Double Teamed with Cami and Niki

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Danica Mitchell, a LCSW and certified sex therapist, once again. This time, they talk about ED! Did you know that erectile dysfunction is often due to anxiety? But don’t freak out yet! You can still get a full hard on even when there’s tension and pressure, and lots of opportunity to make a come back ;) Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 01:29 How common is ED? 03:05 Getting past anxiety-caused dysfunction 13:24 Erectile dysfunction during a group play? 16:51 Other ways to keep yourself relaxed 22:07 Now, how do you make that erection last? 27:22 Premature ejaculation is just way too much excitement 32:46 Best practices that works 33:25 Could be an individual or couple sessions 39:25 Women like a lot more variety  44:02 Emotional intelligence, so sexy! 47:34 Deeply connected vulnerable sex with causal partners 55:08 Men are taught that sex should be easy 01:00:14 Resources for performance anxiety issues Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter You can find Danica Mitchell on: Psychology Today

Cami and Niki share their thoughts on exploring erogenous zones including the ears, feet, and armpits. They emphasize the importance of mindful exploration and discuss the pleasures and sensations associated with these zones. They also mention other areas that can be stimulated for added excitement.

Cami and Niki discuss different kinks and fetishes, including objectification, degradation, and humiliation. They explore the difference between praise and worship and delve into the pregnancy fetish. They also mention taking the BDSM test and discovering various BDSM preferences and roles.

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki have wrapped up the Convo series for now, but first let’s reflect on those guests and the many things we learned from them. Which one did you resonate with the most? Moving right along, let’s catch up with Niki’s V and discuss the issues and complications that may occur in a kitchen table dynamic, especially when there is a lack of clear communication. Sometimes, we fuck things up, and that is okay.    For your next purchase at goodcleanlove.com use this discount code: DOUBLE20 for 20% off!   Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 03:07 Still working it out with the assh*le relationship 10:05 The kitchen table polyamory dynamic 20:21 Codependent marriage doesn’t work in a polyamorous relationship 28:52 Have you watched the Girlfriend’s Guide to Divorce? 33:36 Have you been having sh*tty sex?   Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Leanne Yau, the founder of Poly Philia, now the largest social media platform dedicated to non-monogamy awareness in Europe. Leanne’s work is influenced by her own experiences as a Gen Z bisexual and Chinese non-binary woman, and she hopes to bring visibility and representation to these intersectional identities.    Personally, we love Polyphiliablog for all of the knowledge she shares on terms and definitions within non-monogamy and polyamory. So, let’s discuss those! But also, let’s dive into the hottest shows that portray, explain, narrate, and very shortly show non-monogamous relationships. Some are good, some so-so, and some are just totally wrong...    Listen Up:   00:00 Intro 01:15 How Polyphiliablog started 04:13 Peer support service  08:42 Facebook groups are much more moderated 11:20 The four different types of non-monogamy 15:32 Open relationships don’t necessarily equal being swingers 20:39 Sex parties! 23:41 You can’t be perfect in non-monogamy 31:31 Hierarchical vs non-hierarchical relationships 37:48 What does marriage really mean? 41:31 Myths about harems 44:28 One partner can be monogamous, the other can be a poly 46:08 Reacting to Netflix series YOU season 3 59:57 Shows that depict non-monogamy 01:12:02 Continue to raise awareness around polyamory   Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter   You can find Leanne Yau on: Instagram Twitter Facebook TikTok Website

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Wendy Strgar, the founder and CEO of Good Clean Love - a brand that helps improve reproductive health and sexual pleasure since 2003. Starting in her kitchen back in 2003, Wendy founded Good Clean Love after hearing from many women about, and experiencing for herself, the painful side effects of using petrochemical-based hygiene and intimacy products.   What can help you enjoy sex a lot more? Clitoral orgasms and the right products. Yes, work on that clit for maximum pleasure. This is what Wendy shares with us as she continuously enjoys sex with her husband of 40+ years. She also dives deep into the science behind the good and bad lubes, why some intercourse is painful, the best form of vaginal stimulation, and how one should practice sexual liberation.   For your next purchase at goodcleanlove.com use this discount code: DOUBLE20 for 20% off!   Listen Up:   00:00 Intro 01:05 The most common misconception about lube 06:40 Safety in sex  07:47 Sexual traumas can prevent you from lubricating 09:19 Getting BV from a single use of the wrong lube 13:22 What is a good lube formulation? 21:17 Ask yourself where the money is going 22:43 How it affects the vaginal biome   26:25 Some women suffer from vaginal discomfort daily 27:27 Look out for uncircumcised men 30:48 Go for a clitoral orgasm first 34:09 How do you wake up your arousal? 37:31 Sexual liberation is being responsible for your sexual desire 40:47 Are you losing the ability to have sex? 49:31 Love oils and aphrodisiac scents 56:06 The way we use sex on people 59:21 The Transcendent Sex by Jenny Wade   Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter   You can find Good Clean Love on: Website Facebook YouTube Pinterest Instagram   You can find Wendy on: Website Twitter Facebook YouTube Instagram

