
The Penis Project Podcast: Breaking Taboos in Men’s Sexual Health
With over 219,000 streams and nearly 200 episodes, The Penis Project Podcast—hosted by Australian Nurse Practitioner and Sexologist Melissa Hadley Barrett —offers groundbreaking conversations about men’s sexual health. Launched in 2020 by Melissa and physiotherapist Jo Milios, the podcast combines expert knowledge, scientific insights, and interviews with her patients and their partners to address sensitive topics men often struggle to discuss, including erectile dysfunction, prostate and bladder cancer recovery, Peyronie’s disease, premature ejaculation and intimacy in relationships. Melissa, who refers to herself as the ”Unexpected Sexologist,” brings decades of clinical experience and compassion to every episode, highlighting that sexual wellbeing involves both physical and emotional health. Join this global community in breaking down stigma, finding support, and accessing practical solutions to common yet overlooked men’s health issues. Available on all major podcast platforms, with new episodes every fortnight—start listening today.
Latest episodes

Jan 12, 2022 • 55min
68. ’’How To Shame the Devil”, by “Ros Thomas”. A book with a voice for men in #metoo
Today, we talk with Ros Thomas.
Ros is a Perth-based author and former journalist of 25 years who has written a long-running weekend column for The West Australian Newspaper.
Together with Dr Jo and Melissa, Ros will talk about the inspiration of her very 1st novella 'How to Shame the Devil', what moved her to start writing ~ again ~ and to remind us all that 'it's never too late to become who we want to be or to start again'.
Themes of the book relate to sexual consent, and the #metoo movement in the context of yesteryear vs the 2021… the aging process and life reflections from the viewpoint of a nursing home…
Are you wondering how this book relates to men? Just click the button below to know and start listening!
To check out Ros's book and buy your copy, feel free to visit here:
https://www.nightparrotpress.com/product/how-to-shame-the-devil/?moderation-hash=c719b3e95e0405f977270fcd96dcfc89%23comment-11448&unapproved=11448
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Websites:
https://melissahadleybarrett.com Men’s health only
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
http://prost.com.au/
Facebook:
https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085146627814
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/
https://www.instagram.com/restorativehealth.clinic/
TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett
YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett
Linkedin:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/
Music
David Mercy
https://open.spotify.com/artist/1HbvnltKu4XbWTmk0kpVB9?si=D1xP5dDVQK-zzNU3rViRWg
Producer
Thomas Evans: The SOTA Process
https://www.instagram.com/thesotaprocess/
https://open.spotify.com/show/4Jf2IYXRlgfsiqNARsY8fi

Jan 7, 2022 • 48min
67. Foreskin Restoration following Circumcision with “Tim’’
Our first episode of the new year will be about restoration - foreskin restoration.
For this topic, we talk with Tim.
Tim will talk about his experience, the reason why he reached out to us, and few 101s about foreskin restoration, namely; devices, groups, and orgs.
Plus a few more interesting topics you'll surely enjoy!
Few resources for you:
hhttps://15square.org.uk/
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Websites:
https://melissahadleybarrett.com Men’s health only
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
http://prost.com.au/
Facebook:
https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085146627814
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/
https://www.instagram.com/restorativehealth.clinic/
TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett
YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett
Linkedin:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/
Music
David Mercy
https://open.spotify.com/artist/1HbvnltKu4XbWTmk0kpVB9?si=D1xP5dDVQK-zzNU3rViRWg
Producer
Thomas Evans: The SOTA Process
https://www.instagram.com/thesotaprocess/
https://open.spotify.com/show/4Jf2IYXRlgfsiqNARsY8fi

