How She Really Does It

Are you self-aware of your own being? In this episode, I discuss how to become self-aware of your being and I explore two questions and skill sets that have helped me make a significant change in my life.   Join me this week to discover which small steps you can start incorporating in your life to make the changes you want to see, as well as some tools to help you make a space for yourself.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3vFme33

While we are all emotional beings, some of us don’t have a language for emotions or maybe we’ve been told that emotions are weak. One thing you can do to grow your self-awareness is to learn the language of emotions.   Emotions are not a weakness. They communicate what is going on inside yourself when you are too busy to notice. They give you a signal, but it’s your job to feel, identify and give yourself the space to move through it. In this episode, I'm showing you how to do just that.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3NYFf6A

Our beliefs guide us into thinking in a way that is not necessarily aligned with our true mindset. They can also make us do what we think we’re supposed to do, rather than what we truly want.    Discover how to be aware of the things you say to yourself and identify your limiting beliefs. Learn how things start to change when you listen to your stories and become aware of those beliefs. Unpacking the thoughts swirling in your head is the first step towards self-awareness.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3v2HXBk

As the new year approaches, there’s a lot of talk about being your best self for 2024. While the definition varies from one person to another, something high achievers all have in common is setting unrealistic standards for what it means to be our best selves.    This week, I discuss what being your best self every day looks like and why having unrealistic expectations leads to exhaustion rather than learning and growing. We’ll explore different simple things you can do to have realistic standards of what is possible for you to do in one day.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3RG80HI

What in your life can be dropped, whether it’s for the time being or completely? I'm giving personal examples of things that were no longer relevant that I kept on doing because I’d always done them and what happened when I let go of them.   Discover how to recognize the things that you don’t need to carry around anymore and why leaving them in 2023 can only be beneficial for you and your loved ones.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3uVIrtb

During the holiday season, we try to do everything that is expected from us, but there is one important thing that we don’t always take the time for: taking care of ourselves.   This week, I give you examples of various ways you can take care of yourself during the holidays and discuss the importance of finding ways to show yourself love. Discover tips to understand what you need from this season, discern what makes you feel resourced, and identify what makes you feel depleted.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3N4jZfn

Our brains have the capacity to make up stories, and to create tragedies in which we are the main character. While some stories are happy, the thoughts we entertain can also contribute directly to the pain in our lives.   This week, I encourage you to notice the stories your mind conjures up. Discover some of the ways to create awareness of the thoughts you’re thinking, how to check in with them to see what is true, and how to react compassionately when your brain makes up stories.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/47x3VuI

Do you ever get home from work and find yourself dwelling on the one thing that went bad that day rather than celebrating the many good things you achieved?   This week, I look at how perfectionism affects our lives by getting in the way of personal growth. Discover how to let go of the survival mode that is ingrained in your brain and embrace the good things in life in a way that will create positive change.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3GdGxX4

Our idea of the perfect holiday season can be guided by our cultural surroundings or by the happiness of our family or spouses. We want to make things perfect for everyone, but how can you keep giving if you are exhausted?   Discover how to allow yourself to breathe, to fill yourself up in a way that will give you the ability to offer as much as you want this holiday season. Remember that we can’t give what we don’t have.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3SKU285

I have never enjoyed cold weather. Yet, for a long time, I put myself in a situation that didn’t make my life more enjoyable during that season: I didn’t turn on the heat.   My friends, this week I invite you to look at the choices you’ve made and try to pinpoint what causes unnecessary suffering in your life. Discover how to make a positive change and stop suffering when you don’t need to.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/40xND21