
The Art of Charm
The Art of Charm is where self-motivated people, just like you, come to learn from the company’s coaches about to how to master human dynamics, relationships, and becoming your best self with the help of Johnny and AJ, the company’s founders. Johnny and AJ bring their 11 years of coaching experience from their famous Bootcamps, where they host clients in Los Angeles from all over the world and they share their stories, best practices and themselves on this weekly podcast. Not only does The Art of Charm help everyday people, including active members of the military, learn how to become higher performers, better spouses, partners, and coworkers, they dig deep into human behavior, the science behind it, and demystify what we do and why we do it.
Latest episodes

Feb 3, 2025 • 1h 1min
The Science of Exploration |Alex Hutchinson
In this captivating discussion, Alex Hutchinson, an award-winning journalist and expert in endurance and neuroscience, dives into the science behind human curiosity and exploration. He reveals the psychological and biological drivers that inspire individuals to embrace challenges. Modern technology's impact on our innate exploratory instincts is examined, along with strategies to enhance creativity and career growth. Alex emphasizes the importance of accepting uncertainty for personal development and the profound significance of struggle in achieving meaning and happiness.

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Jan 27, 2025 • 1h 7min
The Science Of Conflict Resolution | Dr. Jim Guinn
Dr. Jim Guinn, a renowned mediation expert and president of the Resolution Resource Group, shares valuable insights on conflict resolution. He delves into the emotional dynamics that derail rational discussions, emphasizing the importance of understanding different conflict styles. Dr. Guinn introduces practical techniques like the 'voice technique' and 'detour technique' to manage high-stakes disagreements. He highlights how recognizing core issues and adapting communication styles can transform personal and professional relationships, fostering collaboration and win-win outcomes.

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Jan 20, 2025 • 1h 11min
Speak with Confidence: The 3Fs to Master Public Speaking | Michael Chad Hoeppner
Michael Chad Hoeppner, Founder and CEO of GK Training, shares his expertise in public speaking and personal development. He introduces the essential 3F system—Fake it, Feature it, Fix it—for handling high-pressure speaking situations elegantly. Michael emphasizes the importance of delivery over content, especially in today's AI-driven world. He discusses practical techniques to eliminate filler words and the power of pauses in enhancing clarity. Additionally, he highlights the crucial role of storytelling in building influence and connecting with audiences.

Jan 13, 2025 • 1h 13min
The Secrets of Body Language | Joe Navarro
Join former FBI Special Agent and bestselling author Joe Navarro as he reveals the secrets of nonverbal communication. With decades of expertise, Joe discusses how mastering body language can elevate your personal and professional connections. He shares insights on the traits that define extraordinary individuals and the importance of emotional resilience and self-mastery. Explore the power of validation in communication, and learn how to navigate divided dialogues while fostering genuine connections. Get inspired to cultivate exceptional communication skills!

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Jan 6, 2025 • 1h 5min
Negotiating Disagreement | Robert Bordone & Joel Salinas
Bob Bordone, a former professor at Harvard Law and founder of the Negotiation and Mediation Clinical Program, joins neurologist Joel Salinas, who teaches at Harvard Medical School. Together, they discuss how to transform conflict into growth opportunities. They emphasize emotional awareness, the brain's role in negotiations, and strategies to improve communication during disagreements. Their insights reveal how understanding our emotional responses can enhance resilience and foster deeper connections in both personal and professional settings.

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Dec 30, 2024 • 58min
The Art of Charm Best Of 2024
Karla McLaren, an expert in emotions and empathy, delves into the importance of emotional vocabulary for self-awareness and stronger relationships. She explains how labeling emotions aids in regulation and fosters intimacy. The discussion highlights jealousy as a relational guide and addresses emotional repression, particularly among men. Additionally, the conversation covers the concept of slow productivity, arguing for quality over quantity to achieve a balanced work-life dynamic. This compelling dialogue offers insights on navigating emotions and enhancing connections.

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Dec 23, 2024 • 58min
The Power of Saying “No” | Dr. Sunita Sah
In a thought-provoking discussion, Dr. Sunita Sah, a professor and author known for her expertise in decision-making and defiance, delves into the power of saying 'no.' She redefines defiance as a positive force for standing by one’s values in a society that often demands conformity. Dr. Sah shares strategies like the 'defiance compass' to help individuals align actions with core beliefs. She also explores the ripple effects of principled defiance in personal and professional realms, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and moral courage.

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Dec 16, 2024 • 55min
Decision Making For Better Relationships | Dan Ariely
Join Dan Ariely, the James B. Duke Professor of Psychology and Behavioral Economics at Duke University, as he dives into the quirks of human decision-making. He shares how regret often drives us to inaction and why we agonize over minor purchases while major life choices seem easier. Discover the interplay between market norms and social connections, and how our environment influences decisions. Ariely’s insights reveal the predictability of our irrational behaviors, offering tools for making better choices in life and relationships.

Dec 9, 2024 • 1h 2min
Emotional Bids: The Key To Thriving Relationships | Toolbox
In this insightful discussion, Coach Michael, a relationship coach known for his expertise in emotional intelligence, joins AJ and Johnny to explore the concept of emotional bids. They reveal how these subtle invitations can strengthen relationships, yet often go unnoticed. The trio shares groundbreaking research linking positive responses to emotional bids with relationship success. They also discuss the importance of active listening and the detrimental effects of ignoring these bids, providing actionable strategies to foster deeper connections in both personal and professional life.

Dec 2, 2024 • 1h 1min
Three Instincts Of Tribalism and Office Culture | Michael Morris
Michael Morris, a cultural psychologist and professor at Columbia University, delves into the intriguing concept of tribalism. He discusses its evolutionary roots, detailing the three hardwired instincts—peer, hero, and ancestor—that shape our social dynamics. The conversation explores how human mimicry influences office culture and highlights the balance between individualism and collectivism in diverse communities. Morris also reveals how tribalism can both unite people for noble causes and create societal divisions, emphasizing its relevance in today's world.