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Thom Rainer
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Dec 22, 2025 • 22min
Religious People Are Happier (And the Data Proves It)
Thom and Sam dive into Ryan Burge’s latest analysis of the 2023–2024 Pew Religious Landscape Survey, which asked nearly 37,000 Americans a simple question: “How happy are you with your life these days?” The results reveal one of the clearest and most consistent findings in social science.
Religious people report being happier than non-religious people.
While happiness is complex and influenced by many factors, the data shows that both religious belonging (identifying with a faith) and religious behavior (attending worship in person) are strongly correlated with higher life satisfaction. Online worship, while somewhat beneficial, doesn’t have the same impact as being physically present in a faith community.
In-Person Worship Boosts Happiness. Those who attend religious services weekly or more are nearly twice as likely to report being “very happy” as those who never attend. The most frequent attenders—about 8% of the population—are the happiest group by far.
Online Worship Helps, But Less So. Watching services online provides a slight happiness bump, but it’s no substitute for in-person connection. The data shows little difference in happiness between non-attenders and online-only participants.
Faith Matters Most for Younger Generations. Millennials and older members of Gen Z who attend church weekly are about twice as likely to report being “very happy” compared to their non-religious peers. The “happiness gap” is strongest among these younger cohorts.
The Relationship Persists Across Politics and Age. Even when controlling for ideology and age, religious people (liberal, moderate, or conservative) consistently report higher happiness levels than non-religious individuals.
The takeaway is simple but profound: faithful community and consistent worship participation are powerful predictors of well-being. Or, as Dr. Burge puts it, “Highly active religious people are happier than non-religious people. There’s no other way to spin this data.”
Resources:
Upward Sports
The One Year Bible
Tyndale House Publishers
Church Growth Services
“Religious People Are Happier Than Non-Religious People” by Ryan Burge
“The Real Facts About Online Church: Who Watches, Who Doesn’t” by Ryan Burge
“Revival of the Analog Church” by Thom S. Rainer – coming soon!
“Bowling Alone” by Robert Putnam (affiliate link)
Church Answers Platinum Membership
FREE Research Report! New Surprising Insights
The Hope Initiative
Episode Sponsors:
2026 – New Year, Greater Family Impact
A new year is the perfect time to dream bigger, reach farther, and make an even greater impact in your community. Upward Sports isn’t just about the game—it’s about bringing the whole family together.
As you plan for 2026, imagine creating experiences that connect kids, parents, and grandparents in a fun, welcoming environment. From cheering on the sidelines to hitting the court or field, every sport is an opportunity to build relationships, strengthen community, and share your church’s message of care and connection.
Whether it’s basketball, soccer, flag football, cheerleading, volleyball, baseball, pickleball, or even adult running, Upward Sports equips your church to reach families right in the heart of your neighborhood. All it takes is one passionate leader and a church ready to turn this new year into greater impact.
Start today at Upward.org/ChurchAnswers
There is something powerful about walking through the Bible at the same time. When everyone is reading the same Scripture each day, conversations change. Hearts open. People feel connected—not just to God, but to each other.
One Year Bibles are designed to guide readers through the entire Bible in 365 days.
It is one reading a day, and by the end of the year, you will have gone through the entire Bible together—one body, moving in one direction, through one story.
It is more than a reading plan. It is a way to build unity, deepen discipleship, and create shared momentum to know God and each other more.
Perfect for small groups, Bible studies, Sunday School classes, and other connection points.
Find a One Year Bible for your community at TheOneYearBible.com.
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Dec 18, 2025 • 22min
Unbelievable: 72% of Churches Have No Marriage Ministry!
Churches help prepare couples for marriage and rescue them when things fall apart, but what happens in between? That middle space—the “fine zone”—is where most couples slowly drift while everyone assumes they’re okay.
The truth is, fine isn’t faithfulness. It’s fatigue. And most churches don’t have a plan for discipling marriages before they reach the breaking point. Sam interviews Brad Rhoads of Grace Marriage to find out more. Grace Marriage is helping churches change that by creating pathways for ongoing marriage discipleship, not just crisis care.
The Marriage Gap Is Real. Most couples aren’t falling apart; they’re simply drifting apart. Without ongoing discipleship, “fine” becomes the silent decline that weakens families and churches.
Marriage Ministry Needs a Reframe. Seventy-two percent of churches have no structured marriage ministry. It’s not about adding another program; it’s about treating marriage discipleship like children’s or youth ministry: regular, intentional, and mission-critical.
