

Parenting The Adlerian Way
Alyson Schafer
Join internationally acclaimed parenting expert Alyson Schafer every Monday as she answers your parenting questions. Without judgement and backed with easily understandable theory and research, she’ll offer up actionable solutions you can implement immediately. Alyson puts the “sense" back into "common sense parenting" with her warm, inspiring and informed Adlerian approach. Alyson is the author of three best selling parenting books with HarperCollinsCanada including; “Breaking The Good Mom Myth” “Honey, I Wrecked The Kids” and Ain't Misbehavin’” and the go-to expert for national media outlets.Send Alyson your parenting question to alyson@alysonschafer.com with #AskAlyson in the subject line or to @alysonschafer on any of her social media platforms. Questions will be answered anonymously. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Jan 11, 2021 • 1h 3min
034: Guest Interview with Jamie Mason Cohen, author of “LIVE FROM YOUR CLASS: Everything I Learned About Teaching, I Learned from Working at SATURDAY NIGHT LIVE.”
Formerly of Saturday Night Live, and then applying his skills to teaching for 12 years, Jamie’s magical approach lead him to be the recipient of the TED Education-HuffPost International Teacher’s Award. Jamie and I discuss Adler and what handwriting reveals about the subconscious. Jamie also explains ways to nurture children’s creativity at home, as well as tips for teachers on how to make both zoom and in-classroom learning more engaging! Check out more about Jamie Mason Cohen below: Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/jamiemasoncohen Twitter @jamiemasoncohen YouTube: SATURDAY NIGHT LEADERS Virtual Workshop https://bit.ly/SATURDAYNIGHTLEADERS Jamie’s Virtual Speaker’s Reel https://bit.ly/JamieMasonCohenReel LIVE FROM YOUR CLASS #1 Amazon Best-selling Book https://bit.ly/LIVEFROMYOURCLASS Jamie’s Youtube Channel https://bit.ly/JamieMasonCohenYoutube Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dec 21, 2020 • 55min
033: Guest Interview with Dr Paul Rasmussen, author of “The Quest To Feel Good” discussing the Adlerian perspective on mental health and emotions, including; depression, anger and anxiety.
COVID has brought out a lot of mental health issues. I can’t wait to share Paul’s interview with you, so you can gain a new understanding about mental health and emotions from an Adlerian perspective. #GameChanger You can find Dr Rasmussen’s book The Quest To Feel Good here LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-r-rasmussen-ph-d-b4452146/ Emotional Health Initiative Website for the workplace and employee well being Rudolf Dreikurs Summer Institute: here Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dec 14, 2020 • 43min
032: Guest Interview with Jessica Lahey, author of “The Gift Of Failure. How the best parents learn to let go so their children can succeed.”
Former teacher and NYT best-selling author, Jess Lahey discusses her book and the research that supports the best way to motivate learning so children can truly excel. Turns out that our parenting, while good-intentioned, can interfere instead of enhance our children’s success. Learn why and what to do about it! You can follow Jess here: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-lahey-b815a366/ Twitter: @jesslahey FB: https://www.facebook.com/jessicapottslahey IG: @teacherlahey YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFJ5jb98nTWRKRPm1JS0i_g/featured And listen in on her own podcast #AmWriting, co-hosted with bestselling authors KJ Dell’Antonia and Sarina Bowen: https://amwriting.substack.com/ KJ: https://kjdellantonia.com/ Sarina: https://sarinabowen.com/ You can buy her book here And pre-order her latest book due for release in April 2021 here: The Addiction Inoculation: https://www.jessicalahey.com/the-addiction-inoculation Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dec 7, 2020 • 19min
031: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Q1. 5yr old refuses on-line learning Q2. Dealing with the emotions of a 12 yr girl Q3. Proper consequence for finding vape pen in grade 7’s bedroom Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Nov 30, 2020 • 46min
030: Guest Interview with Jane Nelsen the creator of “Positive Discipline” and “Positive Discipline Parenting Tools” and the spread of Adlerian training around the world.
