Men’s Therapy Podcast

In a powerful and revealing episode of the Men’s Therapy Podcast, host Marc Azoulay sits down with George Simon. He is a renowned psychologist, author, and speaker best known for his bestselling book In Sheep’s Clothing. He has over three decades of experience in the field. Dr. Simon is delving into what he calls “the epidemic of character disturbance.” He particularly focusing on covert narcissism. It is a form of manipulation that’s deeply misunderstood yet increasingly visible in today’s society. Reflecting on how the book came to be, Simon shares. “I was meeting with people… experiencing what we today call the gaslighting effect… but we didn’t even know it as a real thing back then.” That firsthand exposure to relational manipulation pushed him to uncover the covert behaviours. The ones that are hidden beneath a polished surface. What makes covert narcissism so insidious? Simon explains that these individuals often appear charming, empathetic, and kind. It is only until the facade breaks. “They’re good impression managers,” he notes. “But underneath it all, they were very controlling, dominant, seeking, and underhanded.” Simon offers more than a diagnostic overview. He explores the intersection of personality, morality, and the culture that allows dysfunction to thrive.

On a recent solo episode of the Men's Therapy Podcast, host Marc Azoulay brings a fresh perspective to an age-old dilemma. Why being a "nice guy" often fails in love and relationships. Marc describes himself as a "recovering nice guy". He uses his clinical expertise and personal experiences to explain the complex emotional traps that many men fall into. Especially when trying to win affection through passivity and people-pleasing. "Nice Guy Syndrome is essentially the male form of people-pleasing," Marc explains. "It's the belief that if you give people everything they want, they'll reward you with love, success, or approval." He dives deep into the emotional costs of this approach. Marc shows how it disconnects men from their true selves. It undermines their masculine energy and ultimately sabotages their romantic lives. Marc introduces listeners to the subtle but crucial ways men can shift from being passive to being authentic. He focuses on being confident and connected. He offers transformative relationship advice that men in their 20s to 50s can immediately put into action.

In a powerful return to the Men's Therapy Podcast, host Marc Azoulay welcomes Dr. Robert Glover. He is the renowned author of No More Mr. Nice Guy and the founder of Integration Nation. Dr. Glover, often called a "legend" in men's mental health circles, brings his approachable wisdom. He shares valuable insights about overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome. "I just think I'm a regular dude like the rest of us," Dr. Glover shares, recounting a moment when he was recognized by a fan halfway across the world in Tokyo. This humility underscores much of what he teaches. Healing yourself is less about becoming someone new and more about reclaiming who you truly are. In this episode, Dr. Glover dives deeper into the nuances of Nice Guy recovery. He explores real-world strategies for men looking to build healthy boundaries. He emphasizes ways to release shame and anxiety and create safe spaces for authentic growth.

In this introspective episode of the Men’s Therapy Podcast, the spotlight turns to its host, Marc Azoulay. He is a seasoned psychotherapist and group facilitator. He steps into the guest seat to explore a pattern many men know too well: being the "nice guy." “I thought I was just being kind,” Marc shares. “But I was using niceness to avoid conflict and protect a fragile ego.” This candid admission opens the door to a deeper discussion. It focuses on the hidden motivations and emotional costs tied to being one of the so-called nice guys. Marc reflects on how men often adopt this identity to earn approval or avoid rejection. “Nice guys tend to use self-sacrifice as a way to feel valuable,” he explains. “But underneath that is often low self-esteem and a deep need for emotional validation.” This episode invites listeners into a raw and honest exploration of male identity. It highlights psychological manipulation and the often misunderstood traits associated with covert narcissism. Through his own story, Marc models how acknowledging these patterns can lead to healing and self-confidence.

In today’s episode of the Men’s Therapy Podcast, host Marc Azoulay sits down with renowned psychologist Dr. Les Carter. He is an expert in narcissism and the creator of the Surviving Narcissism YouTube channel. He has over four decades of clinical experience. Dr. Carter has spent his career exploring how narcissistic tendencies manifest in men. He highlights how they damage relationships. He also focuses on why so many fall into the trap of what’s commonly called Nice Guy syndrome. “I think the word narcissism is overused,” Dr. Carter admits early in the conversation. “It’s all over TikTok, Instagram, and pop psychology—but beneath the buzzword lies a very real and damaging set of behaviors.” Dr. Carter illustrates how many men mask their insecurities with charm and superficial kindness. This often leads to manipulation, emotional abuse in relationships, and volatile personal dynamics. Dr. Carter's expertise isn't just academic. He has spent decades counseling men through anger issues and relationship challenges. This experience has given him deep insight into common behavioral patterns. Many of these patterns are ones most people miss. “You can tell the most about a person’s maturity by watching how they manage conflict,” he explains. This conversation isn’t just about identifying narcissists. It is about recognizing unhealthy behaviors in ourselves and finding ways to grow beyond them.