Healthy Marriages Multiply Health Everywhere. When couples grow in grace, it transforms their homes, strengthens the church, and becomes a powerful witness to the watching world.
The bottom line: Don’t just pray for marriages, disciple them. When churches invest in marriage health, everything else begins to thrive.
Resources:
Doctor of Ministry, The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary
Chaney & Associates
Grace Marriage – FREE eBook, “Discipling Marriages”
Church Answers Central
The Hope Initiative
FREE Research Report! New Surprising Insights
Episode Sponsors:
The Doctor of Ministry at Southern Seminary is designed to strengthen both you and your church.
You’ll bring a real challenge from your ministry into the program—and through trusted faculty mentorship and applied theological study, you’ll develop a biblically grounded, practical plan that equips you to implement lasting change in your church.
This is theological scholarship applied where it matters most: your local ministry.
Study under faculty mentors who are both scholars and seasoned ministry leaders.
Sharpen your thinking, deepen your theology, and lead with clarity.
Build a network of peers who share your calling and understand your challenges.
Learn how at sbts.edu/dmin.
Lead Your Church. We’ll Handle the Numbers.
We have decades of experience serving churches across the country.
We’re church accountants who speak your language and understand your mission.
Gain clear financial insights to guide your ministry decisions with confidence.
Tailored solutions for churches of every size and stage.
Smart tools that save time and simplify finances so you can focus on ministry.
Stewardship matters. Your time is precious. We help with both.
Learn more today at chaneyassociates.com/churchanswers
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Dec 15, 2025 • 26min
NEW Research: What Really Matters in Theological Education?
For decades, seminaries have promoted the ideal—full-time, on-campus study in a traditional academic setting. But for most adults pursuing ministry training, that ideal simply isn’t practical. New research reveals a clear tension between what people would love to do and what they can realistically manage. Theological education thrives when schools position themselves as a bridge between the ideal and the practical, maintaining depth and quality while removing unnecessary barriers. Sam interviews Dr. Andy Miller, from Wesley Biblical Seminary, about four key points shaping the future of seminary enrollment.
Flexibility is essential. Students want fully online programs with strong asynchronous options so they can study on their own schedule and pace. Fewer than one in ten prefer entirely in-person classes.
Timeline matters. Adult learners, most over 30 and many over 45, are looking for clear, accelerated paths to completion. Programs that respect their time with realistic workloads and transfer credits stand out.
Affordability is non-negotiable. Half of respondents said cost is a major barrier. Creative financial solutions like payment plans and scholarships are key.
The church connection. Theological education isn’t just about degrees; it’s about equipping people in the pews for ministry. By understanding what’s practical for lay leaders and pastors alike, seminaries can better serve the mission of the church.
The takeaway: the future of theological education belongs to schools that meet students where they are—flexible, focused, and financially accessible—while staying deeply rooted in the mission of preparing faithful leaders for the church.
Resources:
The One Year Bible
Tyndale House Publishers
Upward Sports
Wesley Biblical Seminary
Church Answers Platinum Membership
FREE Research Report! New Surprising Insights
The Hope Initiative
Episode Sponsors:
There is something powerful about walking through the Bible at the same time. When everyone is reading the same Scripture each day, conversations change. Hearts open. People feel connected—not just to God, but to each other.
One Year Bibles are designed to guide readers through the entire Bible in 365 days.
It is one reading a day, and by the end of the year, you will have gone through the entire Bible together—one body, moving in one direction, through one story.
It is more than a reading plan. It is a way to build unity, deepen discipleship, and create shared momentum to know God and each other more.
Perfect for small groups, Bible studies, Sunday School classes, and other connection points.
Find a One Year Bible for your community at TheOneYearBible.com.
Bring the Game to Your Church
From basketball and cheerleading to soccer, flag football, volleyball, baseball, adult running—and now pickleball for middle and high schoolers—Upward Sports offers leagues for every interest and age. Flexible and family-friendly, these experiences give your church the tools to engage your community, connect families, and create lasting memories. As the world’s largest Christian youth sports organization, partnering with over 1,800 churches nationwide, Upward Sports is ready to help you launch a first-class, organized, and intentional league.
Learn more at www.Upward.org/ChurchAnswers.
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Dec 11, 2025 • 22min
Non-Churchy Looking Churches: The Advantages of Big-Box Church Architecture
In this follow-up episode, we examine the other side of the conversation—the rise of big-box church architecture. Often found in converted retail spaces or new multipurpose campuses, these designs emphasize functionality, flexibility, and accessibility. They reflect a different theology of space, one that prioritizes mission, efficiency, and comfort over formality. Sam interviews Todd Brown and Isaac Brown of Brown Church Development Group.
