The Art of Charm
The Art of Charm
The Art of Charm is where self-motivated people, just like you, come to learn from the company’s coaches about to how to master human dynamics, relationships, and becoming your best self with the help of Johnny and AJ, the company’s founders. Johnny and AJ bring their 11 years of coaching experience from their famous Bootcamps, where they host clients in Los Angeles from all over the world and they share their stories, best practices and themselves on this weekly podcast. Not only does The Art of Charm help everyday people, including active members of the military, learn how to become higher performers, better spouses, partners, and coworkers, they dig deep into human behavior, the science behind it, and demystify what we do and why we do it.
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Oct 13, 2025 • 1h 14min
The Secret to Beating Burnout | Steven Kotler
Join Steven Kotler, a New York Times bestselling author and flow researcher, as he shares insights on overcoming burnout through the science of flow. Discover how accessing flow states can enhance resilience and creativity, and why frustration is actually a sign of progress. Kotler also discusses the importance of community in amplifying flow and reveals practical daily practices to achieve peak performance. Plus, learn how nature serves as a multifunctional tool for mental well-being and performance enhancement!
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Oct 9, 2025 • 11min
The Ancient Formula for Modern Influence — Cicero’s Secret to Magnetic Persuasion | Social Intel Brief
Discover Cicero’s ancient three-step formula for magnetic persuasion. Learn how to frame problems effectively to capture attention. Delve into the art of layering reasoning, blending facts with emotion for greater impact. Explore the neuroscience of storytelling and why your closing matters most. This insightful discussion reveals how the structure of your message can lead to stronger influence, whether in meetings or pitches, making timeless communication strategies relevant for today's leaders.
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Oct 6, 2025 • 60min
Luck Isn’t Random—It’s Designed | Judd B. Kessler
Judd B. Kessler, a Wharton economics professor and author of "Lucky by Design," dives into the intriguing idea that luck can actually be engineered. He discusses hidden markets, focusing on how factors like signaling interest and competence can influence success in job hunting, dating, and even snagging Taylor Swift tickets. Listeners will learn why sometimes 'settling for silver' can lead to unexpected gold, and how unique, idiosyncratic signaling can outperform safer strategies. Kessler offers practical tips for navigating life’s markets strategically.
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Oct 2, 2025 • 11min
Hack Your Confidence with Body Language | Social Intel Brief
Unlocking confidence may be as simple as your body language! Discover how standing tall and taking up space can transform your mood and presence. Uncover the hidden costs of slouched shoulders and the pervasive issue of 'phone posture' affecting confidence. Learn practical tools like the 'doorway drill' to reset your posture and boost your social interactions. Backed by research, the podcast illuminates how embodied cognition shapes our mindset. Small changes can lead to significant shifts in how you’re perceived!
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Sep 29, 2025 • 1h 1min
3 Viral Mental Health Myths Debunked | Joe Nucci
Joe Nucci, a psychotherapist and author of *Psychobabble*, joins the hosts to tackle viral mental health myths. He exposes the misuse of terms like 'gaslighting' and 'trauma', clarifying they’re often overused in pop culture. Joe discusses how therapy has turned into a status symbol, the dangers of misdiagnosing identity, and the implications of social media on mental health labels. He emphasizes the importance of distinguishing between genuine mental insights and misleading jargon, providing tools to navigate the mental health landscape more effectively.
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Sep 25, 2025 • 11min
Why High-Value People Don’t Avoid Conflict | Social Intel Brief
Explore the secrets of commanding respect without shouting. Discover how calm authority outshines dominance, and why cooperation builds lasting trust. Learn the power of spotlighting others to elevate your own status. Uncover how your body language and stillness can project confidence before you even speak. Take charge of your outcomes to cultivate trust, and hear how one client transformed their career by embracing cooperative behaviors. Lastly, challenge yourself to practice daily high-value signals that can change your interactions.
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Sep 22, 2025 • 1h 2min
How to Use Emotions as Data | Dr. Marc Brackett
Dr. Marc Brackett, founding director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and author of 'Permission to Feel,' discusses the transformative power of emotions. He explains how recognizing and regulating feelings can enhance decision-making and relationships. Marc introduces the RULER framework—an essential tool for emotional awareness. He highlights the concept of an emotional regulation budget, exploring how stress and sleep can deplete it. With practical tips for parents and strategies for handling overwhelming emotions, this conversation is a must for anyone seeking emotional mastery.
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Sep 18, 2025 • 9min
The Hidden Language of Laughter | Social Intel Brief
Explore laughter as a powerful social superpower that fosters connection and trust. Discover how genuine laughter creates bond and lowers defenses while engaging mirror neurons to spread joy. Learn why people laugh without humor, using it to signal belonging and shift group dynamics. Insights on 'fake laughter' reveal its surprising effectiveness in networking. Plus, tips on using laughter as a high-value signal for confidence and influence will change how you interact socially.
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Sep 15, 2025 • 54min
How to Connect Deeper in Minutes | Charles Duhigg
Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist Charles Duhigg, author of "Supercommunicators" and "The Power of Habit," shares insights into effective communication. He explains that the best communicators aren't just extroverts but are skilled in making others feel valued and heard. Duhigg discusses techniques like 'looping for understanding' and the art of initiating tough conversations. He emphasizes the importance of laughter in relationships and highlights how deep listening can transform connections, whether at work or in personal life.
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Sep 11, 2025 • 11min
3 Low-Value Behaviors That Quietly Kill Your Respect | Social Intelligence Brief
Discover the hidden behaviors that can undermine your respect and influence. Supplicative signals, like excessive apologizing, can make you forgettable. Combative tactics, like fake dominance, often repel rather than attract. Competitive one-upmanship alienates potential connections. Learn how to shift from low-value to high-value behaviors by standing tall, using inclusive language, and highlighting others. Transform how you're perceived and regain the confidence that fosters genuine relationships.
