
The Niche Is You In Relationships, Sometimes Safety Feels Overwhelming Not Because It’s Wrong, But Because It’s New
Jan 28, 2026
25:10
In this episode we’ll talk about these energies:
- Why people pull away when relationships deepen
- How depth touches places we may not yet have capacity for
- The difference between safety and familiarity
- Why running isn’t failure — it’s information
- How fear shows up as withdrawal
- Why alignment matters more than pursuit
- What healthy partnership actually looks like
- How to stay steady without chasing
- And more…
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