Function over Form. Big-box churches maximize every square foot, using open floor plans for worship, community events, and ministries throughout the week.
Accessibility and Affordability. These buildings are cost-effective, quick to build or repurpose, and often located in high-traffic areas with ample parking, making them easy to find and attend.
Welcoming and Familiar. The casual, “non-churchy” feel can help visitors relax and engage, especially those intimidated by traditional sanctuaries.
Mission-Driven Flexibility. By prioritizing multipurpose use, big-box churches embody a missional posture, meeting people where they are and serving communities in practical ways.
In the end, architecture isn’t just about aesthetics; it’s about mission. Whether it’s a stained-glass cathedral or a repurposed warehouse, the real question is: Does this space help people encounter Christ and His church?
Resources:
Doctor of Ministry, The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary
Chaney & Associates
Brown Church Development Group
Should Churches Look Churchy? The Advantages of Traditional Architecture
FREE Research Report! New Surprising Insights
Church Answers Central
The Hope Initiative
Episode Sponsors:
The Doctor of Ministry at Southern Seminary is designed to strengthen both you and your church.
You’ll bring a real challenge from your ministry into the program—and through trusted faculty mentorship and applied theological study, you’ll develop a biblically grounded, practical plan that equips you to implement lasting change in your church.
This is theological scholarship applied where it matters most: your local ministry.
Study under faculty mentors who are both scholars and seasoned ministry leaders.
Sharpen your thinking, deepen your theology, and lead with clarity.
Build a network of peers who share your calling and understand your challenges.
Learn how at sbts.edu/dmin.
Lead Your Church. We’ll Handle the Numbers.
We have decades of experience serving churches across the country.
We’re church accountants who speak your language and understand your mission.
Gain clear financial insights to guide your ministry decisions with confidence.
Tailored solutions for churches of every size and stage.
Smart tools that save time and simplify finances so you can focus on ministry.
Stewardship matters. Your time is precious. We help with both.
Learn more today at chaneyassociates.com/churchanswers
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Dec 8, 2025 • 21min
Should Churches Look Churchy? The Advantages of Traditional Architecture
In this episode, we explore why traditional church architecture still resonates deeply with people, even those who rarely attend church. A recent research project found that 90% of Americans want church buildings to be “easily identifiable.” Sam interviews Todd Brown and Isaac Brown of Brown Church Development Group to find out more.
Architecture Communicates Theology. Traditional designs (soaring ceilings, stained glass, and symbolic layouts) visually proclaim the transcendence and holiness of God.
Sacred Space Inspires Reverence. Beautiful, enduring architecture invites worshipers to look upward and inward, fostering awe and contemplative worship.
Connection to History. Traditional spaces remind congregations they are part of a story stretching back centuries, anchoring believers in continuity and shared faith.
Beauty as Outreach. Research suggests that even the unchurched and younger generations are drawn to “churchy” spaces. The timeless beauty of sacred architecture can serve as a quiet invitation to explore the gospel.
Traditional architecture has always been more than just design; it’s a visual theology. It shapes how people encounter God and community.
Resources:
Upward Running
Upward Sports
The One Year Bible
Tyndale House Publishers
Brown Church Development Group
Non-Churchy Looking Churches: The Advantages of Big-Box Church Architecture
Church Answers Platinum Membership
FREE Research Report! New Surprising Insights
The Hope Initiative
Episode Sponsors:
Upward Running for Your Small Group
Turn your small group into a community on the move! Upward Running helps adults go from the couch to completing a 5K together. You provide the run coach, and we’ll equip them with training plans, resources, and support to lead well. It’s a fun, healthy way to grow relationships, encourage one another, and experience fitness and fellowship together.
Learn more at Upward.org/Runcoach.
There is something powerful about walking through the Bible at the same time. When everyone is reading the same Scripture each day, conversations change. Hearts open. People feel connected—not just to God, but to each other.
One Year Bibles are designed to guide readers through the entire Bible in 365 days.
It is one reading a day, and by the end of the year, you will have gone through the entire Bible together—one body, moving in one direction, through one story.
It is more than a reading plan. It is a way to build unity, deepen discipleship, and create shared momentum to know God and each other more.
Perfect for small groups, Bible studies, Sunday School classes, and other connection points.
Find a One Year Bible for your community at TheOneYearBible.com.
