Naked Beauty

“My exes have really hot exes. And I need them to be hot.”— today’s guest Lindsey Metselaar Lindsey, who also hosts her own fab podcast — We Met at Acme, a show about millennial dating in NYC, had a lot to say & strong opinions that kept me cracking up the entire time.Lindsey shares how she felt about herself growing up, being the ‘elephant in the room’ in high school and curly-hair shame. I ask her if she really eats everything posted on @dontexpectsalads and we talk about a misguided anorexia intervention from well-meaning friends (she does eat for the record). We discuss dating apps Hinge and Raya, how Lindsey gets ready for dates and how men don’t really understand how much make-up goes into the ‘no-make-up look’. We cover Brazilian waxes vs landing strips and why guys get away with having ‘full bushes’. Lindsey describes her ideal woman, why she prefers her exes to have hot exes, her thoughts on lip injections, thick eyebrows, nose jobs in the Jewish community and love for dry shampoo.******* Follow Lindsey https://www.instagram.com/lindzmetz/Follow We Met at Acme on IG: https://www.instagram.com/wemetatacme/Hear me discuss my dating years & the Rules on We Met at Acme: https://apple.co/2EJsaYyLearn more about her show: https://www.wemetatacme.comProducts Mentioned Glossier Tinted Moisturizer https://www.glossier.com/products/perfecting-skin-tintLaura Mercier Tinted Moisturizer https://www.sephora.com/product/tinted-moisturizer-P310930?country_switch=caSoft shirts from ATM for Lindsey’s go-to first date look https://atmcollection.comOribe Hair products https://www.oribe.comDry Shampoo from Dry Bar https://www.thedrybar.com/detox-dry-shampooBook She’s Loving - I Like You Just the Way I Am https://www.amazon.com/Like-You-Just-Way-Am/dp/1250055830Glam Squad to find a make-up artist https://www.glamsquad.com/Be sure to subscribe, rate and review the show: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-naked-beauty-podcast/id1131628553?mt=2This episode was mixed by Laila OwedaKeep in touch: @brookedevardJoin the #nakedbeautypodcast community on Instagram: @nakedbeautyplanet  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’m joined by Vintage Black Glamour author, the fabulous Nichelle Gainer — a self-described “black history encyclopedia”.We discuss how what started out as a research project for a novel inspired by her great aunt, Mildred Taylor, a model in the 1950s evolved into the Vintage Black Glamour Tumblr site in 2011. I learn about the history of black beauty pageants, the ‘Four Goddesses’: Josephine Baker, Lena Horne, Dorthy Dandridge and Ertha Kitt and why they’ve been able to maintain icon status decades later. We talk about the “It Girls” of the Harlem Renaissance like A’Lelia Walker and Blanche Dunne, roles black actresses have had to take in Hollywood, and the importance of keeping these stories alive for future generations. Nichelle tells me about growing up in South Jersey in the 70s and 80s and why when it comes to her hair — you get what you pay for. Links below for deeper dives on all the people we discusses together.Nichelle’s Wonderful Books that I Can’t Recommend Enough: http://amzn.to/2CltqEs (Vintage Black Glamour) http://amzn.to/2oxy8Wh (Gentleman’s Quarters) Get Familiar with the Four Goddesses (Rare Photos) Josephine Baker http://vintageblackglamour.tumblr.com/search/josephine+baker Lena Horne http://vintageblackglamour.tumblr.com/tagged/Lena-Horne Dorothy Dandridge http://vintageblackglamour.tumblr.com/tagged/Dorothy-Dandridge Eartha Kitt http://vintageblackglamour.tumblr.com/tagged/Eartha-Kitt*********Key Figures of the Harlem Renaissance (1920s-30s)James Van Der Zee — photographer of the Harlem Renaissance http://bit.ly/2GLLKEY http://vintageblackglamour.tumblr.com/tagged/James-Van-Der-ZeeCarl Van Vechten — another key photographer and author of the Harlem Renaissance, he was German and slightly controversial http://vintageblackglamour.tumblr.com/tagged/Carl-Van-Vechten https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carl_Van_VechtenBlanche Dunne — socialite and actress known as one of the most beautiful and fashionable women of the Renaissancehttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blanche_DunnMadame CJ Walker — entrepreneur, first Black Woman to become a millionaire https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Madam_C._J._WalkerA’Lelia Walker—Madame CJ Walker’s daughter, patron