

M Is for Mama Podcast
Abbie Halberstadt
On the M is for Mama Podcast, you’ll hear encouragement for all things motherhood, practical helps and systems to help you thrive in your home from day to day, funny, relatable kid-stories, examinations of what the Bible has to say about cultural issues, and so much more!
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Jan 24, 2024 • 56min
Ep. 52: A Christian’s Response to Church (Part 2 - Church Hurt + Good Church Stories)
One of the more common buzz phrases I’m encountering on the Internet is the term “church hurt.”
The problem, as with many popular phrases, is the true meaning of “church hurt” is hard to nail down, meaning anything from true abuse of power and spiritual neglect to a rightful accountability check of sin.
Not only that, but since we are called to look not only to our own needs but also to the needs of others (Phil. 2:4), the intensely personal narrative surrounding church hurt often becomes more about the person who experienced (real or perceived) injury than it is about the God who heals every sorrow and is so near the brokenhearted.
To further complicate issues, many in the church hurt movement seem determined to lump the entire entity of “church” in with what they deem a broken system, rotten to its core.
And so, we must examine all of these claims in the light of Scripture. Is all church hurt equal? Should every claim be taken at face value? Is there still such a thing as a healthy church?
We address all of these questions (and more) in light of Scripture in today’s episode.
Bible References:
Micah 6:8
Psalm 1:1
Philippians 2:3-8
Matthew 18
Matthew 18:21-22
Hebrews 10:23-25
Philippians 4:13
Romans 12:15
2 Corinthians 5:17
Romans 6:23
John 14:15
Jeremiah 17:9
Luke 6:45
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Jan 17, 2024 • 25min
Ep. 51: Halberstadt Birthday Traditions
One of my favorite things as a mom is figuring out traditions that our whole family will cherish for years.
Our birthday traditions have evolved since we had our first almost 18 years ago until we have them down to, if not a science, a day of predictably fun (but also customizable) customs that everybody loves.
If you’re looking for inspiration for creating traditions of your own, looking to switch things up a bit, or just needing encouragement that the effort to establish lasting traditions that will knit your family’s hearts closer together is worth it, then this episode is for you!
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Jan 3, 2024 • 45min
Ep. 50: A Christian’s Response to Church (Part 1–Don’t Be a Scoffer)
When it comes to the topic of “things Christians do” or “organized church,” it’s a bit of a free-for-all. You don’t have to be kind. You don’t have to be truthful. And you don’t have to take into consideration how making Christians/the church the butt of all your jokes affects the way the outside world looking in thinks about either/both (especially on social media).
Except we do. Scripture makes it very clear that 1. The Christian church is the bride of Christ (and that’s a big deal) and 2. We will be held accountable for “every careless word” we speak—Matt. 12:36 (and that’s a huge deal!).
Throw in Psalm 1, which urges us to avoid mockery and scoffing, and you’ve got a pretty compelling argument for treating this topic with the careful and honest handling it deserves. Does “the church” have problems? Yes. Will Christians fail us and do wrong things? Also, yes.
But that’s not where the story ends, and I want to approach this series with the goal of bringing our attitudes and thoughts about church under the Lordship of Jesus Christ—just like we do (or should do) everything else.
Bible References:
Genesis 1:26-28
John 1:1
Psalm 1
Ephesians 4:15
1 Corinthians 9:22
Ephesians 4:2
Hebrews 10:25
James 3:10
Philippians 4:8
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Dec 27, 2023 • 54min
Ep. 49: What a Year! (A Recap of 2023)
For those who watch via YouTube or Spotify, we apologize, but due to technical issues, there is no video available this week.
We did it, friends! We made it through 2023 by the grace of God! And boy, do I mean that! There have been many moments this year that felt like too much, but tor Christ’s power at work in my life. I’m guessing you can relate!
From book launching to our whole-family European adventure to a house flood to living in a rental for months while we renovate our entire downstairs, the Lord has shown Himself faithful time and time again.
Hope you’re encouraged (and at least moderately entertained) by this look back at some of the more memorable moments of 2023.
Also, CHEERS to one whole year of podcasting! I’ve so enjoyed getting to share with you and can’t wait to do it again next year! (AKA: Next week).
P.S. I mention the “flower mama” sweatshirt I’m wearing in the episode. Here’s the link, as promised.
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Dec 20, 2023 • 24min
Ep. 48: Let's Talk Christmas (Part 4--My Favorite Christmas Things)
We're rounding out our Christmas series with a (mostly) lighthearted round of "Abbie's Favorite Christmas Things."
This is such a special time of year to me, but, if I'm honest, this Christmas season hasn't felt particularly festive or fun, so this was a great exercise in reminding myself of the many ways that Christmas brings joy--the ultimate of which is the tiny baby who came to this world to save us from our sins!