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Dec 4, 2025 • 24min
How to Handle Losing Your Church’s Biggest Financial Supporter
Losing a major donor can feel daunting, but staying calm is crucial. Understanding why a supporter leaves is key to responding effectively. They discuss the normal 15-30% churn rate in churches and advise pastors to act quickly without panic. Clear communication with the congregation is essential, as is addressing any valid concerns raised by departing givers. Adjusting budgets and understanding giving patterns can help manage cash flow. Ultimately, trusting in divine provision is essential amidst financial changes.

Dec 1, 2025 • 22min
Small-Church Breakout Growth: The Incredible Story of First Baptist Caldwell, NJ
God has done something remarkable at First Baptist Church in Caldwell, NJ. They have limited space and limited parking. However, through Upward Sports, the church has developed a large outreach ministry within the community. Hundreds of children participate, and the church is reaching people from diverse backgrounds. Sam interviews Pastor Travis Clark to reveal exactly what happened.
Resources:
The One Year Bible
Tyndale House Publishers
Upward Sports
First Baptist Church (Caldwell, NJ)
Church Answers Platinum Membership
FREE Research Report! New Surprising Insights
The Hope Initiative
Episode Sponsors:
There is something powerful about walking through the Bible at the same time. When everyone is reading the same Scripture each day, conversations change. Hearts open. People feel connected—not just to God, but to each other.
One Year Bibles are designed to guide readers through the entire Bible in 365 days.
It is one reading a day, and by the end of the year, you will have gone through the entire Bible together—one body, moving in one direction, through one story.
It is more than a reading plan. It is a way to build unity, deepen discipleship, and create shared momentum to know God and each other more.
Perfect for small groups, Bible studies, Sunday School classes, and other connection points.
Find a One Year Bible for your community at TheOneYearBible.com.
2026 – New Year, Greater Family Impact
A new year is the perfect time to dream bigger, reach farther, and make an even greater impact in your community. Upward Sports isn’t just about the game—it’s about bringing the whole family together.
As you plan for 2026, imagine creating experiences that connect kids, parents, and grandparents in a fun, welcoming environment. From cheering on the sidelines to hitting the court or field, every sport is an opportunity to build relationships, strengthen community, and share your church’s message of care and connection.
Whether it’s basketball, soccer, flag football, cheerleading, volleyball, baseball, pickleball, or even adult running, Upward Sports equips your church to reach families right in the heart of your neighborhood. All it takes is one passionate leader and a church ready to turn this new year into greater impact.
Start today at Upward.org/ChurchAnswers
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Nov 27, 2025 • 24min
Why You Should Leave Your Church (A Pastor’s Perspective)
The discussion dives into the deeper reasons behind church transitions, moving beyond mere convenience. Geographic shifts, theological alignment, and family dynamics are unveiled as valid motivations for finding a new congregation. They highlight the importance of not remaining in toxic environments and emphasize that leaving a church can be a faithful decision, not just a casual choice. Life stages and personal growth can also play significant roles in determining where one worships, aiming for a place where spiritual growth flourishes.

Nov 24, 2025 • 24min
The Burge Report: How Do Pastors Actually End Up in Ministry?
Ryan Burge, a political scientist and researcher, delves into the winding journeys many pastors take before entering ministry. Using data from the National Survey of Religious Leaders, he reveals that two-thirds had previous careers and a significant number balance multiple roles, often working over 50 hours weekly. The insights on bi-vocational challenges, financial pressures, and the beauty of their calling highlight the complexities of pastoral life. It's a captivating discussion about commitment, calling, and the diverse paths to church leadership.

Nov 20, 2025 • 22min
The Top Reasons Why It’s Painful for Pastors to Lose Church Members
One of the more painful aspects of ministry is losing church members. Sometimes these departures are for good reasons, like moving to another town or planting a church. More often than not, pastors struggle with the reasons why people leave. Josh and Sam discuss why pastors experience pain with the loss of members, and they explore some ways to cope with the accompanying sadness.
When people leave the church, it feels personal because it often is.
Most pastors genuinely love their church members, even the difficult ones.
The time invested in people can feel like a waste when they leave for petty reasons.
Morale often drops when well-known people exit.
Pastors fear others will follow the lead of those who left.
Resources:
“Leadership in a Chaotic World” by Dr. Andrew Walker, Dr. Justin Irving, and Dr. Jeremy Pierre
Doctor of Ministry, The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary
Join Platinum for 1-on-1 and group coaching with Sam. Email sam@churchanswers.com
FREE Research Report! New Surprising Insights
Church Answers Central
The Hope Initiative
Episode Sponsors:
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