Jane Nelsen is a fellow Adlerian who has not only created 16 parenting books, but her organization is training parent educators to teach Adlerian parenting all over the world and in staggeringly huge numbers! This dynamo is literally changing parenting around the globe and I was excited to hear more about her international training and how these concepts are received by other cultures. You can find out more about Jane, all her book titles and Positive Discipline here: https://www.positivediscipline.com https://www.positivediscipline.org https://www.facebook.com/positivediscipline https://www.twitter.com/PDTweets https://www.pinterest.com/pdpins1 https://www.instagram.com/positivediscipline https://www.youtube.com/user/PositiveDiscipline Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Nov 23, 2020 • 41min
029: Guest Interview with Michele Borba “Unselfie: Why Empathic Kids Succeed in Our All-About-Me World”
Michele and I dive into the content of her recent book. We discuss the importance of empathy, the research to support it and most importantly, how parents can and MUST cultivate it in childhood. She has spoken to over a million parents in 43 nations. A true gem and expert. Enjoy! You can find her book here: UnSelfie: Why Empathetic Kids Succeed in Our All-About-Me World. Coming March 2021: Thrivers: The Surprising Reasons Why Some Kids Struggle and Others Shine. Web: micheleborba.com Instagram: @drmicheleborba Twitter @micheleborba Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Nov 16, 2020 • 57min
028: Guest Interview with Erica Ehm: “Journey to find and build community support for moms”
Erica founded the YummyMummyClub.ca 14 years ago, well before on-line communities were a “thing” and now she’s garnering over a dozen prestigious awards for her work. In this episode, Erica talks about her personal parenting journey and the need to have support from other moms as she raised her children, especially the teen years when mental health issue arose. Erica also discuss her new musical series for kids called “Outta The Books” which is launching on YouTube. You can check out the trailer here. Follow her on social: Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/ericaehm/ Twitter https://twitter.com/EricaEhm FB https://www.facebook.com/ThisIsEricaEhm IG https://www.instagram.com/ericaehm/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Nov 9, 2020 • 36min
027: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Q1. Help with encouraging words for test taking before and after Q2. 15yo’s personality has changed and is becoming rude and moody Q3. Helping a 4yo cope with flu shots, blood work and COVID testing Q4. How to support a student stressed with SSAT and school applications Q5. Helping 14yo freshman make friends during online schooling Q6. Helping child learn to play independently and not demand my attention Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Nov 2, 2020 • 56min
026: Guest Interview with Barbara Coloroso “Parenting With Wit and Wisdom in Times of Chaos, Loss, Grief and Covid19”
One of the first parenting books I ever read was “Kids Are Worth It” by Barbara Coloroso. When I attended her talks as a young mother, I didn’t know I was going to become a parent educator or speaker myself. I just wanted to drink up all her wisdom. She is an internationally reknowned consultant on parenting, teaching, school discipline, positive school climates, bullying, grieving, non-violent conflict resolution and restorative justice. Such a pleasure to get this hour with her to talk about how to parent around the death and all the chaos that surrounds us during this pandemic. Barbara will talk about the Tao of Family ( time, affection, optimism) and the 3 passages of grief. You’ll hear how to talk to a child about death as well as signs your child needs professional support. In the podcast, Barbara recommends the following book: They Came Like Sparrows: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B002PYFVW6/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1 You can get free downloaded resources from her website: www.kidsareworthit.com Follow her on social: Twitter: @BarbaraColoroso LinkedIn: Barbara Coloroso FB: https://www.facebook.com/Kids-are-worth-it-inc-259924737382882/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Oct 26, 2020 • 14min
025: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Q1. How can I deal with my 10 yr olds and his tics? Q2. Should I force my anxious teen to get a driver’s licence? Do you have a question for me? Email me at alyson@alysonschafer.com with the subject #AskAlyson Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.