The Art of Charm
The Art of Charm
The Art of Charm is where self-motivated people, just like you, come to learn from the company’s coaches about to how to master human dynamics, relationships, and becoming your best self with the help of Johnny and AJ, the company’s founders. Johnny and AJ bring their 11 years of coaching experience from their famous Bootcamps, where they host clients in Los Angeles from all over the world and they share their stories, best practices and themselves on this weekly podcast. Not only does The Art of Charm help everyday people, including active members of the military, learn how to become higher performers, better spouses, partners, and coworkers, they dig deep into human behavior, the science behind it, and demystify what we do and why we do it.
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Nov 13, 2025 • 14min
The Elicitation Protocol | Social Intel Brief
Discover how to transform mundane conversation into impactful connections! Learn the 3L Protocol: Listen, Label, Leverage, designed for networking success. Identify emotional cues and reflect them back authentically. Master the art of offering micro-favors to build trust quickly in various settings. From chats at networking events to first dates, this framework enhances your social intelligence and fosters deeper rapport in no time. Say goodbye to surface-level talk and hello to genuine connections!
Nov 10, 2025 • 1h 1min
3 Mindset Shifts to Build Emotional Resilience | Shireen Rizvi and Jesse Finkelstein
Dr. Shireen Rizvi and Dr. Jesse Finkelstein, clinical psychologists and coauthors of Real Skills for Real Life, discuss the transformative power of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). They reveal how to view emotional struggles as skills deficits and introduce the concept of 'Wise Mind' for balancing logic and emotion. The duo emphasizes the importance of mindfulness in reducing suffering and improving interpersonal relationships. Listeners gain practical frameworks, like DEAR MAN, to navigate difficult conversations while maintaining self-respect.
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Nov 6, 2025 • 14min
The Intrigue Framework — Presence That Does the Talking
Ever wondered why some people have a magnetic aura? Discover the science behind building an authentic presence that attracts attention. Learn how to transform fleeting interest into genuine connection through emotional intelligence. Explore three key pillars: making others feel good, inviting them into your passions, and mastering body language. Delve into techniques for starting conversations and boosting warmth with targeted observations. Get ready to elevate your influence and leave a lasting impression wherever you go!
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Nov 3, 2025 • 51min
The Science of Courage and Fear | Ranjay Gulati
Ranjay Gulati, a Harvard Business School professor and author of The Soul of Courage, dives into the fascinating dynamics of courage and fear. He reveals why only 9% of companies thrive during crises, emphasizing that true courage means acting despite fear. The discussion covers how our brains respond to uncertainty, the importance of teamwork in facing challenges, and the balance between boldness and recklessness. Gulati also shares strategies for building self-efficacy and how a strong sense of purpose fuels enduring courage.
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Oct 30, 2025 • 15min
The Aura Effect: How to Make People Chase Your Vibe | Social Intel Brief
Discover the intriguing concept of 'aura' and how it influences attraction. Learn why attention, even if negative, can create opportunities. Explore the importance of making others feel valued through active support. Dive into the difference between true emotional intelligence and surface-level niceness. Find out how inviting others into your passions creates deeper connections and closeness. Finally, grasp how presence signals status, and uncover body language tips to enhance your magnetic aura.
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Oct 27, 2025 • 1h 6min
Why Flaws Make You More Likable | Richard Shotton
Richard Shotton, a behavioral science expert and author of "Hacking the Human Mind," shares fascinating insights into the art of persuasion. He reveals how using concrete language can boost trust and retention, while admitting flaws can actually make you more likable. Richard explains the power of social proof and the importance of scarcity in marketing tactics, illustrated by real-world examples like Starbucks and the pumpkin spice phenomenon. He offers actionable tips to harness these psychological principles in both personal and professional interactions.
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Oct 23, 2025 • 13min
The Spy’s Secret to Instant Trust | Social Intel Brief
Forget generic niceness; micro-signals are your new best friends for networking. Discover the three pivotal signals spies use: the leader, wish, and fence signals, which can change your influence game. Learn how to identify who truly runs the room, uncover hidden desires, and respect guarded topics. This tactical guide provides actionable steps for making meaningful connections and landing opportunities. Get ready to ditch small talk and master the art of instant trust!
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Oct 20, 2025 • 1h 6min
3 Reasons You Need a Personal Brand Now | Goldie Chan
Goldie Chan, a Forbes columnist and personal branding expert, reveals how to leverage your digital footprint. She discusses her journey from introvert to LinkedIn icon and emphasizes that owning your story is key to career leverage. Goldie shares practical tips, like starting with one post a month and utilizing Employee-Generated Content to enhance your value at work. She highlights introverts' unique advantages in personal branding and the importance of consistency in building a presence that attracts opportunities.
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Oct 16, 2025 • 20min
The 90-Second Bonding Loop | Social Intel Brief
Discover the secret to instant connection with a 90-second conversation loop. Learn to spot emotional bids for attention and validate feelings to build trust. Transform small talk into meaningful relationships using the power of 'we' statements. Get practical tips on mirroring cues and creating actionable micro steps to deepen rapport. Avoid common pitfalls that derail connections and find out how to apply these techniques in social and professional settings. Make every chat a gateway to genuine relationships!
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Oct 13, 2025 • 1h 14min
The Secret to Beating Burnout | Steven Kotler
Join Steven Kotler, a New York Times bestselling author and flow researcher, as he shares insights on overcoming burnout through the science of flow. Discover how accessing flow states can enhance resilience and creativity, and why frustration is actually a sign of progress. Kotler also discusses the importance of community in amplifying flow and reveals practical daily practices to achieve peak performance. Plus, learn how nature serves as a multifunctional tool for mental well-being and performance enhancement!
