

ADHD Scapegoat Podcast
ADHD with Angie
On the ADHD Scapegoat podcast, we're going to talk about everything ADHD and scapegoating. I'm Angie, an Advanced Certified ADHD Life Coach (ACALC), late diagnosis ADHDer, & trauma survivor of Family Scapegoating Abuse. Let's keep seeking truth and creating a brighter future together!
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Mar 27, 2025 • 41min
ADHD, Anxiety & Love: Navigating Relationships with Different Brains
From Misunderstandings to Unbreakable Bond: An ADHD & Anxiety Relationship StoryEver feel like you and your partner are speaking different languages? 🤔 Angie and Jeremy from the ADHD Scapegoat Podcast share their raw and honest journey through the ups and downs of navigating a relationship where ADHD and anxiety collide.This episode is a deeply personal exploration of how they overcame communication barriers, broke free from old patterns, and built a relationship grounded in empathy, understanding, and unwavering support.(00:00:00) Intro: ADHD & Anxiety in Relationships - A Personal Journey(00:00:57) Building a Friendship Before Dating: A Foundation of Trust(00:02:31) Deep Conversations & Unmasking ADHD and Anxiety(00:03:54) The Interplay of ADHD and Anxiety in Relationships(00:12:31) The Anxious Partner's Perspective: Needing Control and Predictability(00:15:41) The ADHD Partner's Perspective: Long Term Strategies for the ADHD Couple(00:20:16) Managing Emotional Intensity & Dysregulation(00:25:51) Active Listening & Creating Safe Spaces for Communication(00:30:47) The Importance of Mutual Support & Validation(00:35:53) Creating Clear Expectations & Agreements(00:40:57) Key Elements of A Successful PartnershipGet ready to:Recognize common challenges in ADHD/anxiety relationships.*Gain practical tips and strategies for improving communication.*Challenge your assumptions about your partner's behaviors.*Develop greater empathy and compassion.Discover the power of celebrating neurodiversity.If you're ready to transform your relationship and create a stronger connection with your partner, this episode is a must-watch!

Mar 20, 2025 • 54min
Lost & Found: My Late ADHD Diagnosis
From Scapegoat to Self-Acceptance: One Woman's Journey with Late-Diagnosed ADHD and Childhood TraumaJoin Angie from the ADHD Scapegoat Podcast as she shares her powerful and relatable story of navigating life undiagnosed with ADHD, the challenges of family scapegoating, and the hard-won path to healing and reclaiming her authentic self.If you've ever felt like the "black sheep" of your family, struggled with feeling misunderstood, or are on a journey to understand your own ADHD, this episode is for you. Angie's story is a testament to the power of self-acceptance, resilience, and finding your authentic voice.

Mar 13, 2025 • 36min
Loud & Unapologetic: ADHD & Speaking Up
Ever feel like you're "too much" because of your ADHD? 🗣️💥 In this episode of the ADHD Scapegoat Podcast, Angie dives deep into the complex relationship between ADHD and communication. It's not always easy being an ADHD truth-teller!Angie unpacks the challenges of excessive talking, navigating social cues, and the sting of Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) when you're just trying to be yourself. She also explores the incredible power of justice sensitivity in the ADHD brain and how to channel that passion for good.Ready to reclaim your voice and understand your ADHD brain? Watch the full episode for a deep dive, share your experiences in the comments, and let's build a supportive community together!

Mar 6, 2025 • 39min
Restless Minds: ADHD & Sleep
Can't Sleep Because of Your ADHD? You NEED This! 🛌 Are you tossing and turning, battling racing thoughts, or stuck in a hyperfocus loop when you should be sleeping? If you have ADHD, you know the struggle is real. In this episode, Angie & Jeremy share their personal experiences and actionable advice for overcoming common ADHD-related sleep problems.Get practical tips, personal anecdotes, and the encouragement you need to finally conquer your sleep problems! Subscribe to the ADHD Scapegoat Podcast for more ADHD insights.

Feb 27, 2025 • 38min
I Can See Everything But Time
Why are ADHDers often late and struggle with time, even though they're highly intuitive? Join Angie as she explores the frustrating phenomenon of ADHD time blindness!In this video, you'll learn:‣ What ADHD time blindness is and why it's NOT laziness‣ The impact of executive function weaknesses on time perception‣ How hyperfocus and boredom distort your sense of time‣ Practical strategies to manage time effectively with ADHD (externalizing time, body doubling, gamification)Stop the shame and start understanding your ADHD brain!

Feb 20, 2025 • 36min
Boundaries Explained
Do you struggle with setting boundaries as someone with ADHD? Is it hard to say "no" or prioritize your own needs? Join Angie as she discusses the unique challenges of boundary setting with ADHD, especially when you're also navigating family dysfunction.

Feb 13, 2025 • 34min
ADHD & The Inconvenient Heart: Emotional Dysregulation & Family Scapegoating
Do you feel like your emotions are "too much"? Angie dives into the struggles of emotional dysregulation with ADHD. Learn how being labeled "dramatic" can impact you deeply, especially when combined with family scapegoating dynamics.In this video, we discuss:‣ Understanding ADHD & emotional dysregulation‣ The 7 Emotional Needs Everyone Has (via @the.holistic.psychologist)‣ How family scapegoating invalidates your feelings‣ Actionable strategies for managing emotions & setting boundariesDon't let anyone tell you your feelings aren't valid!

Feb 6, 2025 • 49min
ADHD Overloaded
ADHD Overwhelm & Scapegoating: Is your family dynamic making your ADHD worse? Join Angie as she unpacks the unique challenges of ADHD overwhelm, especially when combined with being the family scapegoat. Learn practical coping strategies & start healing.

Jan 30, 2025 • 25min
No Contact vs Silent Treatment: Breaking Free from Family Chaos
Going No Contact can feel like the hardest decision you’ll ever make—but for many of us, it’s the healthiest choice to protect ourselves from ongoing harm. In today’s episode, we explore what it means to go No Contact with toxic family members or harmful relationships.
We break down insights from Dr. Sherrie Campbell’s book, Adult Survivors of Toxic Family Members, including the difference between the silent treatment (a punishment) and No Contact (a boundary for self-protection). You’ll hear personal stories, impactful quotes, and empowering lessons on maintaining boundaries, overcoming criticism, and healing from shame after cutting ties.
This episode is for anyone struggling with the guilt, fear, or misunderstanding that often comes with No Contact decisions. Let’s talk about it.

Jan 23, 2025 • 34min
12 Signs of Emotional Abuse Used by Narcissistic Parents
In this episode, we’re diving deep into the painful reality of growing up in emotional abuse and how it impacts adult relationships. From gaslighting and emotional manipulation to silent treatment and boundary violations, we uncover 12 toxic tactics often used by narcissistic parents. These patterns can become ingrained in our relational dynamics—until we learn to recognize and break them.
We'll also share self-assessment quizzes to help you identify emotional abuse in your life and discuss actionable steps to reclaim your worth and build healthier connections.
If you’ve ever felt scapegoated, criticized, or silenced, you’re not alone. Let’s talk about it.
Watch now to uncover the truth and start your journey toward healing.