Girls Gone Deep

Professional cuddler and dominatrix Bee from Temple in Chicago discusses yoni gazing, DDLG dynamics, therapeutic kink, and shibari. Highlights include overcoming vulva shame, the importance of touch, and switchy domme power dynamics. Also covers the healing power of professional cuddling, boundaries in professional domination, and creating connections through shared experiences in the kink community.

In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back repeat guest Slutlana (from Episode 31: Opening Your Marriage, Throuples, and Falling In Love With Someone Besides Your Husband) and Alexa Andre (from Episode 71: Relaxing While Receiving Oral, One Penis Policy, and Biphobia) to play the game Whoreible Life.This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP! There are many many ways to play, so in this episode they play it two ways: “Would You Rather” and “Done It, Fantasy, No Thank You” - 1 Done it — share the story!2 Fantasy — share your fantasy of this card!3 No thank you - and why you're not interested in this act.Have you ever had sex in your parents’ bed?  How “the talk” and your parents’ approach to sex can affect your early relationship with sexuality. (3:13)Different approaches to talking about sex with your kids. (8:48) Have you ever role played in a rape fantasy or “Consensual Non Consent” (CNC) scene?  Describing examples of CNC scenes, role playing, safe words and what needs to be discussed and agreed beforehand. (13:30)Lowering our standards while dating during the Covid pandemic and putting ourselves in potentially unsafe situations. (22:52)Catharsis in acting out fears through sexual fantasies like rape scenes and consensual non-consent. (30:34)Would you rather use a double ended dildo or make a girl squirt?  Being surprised by a squirter. Glass vs silicone double ended dildos, and the first time orgasming with a double ended dildo - what position works best. (38:27)Double ended dildo vs. Feeldo. (42:50)Would you rather practice tantric sex or role play as submissive? Masturbating and focusing on the breath; breath orgasms without physical touch. (45:40)Workout orgasms and Elle’s experience orgasming with an ab roller. (48:02)Would you rather watch VR porn or be dominated to lose the right to orgasm? Orgasm denial, being a brat, and Reddit porn communities. (50:45)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Lola Jean (@lolajeandotcom) about her work as a sex educator.  She's known for holding the World Record for Highest Volume Squirted, but this conversation steers away from that (after first touching on why squirting can be annoying) and dives into her work as a fetish wrestler (aka "play fighting" using jiu jitsu moves). No frills sex education: what does that mean? Working the social media algorithm as a sex educator. All the courses Lola Jean has on her website from choking to masturbation to play fighting, and more. (1:18)How did Lola Jean get to where she is as a sex educator, squirting icon and fetish wrestler? (6:58)ENM (Ethical Non Monogamy): differentiating non-monogamy, just “being single”, and situationships. Figuring out what you want by dating all types of couples and relationship dynamics. Sex and love addicts anonymous (SLAA). Attachment styles. (9:27)Squirting: how does it feel to be known as a squirter? Fetishizing and red flags.  What should we know about squirting? When trying to do it, figure out WHY you’re trying to do it. Who is it for? (17:30)Broad vs specific response squirting. (22:04)Why squirting actually sucks. (25:24)Fetish Wrestling: Different types of choking (Fantasy Choke, Blood Choke, Air Choke). (29:51)What does a fetish wrestling session look like? Power dynamics? Vetting process? Types of fetish wrestling sessions: fantasy, semi-competitive, full competitive, lift and carry.  (35:53)What is the psychology behind fetish wrestling? What's in it for both the provider and the client? (41:56)Sex workers' self care after sessions. (44:30)Where to find Lola Jean:Website: lolajean.comSeven Days of DominationWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Kate Maxx, who is a "Jill of all trades": a former Naked News anchor, model, Young Swingers Week emcee (among other events), stripper, Only Fans content creator, and dominatrix specializing in humiliation.  They go deep on all these topics. Additionally, they cover the importance of separating your work and personal life as a sex worker, and the shifts in perspective when you're a young widow.Website: www.katemaxx.comInstagram: kate_maxx_Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Guests Daniel D'Ottavio and M play the game WHOREible Life, discussing age play, glory holes, DP, Prince Albert piercings, language barrier sex, collars, and spreader bars. They share personal stories, insights, and experiences with various sexual activities, emphasizing communication, boundaries, and exploring different kinks.

This week, Vee and Elle discuss a range of topics with sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa), a sex therapist and host of the podcast In Bed with Alexa. They cover everything from new couples exploring ethical non-monogamy, to being able to relax into receiving oral (especially as a vulva owner), to navigating bisexuality, and so much more, including:What advice do you have for a couple in which one partner has more experience than the other in non-monogamy?  How can you deal when you’re unsure whether it will work with someone who has no experience with being open? (4:51)Vulva owners reciving oral: tasting yourself so you’re not worried about how you taste or smell, and the benefit of having a partner who loves natural body odors. (17:07)Alexa’s secret to relaxing when receiving oral: setting time boundaries! How long do you think it actually takes you to orgasm? Getting over guilt for taking “too long” to orgasm while receiving. (22:49)Bisexuality and biphobia.  How does biphobia show up in non-monogamous spaces? What is “one penis policy”, and how a male partner dictating that their female partner can be with other women but not other men is problematic. The stigma of male-on-male play in swinger spaces and sex parties. (30:11) The stigma of male-on-male play in swinger spaces and sex parties. Normalizing speaking about bisexuality, especially in men. Watching your male partner give head and deep throating. (34:29)  Alexa’s specialties, and the full range of volume in sex - letting go vocally when coming vs holding your breath and being totally silent. (39:20)  Is it weird to announce it when you orgasm? (41:44)  “Challenge your beliefs and question everything.” What do YOU actually want? The path to a greater sex life. (43:42) Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

