
How She Really Does It
How She Really Does It, is a place for you to learn how to create the life you want. It is the place where inspiration + possibility meet.
Here you can create your life, your way in a REAL way that fits you, where you belong.
This show is a place for you to learn, grow, create and tweak your life. The show is a place to see the glimmer of possibilities from other people's experiences and/or research.
Latest episodes

Dec 10, 2021 • 26min
Structures for the 3 areas of life
I’m sharing some examples of structures that can help you in different areas of your life and how to implement them. You get to define what works for you, so I’m sharing why creating structures in your life will help you have the flourishing, connected relationships you want while doing meaningful work that you love. Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3075BOd

Dec 3, 2021 • 28min
The steps to overcoming obstacles
This week, I’m showing you how to reframe the way you think about obstacles and a step-by-step approach to help you work through them and get what you want. Obstacles might be messy and uncomfortable, but you have the power to get through them, so I’m showing you how to lean into the obstacle and move through it to land on the beautiful other side. Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3l5VYX4

Dec 1, 2021 • 57min
Dan Pink: Rejections, refusals, and rebuff [Wisdom Wednesday]
Daniel Pink is the author of provocative books about changing the world of work. At the time of this interview in 2013, his latest book was To Sell is Human. In this interview, Dan and I talk about how we are all salespeople now. You may not be selling an item or even a service, but you are influencing, persuading, or attempting to get someone’s attention. Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/dan-pink-rejection-ww/]

Nov 26, 2021 • 15min
The day after [MINISODE]
Listen in this week as I show you how to provide the space for yourself to feel your emotions and why it’s so important to do so. Great learnings occur when things are hard and uncomfortable, so I’m showing you how to tap into these and use them to deliberately create the life and connections you want. Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3r4uAN0

Nov 24, 2021 • 59min
Six questions to ask to make a change [Wisdom Wednesday]
We’re approaching the new year, which can be a time of transition and change. Often, those transitions and changes are in the form of resolutions and they are changes that we want to happen. Sometimes change happens to us. Whatever the reason behind the change, there are ways that we can get through those transitions and come out confident and grounded on the other side. Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/6-questions-ww/]

Nov 19, 2021 • 27min
The holidays
This week, I'm sharing why there’s no right or wrong way to enjoy the holidays, and showing you why even though it won’t be perfect, it can be better. I’m showing you how to practice enjoying yourself without it being perfect and how gathering these insights helps you create the life you want. Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/30BI4Fa

Nov 17, 2021 • 22min
How to cultivate confidence [Wisdom Wednesday]
In order to cultivate confidence, you have to start by asking yourself: "What gets in the way of confidence?" Listen in to this episode as I talk about how you can move away from shame and toward confidence by embracing vulnerability and self-compassion. I'll share some of my favorite affirmations for cultivating confidence, as well as some tips for taking small steps toward a more confident you. Get full show notes and more information here: https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/cultivate-confidence-ww/

Nov 12, 2021 • 25min
Before gratitude
In this episode, I’m exploring what comes before gratitude and why it is so important to allow yourself to experience your hardships. Giving yourself permission to feel all the emotions is vital in processing them, so I’m showing you how to do that so you can love yourself and take care of yourself to get through to the other side. Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3C20sUr

Nov 10, 2021 • 1h 2min
Lifelong learning with Hiro Boga [Wisdom Wednesday]
My friend Hiro Boga is a business strategist, teacher, adviser, and mentor. In this episode, which was originally published in 2016, Hiro Boga and I talk about lifelong learning. We discuss curiosity, structure and stability, fear, and more. Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/learning-hiro-boga-ww/]

Nov 5, 2021 • 42min
The obstacles of boundary setting with Laura Boyd
Discover why setting boundaries can be so uncomfortable, but that it’s nothing compared to the discomfort you’ll experience if you never have proper boundaries in your life. Laura and I are discussing the cost of avoiding boundaries, how to decide what you want your boundaries to look like, and how to deal with the discomfort of enforcing those boundaries. Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3nVVvr7
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