The Niche Is You

Matthew Gottesman
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Aug 29, 2025 • 22min

Your Person Won’t Rescue You… They’ll Refine You

In this episode, I talk about why divine partnership isn’t about rescue, but refinement, how love mirrors your healing, not just your highlights, the difference between codependency and covenant, why true partnership sharpens you into purpose. and more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Preparation Isn’t About Trying to Force the Outcome; It’s About Getting Your Life Aligned For the PromiseApple: https://apple.co/3HFjtotSpotify: https://bit.ly/45G5gzM
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Aug 28, 2025 • 21min

Build Work That Doesn’t Rely on Hype to Hold Weight

In this episode, I talk about why slow work is the ultimate quality control, how depth becomes the new strategy when speed is removed, building from clarity, not just performance, why work that outlasts trends never needed hype to matter and more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Preparation Isn’t About Trying to Force the Outcome; It’s About Getting Your Life Aligned For the PromiseApple: https://apple.co/3HFjtotSpotify: https://bit.ly/45G5gzM
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Aug 27, 2025 • 22min

Sophistication is the Right Options, Not More Options

In this episode, I talk about why discernment is more powerful than abundance of choice, how subtraction creates clarity, peace, and alignment, the hidden cost of saying “yes” too much, how sophistication is restraint… not accumulation and more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Preparation Isn’t About Trying to Force the Outcome; It’s About Getting Your Life Aligned For the PromiseApple: https://apple.co/3HFjtotSpotify: https://bit.ly/45G5gzM
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Aug 26, 2025 • 20min

Adversity Isn’t Always Opposition… It’s Often Alignment

In this episode, I talk about why not every obstacle is an attack… some are assignments, how to reframe adversity as preparation, not punishment, the difference between opposition that distracts and adversity that develops, why God often uses giants to position you, not to destroy you and more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Preparation Isn’t About Trying to Force the Outcome; It’s About Getting Your Life Aligned For the PromiseApple: https://apple.co/3HFjtotSpotify: https://bit.ly/45G5gzM
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Aug 25, 2025 • 21min

Build a Better Game Than Trying to Play Theirs Better

Exploring the pitfalls of trying to win at others' games, the discussion reveals why true freedom lies in creating your own path. It delves into the shackles of external validation and how it can trap individuals in a cycle of discontent. Listeners are encouraged to redefine success on their own terms and embrace their individuality. The conversation highlights the empowerment that comes from building your own table instead of merely seeking a seat at someone else's.
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Aug 22, 2025 • 22min

Attention Is the Most Expensive Thing You Own

In this episode, I talk about why attention is your greatest asset… and how it shapes desire, the hidden cost of distraction and consumption, how to discern what’s worthy of your focus, guarding your attention as a spiritual and creative discipline and more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Preparation Isn’t About Trying to Force the Outcome; It’s About Getting Your Life Aligned For the PromiseApple: https://apple.co/3HFjtotSpotify: https://bit.ly/45G5gzM
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Aug 21, 2025 • 23min

The Greatest Form of Discipline is Devotion

In this episode, I talk about why discipline is proof of belief, not proof of hustle, the difference between devotion and obligation, how honest work makes discipline effortless, reframing consistency as care for your calling and more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Preparation Isn’t About Trying to Force the Outcome; It’s About Getting Your Life Aligned For the PromiseApple: https://apple.co/3HFjtotSpotify: https://bit.ly/45G5gzM
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Aug 20, 2025 • 18min

The People Who Call You Higher Aren’t By Accident… They’re Assigned

In this episode, I talk about how divine alignment shows up in relationships and friendships, the difference between inspiration and activation, why God sends people who won’t let you stay small, how to receive the call-up without mistaking it for pressure and more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:You Don’t Need to Reinvent Yourself… You Need to Remember YourselfApple: https://bit.ly/3ImWKgYSpotify: https://bit.ly/4nJAKwY
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Aug 19, 2025 • 21min

Your Person Won’t Compete With Your Purpose… They’ll Complete the Assignment

In this episode, I talk about why the right partner doesn’t distract you from purpose… they multiply it, how to discern between worldly attraction and divine alignment, the difference between chemistry and calling, why true partnership feels like a mission, not just a romance and more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:You Don’t Need to Reinvent Yourself… You Need to Remember YourselfApple: https://bit.ly/3ImWKgYSpotify: https://bit.ly/4nJAKwY
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Aug 18, 2025 • 19min

Preparation Isn’t About Trying to Force the Outcome; It’s About Getting Your Life Aligned For the Promise

In this episode, I talk about why preparation is not control — it’s alignment, how readiness proves you trust God’s promise more than your own timeline, the difference between waiting in fear vs. waiting in faith, why what you prepare for becomes the evidence of what you believe and more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:You Don’t Need to Reinvent Yourself… You Need to Remember YourselfApple: https://bit.ly/3ImWKgYSpotify: https://bit.ly/4nJAKwY

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