Discover Lafayette

Discover Lafayette welcomes Lafayette Convention & Visitors Commission’s CEO Ben Berthelot and Jesse Guidry, Vice President of Communications, two of the most passionate advocates for Lafayette’s cultural and culinary identity. “You don’t have to go to a museum to experience our culture – you can be immersed in it. You can eat it, dance with it, and live it.” Together, they explore the evolution of the Eat Lafayette campaign, which began over 20 years ago under the tutelage of Charlie Goodson of Cafe Vermilionville. Origniating with just 18 restaurants participating, Eat Lafayette has grown into a powerful initiative celebrating the unique flavors of Acadiana. The conversation dives deep into the importance of supporting locally owned restaurants, especially in a changing economic and tourism landscape. Restaurants wanting to participate in Eat Lafayette can visit https://www.lafayettetravel.com/eatlafayette/registration/ to sign up. Ben and Jesse share how Lafayette has become a destination for food lovers, and how LCVC continues to adapt, from creating searchable dining districts throughout Lafayette Parish on Eat Lafayette’s website, to launching an upcoming Eat Lafayette mobile app expected to launch this summer that will spotlight local eateries and experiences for locals and tourists alike to rely upon. “It will be a one stop shop for all locally owned restaurants. It’s an initiative that we’re going to be launching by way of an app that’s layered with some other things that we do with Lafayette Travel. But the goal would be when you download this app, you will have a direct source to locally owned restaurants in Lafayette.” Lafayette Travel has established new collaborations such as the Acadiana Eats Festival to support our local restauranteurs. It also engages in year-round culinary promotions as a way to sustain mom-and-pop businesses as cultural ambassadors, as they are keepers of our local tradition. “Partnering with Acadiana Eats Festival is a great benefit in terms of promotion for local restaurants as well as that festival. The restaurants are able to sell their food and make money. We’re trying to find different ways to partner with what is already existing in the community and how we can lift those things up.  We’re going to put our force behind this and our marketing, and leverage KLFY’s presence and Gerald Gruening who is known for his passion for locally owned restaurants. That’s just one example of some new things that we’re doing, partnering with different festivals and other events throughout the year, and developing the new app.” Key Topics Covered: The origin and growth of Eat Lafayette Why now is a critical time to support local restaurants How Lafayette’s culinary identity contributes to tourism and economic development The creation of a new app to help users discover local dining by location, cuisine, and occasion Strategies for year-round restaurant promotion Challenges facing restaurateurs today: staffing, rising food costs, and competition The power of community collaboration through events like Festival International Lafayette’s potential as a top U.S. destination Fun personal insights from Ben and Jesse, including hobbies like home cooking, dance, and coaching Visit https://www.lafayettetravel.com/food-drink/local-restaurants/ for a listing of all locally-owned, Louisiana-owned, and national favority restaurants in our community. Notable Quotes: Ben Berthelot: “One of my favorite quotes is by a colleague in Irving, Texas, which has really grown. She says if you build a place that people want to visit, you’ll build a place that people want to live. And if you build a place where people want to live, you’ll build a place where business wants to be. And if you build a place where business wants to be, then you’re back to a place where people wamt to visit. It is a cycle. That’s how I think and how I want to lead our organization. Tourism is economic development. Get someone here once, and they fall in love with Lafayette.” Jesse Guidry: “There is no more important time than now to support our locally owned restaurants. And that’s how Eat Lafayette started over 20 years ago. It was driven by the restaurants saying they needed help during the summertime. So it started with 18 restaurants in a two week campaign, and grew to a three month campaign, with over 200 restaurants at one point, with the whole emphasis of being where am I going to go eat tonight? And we want you to go eat at a locally owned restaurant. Support our mom and pops, who are the reason that we were named Tastiest Town of the South, the best food city in the United States, and all of those awards that we’ve gotten over the years.” Links & Resources: 🌐 LafayetteTravel.com 🍽️ EatLafayette.com (Restaurant signup + directory) 📲 Follow on social: @LafayetteTravel | @EatLafayette 🎶 Check out the Lafayette Weekly Live Music Calendar Thanks to our guests Ben Berthelot, Jesse Guidry and the entire Lafayette Travel team for their continued support of Discover Lafayette and for keeping Lafayette’s spirit alive – one plate at a time!

Michael Soileau, Director of LFT Fiber, and Scott Prather, Public Relations Manager, dive into Lafayette’s groundbreaking journey in fiber optics. They celebrate 20 years of community-owned connectivity that transformed local telecommunications. Michael shares his personal connection to Evangeline Parish's expansion efforts, highlighting federal support that bridges the digital divide. The duo emphasizes the critical role of reliable internet in education and healthcare, and they discuss exciting future investments to enhance broadband access across rural Louisiana.

