Abby's dear friend Alyssa Shelasky joins the show to talk about her amazing new memoir, "This Might Be Too Personal". And of course, they get mildly (or not so mildly) inappropriate talking about the Year of the Big D*cks, Sebastian Stan, Harry Styles, Tommy Lee, Euphoria, the premiere episode of this season of Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, Molly Shannon's book "Hello, Molly", and much more. Plus Abby's got a rundown on shows she's watching like Conversations with Friends, I Love That for You, and the Real World NOLA reunion.Alyssa Shelaskyhttps://www.alyssashelasky.com/ https://www.instagram.com/alyssashelasky/ Subscribe to the We Have Notes newsletterhttps://wehavenotes.substack.com Follow Abby Gardnerhttps://www.instagram.com/abbycgardner/ https://twitter.com/abbygardner Follow We Have Noteshttps://www.instagram.com/wehavenotes https://www.tiktok.com/@wehavenotes https://speakstudiopodcasting.com/wehavenotes Podcast powered and distributed by Speak.Studio

Rebecca Soffer, co-founder of Modern Loss and the author of the new book The Modern Loss Handbook, joins Abby to talk about living with loss and the ways that we as a culture can start moving those conversations around grief forward—including through shows like Fleabag, WandaVision, Human Resources, Never Have I Ever, and many more. Plus they get into Rebecca's very cool and interactive book that is a great resource for anyone who has lost someone or is trying to understand those who have. It's not a sad show—PROMISE! Plus, the latest from Abby on what Harry and Taylor are up to and season 2 of Amazon Prime's The Wilds. This episode is brought to you by Good Clean Wine.https://goodclean.wine/

Abby's good friend—and the co-founder of Good Clean Wine—Courtney Dunlop joins the pod again. This time the two go deep on a foundational film for Gen X: The Neverending Story. From the core trauma that is the Swamps of Sadness to the Gmork, that weird attic at Bastian's school, The Nothing, Falkor, Atreyu, the Childlike Empress, and everything in between. Oh, and of course the mystery of Bastian's mom's name...a true '80s headscratcher that was only unlocked for many much later in life.Watch The NeverEnding Storyhttps://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B000TA1JWO/ref=atv_dp_share_cu_r https://tv.apple.com/us/movie/the-neverending-story/umc.cmc.2coczqplj0l256y0qmm1mwazz?action=play https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KF3K7Ja_C5U Good Clean Winehttps://goodclean.wine https://www.instagram.com/goodcleanwine/ Courtney Dunlophttps://www.instagram.com/courtneydunlop/ Subscribe to the We Have Notes newsletterhttps://wehavenotes.substack.com Follow Abby Gardnerhttps://www.instagram.com/abbycgardner/ https://twitter.com/abbygardner Follow We Have Noteshttps://www.instagram.com/wehavenotes https://www.tiktok.com/@wehavenotes https://speakstudiopodcasting.com/wehavenotes Podcast powered and distributed by Speak.Studio

Abby's got notes on the other British Harry and Meghan Markle's recent trip overseas, Anatomy of a Scandal, what she's watching next, and, of course, Harrychella and the two new songs we heard from Harry's House during weekend one. Then she's joined by her friend Andrea Lavinthal, the Style and Beauty Director of People, to talk about that Shania surprise, WeCrashed, Anne Hathaway's voice work, Jared Leto's wig, The Dropout, Ginny and Georgia, Sweet Magnolias, and more.Follow Andrea Lavinthalhttps://www.instagram.com/andilavs Subscribe to the We Have Notes newsletterhttps://wehavenotes.substack.com Follow Abby Gardnerhttps://www.instagram.com/abbycgardner/ https://twitter.com/abbygardner Follow We Have Noteshttps://www.instagram.com/wehavenotes https://www.tiktok.com/@wehavenotes https://speakstudiopodcasting.com/wehavenotes Podcast powered and distributed by Speak.Studio

Abby's got notes on Netflix's The Ultimatum, Kim + Pete, Nicola Peltz + Brooklyn Beckham, Bennifer's engagement, Britney's pregnancy, coastal grandmothers on TikTok, Erika Jayne + RHOBH, a new Taylor theory, Coachella, and a possible secret David Lynch movie coming to Cannes (!!!). Then get happy with some music that will instantly lift your mood.Subscribe to the We Have Notes newsletterhttps://wehavenotes.substack.com Follow Abby Gardnerhttps://www.instagram.com/abbycgardner/ https://twitter.com/abbygardner Follow We Have Noteshttps://www.instagram.com/wehavenotes https://www.tiktok.com/@wehavenotes https://speakstudiopodcasting.com/wehavenotes Podcast powered and distributed by Speak.Studio