of the arts & hostess of infamous bathtub gin parties https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A%27Lelia_WalkerOther People Mentioned Diahann Carol — actress http://vintageblackglamour.tumblr.com/search/Diahann+CarrollKatherine Dunham — dancer, activist https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Katherine_DunhamCarmen de Lavallade— dancer, choreographer https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carmen_de_LavalladeCicely Tyson — one of the few actresses of her time who sported natural hair looks https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cicely_TysonDonyale Luna — First black model to be on a Vogue cover, she had a wild life https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Donyale_LunaEdward Enninful — First and current EIC of British Vogue https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Edward_EnninfulFredi Washington https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fredi_WashingtonResources/Books/Videos Mentioned Schomburg Research Center (in Harlem with online archives) https://www.nypl.org/locations/schomburgOn Her Own Ground: The Life and Times of Madam C.J. Walker (written by her great-granddaughter) http://amzn.to/2GLz4hgBlack and Beautiful (Book on Black Models) http://amzn.to/2F4tBF4Lena Horne on Dick Cavett https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HKLErsgF_P4Hair Khamit Kinks — Where Nichelle gets her ‘baby curl twists’ http://khamitkinks.com*******This episode was mixed by Laila OwedaMusic "In the Garden" by Jason Minnis aka Classicbeatz  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“It’s realizing how much you don’t need and seeing how much we are brainwashed to think that what makes us happy is being able to buy something. Letting that go is really freeing…not having this attachment to material objects as a measure of happiness.” — My guest, Mekdela MaskalMekdela is a media activist, living in Brooklyn, and fellow nature-lover with amazing style and beautiful natural hair. We go deep on her routine for the ideal wash day — from coconut oil pre-poo treatments to long finger-detangling sessions in the shower. I learn about what beauty wisdom she’s taken in from her Ethiopian parents and what the popular styles and approaches to beauty are in Ethiopia. Mekdela talks to me about what natural oils she loves, her yoga practice, how intentionally sweating is key for her skincare routine and gives me some INCREDIBLE make-up tips like using lipstick as eyeshadow (why haven’t I ever thought of this?!) .We also get into the commercialization of the feminist movement and her issues with the way diversity and inclusion is used as a marketing tactic, how she developed her personal style and why she feels most beautiful surrounded by nature.Follow Mekdela on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mekdeezy/?hl=en Follow @NakedBeautyPlanet Some Faves Mentioned in the Episode: Outdoor Voices leggings https://bit.ly/2Gayq0YCoconut & Hibiscus Leave-In Conditioner and Curling Cream from Shea Moisture https://www.sheamoisture.com/products/hair.html?p=3&product_collection=228Everyday Oil - mixture of different essential oils Mekdela loves https://shopeverydayoil.comSacred Yoga Studio in Brooklyn https://sacredbrooklyn.comArkins - sustainable women’s wear line https://shop-arkins.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“Here I am running my own business which literally means — I’m making up all of this shit as I go. I’m not any particular genius” - Recho Omondi…… but low-key (IMHO) Recho is a genius Designer, friend and deep-thinker, Recho, returns to Naked Beauty! We talk about her now iconic n*ggas sweatshirt and how it found its way on to Issa Rae’s Insecure, why the timeline is the new runway, how the fashion cycle is constantly persuading us to consume and its subsequent impact on the environment. Recho has received a lot of press (hey Teen Vogue!), but she’s not buying into the hype — she talks about the difference between press coverage and industry success.We also get into: - How she handles stress when everything feels like it’s falling apart but you also have a business to run (:16)- Getting back into ballet & the “leave it at the bar” mentality (:21)- Using heartbreak to create something magical & how the 90s classic “Great Expectations” inspired her latest collection (:28)- How my Sudio wireless headphones (hey first sponsor!) have changed