Dear Old Dads

The dads kick things off with a hilarious debate about underwear styles, sharing awkward gym shower memories. They dive into the absurd 'beige lingerie test' that some blogger claims can measure love. The hosts hilariously critique the blogger's take, dissecting toxic masculinity and insecurities behind relationship tests. They argue for vulnerability over manipulative strategies, advocating healthier communication in partnerships. The comedic banter is both entertaining and thought-provoking, making for an engaging discussion.

Tom shares his hilarious aversion to goat cheese while diving into the concept of kids 'yucking' others' tastes. The hosts discuss how personal opinions can become misinterpreted as absolute truths. They explore why children resist new experiences, the risks of a contrarian identity, and the importance of expressing preferences respectfully. With insights on the social costs of negativity, the conversation emphasizes valuing genuine effort in both taste and personal growth.

What happens when parenthood feels more like a prison than a privilege? The hosts tackle a listener's regret, revealing that these feelings are more common than many admit. They explore the grief of lost freedom and emphasize the importance of accepting these emotions. Practical advice follows—don't make impulsive decisions during tough times. Personal stories of unexpected transitions highlight the need for resilience. With varied perspectives on parenthood, they encourage embracing the journey, flaws and all.

If you're in the market for some fatherly advice from the dudes about interviewing for jobs, you're in luck! Listen in to hear the dads debate questions like, what do you do in the face of stupid interview questions? And in the very special, patron-only bonus at the end, we share an email from ABSOLUTE LEGENDS - the parents from sex doll gate aka the episode that sent Eli to an earlyish grave. Join the Facebook Group! facebook.com/groups/dearolddads For comments, email thedads@dearolddads.com

Lydia Smith, a frequent collaborator and researcher, joins the hosts for a lively discussion on navigating tricky family dynamics. They explore a listener's email about a daughter's surprise marriage to a much older man and the concerns it raises. Humorous anecdotes about ADHD add color, as Eli half-jokingly blames Thomas for his son's diagnosis. The conversation overflows with insights on balancing parental instincts with support, ultimately emphasizing the importance of listening and setting healthy boundaries.

In this lively discussion, the hosts tackle a hilariously awkward listener email about buying a sex doll. Eli's unexpected laughter sets the tone as they speculate on parents' reactions and the emotional fallout of such a conversation. They debate the social implications and community dynamics surrounding sex dolls, while also discussing the differences in male and female sexual subcultures. Practical advice leads to alternatives over expensive dolls, all interspersed with humor and personal anecdotes about parenting and puberty.

The guys have reunited post-Thanksgiving and have plenty of catching up to do! Tom has returned from a hunting trip with other dudes (not our DILFs) and brings some of his observations to the pod to discuss. Most importantly - what are signs as you get older of a good life? Join the Facebook Group! facebook.com/groups/dearolddads For comments, email thedads@dearolddads.com

The hosts dive into the complex world of parenting, sharing their own struggles with their child's social behavior. They discuss the challenges of confronting other parents and the defensiveness that surfaces when faced with potential issues. Highlighting the heartache of social rejection, they explore strategies for fostering better self-control and working with schools for support. The conversation touches on the natural ebb and flow of childhood friendships and the need for understanding and resilience as kids navigate social dynamics.

The hosts dive into a listener's email about their partner's embrace of fictional relationships within the waifu community. They discuss the complexities of kink, identity, and emotional attachment, weighing the boundaries of healthy relationships. The conversation touches on the impact of fantasy on parenting and the importance of transparency in partnerships. The dads debate whether feeling ignored in a relationship is neglect, not just jealousy, emphasizing the need for communication and renegotiation of boundaries. Humor flows as they explore these serious themes.

A soon-to-be dad expresses anxiety over his anger issues and how they might affect his child. The hosts emphasize the importance of therapy and self-reflection to manage emotions. They discuss practical tips like safely stepping away when overwhelmed and the necessity of modeling apologies to children. The discussion also covers the impact of sleep deprivation on anger and the significance of recognizing sensitive responses in kids as signs of safety. They explore how expectations can fuel anger and the benefits of cognitive-behavioral strategies to manage triggers.