Dec 21, 2021 • 31min
66. Ball pain, vasectomy, fertility and more with “Dr Trenton Barrett”
And botox in your penis and bladder?
Today, we talk with Dr. Trenton Barrett.
Dr. Barrett is a urologist, with specialty on male genito-urinary complaints as well as sexual health. And his subspecialty interest is in female urology, andrology, and male infertility.
Dr Barrett talks about Azoospermia, which is a medical term used when there are no sperm in the ejaculate, as well as its causes, what can be done for this type of cases, procedures, and more. He also talks about Oligospermia, which is a term for low sperm count and how it's different from Azoospermia.
Dr Barrett also answers the question of whether procedures relating to the scrotum/testes (ie vasectomy) can cause erectile dysfunction or not, and whether varicoceles are the possible reason for pain during sex/orgasm (for those experiencing it). He also brushes upon testicle pains, diagnosis, and its possible treatments (ie botox). Yes, you heard it right, botox can also be injected to the bladder (has been done since the 80's) for overactive bladders!
Further, Dr Barrett and Melissa discuss vasectomies (and even reversals), what's true and what’s not. Spoiler alert - there shouldn't be a crippling pain.
A few more topics discussed are penile implants and injections.
This is a fully-loaded episode with tons of golden nuggets that not only talk about the penis but also the bells around! Have a listen as we believe you will enjoy and learn a lot about these topics!
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If you feel The Penis Project is valuable to you then, please review and subscribe as this will ensure more people get to hear what we have to say.
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Websites:
https://melissahadleybarrett.com Men’s health only
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
http://prost.com.au/
Facebook:
https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085146627814
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/
https://www.instagram.com/restorativehealth.clinic/
TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett
YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett
Linkedin:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/
Music
David Mercy
https://open.spotify.com/artist/1HbvnltKu4XbWTmk0kpVB9?si=D1xP5dDVQK-zzNU3rViRWg
Producer
Thomas Evans: The SOTA Process
https://www.instagram.com/thesotaprocess/
https://open.spotify.com/show/4Jf2IYXRlgfsiqNARsY8fi

Dec 14, 2021 • 48min
65. From hard conversations to a Clear Mind: Meet “Craig Aird”
Today's episode is something for everyone especially FIFO workers and their partners.
Meet Craig.
Craig will share his story of how at 16-years old, he was diagnosed with cancer and how this experience helped him be the person and coach that he is today. Together with his wife, they own Clear Mind Studio – a health space for everyone but in particular FIFO couples.
Listen as he shares his inspiring story – he was diagnosed with cancer at 16 years old, saved his sperm for his future. He has radically changed his career path to help others drawing from his own experiences to do so.
Craig's wisdom is:
Hard conversation, easy life
Easy conversation, hard life
We hope you enjoy this inspiring story.
Helpful links:
https://www.clearmindstudio.com/
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If you feel The Penis Project is valuable to you then, please review and subscribe as this will ensure more people get to hear what we have to say.
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Websites:
https://melissahadleybarrett.com Men’s health only
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
http://prost.com.au/
Facebook:
https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085146627814
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/
https://www.instagram.com/restorativehealth.clinic/
TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett
YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett
Linkedin:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/
Music
David Mercy
https://open.spotify.com/artist/1HbvnltKu4XbWTmk0kpVB9?si=D1xP5dDVQK-zzNU3rViRWg
Producer
Thomas Evans: The SOTA Process
https://www.instagram.com/thesotaprocess/
https://open.spotify.com/show/4Jf2IYXRlgfsiqNARsY8fi

Dec 7, 2021 • 1h
64. Meet “Russell” and his implant – for continence and a dripping penis. (Artificial Urinary Sphincter)
For today's episode, we have a celebrity podcaster – RSHCs’ very own Sharon Stephen. Our guest is Russell - who according to Melissa sounds like Elvis.
Russell suffered incontinence( continuous leakage) after his radical prostatectomy - even after obedient adherence to pelvic floor exercises.
After trying everything - Russell met Dr. Jessica.
To know what caused Russell's incontinence and the solution that was provided, have a listen to the podcast!
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If you feel The Penis Project is valuable to you then, please review and subscribe as this will ensure more people get to hear what we have to say.
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Websites:
https://melissahadleybarrett.com Men’s health only
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
http://prost.com.au/
Facebook:
https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085146627814
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/
https://www.instagram.com/restorativehealth.clinic/
TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett
YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett
Linkedin:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/
Music
David Mercy
https://open.spotify.com/artist/1HbvnltKu4XbWTmk0kpVB9?si=D1xP5dDVQK-zzNU3rViRWg
Producer
Thomas Evans: The SOTA Process
https://www.instagram.com/thesotaprocess/
https://open.spotify.com/show/4Jf2IYXRlgfsiqNARsY8fi

