, Violetta and Tara will inspire you to make the shift towards a positive and self-loving mindset. Tune in and soak up the positive vibes!   Today’s Sponsor:Quince - Get affordable luxury with Quince! Go to https://www.quince.com/adulting for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro03:10 The story behind Buy The F*cking Lilies book title07:27 Why did it resonate with a lot of people?10:38 Chapter: When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong14:08 The hardest chapter to write was the relationship with her dad18:59 If we want to change for the better, we can22:03 How can setting boundaries have a profound impact in your life?27:53 You have to make you love yourself31:37 How being vulnerable allowed you to connect with people35:39 Complication after egg retrieval procedure47:51 The benefits of active journaling56:46 Mindset shift towards self improvement01:05:20 Whatever you put out in the world affects everyone around you01:06:31 We aren’t here to suffer, we need learn how to enjoy life  Connect with Tara on:https://www.taraschuster.com/ https://www.instagram.com/taraschuster https://www.tiktok.com/@taraschuster https://twitter.com/taraschustar Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.