The Meaning of Men

For this weeks reflections session, we look back at our conversation with Radio 1 Xtra presenter and media personality Chuckie Online.  During our interview, I asked Chuckie what he wanted his legacy to be. His answer was both unexpected and incredibly inspiring. I'll share why this stuck with me and how it's already helped me in aspects of my life. 

How much of your day is spent scrolling, and is it doing more harm than good? Our digital habits have a profound effect on mental health, especially for men. In this episode of The Meaning of Men, I speak to psychotherapist Aaron Balick about social media, men’s mental health, and digital wellbeing. Aaron explains how platforms can raise awareness but also fuel anxiety, depression, and body image issues, and why algorithms and dopamine-driven design keep us hooked. In this episode you will learn: How social media impacts men’s mental health, self-esteem, and emotional wellbeing The signs that social media use may be harming you or someone you know Why algorithms and dopamine hits make platforms so addictive Practical strategies for building a healthier, balanced relationship with technology The importance of real-life connection and offline relationships for emotional resilience This conversation is essential for anyone interested in men’s mental health, social media impact, digital wellbeing, anxiety, depression, and resilience, offering research-backed insights and practical tools to navigate the digital world more mindfully.

What if the toughest guys in the room are the ones struggling the most?  In this episode of The Meaning of Men, I speak to Kyle, firefighter and former Royal Marine Commando, about men’s mental health, depression, and resilience. Kyle shares his journey through the highs and lows of demanding careers, relocation across continents, and the challenges of fatherhood, highlighting how male depression often remains hidden behind a tough exterior. In this episode you will learn: How depression manifests differently in men and the signs often overlooked The pressures faced by men in high-stress careers like the military and firefighting How isolation, relocation, and life transitions can impact mental wellbeing Practical strategies for recognising, addressing, and supporting men with depression and emotional challenges The role of purpose, family, and community in building resilience and emotional health This conversation is essential for anyone interested in men’s mental health, depression, emotional resilience, high-pressure careers, and wellbeing, offering insight, inspiration, and guidance for supporting men through life’s toughest challenges.   Please note: This episode contains references to suicidal thoughts. Listener discretion is advised.   1.36: Introductions   3.40: Childhood and early influencers   6.33: The path to the Royal Marines   10.03: Masculinity and identity in the Military   15.34: Moving to the U.S.   23.24: Identity crisis   33.02: Learning to open up in the fire brigade   36.43: The importance of vulnerability and communication   43.48: Fatherhood and mental health awareness

Ever wonder how the way we talk to boys shapes the men they become? Early messages about masculinity can have a lasting impact on mental health and emotional wellbeing. In this episode of The Meaning of Men, I speak to Dr Judy Chu about boys’ emotional development, men’s mental health, and parenting strategies. Dr Chu explains how societal pressures, like being told to “man up,” can contribute to depression in men, and why cultivating emotional awareness from a young age is crucial. In this episode you will learn: How early messages about masculinity affect boys’ emotional development and long-term mental health The signs of male depression in boys and men, including emotional withdrawal, acting out, and shutting down Practical strategies for parents, teachers, and caregivers to support boys in expressing feelings How to break free from the “man box” and encourage vulnerability, self-acceptance, and emotional resilience The importance of early interventions for mental health awareness and healthy masculinity This conversation is essential for anyone interested in men’s mental health, boys’ development, parenting, emotional wellbeing, and resilience, offering practical insights for raising emotionally healthy, confident boys.   1.38: Introductions 13.38: Raising emotionally aware boys 15.58: The impact of the language we use with boys 21.11: Creating safe spaces for boys to thrive 26.27: Early warning signs of struggles with boys 39.33: Unlearning harmful masculinity 44.42: How partners and friends can create safe spaces for men to talk   Resources from Dr Judy: When Boys Become Boys  Website: https://judyychu.wordpress.com

How do men navigate grief, financial pressure, and the highs and lows of a demanding career?  In this episode of The Meaning of Men, I speak to Chuckie Online, Radio 1 Xtra presenter and media personality, about men’s mental health, grief, resilience, and coping strategies. Chuckie shares his journey through the loss of his ‘bonus dad’, financial struggles, and the pressures of the music industry, highlighting how meaningful conversations and support networks helped him stay resilient. In this episode you will learn: How grief and loss can impact men’s mental health and emotional wellbeing The signs of male depression and the pressures men face to “keep it together” Strategies for coping with high-pressure careers, financial stress, and personal setbacks The importance of seeking help, opening up, and building supportive networks Insights into resilience, self-care, and maintaining mental wellbeing in challenging times This conversation is essential for anyone interested in men’s mental health, resilience, coping with grief, emotional wellbeing, and personal growth, offering honest, practical guidance and inspiration for navigating life’s toughest moments.   1.21: Introductions 5.03: Growing up 10.19: Breaking into the music industry 16.05: Overcoming adversity 27.26: Dealing with scrutiny 32.53: Bonus Dad 43.55: Balancing work and personal life 47.02: Losing Peter 53.20: Opening up to friends 56.20 Reflecting on mortality 01.01.40: Identity and community

Join Geoffrey Greif, a distinguished professor and author of Buddy System, as he dives into the nuances of male friendships and their impact on mental health. He introduces the four types of friends—must, trust, rust, and just—and discusses the challenges men face in maintaining strong connections. Learn why trust is crucial, how partners can support men's social lives, and practical tips for reconnecting with old friends or forging new bonds. If you’re looking to deepen your friendships and enhance your well-being, this conversation is a must-listen!

Launching our first episodes on Monday 6th January 2025.