Your Bish Therapist

*TW: Discussion of sexual assault and DV. This episode features two discussions of domestic violence/intimate partner violence and sexual assault. Tammy recalls an encounter with a sexual predator and shares her experience with DV (around 50:00 and 1:05:00) *Tammy Pescatelli is an elite standup comedian but she’s also a bravoholic, writer, producer, actress, wife, mother and a seasoned reality show contestant. She’s made hundreds of TV appearances and most notably, she was a finalist on seasons 2-3 of Last Comic standing. Currently you can catch her on her “Tammy the Bull” tour (Tickets and info at pescatelli.com) This interview has some serious laughs as Tammy shares her vast experiences on reality TV, on the road and in showbusiness throughout the years. She shares reality TV tricks and traps, how it negatively impacted her mental health and how comedy and laughter can be therapeutic.As an avid bravo lover, Tammy and YBT discuss RHOC, RHONJ, VPR, and love island. YBT shares the psychology behind reality TV manipulation, story editing and more. Please leave the podcasts a 5 Star review (Tammy’s podcast is The Cop & The Comedian: A True Friendship Crime Podcast)Brand Ambassador: Please check out Iamhumanthebrand.com for clothing with a purpose. Code BISH20 for 20FULL VIDEO AVAILABLE ON YOU TUBEYour Bish Therapist YouTube channel is now featuring membership subscriptions. To subscribe, click this link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu8bmVPTlWANg5v7rGRJjow?subconfirmation=1To join Spreaker Supporters club for bonus episodes: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/supportTo find links to all YBT content: https://linktr.ee/yourbishtherapistPodcast website page: https://www.spreaker.com/show/your-bish-therapistDisclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback.

*This episode is for Becky Bailey. Ryan recorded on the one-year anniversary of his mother’s passing, sharing his experience, strength and hope. TW: discussion of grief and parent loss*Thank you to Ryan for sharing about his grief journey, which leads to an encompassing discussion on grief including how it can be pervasive, transformative and sneaky!YBT and Ryan also discuss RHOC; discussing drama triangles, “tough love”, addiction/harm reduction strategies and more!Please check Ryan out on Instagram and podcast @sobaditsgoodwithryanbailey and check me out @yourbishtherapist on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok and YouTubePlease leave the podcasts a 5 Star reviewBrand Ambassador: Please check out Iamhumanthebrand.com for clothing with a purpose, code BISH20 for 20% off your order!Your Bish Therapist YouTube channel is now featuring membership subscriptions. To subscribe, click this link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu8bmVPTlWANg5v7rGRJjow?subconfirmation=1To join Spreaker Supporters club for bonus episodes: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/supportTo find links to all YBT content: https://linktr.ee/yourbishtherapistPodcast website page: https://www.spreaker.com/show/your-bish-therapistDisclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback.

YBT and Lyndsay recap episode 6 of RHOC, outlining thoughts on the dueling girls’ trips. YBT breaks down the Gina, Heather, Katie drama triangle and shares thoughts on Alexis’s behaviors giving flashbacks of esophogate. The episode contains discussions of stages of change and addiction from a harm reduction model.  YBT and Lyndsay also discuss season 2 of Surreal Life: Villa of Secrets. People are sleeping on this show, because it’s hard to access, but it is reality TV gold. Whether you are able to watch or not, this episode recaps episodes 1-6, including cast details and nuggets of reality TV gold that are shared. PLEASE NOTE: due to time constraints, some important nuances of the show were not able to be addressed. As a result, there will be a future more comprehensive episode.YBT also has her first live read!! Please check out Iamhumanthebrand.com for clothing with a purpose, code BISH20 for 20% off!Please check Lyndsay out @vanderpodrecaps on Instagram and check me out @yourbishtherapist on social media and YouTubePlease leave the podcasts a 5 Star reviewYour Bish Therapist YouTube channel is now featuring membership subscriptions. To subscribe, click this link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu8bmVPTlWANg5v7rGRJjow?subconfirmation=1To join Spreaker Supporters club for bonus episodes: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/supportTo find links to all YBT content: https://linktr.ee/yourbishtherapistPodcast website page: https://www.spreaker.com/show/your-bish-therapistDisclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback.

Recently a video of Monica Garcia went viral where she alleges Bravo wanted to bring her back but certain cast members threatened to quit if she returned…among other accusations. Meredith Marks and Andy Cohen went on Jeff Lewis Live with their response to Monica’s claims; YBT shares these quotes.Dallon attended the event and recorded the viral video. Dallon shares their thoughts on the reality behind the reality show. Dallon talks growing up Mormon in Salt Lake City and discusses personal connections to the housewives. Dallon talks feeling duped by Jen Shah, becoming friends with Monica Garcia and shares hot takes on current cast members.Dallon also talks RHOSLC casting, what to expect on the RHOSLC season premiere and the culture of Salt Lake City. Dallon and YBT discuss the odd nature of parasocial relationships and share personal experiences with bravolebs.Please leave the podcasts a 5 Star reviewYour Bish Therapist YouTube channel is now featuring membership subscriptions. To subscribe, click this link:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu8bmVPTlWANg5v7rGRJjow?subconfirmation=1To join Spreaker Supporters club for bonus episodes during season breaks: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/supportTo find links to all YBT content: https://linktr.ee/yourbishtherapistPodcast website page: https://www.spreaker.com/show/your-bish-therapistDisclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback.