the game (33:45)- The trends I’m really over, what I’m loving & getting into the sweatpants look(:35)- Fragrance obsessions Le Labo, Tom Ford and Byredo (:38)- Roll-on body glitter, YM & Limited Too Nostalgia & what the youth are missing out on being in this digital vortex(:49:35)- Is this new generation ‘fake-woke’? Recho thinks so! They shave their heads but not their underarms…. (:52)- Balancing the toxic and natural elements of a beauty routine (55:30)- A VERY HOT TAKE ON BLACK PANTHER (:58:20) — don’t worry she still loved it- That tine Mira Duma used the n-word on Instagram but how it’s even deeper than that (1:05)- The thought-process behind posting a FIRE selfie (1:10)Links: Follow Recho: https://www.instagram.com/rechoooooooo/ Follow Omondi: https://www.instagram.com/omndi/ Shop Omondi: http://rechoomondi.com Recho’s Teen Vogue Story: https://www.teenvogue.com/gallery/recho-omondi-fashion-inspiration-racism-exclusive-interview Sudio Headphones: https://goo.gl/QhpRm1 The Scents We Love: - Tom Ford Tobacco Vanille - Le Labo Santal 33 - Tom Ford White Suede - Byredo B’Al Dafrique Also check out Lucky Scent to try samples: https://www.luckyscent.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Digital consultant working with brands like Glossier and Into the Gloss, podcaster, news curator and passionate self-starter who’s dedicated to skincare, Darian Symone, joins me on this episode of the #nakedbeautypodcast.We discuss moving from NY to LA, interning at Beyonce’s Parkwood, why she loves Melina Matsoukas, and the platform she’s created with her podcast, ‘Am I Allowed To Like Anything’. Darian’s skincare routine is VERY THOROUGH and involves using acids for exfoliation, controlling oil on her t-zone, minimizing her pores and finding the perfect SPF. She also lets me in on all of her haircare secrets for the perfect weave and explains the importance of finding a great stylist and buying quality hair. Growing up as the only girl of color in her class in Buffalo, NY, Darian explains how this influenced her world view. We talk about ‘white feminism’, the Women’s March (which we both didn’t attend) and dissect some of the reasons why.Darian explains “I’m really careful not to use self-care as an excuse for the things I’m just afraid to do”, a warning we should all take into consideration because it’s just too easy to neglect responsibilities in the name of ‘self-care’. Lots of fun discussion on the highlighter trend going too far, breast reductions and why we stan for SZA and Princess Nokia. Products/Stories/Resources Mentioned: Essence Story on Our Beauty Resolutions: https://www.essence.com/beauty/real-women-beauty-resolutions-2018 Oil Cleansing via Minimalist Beauty http://www.minimalistbeauty.com/tag/oil-cleansing/ Darian’s Podcast Am I Allowed To Like Anything: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/am-i-allowed-to-like-anything-a-podcast/id1019767867?mt=2 Murad Sunscreen (one of my faves) http://seph.me/2EoXhcD Chantecaille Sunscreen (expensive but worth it) http://bit.ly/2o3X2wA Darian’s Skincare Faves: Erno Lazlo Light Controlling Lotion https://www.ernolaszlo.com/light-controlling-lotion.html Glossier Primer http://bit.ly/2GaqtnV Caudelie Overnight Detox Night Oil https://www.sephora.com/product/vine-activ-overnight-detox-oil-P417122 Beauty Pie - How she shops for her products (*genius*) https://www.beautypie.com/us Darian’s Hair Faves: Jhavuanna Moody instagram.com/oak2bk Indique Hair (for the perfect weave/blend situation) https://www.yelp.com/biz/indique-virgin-hair-extensions-new-york-2 Pravana treatment (semi-permanent smoothing treatment) http://www.pravana.com/texture/perfection-smoothout-solution.html Follow Darian @ https://www.instagram.com/darian/ Spread love using #nakedbeautypodcast & if you like the show please review and rate in the podcast app - Thank you loves!! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We all want Into the Gloss & Pinterest-worthy beauty shelves. It’s CRITICAL that you organize your beauty space for the ultimate self-care practice. In this episode, I share my 5 essential steps to clearing beauty clutter — a process that I’m currently undergoing & not quite sure why I waited so long to do bc the results….