Dec 2, 2021 • 43min
63. Meet “Proctor””- Pelvic Pain, Prostate Cancer, wild-type erections & suppositories!
Today, we talk to Proctor.
Proctor's story also started when he was 18-19 years old. Much like the same with Pierre, Proctor also experienced pain in his perineum... and in his testicles.
He also went to different doctors, was prescribed with pain medications, and still no explanation with how the pain is occurring. Then he had robotic radical prostatectomy after his Prostate Cancer was picked up by a diligent GP.
All of these brought Proctor to Dr. Jo and Melissa - and the rest is history. :)
This episode will not only share Proctor's journey, discuss 'wild type erections' but will also show you the importance of having a very diligent GP.
Enjoy listening!
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If you feel The Penis Project is valuable to you then, please review and subscribe as this will ensure more people get to hear what we have to say.
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Websites:
https://melissahadleybarrett.com Men’s health only
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
http://prost.com.au/
Facebook:
https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085146627814
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/
https://www.instagram.com/restorativehealth.clinic/
TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett
YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett
Linkedin:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/
Music
David Mercy
https://open.spotify.com/artist/1HbvnltKu4XbWTmk0kpVB9?si=D1xP5dDVQK-zzNU3rViRWg
Producer
Thomas Evans: The SOTA Process
https://www.instagram.com/thesotaprocess/
https://open.spotify.com/show/4Jf2IYXRlgfsiqNARsY8fi

Nov 23, 2021 • 53min
62. “Pelvic Pain Pierre”: Persistent Pain in the Private Parts
For today's episode, we talk with Pelvic Pain Pierre.
Pierre's story starts when he was 18 years old and he noticed a decrease in his urine flow.
Two years later he developed groin pain. This was the beginning of Pierre taking tons of different medications as health professionals struggled to find a diagnosis.
The pain became more consistent and affected Pierre's life...he noticed the pain would change depending on his emotional state and with activity. Thanks to big flat screen TV's, Pierre was still able to enjoy movies - at home! Because sitting for a long time in a cinema would be uncomfortable and can cause flare ups for Pierre.
Pierre is now 32 years old, married, and still experiences pain. But he's living his life and is NOW getting the help he needs, and can sit longer!
To know more about Pierre's story, his journey, what his diagnosis really is, and get an anatomy lesson thrown in click the PLAY button below.
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If you feel The Penis Project is valuable to you then, please review and subscribe as this will ensure more people get to hear what we have to say.
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Websites:
https://melissahadleybarrett.com Men’s health only
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
http://prost.com.au/
Facebook:
https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085146627814
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/
https://www.instagram.com/restorativehealth.clinic/
TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett
YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett
Linkedin:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/
Music
David Mercy
https://open.spotify.com/artist/1HbvnltKu4XbWTmk0kpVB9?si=D1xP5dDVQK-zzNU3rViRWg
Producer
Thomas Evans: The SOTA Process
https://www.instagram.com/thesotaprocess/
https://open.spotify.com/show/4Jf2IYXRlgfsiqNARsY8fi

Nov 16, 2021 • 52min
61. “Patrick Lumbroso Trilogy”: Part 3 All things “P’’-Partners penises, porn and penile rehabilitation
Welcome to episode 61 of the Penis Project podcast!
For today's episode, we take another trip down memory lane with Jo interviewing Patrick Lumbroso. As always, his frank and honest approach to a difficult subject are refreshing. If you're someone who has doubts about penile injections - this is really the perfect episode for you as Patrick discusses this in full detail.
He also talks about rehabilitation, Peyronies, pumps, nerve-sparring vs non-nerve-sparring surgery, the importance of having 2nd opinion after diagnosis, weight, pelvic floor exercises, vibrations, frequency of erections, and that not all porn is bad. He also gives his top relationship tip, that is: to treat your partner like an expensive bottle of wine - savor them.
Have a listen through the PLAY button below.
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If you feel The Penis Project is valuable to you then, please review and subscribe as this will ensure more people get to hear what we have to say.
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Websites:
https://melissahadleybarrett.com Men’s health only
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
http://prost.com.au/
Facebook:
https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085146627814
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/
https://www.instagram.com/restorativehealth.clinic/
TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett
YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett
Linkedin:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/
Music
David Mercy
https://open.spotify.com/artist/1HbvnltKu4XbWTmk0kpVB9?si=D1xP5dDVQK-zzNU3rViRWg
Producer
Thomas Evans: The SOTA Process
https://www.instagram.com/thesotaprocess/
https://open.spotify.com/show/4Jf2IYXRlgfsiqNARsY8fi