Abby's got notes on Jerrod Carmichael's incredible new HBO comedy special "Rothaniel" and Judd Apatow's latest for Netflix, "The Bubble". Then she's joined by Kate Casey, who you may know from her own extremely popular podcast, "Reality Life with Kate Casey". They go deep on cults and why we're all so obsessed, the new Hillsong docuseries, Gwen Shamblin, NXIVM, the latest news about the evolution of the Real Housewives of New York, what it takes to be a housewife, Serving the Hamptons, and more. Plus, Kate's got some great recommendations on upcoming shows we all need to watch, like HBO's "The Invisible Pilot".Reality Life with Kate Casey podcasthttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reality-life-with-kate-casey/id1154758766 https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/50067ffb-ccef-46e4-bfd7-260a9bc6a07e/reality-life-with-kate-casey https://www.stitcher.com/show/reality-life-with-kate-casey Follow Kate Caseyhttps://twitter.com/KateCaseyhttps://www.instagram.com/katecaseycaReality Life with Kate Casey Facebook grouphttps://www.facebook.com/groups/113157919338245 What to Watch With Kate Casey newsletterhttps://katecasey.substack.com Subscribe to the We Have Notes newsletterhttps://wehavenotes.substack.com Follow Abby Gardnerhttps://www.instagram.com/abbycgardner/ https://twitter.com/abbygardner Follow We Have Noteshttps://www.instagram.com/wehavenotes https://www.tiktok.com/@wehavenotes https://speakstudiopodcasting.com/wehavenotes Podcast powered and distributed by Speak.Studio

“As It Was”, the first single from the new Harry Styles album Harry’s House, has finally arrived. It’s a melancholic bop, a sad banger if you will…quite possibly Abby’s favorite kind of song. Upbeat melodies + angsty lyrics are simply the best. She’s got some immediate reactions and vaguely coherent notes on this piece of brilliance that feels at once extremely new *and* very familiar with its ‘80s synth-pop Depeche Mode and A-ha vibes. The video is stunning and the song keeps getting better with every listen. Come along for the emotional ride.Harry Styles - As It Was (Official Video)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H5v3kku4y6Q Subscribe to the We Have Notes newsletterhttps://wehavenotes.substack.com Follow Abby Gardnerhttps://www.instagram.com/abbycgardner/ https://twitter.com/abbygardner Follow We Have Noteshttps://www.instagram.com/wehavenotes https://www.tiktok.com/@wehavenotes https://speakstudiopodcasting.com/wehavenotes Podcast powered and distributed by Speak.Studio

Abby's solo this week for episode 47 (IYKYK) with some notes on Oscars fashion and the moments she's still thinking about that have absolutely nothing to do with Will Smith, the tragic death of Taylor Hawkins of the Foo Fighters and how hard it's hitting Gen X, Bridgerton, WeCrashed, The Dropout, the new Hillsong documentary, and the current, gloriously chaotic, season of Summer House. Oh, and of course a Harry update.Subscribe to the We Have Notes newsletterhttps://wehavenotes.substack.com Follow Abby Gardnerhttps://www.instagram.com/abbycgardner/ https://twitter.com/abbygardner Follow We Have Noteshttps://www.instagram.com/wehavenotes https://www.tiktok.com/@wehavenotes https://speakstudiopodcasting.com/wehavenotes Podcast powered and distributed by Speak.Studio

THIS IS NOT A DRILL! The new Harry Styles album, Harry's House, is coming out May 20 and Abby's obviously got some things to say about it all and how we got here. Then she's joined by her dear friend (and former intern) Maura Brannigan to discuss the joys of fandom, One Direction and Harry (the timing is impeccable!), Fleetwood Mac, James Taylor, Taylor Swift, and the power of the one and only Stevie Nicks.Show links:Harry Styles’ Concerts Are His Fans’ Met Galahttps://fashionista.com/2021/10/harry-styles-love-on-tour-outfit-ideas-2021Stevie + Harry at the Troubadourhttps://youtu.be/wqSMymIAbYwhttps://youtu.be/QONWTFVypC0Harry + Kacey “Still the One”https://youtu.be/9VzK1q3C8LgMaura’s Twitterhttps://twitter.com/maura_branniganMaura’s IGhttps://www.instagram.com/maura_brannigan/Maura’s websitehttps://www.maurabrannigan.comSubscribe to the We Have Notes newsletterhttps://wehavenotes.substack.com Follow Abby Gardnerhttps://www.instagram.com/abbycgardner/ https://twitter.com/abbygardner Follow We Have Noteshttps://www.instagram.com/wehavenotes https://www.tiktok.com/@wehavenotes https://speakstudiopodcasting.com/wehavenotes Podcast powered and distributed by Speak.Studio

March Madness is upon us! Rejoice! Abby has a few things to discuss at the top of show like the glorious collaboration between Manolo Blahnik + Birkenstock, the impact of William Hurt's movies on Gen X, and the best alternative to the nonsense that is Deux Moi. Then it's WHN (but make it sports) with returning guests Sarah Jenks-Daly and Amy Rowell. The ladies are getting into college hoops, weird sports superstitions and behaviors, the pain that comes with fandom, WTF is going on with Tom Brady, sports movies (ahem, American Anthem!), and so much more—all with a very fun spin, whether you're typically a sports person or not. Plus, if a Duke/Colts girl, a diehard Kentucky Wildcat, and a Patriots lifer can get along this well...there's hope for this world yet.Sarah Jenks-Daly’s podcast, Late Night Lit https://art19.com/shows/late-night-with-seth-meyers-podcast/episodes/0bc8a469-71da-4e2e-ad02-0d4e792f2ad2 Amy Rowell’s Company, PK's Gift Closethttps://www.pksgiftcloset.com/ Subscribe to the We Have Notes newsletterhttps://wehavenotes.substack.com Follow Abby Gardnerhttps://www.instagram.com/abbycgardner/ https://twitter.com/abbygardner Follow We Have Noteshttps://www.instagram.com/wehavenotes https://www.tiktok.com/@wehavenotes https://speakstudiopodcasting.com/wehavenotes Podcast powered and distributed by Speak.Studio