Discover Lafayette welcomes Dale Clark, Ursula Quoyeser, and Harriet Hoag to discuss the upcoming 4th annual Fin Feather Fur Food Festival (“F5”). This event raises funds for the Team Gleason Foundation, which supports individuals living with Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (“ALS”). Team Gleason, through its diverse and broad-reaching programming, brings assistive technology, equipment, and robust support services into the hands of ALS patients – to help individuals with ALS not just survive but thrive after a devastating diagnosis. Each of our guests has either been personally affected by ALS or has supported a loved one with the disease. Event Details: Date: April 24, 2025 Time: 4:00 PM – 8:00 PM Location: Blackham Coliseum, Lafayette, LA Tickets: $45 Website: https://teamgleason.org/f5/ Attendees can enjoy great food, beer, and wine while supporting a worthy cause. F5 is a cooking competition where teams compete in four categories: Fin, Feather, Fur, and Dessert. Awards will be given to the best dishes, a “People’s Choice” winner, and a “Team Showmanship” winner chosen by a panel of judges. Additionally, a silent auction will offer a selection of valuable items. Teams also compete to raise the most funds for Team Gleason, with prizes awarded to top fundraisers. About Team Gleason Foundation: In January 2011, New Orleans Saints star Steve Gleason was diagnosed with ALS. Faced with this devastating diagnosis, Steve embraced a new mission: to show that people with ALS can not only live but thrive and to inspire others facing similar challenges. “People were simply expected to fade away quietly and die, that was not acceptable to me. That is not OK.” Steve and his wife, Michel Varisco, founded Team Gleason, a nonprofit dedicated to helping individuals with ALS lead purposeful and fulfilling lives.  Team Gleason has provided over $55 million in resources to individuals with ALS. Their work includes supplying mobility equipment, power seat elevators, speech-generating devices, and essential home modifications. Personal Impact of Team Gleason: Ursula Quoyeser’s Experience Ursula has received significant support from Team Gleason. These resources have been life-changing, enabling her to maintain independence. Ursula reflects on how Team Gleason anticipates needs before they arise, ensuring that people living with ALS receive assistance promptly. One of the most important things that Team Gleason provides is pathways of communication to connect ALS families with each other so that resources that are no longer needed are generously shared. Many of you know Ursula as a superstar Volleyball coach! She is still a superstar and it is an honor to share her story so that the Team Gleason message may be distributed to a wide audience! Harriet Hoag’s Journey Harriet’s late husband, Monty, was diagnosed with ALS during the height of COVID-19, making the journey even more isolating. Doctors struggled to diagnose him, but Harriet’s own research led them to Baylor Hospital, where they received confirmation. She credits Team Gleason for providing invaluable resources such as a speech-generating device that allowed Monty to communicate with their granddaughter even in his final days. Dale Clark’s Commitment After being diagnosed with ALS, Dale was inspired to help others in the ALS community. Witnessing the challenges faced by fellow patients at his clinic in Houston, he saw the opportunity to make a difference. His dedication, alongside generous contributions from local companies like Badger Oil and Gas and Service Chevrolet, has helped F5 grow into a major fundraising success. For a more in-depth interview we did in 2024 with Dale and Ursula, listen here. Dale Clark says, “100% of the money goes to Team Gleason. In fact, we tell people to mail their check to Team Gleason so we don’t have to handle any money. The Importance of Fundraising: Over the past three years, F5 has raised more than $500,000, with every dollar going directly to Team Gleason. This funding ensures that individuals with ALS receive the support they need without financial barriers as all assistance is rendered free of charge. In addition to equipment and mobility aids, Team Gleason offers emotional and practical support, such as caregiver resources and the Healing Hearts group for those who have lost loved ones to ALS. About 5,000 people in the U. S. are diagnosed with ALS each year. It is difficult to diagnose and is often diagnosed by ruling out other diseases, which can take months or years. There is no cure for ALS, which is a fatal neurodegenerative disease in which a person’s brain loses connection with the muscles. Symptoms start with a progressive loss of muscle control. ALS kills motor neurons, causing muscles to weaken and eventually paralyze. People with ALS lose their ability to walk, talk, eat and in time, breathe. The average life expectancy is 2 to 5 years once diagnosed. 10% of cases are inherited through a mutated gene; the remaining 90% of cases occur without a family history of ALS. Military veterans are more likely to get ALS. For more information, visit https://www.als.org/ Final Thoughts: F5 is more than a fundraiser; it is a community-driven effort to support individuals and families affected by ALS. Whether attending, donating, or sponsoring, everyone has an opportunity to make a meaningful impact. Join us on April 24, 2025, to enjoy incredible food and camaraderie while contributing to a life-changing cause. For tickets and sponsorship opportunities, visit https://teamgleason.org/f5/.