I'm so happy to be back from my break and ready to bring weekly episodes! YBT missed 4 RHOC eps while on break so this episode is a recap of all four episodes. YBT provides her signature clinical interpretations and hot takes on it all!TW: discussion of body image, disordered eating and orthorexiaPlease leave the podcasts a 5 Star reviewYour Bish Therapist YouTube channel is now featuring membership subscriptions. To subscribe, click this link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu8bmVPTlWANg5v7rGRJjow?sub_confirmation=1To join Spreaker Supporters club for bonus episodes during season breaks: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/supportTo find links to all YBT content: https://linktr.ee/yourbishtherapistPodcast website page: https://www.spreaker.com/show/your-bish-therapist  Disclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback.

Hello everybody and welcome back to the season 3 premiere of Your Bish Therapist Podcast!! In the first half of the episode, YBT and Mandy talk RHOC. Specifically, the nuances and spectrum of addiction is discussed. YBT outlines a theory that Shannon, Vicki and Tamra have gotten themselves into a drama triangle, followed by discussion about what on earth this means!TW: Discussion of addiction, enabling and co-dependency are discussed throughout. Following this, Mandy and Melissa revisit their previous podcast about engaging in the 2024 election, by discussing ways to get involved, affect change at local levels and ways to advocate for human rights. Mandy uses a level headed and compassionate approach as she shares sage wisdom and feedback on how to navigate it all.Please check out Mandy’s podcast “is this real life?” where she talks all things housewives and BravoPlease leave the podcasts a 5 Star reviewYour Bish Therapist YouTube channel is now featuring membership subscriptions. To subscribe, click this link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu8bmVPTlWANg5v7rGRJjow?sub_confirmation=1To join Spreaker Supporters club for bonus episodes during season breaks: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/supportTo find links to all YBT content: https://linktr.ee/yourbishtherapistPodcast website page: https://www.spreaker.com/show/your-bish-therapist  Disclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback.

TW: Discussion of grooming, sexual assault, physiological responses to SA, statistics about SA in males, stalking, mental health and personality disorders.In this extra long season finale, YBT tackles the Netflix hit Baby Reindeer, covering the vast clinical concepts featured throughout the show. YBT provides a synopsis of the show, discusses key clinical concepts from each episode, and provides a significant amount of information and resources for survivors of SA.If you are sad season 2 is ending, please check out the entire episode catalog (42 eps) of Your Bish Therapist Podcast. Please leave the podcasts a 5 Star reviewYour Bish Therapist YouTube channel is now featuring membership subscriptions. To subscribe, click this link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu8bmVPTlWANg5v7rGRJjow?sub_confirmation=1 To Join Spreaker Supporters club for bonus episodes during the break: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/support  To find links to all YBT content: https://linktr.ee/yourbishtherapistDisclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback.

This bonus episode is a giant THANK YOU for listening and supporting YBT. YBT shares some personal health updates and explains reasons for breaks in between seasons. YBT also shares plans and hopes for the future of YBT, and provides a full episode description of all 41 episodes of YBT podcast. Lastly, YBT shares ways to continue to listen to episodes during breaks and links to subscriptions are belowPlease leave the podcasts a 5 Star reviewYour Bish Therapist YouTube channel is now featuring membership subscriptions. To subscribe, click this link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu8bmVPTlWANg5v7rGRJjow?sub_confirmation=1To join Spreaker Supporters club for bonus episodes during season breaks: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/support  To find links to all YBT content: https://linktr.ee/yourbishtherapistDisclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback.

YBT covers summer house reunion part two, focusing on providing clinical interpretations of the deleted scene wherein Lindsay called out Carl’s drug use. This leads to a discussion about sobriety, co-dependence and relational chaos. YBT also discusses thoughts about West’s behaviors, Jesse’s shame around crying leading to a discussion about men’s mental health, and Amanda’s clinical depression and MH advocacy.TW discussion of serial murder, SA and sexual sadism: YBT shares the harrowing story of Lois Rinna who was the first victim the trailside killer, David Carpenter. Lois survived the attack and helped to convict David Carpenter; however, he was released after only 8 years and went on to murder and assault 13 more people. YBT discusses the psychology of serial murder and provides statistics.Please leave the podcasts a 5 Star review Click the links below to find ways to support YBT:  https://linktr.ee/yourbishtherapisthttps://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/support  Disclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback.

TW discussion of domestic violence, SA, consent, and verbal and emotional abuseYBT breaks down West and Ciara’s relationship, through discussing gamophobia (fear of commitment) and personality characteristics of people with this phobia. This includes a discussion of consent and emotional coercion. YBT also discusses Captain Lee’s accusations against Carl and outlines what led to the destruction of this relationship.YBT also talks The Valley, outlining clinical interpretations of Jax’s behaviors. YBT discusses underlying motives of abusive behaviors and how these behaviors impact the family system. Please leave the podcasts a 5 Star reviewClick the links below to find ways to support YBT: https://linktr.ee/yourbishtherapisthttps://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/support  Disclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback.