

M Is for Mama Podcast
Abbie Halberstadt
On the M is for Mama Podcast, you’ll hear encouragement for all things motherhood, practical helps and systems to help you thrive in your home from day to day, funny, relatable kid-stories, examinations of what the Bible has to say about cultural issues, and so much more!
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Feb 14, 2024 • 47min
Ep. 55: Bad Days Don’t Make Bad Moms (Encouragement from Heidi St. John)
Heidi St. John—homeschool mom to eight, grandmother, author, and speaker—joins me on this episode to chat all things motherhood: finding our giftings, using them for the Lord + our families, and, yes, being willing to accept help. Because motherhood (as with most things) is best done in community! Join us for a lively conversation about how “bad days don’t make moms”—in fact, they often give us an oppportunity to repent and model asking forgiveness to our kids. You’ll be encouraged to keep showing up and serving God even when you fail. What a gift!Women’s Bible Study w Heidi St. Johnbravebooks.comPodcast: Off the Bench (Apple Podcasts) - (Spotify) - (YouTube)The Mouse and the Sea - (Brave Books) - (Amazon)Bible References:Matthew 12:30-31Matthew 25:40-45Colossians 3:23Exodus 14James 1:6Titus 2Proverbs 27:171 John 4:4Romans 8:1Links:M Is for MamaPenny Reward SystemLeave a Review for the M is for Mama ShowPaint & ProsePre-Order Hard Is Not the Same Thing as BadM Is For Mama Chore GuideM Is For Mama Meal Plan Sign-UpTales of the Kingdom LinkMilk and Honey JewelryFind Abbie at:InstagramYoutubeFacebook

Feb 7, 2024 • 36min
Ep. 54: The Taylor Effect (Training Our Affections toward Christ when the World is Loud)
It would almost take living as a full-on Luddite to not know something about Taylor Swift. The sheer volume of interest, speculation, online posts, and photographs of just one person exemplifies our culture’s propensity to “obsess” over celebrities.One thing that sets “T Swift” apart is a dogged loyalty to/approval of/fascination with her: music, life choices, and person as a whole.And this includes many Christians who include themselves in the ranks of enthusiastic “Swifties.”In this episode, we examine what it looks like, from a biblical perspective, to be devoted first and foremost to Jesus rather than *any* pop culture icon, no matter how much nostalgia and warm fuzzy feelings arise when we think about listening to their music/watching their movies/living vicariously through their publicly broadcasted lives. This is not a bash on Taylor Swift but rather a call to every Christian to honestly examine to whom our affections are most devoted and by whom we are most influenced—Jesus and His holy Word…or the world. Here is the link to Summit Ministries, don't miss out on the $200 off tuition with the code MAMA24!Romans 1:25Matthew 6:21Romans 12:2Psalm 119:105Romans 3:23Romans 3:10-122 Timothy 4:7-8Links:M Is for MamaPenny Reward SystemLeave a Review for the M is for Mama ShowPaint & ProsePre-Order Hard Is Not the Same Thing as BadM Is For Mama Chore GuideM Is For Mama Meal Plan Sign-UpTales of the Kingdom LinkFind Abbie at:InstagramYoutubeFacebook

Jan 31, 2024 • 50min
Ep. 53: A Conversation About Deconstruction with Alisa Childers
When you hear the word “deconstruction,” what comes to mind? An honest examination of biblical truth? An automatic rejection of it? Something in between?
In this episode, my friend, Alisa Childers—author, respected apologist, and, herself, a survivor of the deconstruction movement—does a great job of speaking to the need for defining our terms.
After all, if nobody knows exactly what the term “deconstruction” means, it’s going to be impossible to bring it before the light of Scripture and examine it truthfully.
Alisa and I also discuss why it’s important to understand this movement as moms who are charged with teaching our children God’s Word and encouraging them to seek truth over cultural trends.
Be encouraged that clarity in this area is not only possible but crucial to combatting the cultural lies that tell us we know better than God.
Guest Info:
Alisa Childers:
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Bible References:
Ephesians 4:14
Exodus 12
Ephesians 5:26
1 Thessalonians 5:21
Romans 11:34-36
Proverbs 12:16
Proverbs 6:24
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Paint & Prose
Pre-Order Hard Is Not the Same Thing as Bad
M Is For Mama Chore Guide
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Milk and Honey Jewelry
Better Than Anything Cake
Foundation Worldview Curriculum
Alisa Childers' Books: The Deconstruction of Christianity - Another Gospel - Live Your Truth and Other Lies
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Jan 24, 2024 • 56min
Ep. 52: A Christian’s Response to Church (Part 2 - Church Hurt + Good Church Stories)
One of the more common buzz phrases I’m encountering on the Internet is the term “church hurt.”
The problem, as with many popular phrases, is the true meaning of “church hurt” is hard to nail down, meaning anything from true abuse of power and spiritual neglect to a rightful accountability check of sin.
Not only that, but since we are called to look not only to our own needs but also to the needs of others (Phil. 2:4), the intensely personal narrative surrounding church hurt often becomes more about the person who experienced (real or perceived) injury than it is about the God who heals every sorrow and is so near the brokenhearted.
To further complicate issues, many in the church hurt movement seem determined to lump the entire entity of “church” in with what they deem a broken system, rotten to its core.
And so, we must examine all of these claims in the light of Scripture. Is all church hurt equal? Should every claim be taken at face value? Is there still such a thing as a healthy church?
We address all of these questions (and more) in light of Scripture in today’s episode.
Bible References:
Micah 6:8
Psalm 1:1
Philippians 2:3-8
Matthew 18
Matthew 18:21-22
Hebrews 10:23-25
Philippians 4:13
Romans 12:15
2 Corinthians 5:17
Romans 6:23
John 14:15
Jeremiah 17:9
Luke 6:45
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Pre-Order Hard Is Not the Same Thing as Bad
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Milk and Honey Jewelry
Better Than Anything Cake
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Jan 17, 2024 • 25min
Ep. 51: Halberstadt Birthday Traditions
One of my favorite things as a mom is figuring out traditions that our whole family will cherish for years.
Our birthday traditions have evolved since we had our first almost 18 years ago until we have them down to, if not a science, a day of predictably fun (but also customizable) customs that everybody loves.
If you’re looking for inspiration for creating traditions of your own, looking to switch things up a bit, or just needing encouragement that the effort to establish lasting traditions that will knit your family’s hearts closer together is worth it, then this episode is for you!
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Milk and Honey Jewelry
Better Than Anything Cake
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Jan 3, 2024 • 45min
Ep. 50: A Christian’s Response to Church (Part 1–Don’t Be a Scoffer)
When it comes to the topic of “things Christians do” or “organized church,” it’s a bit of a free-for-all. You don’t have to be kind. You don’t have to be truthful. And you don’t have to take into consideration how making Christians/the church the butt of all your jokes affects the way the outside world looking in thinks about either/both (especially on social media).
Except we do. Scripture makes it very clear that 1. The Christian church is the bride of Christ (and that’s a big deal) and 2. We will be held accountable for “every careless word” we speak—Matt. 12:36 (and that’s a huge deal!).
Throw in Psalm 1, which urges us to avoid mockery and scoffing, and you’ve got a pretty compelling argument for treating this topic with the careful and honest handling it deserves. Does “the church” have problems? Yes. Will Christians fail us and do wrong things? Also, yes.
But that’s not where the story ends, and I want to approach this series with the goal of bringing our attitudes and thoughts about church under the Lordship of Jesus Christ—just like we do (or should do) everything else.
Bible References:
Genesis 1:26-28
John 1:1
Psalm 1
Ephesians 4:15
1 Corinthians 9:22
Ephesians 4:2
Hebrews 10:25
James 3:10
Philippians 4:8
Links:
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Paint & Prose
Pre-Order Hard Is Not the Same Thing as Bad
M Is For Mama Chore Guide
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Milk and Honey Jewelry
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Dec 27, 2023 • 54min
Ep. 49: What a Year! (A Recap of 2023)
For those who watch via YouTube or Spotify, we apologize, but due to technical issues, there is no video available this week.