A quick reminder that, if you know someone in need who could use practical help this Christmas season, you can nominate them by sending me a message at abbie@misformama.net
Bible References:
Luke 2:10
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Dec 13, 2023 • 20min
Ep. 47: Let's Talk Christmas (Part 3--When Christmas Doesn't Feel Joyful)
It’s all well and good to give ideas for fun holiday activities and ways to bring the Christmas "magic."
Family traditions are wonderful, and I will always advocate for their importance.
But what about those for whom Christmas is a genuine struggle? What about the years when you’re just not "feeling it."
There is hope in Christ for those who find themselves in this place.
In fact, it is the whole hope of Christmas. Be encouraged, friends, that, even when you feel alone, the Savior, who came as a baby to grow up to manhood and sacrifice Himself for the sins of the world is by your side.
Bible References:
Romans 5:8
Matthew 8:26
Hebrews 13:5
1 Peter 5:7
Matthew 5:26-30
Philippians 4:7
2 Corinthians 10:5
1 Corinthians 1:9-11
Ephesians 4:6-10
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Dec 6, 2023 • 38min
Ep. 46: Let’s Talk Christmas (Part 2 —Our Family’s Traditions)
One of the primary arguments I’ve heard against skipping Santa is that doing so will rob kids of the “magic of Christmas.”
The thing is: Nowhere in the Bible are we exhorted to do things for our kids that make them feel “magical” (in the sense of euphoria or warm, fuzzy feelings). But we are encouraged to “rejoice in the Lord” and to “give thanks in all circumstances.” And one way to do that in the Christmas season is by establishing family traditions that spark joy and fun and generosity.
In this episode, I discuss some of the specific things our family does to truly enjoy each other and praise God for His goodness during the Christmas season AND ways that we strive to bless others as well!
Hopefully, you’ll get some good ideas and be encouraged that there are so many good + wholesome + joy-filled ways to celebrate Christ’s birth.
P.S. One thing we’ve done that I forgot to mention is the Jesse Tree. Such a great tradition!
Bible References:
Psalm 119:105
Matthew 12:34
Matthew 19:16-22
Luke 19:10
Matthew 6:21
Matthew 12:28-34
Zephaniah 3:17
Psalm 34:8
Philippians 4:4-8
Psalm 100:1
Colossians 3:17
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Episode About Allowance and Chores
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September & Co.
Ruth Chou Simons Emmanuel
Cross Formed Kids
Treehouse Schoolhouse
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Nov 29, 2023 • 31min
Ep. 45: Let’s Talk Christmas (Part 1–The Santa Conversation)
Every year, somewhere between October 1st and December 25, I start getting the same question on repeat: “Does your family ‘do Santa?’ Why or why not?”
I tackle this question, and the why behind our answer, in this episode. As always, the goal in every discussion of whether or not to adhere to a particular tradition must be: Does it bring glory to God in the way that we practice it (if we do)?
I also discuss three biblically sound questions to ask yourself as you approach the Santa conversation that may help clarify how you approach your family’s take on this.
I hope you find this way of addressing “the Santa talk” edifying, encouraging, and helpful!
Bible References:
Colossians 3:17
Deuteronomy 6:6-8
John 1:1
James 1:6
Genesis 3:1
James 4:17
Exodus 32
Matthew 10:28
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Nov 22, 2023 • 24min
Ep. 44: When Gratitude Feels Hard (Our Actions Must Lead Our Feelings)
Have you ever felt like you have nothing to be grateful for? That your circumstances are too miserable to bear and that any attempt at thankfulness would be faking it?
The Bible makes it clear that it is God’s will for us to practice continual thankfulness, and yet it also gives us lots of room for grief and sadness when life is so hard.
Be encouraged that it is really is possible to honor God with our gratitude, even when we feel too weak to praise Him and even when our emotions feel the opposite of thankful.
In this episode, we talk about a perspective shift that helps us to view gratitude rightly and to view even the most frustrating people in our lives through a lens of thankfulness.
Praise God that He honors even our stumbling toward obedience in this area with the ability to keep going on the narrow path, even when we don’t feel like we have the strength to take another step.
Bible References:
Psalm 127:3
Lamentations 3:22-23
Romans 6:1-2
Ephesians 4:2
2 Corinthians 10:5
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
1 Peter 2:23
Deuteronomy 31:6
2 Corinthians 9:11
Romans 7:19-25
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Nov 15, 2023 • 30min
Ep. 43: We Are Finite Beings (Assessing Where Our "Energy Points" Are Best Spent)
None of us have endless wells of energy. We all hit walls (of exhaustion or burnout or overwhelm) during certain seasons. Sometimes, it can be hard to know where our limited resources are best spent in particularly busy periods.
Thankfully, we can turn to God for wisdom and rely on biblical principles to help us navigate the tricky waters of time management, learning to say no, and leaning into challenging seasons with the knowledge that we are right where God wants us to be!
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Bible References:
Matthew 5:37
Judges 11:38-40
James 1:5
2 Corinthians 12:9-11
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