Discover Lafayette is thrilled to welcome Kiki Frayard, founder of Kiki, a boutique store known for its exquisite selection of fine jewelry, fragrances, handbags, and other carefully curated items from designers across the world. While Kiki is known for offering unique designs, Kiki says, “Anybody can walk in to buy fun or lower price point jewelry at $75 to $250. We also offer jewelry up to $65,000.” In addition to her successful retail business, Kiki recently ventured into children’s literature with her book Lila Says No, cleverly illustrated by Aileen Bennett. Her passion for beauty and creativity extends beyond retail, as seen on her vibrant Instagram page, where she shares colorful and inspirational table settings for various events. Kiki, an Opelousas native, has strong ties to the Lafayette community. She is the sister of Marilyn Castle, retired 15th JDC judge, and Joan Dubuisson of Cox Business. She graduated from UL-Lafayette with degrees in Art History and English, initially intending to become an art teacher before discovering her passion for advertising and retail. Her career has been a fascinating journey, including stints as a nightclub singer in New Orleans, a radio advertising executive, and an ad agency owner. Working alongside advertising legend George Graham, Kiki honed her skills in creative writing and marketing, ultimately paving the way for her entrepreneurial success. Kiki opened her boutique in River Ranch after gaining invaluable retail experience from Molly Flanagan, owner of Molly’s. She and her daughter, Katie, built the business together, expanding to Baton Rouge and establishing Kiki as a premier shopping destination. A life-changing car accident in 2007 prompted Kiki to embrace retail fully, leaving advertising to focus on her boutique. She and Katie meticulously designed the store, ensuring an elevated shopping experience comparable to high-end retailers in New York and beyond. Kiki says, “We knew we wanted to do something nice. We didn’t want it to be a hodgepodge of display cases and just thrown together. We really wanted it to be the nicest store in Lafayette. “We had a vision of doing jewelry with designers in mind so that every case was dedicated to a designer. The handbags were displayed one on a shelf to make it seem really special so that everything seemed a little elevated. That worked when people walked in the store. Also, with most merchandise, if you don’t turn it, you got to put it on sale, you’ve got to get rid of it, you got to turn. But jewelry isn’t like that. We could have an expensive piece of jewelry and it could be there for two years, and then someone comes in and and buys it. So you don’t have to discount quite as much. The same thing with perfume.” Beyond retail, Kiki has made a mark in the Lafayette community. She played a crucial role in the development of Lafayette’s downtown playground, recognizing its value in revitalizing the area. Her passion for community enrichment continues to shape her contributions to the city’s cultural and economic landscape. Kiki’s love for creativity extends to her personal life, where she enjoys setting stunning tablescapes for family gatherings. Her collections of fine china and linens reflect her impeccable taste and appreciation for beauty. Her foray into children’s literature has been met with great enthusiasm. Lila Says No is resonating with parents and educators, with notable endorsements from child psychologist Carolyn Helm. The book received a glowing review rom Kirkus as “quirky and entertaining, with a kid and parent-savvy message.” Kiki’s deep admiration for children’s literature and her collection of over 500 books inspired her to finally write her own story, with more books potentially on the horizon. Though retired from store ownership, Kiki remains an integral part of Kiki, still attending market trips and influencing the store’s aesthetic. She has built a legacy of creativity, business acumen, and community impact that continues to inspire Lafayette and beyond. To learn more about Kiki’s journey and latest endeavors, tune in to this episode of Discover Lafayette!

In this episode of Discover Lafayette, we welcome Chris Cook, General Manager of KLFY-TV 10. With years of experience in the broadcasting industry both locally and nationally, Chris is at the forefront of delivering the news, weather, and community stories that matter most to Acadiana. Under his leadership, KLFY continues to evolve in the digital age while maintaining its deep roots in local journalism. The station signed on the air June 3, 1955 and has remained a CBS affiliate since day one. Chris shares his journey in television news, beginning right out of high school in his hometown of Alexandria, where he worked as a photographer. He later moved to Lafayette, a place that felt like a natural home due to family ties and frequent visits for Mardi Gras and Festival Acadiens. His early experiences exposed him to various aspects of the newsroom, from audio production to graphics, sales and marketing. Throughout our conversation, Chris provides insights into the evolving landscape of television news, the impact of local journalism on our community, and how KLFY stays connected with its audience in a fast-changing digital world. He emphasizes the importance of community engagement, civil discourse, and the responsibility of news organizations to serve their audiences with accurate and fair reporting. Key Takeaways: The Role of Local News: Chris believes that local journalism plays a crucial role in keeping people informed about what’s happening in their city and state. Unlike national news, which can sometimes push an agenda, local news provides facts that allow viewers to form their own opinions. The Digital Transformation of News: KLFY has embraced digital platforms to reach audiences where they consume content, whether through its website, social media, mobile app, or its upcoming streaming service, KLFY Plus, launching in late April on Roku, Amazon Fire, and Apple TV, which will focus solely on local news, podcasts. and interviews relating to the Acadiana. Behind the Scenes at KLFY: Chris discusses how news assignments are made, the collaborative effort required to produce a broadcast, and how breaking news can change the course of a reporter’s day at a moment’s notice. Journalism as a Craft: Whether through formal education or hands-on experience, Chris believes that journalism is a skill honed through practice, curiosity, and a commitment to storytelling with integrity. Navigating the Age of Misinformation: With more people consuming news from social media, Chris advises viewers to critically evaluate their news sources, asking who posted the content and why. First of all, this job is fun. We’re working in television. So if you’re not having fun, you’re doing it wrong. And, there are few things in this world that are more collaborative than a newscast on a broadcast television station. There’s so many different hands, so many different eyes, so many different brains that have to come together in order to put that newscast together. The journalists, the producer, the meteorologist, sportscaster, graphic artists, director, cameramen, and sales force.” Connect with KLFY: Website: KLFY.com Facebook: KLFY News 10 Instagram: @KLFY Download the KLFY News App: Available on iOS and Android for real-time updates and push alerts. Chris Cook’s passion for journalism and serving the community is evident throughout this discussion. His commitment to upholding the integrity of local news in an ever-changing media landscape is inspiring. Tune in to this episode to learn more about how KLFY continues to innovate while staying true to its mission of informing and engaging Acadiana. Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcast platform!

