The Art of Charm
The Art of Charm
The Art of Charm is where self-motivated people, just like you, come to learn from the company’s coaches about to how to master human dynamics, relationships, and becoming your best self with the help of Johnny and AJ, the company’s founders. Johnny and AJ bring their 11 years of coaching experience from their famous Bootcamps, where they host clients in Los Angeles from all over the world and they share their stories, best practices and themselves on this weekly podcast. Not only does The Art of Charm help everyday people, including active members of the military, learn how to become higher performers, better spouses, partners, and coworkers, they dig deep into human behavior, the science behind it, and demystify what we do and why we do it.
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Jan 30, 2026 • 8min
The Psychology of Reaching Out — and the Easiest Win You’re Not Taking | Social Intelligence Briefing
They unpack why reconnecting with old friends feels awkward and how mutual hesitation creates a silent standoff. They explain why dormant friendships get recategorized by the brain and why shared memory beats small talk. They reveal a simple photo-and-message tactic that reliably reopens connection and why older ties often hold unique value.
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Jan 26, 2026 • 55min
The Myth of Self-Made Success | Daniel Coyle
Daniel Coyle, bestselling author and culture researcher who studies thriving communities, explains why flourishing is a mutual, not solitary, project. He explores how modern speed fragments attention. He highlights friction, rituals, shared meals, and “yellow door” moments as sparks of connection. He argues for designing productive mess and daily small reaches to rebuild belonging.
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Jan 23, 2026 • 14min
Hidden Logic of High-Status Networks Infiltration | Social Intelligence Briefing
Discover the tactics behind infiltrating elite networks, where credentials mean little and alignment is key. Learn how gatekeepers actually filter access, conserving decision-makers' time. Unpack the silence trap—what it really signifies and how to navigate it without losing credibility. Gain confidence by treating access as a mutual evaluation and asking the right questions. Understand that high-value networks prioritize ease-of-working over formal achievements, fundamentally shifting how you approach elite connections.
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Jan 19, 2026 • 1h 10min
Modern Dating Is Broken | Paul Eastwick
Paul Eastwick, a social psychologist and relationship expert, dives into the failings of modern dating. He explains how online dating distorts our perceptions of desirability and the pitfalls of seeking a perfect match. Paul discusses the importance of real connections forged through shared experiences rather than algorithms. The conversation highlights how compatibility is built, not found, and encourages a shift from marketplace thinking in relationships. With insights on the friend zone and the need for genuine social interactions, this discussion is a valuable guide for navigating love in the digital age.
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Jan 16, 2026 • 11min
Why High Social Skills Win in the Age of AI | Social Intelligence Briefing
In an age dominated by AI, emotional regulation and social intelligence are becoming the ultimate competitive edge. The discussion reveals that social skills now outpace analytical abilities in success. Judgment and the ability to manage tension are essential for influence. Learn how to turn silence and pushback into authority, while understanding the neuroscience of trust. Ultimately, regulating your emotions not only impacts your own outcomes but also shapes those around you, making human connection the new frontier for career and relationship success.
Jan 12, 2026 • 1h 3min
Is AI Coming For Your Job? | Zack Kass
Zack Kass, an AI futurist and author of The Next Renaissance, discusses the profound implications of artificial intelligence on our identity and purpose. He highlights how our fear of AI stems more from identity displacement than job loss. Kass emphasizes the importance of community and shared experiences as essential human needs that AI cannot replicate. He also explores the political dimensions of automation, urging listeners to embrace optimism and advocate for a future that values human connection and creativity.
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Jan 9, 2026 • 10min
AI Can’t Save You in the Conference Room (Or on a Date) | Social Intelligence Briefing
Uncover the essential human skill for the future: validation. As AI takes over transactional tasks, understanding and acknowledging others is key in meetings and on dates. Discover how being right can backfire and why fixing problems can kill trust and attraction. The hosts share real examples demonstrating that making people feel understood leads to deeper connections. Learn a three-step validation protocol that enhances influence and nurtures collaboration. Embrace validation to thrive in the AI era, unlocking the nuances of human interaction.
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Jan 5, 2026 • 57min
The Art of Charm Best Of 2025
In this engaging discussion, Charles Duhigg, a renowned author and journalist celebrated for his insights on habits and productivity, shares transformative ideas. He emphasizes the power of asking one deep question daily to boost collaboration and connection. Listeners will learn how to elevate conversations from small talk to meaningful dialogue, use emotional intelligence to influence others ethically, and develop charisma through practical tips on voice and presence. Tune in for actionable tools that empower deeper relationships!
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Dec 29, 2025 • 1h 2min
Invisible Workers Get Cut First | Rebecca Hinds
Rebecca Hinds, an author and meeting design expert, joins the conversation to reveal how meetings are not broken, just poorly designed. She discusses the modern visibility trap created by collaboration overload and the illusion of productivity. Rebecca provides insights on maximizing career leverage by treating meetings like products and effectively using AI to enhance—not replace—human interaction. With practical strategies, she highlights how to make meetings efficient and meaningful, showcasing the potential to transform workplace culture.
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Dec 22, 2025 • 45min
Why Trying is Ruining You | Carla Ondrasik
Carla Ondrasik, author of "Stop Trying" and former VP at EMI, dives deep into how the word 'try' keeps us from genuine change. She explains that 'trying' creates a false sense of productivity while trapping us in procrastination and fear. Carla highlights how our language shapes our behavior, revealing that decisive action boosts confidence and trust. Plus, she offers strategies to silence our inner critic and emphasizes the importance of starting with action, not motivation. Learn how to replace 'try' with 'do' for real transformation!