Nov 11, 2021 • 7min
60. YOMO- YOGA 4 MOVEMBER!
GOT a Man in your Life?
Join us on November 21st from 9am at Leederville Oval, hosted by the Subiaco Football Club for - YOMO – Yoga for Men’s Health - led by Physiotherapists Dr Jo Milios and, Kylie ‘KP’’Pearsall. Bring a mat and a mate!
Please register here: https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/yomo-yoga-4-movember-move-for-mens-health-tickets-170944117457
The event will include keynote speakers:
Dr Tom Hill (WACA)
Craig Aird & Darren Peterson
Also includes:
Raffle prizes from lululemon
A sausage sizzle
Coffee carts
Live music, acknowledgement of country, groovy tunes & smooth moves with DJ
Free Men’s Health checks from Regional Men’s Health with a PIT-STOP check on the oval will be a highlight.
Movember raises awareness of a range of men’s health issues, while there will be opportunities to donate on the day, this is a FREE event and we’d love to see you there, bring a mat and a mate (or your family – all are welcome), to support men’s health in our community
You can register and see more details here:
https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/yomo-yoga-4-movember-move-for-mens-health-tickets-170944117457
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Websites:
https://melissahadleybarrett.com Men’s health only
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
http://prost.com.au/
Facebook:
https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085146627814
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/
https://www.instagram.com/restorativehealth.clinic/
TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett
YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett
Linkedin:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/

Nov 10, 2021 • 52min
59. Debunking Penis Size and Function with “Melissa and Dr Jo”
The Penis Project podcast this week focuses on the question: what is normal for a male penis?
In recent months, both Jo and Melissa have had numerous patients attend their clinics, who have been very distressed by the size and appearance of their penis. In some instances, these men have had years of psychological distress over the false belief that their penis has been much smaller than average. In some cases, this has also prevented men from having relationships and even fathering children. The dire impact of this has been heartbreaking to observe so... breaking down stigmas and stereotypes is the aim of this episode.
Melissa and Dr Jo will have a frank discussion around all the common myths and misconceptions around what is normal in the male genitalia. This includes discussions around accurate measurement of penis length, function and size according to real data and scientific evidence. Conditions such as Erectile dysfunction, micro-penis, Koro , fatal retraction and buried penis are introduced as well as the impact of pornography on self-esteem.
The goal of today's episode (and of The Penis Project podcast ever since) is to reassure guys that every penis is unique and that size doesn’t necessarily matter!!!
BOOKS:
Male Pelvic Fitness by Dr. Andrew Siegel
The Penis Book Dr Aaron Spitz
Google Search - Penis Size:
https://www.google.com.au/search?q=world+penis+map&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=en-au&client=safari
Click on the button below to tune in for this important conversation - debunking the myth of the “perfect” penis.
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If you feel The Penis Project is valuable to you then, please review and subscribe as this will ensure more people get to hear what we have to say.
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Websites:
https://melissahadleybarrett.com Men’s health only
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
http://prost.com.au/
Facebook:
https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085146627814
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/
https://www.instagram.com/restorativehealth.clinic/
TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett
YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett
Linkedin:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/
Music
David Mercy
https://open.spotify.com/artist/1HbvnltKu4XbWTmk0kpVB9?si=D1xP5dDVQK-zzNU3rViRWg
Producer
Thomas Evans: The SOTA Process
https://www.instagram.com/thesotaprocess/
https://open.spotify.com/show/4Jf2IYXRlgfsiqNARsY8fi