
Dear Old Dads
Hey kids, get ON our lawn! Dear old Dads is a podcast examining and deconstructing all things Dad. From parenting to patriarchy; manning the grill to manning up; Dear Old Dads asks – what even is a dad anyway? What does it mean to be a good man in today's world? What should it mean? Listen along as we definitely find the correct, concise answers to all these questions and more!
Featuring Eli Bosnick, Thomas Smith, and Tom Curry!
Latest episodes

Jul 18, 2025 • 43min
DOD216: What if Mental Illness Is Making You a Bad Parent?
Buckle up and secure those tray tables in the upright and locked position. We get the Plane-ageddon scoop from Eli to kick off today's episode, and then the dads dig into an email from a listener struggling with balancing their mental health treatment and showing up as a parent in the way they expect. And then, how can we embrace the understanding that parenting will always inherently be imperfect and alleviate the guilt we carry when we aren't the kind of parent we've decided we should be? Join the Facebook Group! facebook.com/groups/dearolddads For comments, email thedads@dearolddads.com

Jul 17, 2025 • 44min
DOD215: What If Your Partner Won't Enable Location Sharing
After an extended introduction exploring at what age kids should be allowed unsupervised time in crowded locations and some of the tools that might help ease parent anxiety in those scenarios, the dads shift focus to discuss the act of location sharing with significant others. Is there ever a reason to not do that? I mean, that isn't cheating? Join the Facebook Group! facebook.com/groups/dearolddads For comments, email thedads@dearolddads.com

Jul 11, 2025 • 47min
DOD214: Just Trying to Help
On this episode, the dads tackle a complicated listener quandary...so complicated in fact that Thomas can't keep the people or their relationships straight. What do we owe our parents and other adults in our lives to help them navigate challenging situations with our brothers and sisters? Join the Facebook Group! facebook.com/groups/dearolddads For comments, email thedads@dearolddads.com

Jul 4, 2025 • 44min
DOD213: You Need This Tactical Podcast, Now In Camo
Discover the ultimate barbecue gear, like Kevlar-coated tongs, perfect for the modern dad! The hosts dive into the hilarious yet risky world of extreme sports, balancing thrill-seeking with absurd customer reviews. They tackle life's big questions with humor, discussing the lighthearted side of death, funerals, and survival gear marketing. Home improvement tales turn into chaotic laughs, while conversations about gaming provide a witty critique on masculinity and marketing tactics. Tune in for a blend of reflection and hilarity!

Jun 27, 2025 • 45min
DOD212: This TikTok Accountability Formula Is... Good? Maybe?
WELL LOOK WHO DECIDED TO SHOW UP TO WORK. The dads take on a discussion about accountability and Eli has a TikTok video of a way to frame how we decide whether or not someone should be accountable for the actions they've done that hurt us. Join the Facebook Group! facebook.com/groups/dearolddads For comments, email thedads@dearolddads.com This content is CAN credentialed, which means you can report instances of harassment, abuse, or other harm on their hotline at (617) 249-4255, or on their website atcreatoraccountabilitynetwork.org.

Jun 20, 2025 • 42min
DOD211: Throuple to Couple to Throuple
Tom continues to be a failure as a podcast host and father, so the non-monogamous dads of the group decided it was the perfect time to answer a couple of listener questions about polyamory. And it wouldn't be a proper poly episode without taking this Couple to a Throuple: Lydia's here, too! Join the Facebook Group! facebook.com/groups/dearolddads For comments, email thedads@dearolddads.com This content is CAN credentialed, which means you can report instances of harassment, abuse, or other harm on their hotline at (617) 249-4255, or on their website at creatoraccountabilitynetwork.org.

Jun 19, 2025 • 45min
DOD210: Father's Day Tom(less)foolery
Two of the three dads are here - quick, make a guess before you press play! They're joined by a guest for some podcast potpourri: some current kid challenges, Father's Day, and an irritating character that has taken over one of the households. Join the Facebook Group! facebook.com/groups/dearolddads For comments, email thedads@dearolddads.com This content is CAN credentialed, which means you can report instances of harassment, abuse, or other harm on their hotline at (617) 249-4255, or on their website at creatoraccountabilitynetwork.org.

Jun 13, 2025 • 47min
DOD209: My Kids Stopped Talking To Me for NO Reason
The hosts explore the rollercoaster of parent-child communication, diving into the often humorous yet frustrating world of estrangement. They share personal stories highlighting the absurdities of managing emails while juggling family dynamics. Dark humor meets heartfelt insights as they discuss the emotional weight of misunderstandings and the impact of social media. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on authentic connections, making this a relatable and entertaining look at the complexities of modern parenting.

Jun 11, 2025 • 43min
DOD208: H.A.G.S.! KIT.!
The school year is officially over, but will the Dads Have A Great Summer? Is this a Three Bears (TM) situation? Then, in the story JUST FOR PATRONS, Eli recounts Max's absolutely adorable preschool graduation ceremony. Will there be a 4-year old valedictorian who isn't afraid of calling out racial injustice like at Finn's high school graduation? How far away did Eli have to park? Only patrons can seek these answers. Join the Facebook Group! facebook.com/groups/dearolddads For comments, email thedads@dearolddads.com This content is CAN credentialed, which means you can report instances of harassment, abuse, or other harm on their hotline at (617) 249-4255, or on their website at creatoraccountabilitynetwork.org.

Jun 6, 2025 • 40min
DOD207: THE BOYS ARE BACK IN TOWN
We've got a very focused topic today because our dear Tom has some huge non-neck related news to share! It's like the 2nd or 3rd good news Tom has ever had! Then in the patron only story, Eli shares an emotional story about Max's birthday party. Join the Facebook Group! facebook.com/groups/dearolddads For comments, email thedads@dearolddads.com This content is CAN credentialed, which means you can report instances of harassment, abuse, or other harm on their hotline at (617) 249-4255, or on their website at creatoraccountabilitynetwork.org.