*life-changing*STEP 1: EVALUATE & TOSS OR FIND ANOTHER USE FOR IT - With a little help from Japanese organization expert and best-selling author Marie Kondo, I encourage you to go through all of your products and ask “Does this spark joy?” if not toss it or find another use for it (some good tips for repurposing products)STEP 2: ORGANIZE YOUR MAKE-UP BY FREQUENCY OF USE - Now that you only have the things you love, organize your products by how often you use themSTEP 3: TRY TO FINISH WHAT YOU HAVE BEFORE YOU BUY - Make it your mission to finish products before you get new ones and join me in my pledge to STOP buying lipglossSTEP 4: BUY SMARTER - Always sample before you buy, Sephora will forever have my heart bc you can return everything - NEVER buy foundation without testing for a full day and the same goes for fragranceSTEP 5: MAKE STORAGE CHIC - I use empty candle holders or mason jars to store my brushes and pencilsProducts/Resources Mentioned In this Episode:Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up (Book by Marie Kondo) https://www.amazon.com/Life-Changing-Magic-Tidying-Decluttering-Organizing-ebook/dp/B00KK0PICKMake-up brush cleaner (So you can keep your brushes pristine) http://amzn.to/2rNSwaJPoshmark (To sell your unwanted make-up) https://poshmark.com/Lucky Scent (If you want to try fragrance before you buy) https://www.luckyscent.com/samplesMake-up Travel Bags Bad & Boujee Option: https://store.prada.com/en/pradaww/man/man-travel/2NA030-064-F0002More Sensible Options from Ricky’s: https://www.rickysnyc.com/makeup.html/tools-accessories/makeup-bags-cases.htmlOther ThingsWe Met at Acme ft. Brooke DeVard https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/we-met-at-acme/id1300757042?mt=2&i=1000400367344 Inspiration For Your Best Beauty Space Ever http://bit.ly/2DPI47S Stay in touch https://www.instagram.com/brookedevard/ALSO, I just launched my site :) check-it out to see more of my guests, videos and about the show: http://www.nakedbeautypodcast.com/*****Please rate, subscribe and review in the Apple Podcast app & share the show using #nakedbeautypodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“Caribbean women are just something else” - my guest, dear friend, and artist, Eniye Kagbala aka 333niye on the unrivaled confidence of Caribbean women. We met online years ago, spent time together in London (going to fashion week & doing the most) but Eniye hails from St.Vincent. Since moving back to to the island from London, she’s learning to be grateful for life in paradise and “just LIVE” rather than chase. We talk about what makes quintessential island girl style — which she believes is about throwing on whatever is comfortable and not overthinking your look. We discuss buying hair on AliExpress, the importance of reading reviews before you buy and how to preserve braids. Eniye has dyed her hair AND brows at home with bleach for a very striking signature look. We talk about how her hair journey began in Nigeria, why she loves Gwen Stefani, Tom Ford and Alaia and how she approaches her music and the creative process. Eniye believes life is about perfecting the art of living and that we’re all on non-linear paths. Products/ Sites/Books Mentioned Shala Monroque (all over my pinterest page and our shared style crush) http://bit.ly/2D1jdhc Ali Express Kinky Curly Ombre Hair (best hair for beach life according to Eniye) http://bit.ly/2Djtd2a In Search of Wisdom One Philosophers Journey (book she's loving) http://amzn.to/2DlSQzg Get more Eniye in your life: http://eniye-kagbala.tumblr.com/ https://soundcloud.com/eniyemusic https://www.instagram.com/333niye_/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

BET Style editor, Danielle Prescod, and I talk through A LOT in this last episode of 2017. Danielle doesn’t drink, “doesn’t enjoy food like that” AND she’s celibate — clearly, she’s got some super-human willpower.We discuss Meghan Markle, what working in fashion does to your closet, what therapy has done for her, dating in NYC, and how Danielle balances her work & downtime even though she’s a self-described ‘content monster with a pathological need for attention’. Danielle’s introduction to fasting and the cult of Dr. Charles Passler, started out as a story she was working on for ELLE but soon developed into a total body transformation and entirely new approach to eating. We discuss her matcha latte, bone broth and tea diet, and getting your body into a ketogenic state for maximum fat burning. Listen for: Racially Screening Soul Cycle instructors (lol!) Hiring Glam Squads For Nights Out Working Out & Finding the Right Hairstyle Getting “Eyebrow Shamed” by your Facialist The Benefits of Clearing Out Your Closet What Therapy has Helped her Learn & Avoiding “Prescription Pushers” Going Blonde “Instagram Face” & a lot more Products/Stories Mentioned How to Get the Body of A Victoria Secret Model by Danielle Prescod: http://bit.ly/2zHZiNJ Dr. Passler’s “Pure Change” Program: https://www.purechange.co Beauty Sick: How the Cultural Obsession with Appearance Hurts Girls and Women http://amzn.to/2m68o1N Closet Organization Journey of a Fashion Editor https://www.manrepeller.com/2017/10/closet-organization-with-a-former-fashion-editor.html Roe Morgan - Naomi Campbell (and Danielle’s) hairstylist https://www.instagram.com/hairbyromorgan/ Glam Squad - On Demand Beauty Services https://www.glamsquad.com Soul Cycle Instructors Danielle Loves Francis https://www.soul-cycle.com/instructors/10411/francis/ Mike https://www.soul-cycle.com/instructors/10347/mike+press/ Mabel https://www.soul-cycle.com/instructors/10337/mabel/ Products Danielle Loves: DPL Teeth Whitening (swears by this) http://bit.ly/2lm7CxG MAC’s Next to Nothing Mattifying Powder http://bit.ly/2Drbl4d Shieheido Eyebrow Powder http://bit.ly/2C8QROg Kjaer Weis Cream Blush (expensive but worth it) https://kjaerweis.com/product/cream-blush/above-and-beyond Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

‘Fame is a beast that can’t be tamed’ - My guest Esme, on LA culture. I was fascinated to hear from Esme, a native New Yorker and writer, on her experience living in LA for the past 8 years. We talk about how pilates has transformed her body but also makes her feel balanced and stronger. Her experience in rehab, coping with undiagnosed PTSD, and the difference between addiction, abuse and using. She extolls the virtue of therapy (even hypnotherapy), to cope with a cutting addiction and anxiety. We discuss eating with portion control in mind and navigating weight gain as we get older. We also gush over our love for The RealReal — the best online designer consignment shop of ALL TIME. We talk about all of her amazing tattoos and their meaning, crystal healing, how to get Restalyne and other and fillers without looking crazy, the products she's loving right now and the trends she's totally over.Esme’s Favorite Products/Services Mentioned: Parker Pilates https://www.instagram.com/parkerpilates/ The RealReal https://www.therealreal.com/ Chanel Bags on the RealReal https://www.therealreal.com/designers/chanel/women/handbagsDysport https://www.dysportusa.com/before-and-after Juvaderm https://www.juvederm.com/ Restalyne Silk https://www.restylaneusa.com/restylane-silk Natura Bisse Diamond Line https://www.naturabisse.com/en/psproduct/29-diamond-extreme Peter Thomas Roth Acne Clearing Dots https://www.sephora.com/product/acne-clear-invisible-dots-P399932 Kevin Aucoin Concealer https://www.sephora.com/product/the-sensual-skin-enhancer-P393953?skuId=1697440&icid2=products%20grid:p393953 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Supple, hydrated and flawless skin is the goal. I’m LOVING natural oils for all of my skincare needs these days and I wanted to share everything I’ve learned in this episode. I cover how to buy the right oils for your skin (beware of branded versions of natural skincare you can easily find online for 1/3 of the price). Then I go into the three ways I’m using oils for the best my skin has ever been:Oil Cleansing my face at night - a game changer (can’t believe I ever used those drying commercial cleansers) Making homemade brown sugar scrub with olive oil or coconut oil My religious application of castor oil for my cuticles and lips to keep everything super hydrated Products Mentioned: Argan Oil http://amzn.to/2zsQwYC Marula Oil http://amzn.to/2jQW4oL Castor Oil http://amzn.to/2A1dA0l Microfiber Washcloth http://amzn.to/2A68ayv Some Links to Do Your Own Research: Minimalist Beauty minimalistbeauty.com/ Benefits of Oil Cleansing http://www.theoilcleansingmethod.com Oil Cleaning Method Tutorial https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=72ziFY3CmmY Homemade Sugar Scrub Recipes https://wellnessmama.com/3628/sugar-scrub-recipe/ - Also, check out the app Think Dirty (https://www.thinkdirtyapp.com) where you can see how toxic your beauty products are & learn about natural alternatives. Skincare doesn’t have to be expensive, educate yourself and become your own skincare expert. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.