This week, the girls continue their chat about all things ORAL. (Listen to 069: Part 1: Techniques, Uncircumcised Blow Jobs and Power Dynamics here.)What to stop doing in oral sex. (2:38)Tips for helping with gag reflex. (4:56)Imbalance of giving head vs eating pussy. (10:14)Challenges and hangups with oral. (12:45)Best oral positions in group sex. (17:03)Grooming and hygiene. (21:03)Cum: spit or swallow? (27:17)Cum: where to finish, and how to communicate about it. (29:42)Ask Dr. Elle: Is it bad to give or recieve oral with morning breath? (35:20)How do you give oral with stuffy nose? (40:01)How can whatever is in the giver’s mouth affect my genitals? PH balance, etc. (42:33)Is it ok to give head to an irritated dick? (45:05)How can you get rid of the condom taste? (48:44)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

It's the oral extravaganza! Vee and Elle chat about all things oral: blow jobs, eating out and all the good and bad along with it. Why do you deep throat? (1:53)Enthusiasm - our number one tip! The importance of moaning to show enthusiasm when receiving. (6:37)Techniques for giving head: the corkscrew method; communication; ball sucking and licking. (9:49)Getting comfortable! The best positions to give head and go down on someone. (15:08)Techniques for licking pussy (cunnilingus, going down on someone, etc): make out with the clit; build gradual pressure. (19:10)Eating out: flicking vs sucking the clit; fingering in conjunction with clit play; in and out vs come hither. (22:34)Tongue fucking. (25:44)How do you stop someone if you don’t like what they’re doing? How to be comfortable sitting on someone’s face, and why you might not want really good head in a play situation. (27:21)Eye contact during oral: yay or nay? (36:03)What should we stop doing? What makes oral bad? Teeth, smell and bad hygiene, and the importance of tasting your own cum. (40:24)How to give head (fellatio, blow jobs) to uncircumcised dicks. What do you do with the foreskin? (45:09)Power dynamics of oral sex: who’s in charge? Face fucking. (47:38)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Sarah Eve about sensation play, including everything from the tools to use, to what questions to ask before a session, to safety considerations (especially when using electroplay), and so much more. Sarah Eve is an educator and facilitated a mini workshop on sensation play at Daytime Playtime: a Sober Play Party, which Vee recapped in Episode 063. What is sensation play? How can we stimulate different senses to heighten a sexual experience? It’s not just touch - how to play with scent, sight, taste, and smell, too. (6:58)What’s in your bag of tools for sensation play? (12:58)Things to consider: intensity, pressure, speed, direction and location. (18:10)Setting and negotiating the scene to deliver a great experience: the right questions to ask before engaging in a sensory play scene. (20:50)TENS unit play and electro play - what to ask beforehand, insertables, using condoms and safety.  (23:47)What can you do when you don’t have tools at your disposal? Using your mouth: breath, spit, temperature, teeth. (30:17)Thoughts on numbing or intensifying creams? (39:00)How long is a good amount of time for a sensation play session? (44:09)Pain play and floggers. (47:52)What does sensation play do for couples? De-centering penetrative sex. (49:40)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

In this episode, Vee chats with two couples at Hedonism Swing Breakers about their tools and takeaways for making a vacation at an all-inclusive lifestyle resort a success.  Superslut and The Turk chat about how therapy helped set them up for success, while Josie and Evan share how Evan cutting out alcohol changed their relationship for the better. Additionally, they cover: What are some communication techniques to mitigate the effects of the free-flowing alcohol? Why keep doing it if it's so much work? ...And what are some hot experiences they've had along the way?First Hedo experience: a big challenge. Going through a polyamorous breakup. (3:55)Tools from both solo and couples therapy. People pleasing. No "taking one for the team".  (8:42) Safety Tool: No record-counting. Setting desires not goals. (12:30)Safety Tool: Move at the pace of the slowest person. Playing separately vs. playing together. (15:34)Safety Tool: limiting alcohol consumption to help manage emotions. (17:51)Safety Tool: Only argue for two minutes. Keep the mindset that you're a team. (19:01)Spicy story: being a couple's first ENM experience. Enthusiastic consent. (20:01)Spicy Story: Superslut's first double penetration (DP). (21:31)Stag and Vixen: what is it? Why a woman might not enjoy watching her partner with someone else. Finding your dynamic through trial and error. Why Hedonism is not the ideal place to figure out what works for you. (22:50)Drinking and the lifestyle: how drinking affects your ability to respect boundaries and agreements. Getting sober to save your relationship. How stopping drinking can enrich your experience with your partner. Getting used to being at an all-inclusive resort without alcohol. Discovering we are braver than we thought. What do you do with your hands? (28:29)Why swing? Dressing sexy for your partner. Vaginal hook harnesses. (35:49)Why be in the open lifestyle? Sense of community. "Hedo people are the best people." Icebreakers. (38:13)Major takeaway: don’t have a checklist. Release expectations. There’s always next time. (41:01)Squirting and exhibitionism. (43:20)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.