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Claire Louise Travers, the person behind Poly Pages -  an academic non-monogamous podcast and platform, focused on the texts which have shaped polyamorous community and culture. She identifies as a solo-polyamorous relationship anarchist and is living life by the value of ruthless honesty.   If you’re a bookworm and into non-monogamy, then you’re in for a treat! Claire, being the academic researcher that she is, shares tons of book resources rich in insightful thoughts from authors who know the poly world. Of course, we begin with The Ethical Slut - a must read that is loaded with unconventional and witty comebacks on how non-monogamous relationships should and could work. We also talk about breakups, the relationship escalator, and queer + polyamory!   Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 00:56 Check out Poly Pages podcast 02:47 Reading articles about non-monogamy from academic space 04:15 The Ethical Slut: the author’s view on sex and relationships 07:59 When you’re dating you’re constantly learning about yourself 08:45 The Polysecure book by Jessica Fern  14:38 Are you reading non-monogamous books with your partner? 20:14 The Long Way to a Small, Angry Planet by Becky Chambers  21:17 Poly representations in reverse harem books   30:23 Book recommendations on non-monogamy 37:11 A narrow idea about what breakups look like for poly 44:20 Looking at friendships with a different lens  49:50 Kinky relationships are still a form of loving relationships 50:59 Sex doesn't have to be about one thing either 53:08 A lot of queer representation in polyamorous spaces 58:33 At my first sex party 01:01:20 Queer just means that you resist being civilized into a norm 01:06:50 Digital events for polyamorous and non-monogamous creators and followers   Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter   You can find Claire on: Instagram Poly Pages Poly Pages Podcast Polyamory Day 2021 Digital Showcase 

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Ms. Nighteyes, The Funny Dom’s Owned sub. She is an Owned submissive and Switch who is fond of sharing funny and witty memes about polyamory, Dom/sub, and BDSM.   Owned but not collared, let’s talk about it. We discuss 24/7 tasks, self care, slip-ups, the journey of being switchy, and more. We also get a look into how kinks are discovered, punishment, special toys, forming bonds through BDSM, flogging, and a side story about a little Shibari session. Let’s get kinky!   Listen Up:   00:00 Intro 01:04 Getting interested in the Dom/subworld 04:20 Dom/sub interest came naturally 07:48 What tasks fulfills you? 08:26 Owned but not collared 11:17 When was your last vanilla sex? 13:27 Becoming open about being poly and linky 15:13 Slip ups  17:51 What does being called “Baby” make you feel? 23:58 Floggers just gives you a different sensation 25:19 Switch: more sub-leaning 29:01 Discovering the Switch energy 32:07 Slip ups between Dom/sub 35:07 Sub brats gets punished more 37:51 Playing with a cane 41:44 Using unconventional things as sex toys 44:29 Representation of BDSM in media 49:28 Clothing preferences in the Dom/sub space 53:06 Shibari session with your partner 57:54 Favorite form of after care   Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter   You can find Ms. Nighteyes on: Instagram

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Kirah (The Strology), the author of the Zodiac Signs: Pisces book. Besides being an astrologer, writer, educator, and creator, she is also passionate about intersectionality and inclusiveness within the field of astrology.    What do the planets and stars have to say about our monogamous or non-monogamous tendencies? Does your birth chart reflect your relationship style and attractions? Even if you’re not super into astrology, Kirah walks us through the placements and simplifies it all for us, so we can use this tool to better understand ourselves and our partners. Listen in for more interesting revelations about what your sign means and which ones are more likely open to non-monogamous relationships.    Listen Up:   00:00 Intro 01:45 How to apply astrology in your daily life? 03:42 Look for a good astrology chart 07:17 Signs that gravitates towards monogamy 09:06 The different houses of astrology 15:44 What is your love language? 17:04 Aspects of Pluto and non-monogamy 22:42 Aspects of Uranus tend to speak to non-monogamy 26:34 Pluto and Sagittarius are more open to non-monogamy 31:35 There has to be another way than unhappy marriages  33:14 Mutable signs: Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, and Pisces 36:50 When you have Aquarius, Capricorn or Saturn in the 7th house  40:10 Signs and how they are in relationships 48:17 Planets in the 7th house speak a lot about your partner 51:51 When his charts don’t match with yours 56:28 Can one person be both a source of stability and excitement? 58:31 Venus retrogrades every eight years 01:00:32 A bad day is probably a Mercury retrograde    Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter   You can find Kirah on: Instagram Twitter Facebook The Strology Show Podcast

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Brittany Brave, a NYC-based comedian, actress, writer, producer and host with a line of comedy that is as animated as it is cerebral. She founded Cat Call and hosts the weekly podcast, Bad Women, where she interviews women-to-know and a table for conversations on creating community, driving change and tough topics.    Now, let’s talk about sex toys. Raise your hand if you own a vibrator! What about a butt plug? Maybe some Scratchy Pokey fingers? What does Christmas have to do with it? Come join us as we give some recommendations for your starter pack and some fun stories along the way.   Listen Up:   00:00 Intro 01:07 Let’s talk about sex toys 06:40 How do you break a vibrator?  10:55 Men should own vibrators too 12:45 “My go-to vibrator options.” - Brittany 17:33 Let’s talk about strap ons 20:43 Nipple clamps! 24:23 Anal beads are a different kind of animal 31:21 Hot pink butt plug with a bunny tail 34:33 Introduction to a full-blown anal sex 37:10 You can’t use a silicone lube with silicone products 40:56 Cat Nail Claw/Finger Claw for sensation play 40:33 Edible handcuffs, food selections foreplay 48:34 Be interested in someone who’s more experienced with toys 49:01 Spreader bars are amazing!   Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter   You can find Brittany on: Instagram Twitter Facebook Website