Fred Reggie is the author of the soon-to-be-released book, Tell Me: How to Initiate and Nurture Meaningful Conversations with Anyone, Anywhere, Anytime. Throughout his career, Fred has worked with Fortune 500 companies and service organizations across the U.S., helping leaders cultivate meaningful connections and drive success. Fred Reggie is an executive coach, international speaker, and expert in leadership and service culture development. He is well-known in our community and for years spent his time building funding resources for  St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, a cause dear to many of our hearts. The Power of Communication Fred believes that genuine communication stems from an internal motivation to share a message with others. However, many people struggle with seeing the value they bring to conversations, often due to deep-seated self-doubt and imposter syndrome. He explores how, from an early age, we are celebrated for speaking but later conditioned to limit our expressions, being told to quiet down or avoid talking to strangers. This conditioning, Fred explains, creates subconscious barriers. As adults, many of us hesitate to speak up because we question whether our words have value. Moreover, societal norms and technology have reshaped how we communicate, further distancing us from authentic, face-to-face interactions. The Disruption of Conversation Fred discusses how technology has altered human connection. Younger generations, he notes, often prefer texting over direct conversation, avoiding phone calls altogether. “Cocooned communication,” as Fred calls it, has been evolving for decades—beginning with the automobile, which removed people from their porches and into isolated vehicles, and continuing with the rise of television, personal computers, and smartphones. Today, many people live in bubbles of self-communication, limiting the organic conversations that once thrived in everyday life. The Art of “Tell Me” At the heart of Fred’s book is a simple yet profound concept: using the phrase “Tell me” to invite others into meaningful conversations. Rather than asking closed-ended questions, this approach encourages people to share freely, fostering deeper connections. He recalls a powerful moment when James Earl Jones, upon meeting an adoring fan, responded not with a simple “Who are you?” but with, “Tell me your name.” That small shift in language made the woman feel seen and valued. Fred encourages using this technique in all conversations, whether personal or professional, to create an environment of trust and engagement. The Neuroscience of Connection Fred emphasizes that engaging conversations have a physiological impact. When we participate in meaningful discussions, our brains release oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin—chemicals that enhance emotional intelligence, empathy, and overall well-being. Conversely, negative or disconnected conversations can leave us feeling drained and isolated. The Legacy of Storytelling Growing up in a Lebanese family, Fred was surrounded by master storytellers who didn’t just recount events but embodied the characters they spoke about. He believes that storytelling is fundamental to great conversation—it transforms the exchange of information into a compelling, memorable experience. Fred encourages people to embrace storytelling in their daily interactions, whether through professional networking or personal relationships. He also urges listeners to recognize the ripple effect of their words, as every interaction has the power to uplift or deflate another person. A Call to Action: Create Conversational Moments Fred concludes with a simple yet powerful challenge: create conversational moments. He encourages listeners to step outside their comfort zones, engage with strangers, and make genuine connections. By doing so, we can break the cycle of disconnected communication and bring back the lost art of conversation. Tell Me is more than just a book—it’s a movement toward deeper human connection. As Fred reminds us, the ability to start and sustain meaningful conversations is not just a skill but a gift that can reshape our lives and the world around us. For more information, visit https://www.fredreggie.com/book.

