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Melody Wilding
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May 6, 2025 • 25min

41. Why Am I So Sensitive at Work?

🚨 Enrollment is now open for the next cohort of Melody’s signature program RESILIENT. Secure your spot: https://melodywilding.com/resilientAre you the one who notices the tension in your manager's voice that no one else picked up on? Still replaying last week's conflict while your colleagues have moved on? In this episode, Melody challenges everything you've been told about being "too sensitive" at work. Discover why trying to "toughen up" is fighting a losing battle, but simply "embracing your sensitivity" isn't the answer either.If you're tired of sensitivity holding you back from the recognition, fulfillment, and impact you deserve, this episode offers a radically different approach that doesn't require changing who you are.Connect with Melody: FREE NEWSLETTER: Psychology at Work Weekly Get on the Waitlist for Speak Like a Senior Leader™ Follow Melody on LinkedIn Follow Melody on Instagram Get Melody's new book, Managing Up
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Apr 30, 2025 • 23min

40. How to Get Your Voice Heard in Meetings (Without Overthinking It)

🚨Grab your spot for the FREE 3-Day Masterclass, Speak Up & Be Heard, happening May 6th, 7th, 8th: https://melodywilding.com/masterclass Speaking up in meetings shouldn't feel like a high-wire act. But for so many thoughtful professionals, it does. You’ve got great ideas, valuable insights, and the experience to back them up, yet the words don’t come out when it counts. The moment passes, and you’re left replaying what you could have said. In this episode, Melody tackles how to speak up in meetings without spiraling into self-doubt or perfectionism. You’ll learn the real reasons your voice gets stuck, and practical ways to finally change that.What You’ll Discover: How to jump into fast-moving conversations without interrupting or sounding aggressiveA go-to phrase that helps you jump in when meetings move quicklyWhat to say when your mind goes blank and you still want to sound composedA quick mindset shift that helps you stop replaying meetings in your headConnect with Melody: FREE NEWSLETTER: Psychology at Work Weekly Get on the Waitlist for Speak Like a Senior Leader™ Follow Melody on LinkedIn Follow Melody on Instagram Get Melody's new book, Managing Up
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Apr 23, 2025 • 23min

39. 3 Habits of Highly Effective Communicators

🚨Grab your spot for the FREE 3-Day Masterclass, Speak Up & Be Heard, happening May 6th, 7th, 8th: https://melodywilding.com/masterclass If you've ever found yourself overexplaining in emails, freezing up when you're put on the spot, or second-guessing your words long after a meeting ends, then this episode is for you. Melody reveals three habits of highly effective communicators – habits that help your ideas land, your voice carry weight, and your confidence show up before you even say a word.What You’ll Discover: Why your message isn’t landing – and the subtle shift that makes people actually listenA powerful mindset reframe to stop overexplaining and start being taken seriouslyHow to get your point across without steamrolling others or overthinking every wordThe overlooked factor that makes high-pressure conversations feel less intimidatingA simple technique to stay composed (and sound confident) when you're put on the spot.Connect with Melody: FREE NEWSLETTER: Psychology at Work Weekly Get on the Waitlist for Speak Like a Senior Leader™ Follow Melody on LinkedIn Follow Melody on Instagram Get Melody's new book, Managing Up
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Apr 16, 2025 • 36min

38. Rise Above Victim Mindset at Work with Scott Barry Kaufman

Whether you've experienced a colleague who blames every mistake on someone else, work for a boss who can't take feedback, or you've caught yourself taking things too personally, this episode provides practical tools for breaking free from victim mindsets without denying real challenges. Renowned psychologist Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman joins Melody to discuss how our mindset expands or limits our options. You’ll discover: How to snap yourself out of a victim mindset with a simple word swapThe uncomfortable truth that "people just don't care about you" – and why that's actually liberating for your career growthSurprising ways to manage your emotions at work when you start getting angry, indignant, or personalizing situationsThe controversial connection between high sensitivity and narcissismAbout Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman Scott Barry Kaufman, Ph.D., is a cognitive psychologist who is among the top one percent most cited scientists in the world for his groundbreaking research on intelligence, creativity, and human potential. He is the host of The Psychology Podcast, which has received more than 30 million downloads and is frequently ranked the #1 psychology podcast in the world. Dr. Kaufman’s writing has appeared in The Atlantic, Scientific American, Psychology Today, and Harvard Business Review, and he is the author of ten previous books, including Transcend, Wired to Create, and Ungifted. https://scottbarrykaufman.com/ Connect with Melody: FREE NEWSLETTER: Psychology at Work Weekly Get on the Waitlist for Speak Like a Senior Leader™ Follow Melody on LinkedIn Follow Melody on Instagram Get Melody's new book, Managing Up
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Apr 9, 2025 • 42min