We did it, friends! We made it through 2023 by the grace of God! And boy, do I mean that! There have been many moments this year that felt like too much, but tor Christ’s power at work in my life. I’m guessing you can relate!
From book launching to our whole-family European adventure to a house flood to living in a rental for months while we renovate our entire downstairs, the Lord has shown Himself faithful time and time again.
Hope you’re encouraged (and at least moderately entertained) by this look back at some of the more memorable moments of 2023.
Also, CHEERS to one whole year of podcasting! I’ve so enjoyed getting to share with you and can’t wait to do it again next year! (AKA: Next week).
P.S. I mention the “flower mama” sweatshirt I’m wearing in the episode. Here’s the link, as promised.
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Dec 20, 2023 • 24min
Ep. 48: Let's Talk Christmas (Part 4--My Favorite Christmas Things)
We're rounding out our Christmas series with a (mostly) lighthearted round of "Abbie's Favorite Christmas Things."
This is such a special time of year to me, but, if I'm honest, this Christmas season hasn't felt particularly festive or fun, so this was a great exercise in reminding myself of the many ways that Christmas brings joy--the ultimate of which is the tiny baby who came to this world to save us from our sins!
A quick reminder that, if you know someone in need who could use practical help this Christmas season, you can nominate them by sending me a message at abbie@misformama.net
Bible References:
Luke 2:10
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Shortbread Kiss Cookie Recipe
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Dec 13, 2023 • 20min
Ep. 47: Let's Talk Christmas (Part 3--When Christmas Doesn't Feel Joyful)
It’s all well and good to give ideas for fun holiday activities and ways to bring the Christmas "magic."
Family traditions are wonderful, and I will always advocate for their importance.
But what about those for whom Christmas is a genuine struggle? What about the years when you’re just not "feeling it."
There is hope in Christ for those who find themselves in this place.
In fact, it is the whole hope of Christmas. Be encouraged, friends, that, even when you feel alone, the Savior, who came as a baby to grow up to manhood and sacrifice Himself for the sins of the world is by your side.
Bible References:
Romans 5:8
Matthew 8:26
Hebrews 13:5
1 Peter 5:7
Matthew 5:26-30
Philippians 4:7
2 Corinthians 10:5
1 Corinthians 1:9-11
Ephesians 4:6-10
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Dec 6, 2023 • 38min
Ep. 46: Let’s Talk Christmas (Part 2 —Our Family’s Traditions)
One of the primary arguments I’ve heard against skipping Santa is that doing so will rob kids of the “magic of Christmas.”
The thing is: Nowhere in the Bible are we exhorted to do things for our kids that make them feel “magical” (in the sense of euphoria or warm, fuzzy feelings). But we are encouraged to “rejoice in the Lord” and to “give thanks in all circumstances.” And one way to do that in the Christmas season is by establishing family traditions that spark joy and fun and generosity.
In this episode, I discuss some of the specific things our family does to truly enjoy each other and praise God for His goodness during the Christmas season AND ways that we strive to bless others as well!
Hopefully, you’ll get some good ideas and be encouraged that there are so many good + wholesome + joy-filled ways to celebrate Christ’s birth.
P.S. One thing we’ve done that I forgot to mention is the Jesse Tree. Such a great tradition!
Bible References:
Psalm 119:105
Matthew 12:34
Matthew 19:16-22
Luke 19:10
Matthew 6:21
Matthew 12:28-34
Zephaniah 3:17
Psalm 34:8
Philippians 4:4-8
Psalm 100:1
Colossians 3:17
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Penny Reward System
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Paint & Prose
Pre-Order Hard Is Not the Same Thing as Bad
M Is For Mama Chore Guide
M Is For Mama Meal Plan Sign-Up
Milk and Honey Jewelry
Episode About Allowance and Chores
Samaritan's Purse Gift Catalog
September & Co.
Ruth Chou Simons Emmanuel
Cross Formed Kids
Treehouse Schoolhouse
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