How She Really Does It

Is my child talented? This is a question that I am asked all the time. In fact, this has been a subject that I have been passionate about for years. Talent... Who has it? Why do some appear to have more talent than others? Is it possible to increase talent? Or is it just plain dumb luck? In this episode, which originally aired in 2009, I interview New York Times bestselling author Daniel Coyle. We talk about the concepts in his book The Talent Code: Greatness Isn’t Born. It’s Grown. Here’s How. Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/daniel-coyle-ww/]

Today, I’m inviting you to consider the people who matter most to you and how you can show up for them. Your self-defeating thoughts are preventing you from reaching out and the people you love from receiving your love. I’m sharing how I’ve been showing up for others, how it felt when the people I care about didn’t show up for me, and how you can make real connections despite the pandemic. We want to show up for those that matter to us and we want those that matter to us to show up. It takes bravery and courage to show up, but doing so is so rewarding. Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3b3A00L

In this interview, I talk with Michael about leadership and doing great work. Keep in mind that when I talk about leadership I’m not just talking about CEOs and people who lead teams at work. People lead in many different arenas in our lives. Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/michael-bungay-stanier-ww/]

I invite you to listen in to my conversation with Hiro and allow her words to flow through you. Hear her words, but also feel heard in this interview. We’re talking about some high-level concepts here and if some of it goes over your head, that’s perfectly okay. Take the time for yourself to absorb her wisdom, learn about yourself, and discover how to stand with yourself instead of against yourself.  Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/2FTJOPq

“I don’t care if you think you’re not a good writer.  I’ll make you better.”  That is what Besty Rapoport tells the writers who work with her.   She helps people get heard by helping writers bring their ideas to life, using their authentic voice while telling their story.  Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/betsy-rapoport-ww/]

I invite you to listen in this week and find out why standing with yourself is so important, not just for you but for those you love. It’s all too easy to fall back into ways of abandoning ourselves, but when we do that, we sabotage everything we want. I’m sharing the ways I see myself and others abandoning ourselves and how we can break that pattern. We must all stand with ourselves, be our own best friends, and have our own backs. Because if not you, who? Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3gbOWea

Peter Walsh is an author, speaker, educator, and an expert in organizational design. You may recognize him from The Oprah Winfrey Show, OWN Network, and Rachel Ray. In this episode from 2015 Peter and I talk about the benefits of a “less is more” mentality in a “more is more” culture. Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/peter-walsh-ww/]

I'm interviewing my friend and CEO of Leadership Delta, Laura Boyd. Laura has over 25 years of experience helping organizations achieve sustainable growth and, during this time, her expertise is very needed. We’re talking about how our personal and professional lives are intertwined, how to cope with parental guilt, and the traits leaders need to guide their teams. We’re all in the same storm, but sitting in different boats. Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3ixN6WI

Author and entrepreneur Ariane de Bonvoisin joins me in this episode to talk about perseverance and how to stick it out long enough to overcome obstacles and achieve success. Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/ariane-de-bonvoisin-ww/]

Today I’m chatting with my friend and self-care revolutionary Jen Louden about why we give up on ourselves and fall into the “Why Bother?” mindset. She’s sharing all about her new book, the process of writing it, and why she loves this piece of work the most. As achievers, it’s hard for us to slow down and stop planning. But when we do, we get to experience the freedom and joy that can come with uncertainty. Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/2Ps6l7u