Denise Giosa: A Journey in Fashion and Events Denise Giosa’s journey in the world of fashion and events began while she was still in high school, when she joined the Junior Fashion Board at D.H. Holmes in Baton Rouge. It was during this time that she met Beth Phillips, a wonderful mentor who played a significant role in shaping her career. Recognizing Denise’s potential, Beth invited her to be the Youth Coordinator, marking the beginning of her involvement in fashion special events. After college, Denise moved to Lafayette and began traveling for Estée Lauder. It wasn’t long before she received a call from the manager of the Lafayette D.H. Holmes store, offering her a job. She accepted and continued working with the company for five years, further establishing herself in the industry. She thereafter worked for Maison Blanche, and eventually began freelancing in fashion and bridal shows. Her career took another turn when Mark Falgout of Warehouse 535 reached out to her. Originally envisioned as a live music venue, Warehouse 535, located at 535 Garfield Street in the Freetown neighborhood near downtown, has evolved into a multi-purpose event space. Over time, it has expanded beyond live music to host a variety of events, and Denise has played a crucial role in that transformation. Guiding Clients in Event Planning Denise takes a structured approach to helping clients determine their event needs. Before a client even books a date, she ensures they go through a detailed planning process. She asks key questions such as the date, type of event, expected size, and any special requirements. She also helps them visualize how the space will be used, ensuring that all elements—such as a photo booth or seating arrangements—are carefully considered. Her meticulous attention to detail means that by the time an event day arrives, she has already coordinated all aspects. She knows every vendor, delivery time, and setup detail, ensuring that clients never have to scramble at the last minute. Her hands-on approach means that every table, chair, and decoration is in place before the event begins, allowing clients to enjoy their special day stress-free. Additional Services and Wedding Planning Warehouse 535 offers comprehensive event services as part of the venue rental. However, additional services, such as hiring a wedding planner, are to be handled by the client. Some clients choose to bring in a planner midway through the process or hire a “day-of” coordinator to handle last-minute details. Denise ensures that clients understand what each wedding planner offers, as different planners provide different levels of service. She also educates clients on the finer details of event planning. For instance, if a couple is handling their own décor, she ensures they have a plan for setup. She also helps them clarify their expectations with vendors, such as ensuring photographers are booked for the right amount of time so they capture key moments, including the end of the event. Catering, Beverages, and Entertainment Warehouse 535 has certain requirements for event vendors. Caterers must be licensed and insured, and all beverages are provided through the venue. Clients can choose from various beverage packages, ranging from domestic beer and wine to premium selections. Entertainment is another major consideration. Some couples prefer DJs over bands because they want to curate their own playlists, while others love the energy of live music. Denise emphasizes that entertainment is key to keeping an event’s momentum going, and she ensures that DJs and bands are properly set up and integrated into the event timeline. The Evolution of Warehouse 535 Denise has witnessed the growth of Warehouse 535 firsthand. What started as a music venue has expanded to host diverse events, including weddings, corporate functions, and creative experiences like an Edgar Allan Poe-themed speakeasy. The venue has also served as a filming location for shows like Dateline, with production teams transforming rooms to suit their needs. A Career Built on Excellence Denise attributes her career success to her strong work ethic and reputation. She believes that “your interview for your next job is the job you have now.” Every opportunity she has received came through word-of-mouth and professional recommendations. Her background in fashion and event planning, combined with her dedication to excellence, has made her a sought-after expert in her field. Her role has evolved over the years, and she now works with a talented team that helps execute events seamlessly. While she never expected to specialize in weddings, she has come to love the experience of working with brides, helping them stay calm and organized on their big day. Booking and Planning Considerations Event planning in Louisiana follows unique seasonal trends. While summer months like July and August might seem slower, Warehouse 535 remains busy with different types of events. Weddings, in particular, often require long-term planning, especially for Catholic ceremonies that may have church booking restrictions. To streamline the booking process, Warehouse 535 uses Planning Pod, a platform that centralizes event details. When a client inquires through the venue’s website, they receive detailed pricing and package information upfront. Denise is happy to provide estimates based on a client’s budget, helping them determine if Warehouse 535 is the right fit before scheduling a visit. Denise emphasizes the importance of visiting a venue in person. While professional photographs can highlight the space’s best features, nothing compares to seeing it firsthand. She also ensures that potential clients receive a thorough tour, with expert guidance rather than just a quick walkthrough. Looking Ahead As Warehouse 535 continues to grow, Denise remains committed to providing exceptional service. She enjoys the variety that comes with hosting different types of events and continues to refine her planning process. Her approach ensures that every event is well-organized, personalized, and executed with precision. From her early days in fashion to her leadership in event management, Denise Giosa’s career has been defined by passion, dedication, and an unwavering commitment to excellence. Contact and Booking Information For those interested in hosting an event at Warehouse 535, Denise encourages early inquiries and planning. More details about available dates, pricing, and event packages can be found on the venue’s website at https://warehouse535.com/ or by reaching out to Denise directly at denise@warehouse535.com

