The Art of Charm
The Art of Charm
The Art of Charm is where self-motivated people, just like you, come to learn from the company’s coaches about to how to master human dynamics, relationships, and becoming your best self with the help of Johnny and AJ, the company’s founders. Johnny and AJ bring their 11 years of coaching experience from their famous Bootcamps, where they host clients in Los Angeles from all over the world and they share their stories, best practices and themselves on this weekly podcast. Not only does The Art of Charm help everyday people, including active members of the military, learn how to become higher performers, better spouses, partners, and coworkers, they dig deep into human behavior, the science behind it, and demystify what we do and why we do it.
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Jan 9, 2026 • 10min
AI Can’t Save You in the Conference Room (Or on a Date) | Social Intelligence Briefing
Uncover the essential human skill for the future: validation. As AI takes over transactional tasks, understanding and acknowledging others is key in meetings and on dates. Discover how being right can backfire and why fixing problems can kill trust and attraction. The hosts share real examples demonstrating that making people feel understood leads to deeper connections. Learn a three-step validation protocol that enhances influence and nurtures collaboration. Embrace validation to thrive in the AI era, unlocking the nuances of human interaction.
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Jan 5, 2026 • 57min
The Art of Charm Best Of 2025
In this engaging discussion, Charles Duhigg, a renowned author and journalist celebrated for his insights on habits and productivity, shares transformative ideas. He emphasizes the power of asking one deep question daily to boost collaboration and connection. Listeners will learn how to elevate conversations from small talk to meaningful dialogue, use emotional intelligence to influence others ethically, and develop charisma through practical tips on voice and presence. Tune in for actionable tools that empower deeper relationships!
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Dec 29, 2025 • 1h 2min
Invisible Workers Get Cut First | Rebecca Hinds
Rebecca Hinds, an author and meeting design expert, joins the conversation to reveal how meetings are not broken, just poorly designed. She discusses the modern visibility trap created by collaboration overload and the illusion of productivity. Rebecca provides insights on maximizing career leverage by treating meetings like products and effectively using AI to enhance—not replace—human interaction. With practical strategies, she highlights how to make meetings efficient and meaningful, showcasing the potential to transform workplace culture.
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Dec 22, 2025 • 45min
Why Trying is Ruining You | Carla Ondrasik
Carla Ondrasik, author of "Stop Trying" and former VP at EMI, dives deep into how the word 'try' keeps us from genuine change. She explains that 'trying' creates a false sense of productivity while trapping us in procrastination and fear. Carla highlights how our language shapes our behavior, revealing that decisive action boosts confidence and trust. Plus, she offers strategies to silence our inner critic and emphasizes the importance of starting with action, not motivation. Learn how to replace 'try' with 'do' for real transformation!
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Dec 18, 2025 • 13min
Why Smart Ideas Stall — And What’s Really Happening | SIB
Discover why brilliant ideas often get turned down while exploring the clash between identity and logic. Learn about two key workplace identities: the Solver, who thrives on complexity, and the Protector, prioritizing stability. Gain insights on effectively engaging both types to foster alignment rather than resistance. Uncover practical strategies to spot identity signals in meetings and frame your ideas for collaborative progress. By the end, master the art of using identity recognition to influence outcomes and enhance communication.
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Dec 15, 2025 • 1h 14min
Friendship Fuels Achievement | Matt Ritter
Matt Ritter, co-host of the Man of the Year podcast, dives into the male loneliness epidemic and the importance of adult friendships. He introduces his TCS framework for sustaining connections—texting weekly, calling monthly, and meeting quarterly. Matt emphasizes the significance of proximity and rituals for lasting friendships. Learn practical strategies to deepen connections, from turning acquaintances into friends to hosting unforgettable gatherings. He also highlights why your spouse shouldn't be your sole confidant in friendship.
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Dec 11, 2025 • 13min
Stop DESTROYING Your Status | Social Intelligence Briefing
Discover the hidden dynamics behind social status. Learn why chasing approval and competing can lower your value. Instead, focus on creating value and leading effortlessly. Reveal the three common status leaks that many overlook. Understand the importance of setting boundaries unapologetically. Gain insights on how to build allies rather than competitors. By shifting your frame, you can start operating from a high-value mindset that commands respect in any setting.
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Dec 8, 2025 • 1h
The Secret Power of Losing | Dave Berke
In this engaging discussion, Dave Berke, a retired Marine Corps fighter pilot and Top Gun instructor turned leadership coach, shares his unique insights on leadership and learning from failure. He emphasizes how losing can be a powerful teacher, encouraging humility and the importance of listening. Berke explores the detrimental effects of ego, the need for a culture of ownership, and how real mastery is about admitting mistakes rather than achieving perfection. His experiences reshape the meaning of success, highlighting leadership as a team-oriented endeavor.
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Dec 5, 2025 • 16min
How High-Value People Hold Frame | Social Intelligence Briefing
AJ and Johnny dive into the art of holding your frame when faced with subtle jabs from others. They explore four value positions shaping our interactions, highlighting how cooperative responses can defuse tension. Discover common emotional traps that push us into defensive modes and learn a simple three-step system to respond with poise. The discussion emphasizes reframing attacks into constructive dialogue, encouraging active reflection on personal triggers, and ultimately championing resilience over confrontation.
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Dec 1, 2025 • 1h 5min
Are You Chasing a Prize You Don’t Even Want? | Bree Groff
Bree Groff, a transformation expert and author of "Today Was Fun," brings insight into navigating personal and organizational change. She discusses why people resist change and how psychological models can simplify transitions. Bree introduces the concept of micro-moves to foster momentum and emphasizes that playfulness and creativity can enhance workplace dynamics, especially in the face of AI advancements. With practical frameworks, she encourages listeners to reassess their career paths and prioritize fun, connection, and wellness at work.