37. Standout Resume Tips with Lisa Rangel, Ex-Executive Recruiter

Is your resume ready for today's job market? Former executive recruiter and resume expert Lisa Rangel reveals what actually makes hiring managers take notice in 2025. As the founder of Chameleon Resumes and creator of the M.E.T.A. job search process, Lisa has helped professionals in 88+ countries land their dream roles. She shares insider knowledge about what's changed in hiring, how to make your experience stand out (even when it doesn't seem like a perfect match), and practical strategies for quantifying your achievements in ways that capture attention.You’ll Discover:Shifts in hiring practices over the last 4-5 years and how to adapt your approachSimple tips to update your long-dormant resume without getting overwhelmedHow to turn seemingly "unmeasurable" achievements into compelling metrics that grab attentionThe truth about cover letters (and how to write one that actually works)About Lisa  Lisa Rangel is the Founder/CEO of ChameleonResumes.com, the premier executive resume writing and job landing consulting firm, with client success in 88+ countries. Lisa’s mission in life is to continue to make the world a happier place with one fulfilling, well-paying job change at a time using her 4-Step M.E.T.A. Job Landing System. She is a graduate of Cornell University and the first in her family to graduate from college. She is a trusted senior-level job landing expert who has been featured or published over 200+ times in media outlets including Fortune, Forbes, Newsweek, Fast Company, Business Insider, LinkedIn, BBC, Investor's Business Daily, Crain's New York, Chicago Tribune, Good Morning America & more.  She has also been selected by a number of private recruitment and executive search firms as an expert to provide guidance on how to land a fulfilling six-figure role. Download resume samples at: https://chameleonresumes.com/executive-resume-samples Connect with Melody: FREE NEWSLETTER: Psychology at Work Weekly Get on the Waitlist for Speak Like a Senior Leader™ Follow Melody on LinkedIn Follow Melody on Instagram Get Melody's new book, Managing Up
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Apr 2, 2025 • 52min

36. The Emotional Rollercoaster of Writing “Managing Up” & Pub Day Confessions [LIVE Q&A]

Celebrating one month since Managing Up hit shelves, Melody shares the rarely-discussed struggles behind the book’s release. She pulls back the curtain on the messy reality of creating something meaningful – from crushing setbacks to unexpected breakthroughs and the mindsets, habits, and strategies that helped her along the way. You'll discover:The shocking job termination that became the foundation for Melody's managing up frameworkWhy hundreds of thousands of words ended up in the trash – and how she found the courage to start overThe one-star reviews of her first book that completely transformed her approach to writing this oneHow she balances running a business full-time with book writing Connect with Melody: FREE NEWSLETTER: Psychology at Work Weekly Get on the Waitlist for Speak Like a Senior Leader™ Follow Melody on LinkedIn Follow Melody on Instagram Get Melody's new book, Managing Up
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Mar 26, 2025 • 18min

35. Overcome Imposter Syndrome with This Psychological Trick

Dive into the world of imposter syndrome, where hard-earned success often feels undeserved. Discover how we mistakenly attribute achievements to luck while magnifying our failures. Learn four actionable strategies to shift your mindset and truly own your accomplishments. Unpack the neuroscience behind the discomfort of praise for high achievers and find out why embracing your achievements is crucial for building confidence. It's time to reframe your relationship with success!
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Mar 19, 2025 • 43min

34. Mastering Difficult Conversations with Viral Sensation & Trial Lawyer, Jefferson Fisher

Jefferson Fisher, a trial lawyer and viral communication expert, shares his strategic insights on mastering difficult conversations. He reveals how to communicate assertively without offending, and what to say when someone takes credit for your work. Jefferson discusses his three-part communication framework: say it with control, confidence, and connection. He also provides tactics for delivering bad news and emphasizes the importance of emotional intelligence and active listening in navigating professional dialogues.
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Mar 12, 2025 • 40min

33. How to Turn Job Seeking into Job Shopping with Madeline Mann

Tired of feeling powerless in your job search? HR insider and career coach, Madeline Mann, is here to flip the script on traditional job hunting. Madeline shares her revolutionary approach that transforms frustrated job seekers into confident job shoppers. Drawing from her experience in HR and recruiting at top companies, she breaks down exactly how to take control of your career journey and land roles at dream companies like Google, Amazon, and Microsoft.You’ll Discover:The psychology behind what actually makes hiring managers take notice How to shift from being a desperate job seeker to becoming an empowered job shopperPractical strategies for managing an effective job search while working full-timeAbout Madeline  Madeline Mann is an HR & Recruiting leader and the author of Reverse the Search, who spun her insider knowledge of the hiring process into an award-winning career coaching empire, called Self Made Millennial, where she has reached millions. Through her platforms and coaching, Mann works to turn job seekers into Job Shoppers, enabling any professional to land high-paying job offers, with many landing roles at competitive Fortune 500 companies. Mann has been featured in outlets such as The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, and ABC News, and is recognized as a LinkedIn Top Voice.Connect with Melody: FREE NEWSLETTER: Psychology at Work Weekly Get on the Waitlist for Speak Like a Senior Leader™ Follow Melody on LinkedIn Follow Melody on Instagram Get Melody's new book, Managing Up
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Mar 7, 2025 • 32min

32. What's Your Professional Power Position? (Introducing My New Direction)

In this candid episode, Melody shares the behind-the-scenes story of her bold new direction and introduces a brand new concept: your Professional Power Position. She opens up about the personal wake-up calls that led to this evolution, including why she stopped softening her message and what happened when she did. Through compelling examples and personal confessions, Melody shows why mastering both your own psychology AND others' is the key to getting the recognition, respect, and results you deserve. This conversation will change how you think about power, influence, and success at work. Connect with Melody: FREE NEWSLETTER: Psychology at Work Weekly Get on the Waitlist for Speak Like a Senior Leader™ Follow Melody on LinkedIn Follow Melody on Instagram Get Melody's new book, Managing Up

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