In this episode of Discover Lafayette, we are honored to welcome Father Howard Blessing, a retired Catholic priest in the Diocese of Lafayette. Ordained in 1976 at the age of 25, Father Blessing has dedicated his life to serving others through his pastoral work at various parishes, including Saint Patrick Catholic Church, Holy Cross, Fatima, Sacred Heart of Ville Platte, and as chaplain at Our Lady of Lourdes. Today, he continues his ministry with Kent Zerangue through Food for Love, a mission providing meals to hospice patients and their families. Beyond his priestly duties, Father Blessing has a fascinating backstory—including winning a Dancing with the Stars competition at the Academy of the Sacred Heart with his friend Angi Davis! However, what truly defines him is his unwavering compassion and deep spiritual wisdom, which he shares in this moving conversation. Key Topics Discussed: The Calling to Priesthood: Growing up as one of seven children, Father Blessing did not consider becoming a priest until college. His journey has been one of continuous learning, as he believes that every person he encounters teaches him something valuable about life and faith.  The Power of Listening: Through his work with parishioners and those in recovery, Father Blessing has learned that true ministry is about being present, listening without judgment, and validating people’s experiences rather than dictating solutions. The Journey from Woundedness to Wholeness: As a recovering alcoholic, Father Blessing speaks candidly about self-worth, healing, and forgiveness. He emphasizes that behavior does not define a person—everyone is inherently valuable and worthy of love. Forgiveness as a Spiritual Practice: Father Blessing shares how forgiveness is central to his faith and personal journey. He explains that it is an act of will that unblocks the spiritual path, allowing grace and love to flow freely.  Recognizing Our Own Worth: Inspired by Gandhi’s wisdom, he discusses the importance of self-love and acceptance. The greatest invention, he believes, is the mirror—because the person looking back simply wants to be loved. Marriage and Relationships: Having counseled many couples, Father Blessing offers insights into the challenges of marriage. He stresses that true partnership is about growth, patience, and understanding, rather than relying on another person for happiness.  The Art of Silence and Reflection: In a fast-paced, noisy world, Father Blessing advocates for stillness and deep introspection. He believes that in silence, we hear God’s voice and discover our true selves. Wisdom from Hospice Patients: Through his work with Food for Love, he has encountered individuals at the end of life who have found peace, letting go of fear and embracing the journey ahead. Their reflections have profoundly impacted his understanding of life and death. Living with Purpose: Father Blessing humorously notes that when he retired, he told people, “If my garage door is open, I’m open.” He continues to be available to those in need, emphasizing that life’s journey is about embracing transformation and being open to growth. Faith, Identity, and Love: He reminds us that we are not defined by our careers or achievements but by who we are as children of God. True fulfillment comes from embracing our divine essence and loving others unconditionally. Memorable Quotes: “The greatest invention in the world is the mirror, because the person looking back at you just wants to be loved.” “Forgiveness unclogs the arteries of our spiritual lives and allows grace to flow through us.” “We are called to listen and walk with people, not to tell them what to do.” “God is the potter, we are the clay. Life is about allowing ourselves to be shaped and molded.” “Love is the remedy. And sometimes, with gritted teeth, you just do.” This conversation with Father Howard Blessing is an inspiring reminder of the power of faith, compassion, and self-discovery. We hope you enjoy this heartfelt episode of Discover Lafayette. Listen & Subscribe: Find this episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Follow Us: Stay connected with Discover Lafayette on social media and visit our website for more interviews celebrating the people and culture of Acadiana.

In this episode of Discover Lafayette, we welcome Jude David, Executive Chairman of Stately Doors & Windows, to discuss the company’s role in delivering ultra-luxury doors and windows for high-end residential and commercial projects. His company does approximately $100 million dollars in sales each year to homes built for business owners, celebrities, and others who can afford to build no matter what the market experiences. Clients have included Billy Joel, Paul McCartney, Jerry Seinfeld, Alec Baldwin, Tony Romo, Diddy, and Calvin Klein. A Leader in Bespoke Doors and Windows With nine locations across the U.S., Stately Doors & Windows has established itself as a premier provider of custom, high-quality designs using exotic hardwoods, Swiss steel, and state-of-the-art glass. The company collaborates with top-tier designers and architects, offering one-of-a-kind solutions tailored to their clients’ visionary needs. Stately Doors & Windows is headquartered at 315 S. College Drive in Lafayette, less than a mile from Jude David’s home. Pushing the Boundaries of Design and Automation Stately specializes in cutting-edge bespoke innovations, including: Disappearing doors and windows that retract seamlessly into the floor or basement, allowing for uninterrupted indoor-outdoor living. Fully automated doors and windows, eliminating the need for manual operation. Custom shapes and sizes, ensuring that no design challenge is too complex, even offering bespoke door options for the owners’ pets. Long-Term Planning and Project Management Jude highlights how Stately works with architects years in advance, often three to four years before construction begins. Unlike many competitors that simply sell products, Stately provides comprehensive project management, from design conception to on-site installation, ensuring a seamless experience. Expanding into Commercial Luxury Spaces Although bespoke doors and windows are rare in