In a powerful episode of the Men’s Therapy Podcast, host Marc Azoulay sits down with Ari DeLashmutt. He is an extreme sports athlete, transformational men’s coach. He is also the host of his own podcast. He is known for his fearless lifestyle and equally courageous self-inquiry. Ari offers an unflinching look at how men fall into the trap of victim mentality and what it takes to reclaim personal agency. Ari’s journey into men’s work begins with personal reckoning. “I came across a presentation on peaceful parenting on YouTube, and it turned me onto moral philosophy,” he shares. This early spark led him to years of introspection and conversations with philosophers. This eventually led to professional men’s coaching. “Developing myself as an athlete was huge, but it was always paralleled by my deep desire to be a good partner, a good person, and have great friendships.” Ari speaks openly about pivotal life moments. He talks about particularly a painful divorce after an eight-year relationship. “It was an incredible inflection point in my life,” he recalls. Ari began to examine his own defensiveness, emotional insecurities, and relational patterns. Then the heartbreak became a catalyst for growth. “I didn’t have the skills to listen from a place of security. I took everything hyper personally.” Now, Ari works directly with men who’ve faced similar struggles. Men navigating breakup recovery or searching for meaning in midlife, he helps them all. His message is clear. Personal responsibility is non-negotiable if you want to build emotional resilience.

In this episode of the Men’s Therapy Podcast, Marc sits down with Dr. Jeremy Goldberg. He is the founder of Long Distance Love Bombs. Dr. Goldberg is a writer, speaker, and coach dedicated to promoting kindness and emotional resilience. His journey into personal development is deeply personal. It is shaped by hardships, relationship struggles, and a desire to change the way we interact with ourselves and others. “I entered this space reluctantly and in desperation,” Dr. Goldberg shares. “I went through some dark times—got cheated on, my mom was in rehab, I was drinking too much. Eventually, I realized I needed to make a change.” That change led him to study human behavior, self-improvement, and emotional healing. Today, through Long Distance Love Bombs, he helps men build stronger emotional foundations. He helps them navigate personal transformation and cultivate self-growth.

Therapy for Black men remains an underserved and often misunderstood area of mental health care. In a powerful conversation on the Men’s Therapy Podcast, psychologist Dr. Curtis Jasper opens up about his journey. He highlights the barriers Black men face when seeking therapy. He shares how men of color can begin their healing process. Dr. Jasper’s path to becoming a Black male therapist is one of resilience and transformation. Initially working in education, he found himself struggling after personal and financial hardships. These included the loss of his parents, a divorce, and financial ruin. “I was homeless, sleeping in my buddy’s basement, and had given up on therapy,” he recalls. But a pivotal session with a white therapist changed everything. He told me, “You’re not clinically depressed, you’re angry. You’re grieving. You’re disillusioned with a system that wasn’t built for you. That was the moment I realized therapy could work for me.”

In a world where men are told to hide their feelings and face challenges alone, healing from trauma can feel out of reach. Society often pressures men to suppress emotions, making recovery seem impossible. Breaking free from these expectations is key to overcoming pain and finding healing. On this Men’s Therapy Podcast episode, host Marc Azoulay speaks with Dan Griffin. He is a leading expert in men’s mental health, therapy, and recovery. Griffin has authored several books. These include A Man’s Way Through Relationships. He has developed groundbreaking trauma-informed therapy programs for both men and women. Griffin has been in recovery for over 30 years. He shares his insights on why trauma healing is a crucial yet overlooked aspect of men's mental health. “Untreated trauma is one of the biggest reasons for relapse,” he explains. Griffin highlights the need for therapy for men that addresses their unique experiences. He also emphasizes the importance of addressing societal conditioning. “For the longest time, people thought men didn’t experience trauma. Veterans did. Women did. But not men,” Griffin says. This misconception, he argues, has kept many men from seeking the help they need. His work focuses on breaking these barriers. It aims to help men embrace emotional growth without feeling like they are betraying their masculinity.

The journey from struggle to stability is never easy. Especially for men who face homelessness, addiction recovery, or past trauma. In today's Men's Therapy Podcast episode, Host Marc Azoulay sat down with Mark McIntosh. He is the founder of Victory Productions Denver. He discusses the transformative role of life coaching and mentorship programs for displaced men. McIntosh has spent years working with men in rehabilitation programs. He describes life coaching as more than just guidance. It's a path to rebuilding self-worth and community connections. "Men need men. Iron sharpens iron," he says. He runs a nonprofit organization called A Stronger Cord. It focuses on giving men a second chance by fostering healthy relationships. It also helps men encourage physical wellness and engage in community service. McIntosh emphasizes the importance of building a new social network for recovery. He leads devotion sessions at the Denver Rescue Mission to support individuals in their journey. Additionally, he develops structured mentorship programs to guide people through recovery. These efforts help foster a sense of community and personal growth. "You can’t go back to old friends if they’re dragging you down. You need a new support system," he explains. His work is not just about homelessness support. It’s about reshaping a man’s mindset so he can move forward with confidence and purpose.