commercial projects, Stately has found a niche in high-end hotels, including: La Fonda Resort in New Mexico L’Auberge Bishops Lodge Resort For the people able to pay for these high-end resort prices, it is worth every penny. Very few lodging options offer the luxurious spaces designed by Stately Door & Windows. Additionally, the company operates a high-velocity door manufacturing facility in Las Vegas, producing 2,200 doors per week, and a millwork shop in West Monroe, specializing in moldings, corbels, and luxury finishes for hotel lobbies and upscale spaces. Resilience in Market Fluctuations Despite high interest rates, Stately continues to thrive. Their affluent clientele remain committed to their projects regardless of economic conditions, making their business model highly resilient in both up and down markets. The Artisans Behind the Craft Stately Doors & Windows is built upon skilled artisans who treat their work as an art form rather than just a manufacturing process. Jude acknowledges the difficulty in finding such talent and emphasizes the importance of growing artisans from a young age. The company actively recruits from high schools and trade shows, offering apprenticeship opportunities that lead to lifelong careers in millwork and craftsmanship. Alternative Career Paths and Workforce Development Jude believes that success is not limited to a college degree. He encourages individuals to focus on creating value for their employers, stating that career growth and financial success come from hard work and innovation rather than just formal education. Entrepreneurial Spirit and Leadership Jude shares his entrepreneurial journey, reflecting on his natural inclination toward leadership and growth. He thrives on taking calculated risks, expanding the business through strategic acquisitions, and constantly seeking new challenges. While he acknowledges the importance of teamwork, he admits to being most effective when in charge, shaping Stately into a powerhouse in the luxury construction industry. “If you build run of the mill products in the U.S., you’re going to compete against all of the run of the mill importers. You better have something really special you can offer that importers can’t. Otherwise, you’ll be beaten on price every time. So what we focused on was how to go to the very high end of the luxury build and focus on bespoke and fully custom doors and windows. Bespoke is a good word for it because custom means different things to different people. We build one of a kind solutions. Most of our doors are one of one.” Listen to the full episode to learn more about Jude David’s visionary leadership and the unparalleled craftsmanship of Stately Doors & Windows. Visit https://stately.com/ for more information and to delight in examples of the beautiful designs that have been crafted. Jude David is also CEO of Kin Capital Partners, as well as managing partner of Final Ascent, a company that helps mid-market business owners ($5 million an up in value) make their business sellable and find the right buyer and tranistion for maximum value. His specialty is the art of acquisition, focusing on finding the right buyer, negotiating a deal that creates maximum value for everyone involved, and setting business owners up for a lifetime of success after the sale.

Billi Lacombe, Executive Director of Faith House since 2002, joins Discover Lafayette to talk about her life mission to help survivors of domestic violence become safe. Leaving an abusive situation is never easy due to various barriers such as financial insecurity, lack of support systems, fear of losing children, and concerns over personal safety. Faith House is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization based in Lafayette, serving seven parishes in Acadiana, which provides free services to women and children who need help in getting out of a domestic violence situation. Its main source of funding (75%) is through federal grants ( Office on Violence Against Women, the Department of Health and HUD), .and the organization relies upon volunteer services to keep its mission going. Faith House’s mission is to provide safety, shelter, empowerment and advocacy to survivors of domestic violence. It offers confidential and safe resources to those most in need. As a young women, Billi studied to be a paralegal and was contacted in 1998 by a former classmate who asked her to work at Faith House. She had always had an interest in women’s rights after seeing women in her life experiencing extreme hardships and the opportunity seemed appropriate for her. Billi went to work at Faith House as a legal advocate helping survivors, getting protective orders for them, and she says, “That was it for me. I saw nothing else that I would want to do with my life other than continue to help survivors of domestic violence become safe. That became my life’s mission.” And for the record, during our interview, we saw the calming energy Billi brings to the table that is a gift from God. Faith House addresses the challenges women face wherever they are, taking care of their family and trying to earn a livable income for themselves and their family. Many people don’t see the barriers that still exist for women. Billi says, “It is about justice for me. I just want to see justice, equality, and equity happening more for women so that they can exist in this world. Not having to stay with an abusive partner and to be able to live and support your children. You should not have to be abused just to be able to pay your bills. I mean that that’s what these survivors are facing.” Many domestic violence victims and their families need emergency shelter. Faith House offers a safe refuge for those in the highest levels of danger who have experienced severe cases of domestic violence with a high potential for lethality. Billi says, “It is very typical for a family to walk in, a mom with a couple of kids, with absolutely nothing. Sometimes they don’t have shoes on their feet, they’re in their nightclothes and haven’t eaten for 2 or 3 days, and are starving when they walk in the door. The shelter offers anything you could imagine that you would need if you left your home with nothing. Toothpaste. Shampoo. A sandwich, some water. Clothing. Everything that you could imagine.” Glenn Armentor has been generous in supporting Faith House through underwriting television ads which highlight Faith House and its mission to help domestic violence victims. Since this advertising campaign started six years ago, Faith House has had thousands of people call their hotline and say they heard the commercial and reached out for help. They would not have otherwise known there was a place to go for assistance. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fdgKE3-D6dU Many survivors worry about their children when considering leaving. Losing custody due to financial instability is a significant concern. Abusers often use threats of taking children as a means of control. The fear of homelessness and the inability to provide a stable environment keeps many in dangerous situations. Faith House offers emergency shelter to those in the highest danger levels, providing a safe space where families can focus on rebuilding their lives. Physical safety is another major issue. Survivors are coached on strategies such as leaving only one car door unlocked and backing into driveways for quick exits, as well as making themselves as small as possible in a corner if attacked. Having essential documents and belongings ready to grab in an emergency is crucial. Teaching children to run to a neighbor or using a pre-established code word to alert the children to danger can also be lifesaving. Survivors often freeze up during violent incidents, so training for automatic responses is essential. Faith House helps survivors develop safety plans tailored to their situations, including strategies for staying safe during visitations with abusive parents. Since abuse does not always end when a victim leaves, ongoing safety planning and legal assistance are critical. Faith House works with survivors to understand their legal rights and navigate court processes, including obtaining protective orders. Confidentiality is paramount at Faith House. Many survivors do not disclose their abuse due to shame, fear for their safety, or lack of support from family members. Victim-blaming attitudes, such as questioning why they stayed when abused, only reinforces isolation. Faith House ensures survivors have a trusted space where their experiences are validated, and their safety is prioritized. The legal system can be overwhelming, and financial constraints often prevent victims from accessing legal support. The Lafayette Bar Association provides essential legal forms and assistance for those who cannot afford an attorney, selling low-cost forms that help in filing protective orders, custody arrangements, and divorce proceedings. The Faith House shelter consists of ten bedrooms, each offering five beds, with shared bathrooms and common areas, including a fully stocked kitchen where families can cook their own meals. This structure helps maintain a sense of normalcy. Additionally, a playroom and laundry facilities ensure that families have access to basic needs. Recognizing that pets are also victims of domestic violence and have suffered physical and/or emotional abuse, Faith House has an on-site pet facility through the generosity of Red Rover, a national foundation dedicated to ensuring that survivors can keep their pets. Many abusers harm pets in the household, and having a safe space for them when they leave the abusive home is crucial for the survivors’ emotional well-being. Faith House offers support groups where survivors can connect, share experiences, and heal. These groups are facilitated across multiple parishes and provide a sense of community. Additionally, transitional housing programs help survivors move from emergency shelter to independent living. A new facility in Mansura, Louisiana, is being developed to expand these services. Community support is vital. Fundraisers, donations, and local volunteer efforts sustain many programs. Faith House recently launched Wildflower Lane, a boutique on N. Parkerson Street in Crowley, that sells donated items from local boutiques and gently used items from donors. Volunteers staff the shop, and all proceeds directly support the organization. Board members and volunteers are instrumental in spreading awareness and securing resources. They assist with events, fundraising, and donation drives. Volunteers can also help with shelter maintenance, hotline support, court accompaniment, and organizing group activities for survivors. Due to the sensitive nature of the work, volunteer training is intensive to ensure proper care and confidentiality. Faith House collaborates with the Acadiana Coalition Against Homelessness to address the link between domestic violence and homelessness. Many survivors end up on the streets due to a lack of resources, making accessible shelter options a critical need. Law enforcement plays a key role in intervention, but victims may be hesitant to press charges. Officers are trained to provide support beyond the immediate crisis, recognizing the complexities of abuse. Community members can help by offering non-judgmental support, being available for survivors when they are ready to reach out, and connecting them to resources. Medical professionals frequently encounter and diagnose domestic violence injuries when victims present themselves in the doctor’s office or the hospital, Recognizing signs of abuse and offering discreet support can make a difference. Faith House provides information through its Facebook page and community outreach efforts to raise awareness and connect survivors to help. Volunteer projects range from maintaining shelter grounds to sorting donations and assisting with fundraising. Those interested can contact Faith House at (337) 232-8954 or the 24-hour hotline at 1-888-411-1333. The organization’s wishlist includes expanded shelter capacity and enhanced therapeutic services. With hundreds of people turned away each year due to space limitations, additional facilities are essential. Faith House currently employs two full-time therapists who provide trauma-informed counseling, but more resources are needed to support survivors’ mental health. Faith House continues to be a beacon of hope for those affected by domestic violence, providing immediate safety, long-term support, and the tools necessary to rebuild lives free from abuse. For more information visit https://faithhouseacadiana.com/ Discover Lafayette thanks Billi Lacombe and her staff for their dedication in helping victims of domestic violence abuse achieve a better life!