ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Trying different positions while making love is something that we struggled with early on in our marriage. Since we learned little about the birds and the bees it is no wonder we had a difficult time when it came to different positions. Have you experienced a wall when it comes to trying new positions in your bed? We totally get it! In this episode we talk about the fears each of us face when it came to trying something new. Over the years we have experimented more and we've found our go to positions that we enjoy. We share them with you. It's now your turn to get out of your positions box and experience something new and exciting. What hinders you from experiencing a new position? Right click to download | Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

I sat in a conference room this weekend for Allison Maslan's Blast Off! Business Breakthrough. It started on my anniversary and I will have to say I was excited to be there. This was mine and Tony's way of celebrating. I know it's kinda weird, but heck we aren't normal anyway. Many of the attendees there thought we were a bit weird once they learned about the awesome ONE Community! Over the weekend Tony took the opportunity to put his money where his mouth is and showed me just how much he believes in me. It really lifted my spirits and put the wind beneath my wings. When was the last time that you showed your spouse just how much they mean to you? Our spouses need to hear and see just how important they are to us.  Verbally sharing and showing your spouse how you invest in your marriage will pay dividends. Sam the Cooking Guy 16 Reasons Why I Still Love My Wife After 16 Years of Marriage Right click to download | Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Love is active and love impacts the world in very big ways. When you first meet your spouse love was active and running rampant in you. Love was active, making you do things that made an impact. This week we had the opportunity to experience Bob Goff, author of Love Does, share how he does love around the world. Bob is charismatic, animated, and in love with doing to make an impact in this world. Love is something you need to be doing in your marriage as well as your community at large. Love Does! You have been blessed with tremendous gifts and passions and it's time to put all that love into your spouse. Love Does by Bob Goff (Affiliate Link) Sleepless San Diego video Right click to download | Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Live from the inside out for lasting satisfaction in your life and marriage starts with you being authentic with yourself. This authenticity is the DNA that God has placed inside of you that makes your heart sing when you are YOU! You are an amazing creation that has the ability to be the same person no matter if you are at work, at church, with a group of friends, or in your bedroom with your spouse. Coming to realize who that person is across all of these groups is the tough part. Take time over the next week and take a step back to see how you act in different groups. Ask your spouse to give honest feedback of how you act in different surroundings. Are you being Authentically YOU? What is it about you that makes you Authentically YOU? Right click to download | Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In your marriage the power of touch, non-sexual and sexual, are vitally important to your well being. Did you know that touch can ease your pains, lessen anxiety in your marriage, soften the blows of life that come your way, generate hope and has the power to heal you? Your hand upon your spouse can also slow their heart rate, give them a feeling of relaxation and the spiritual connection is long lasting. When words can't say everything you hope for touching your spouse can speak volumes. In this podcast we'll cover four forms of touch that you can have in your marriage. Connecting Touch Light Touch Companionship Touch Intimate Touch Which of the touches do you do most often in your marriage?  Right click to download | Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sexual rejection is tough on the spouse who is initiating sex. In our society the focus has been that of the husband getting rejected when initiating sex. Unfortunately, it's becoming more common for the husband to reject his wife. Long hours at work, gaming late into the night, pornography, emotional affairs, and other distractions are contributing to this behavior. In this show we look at the role reversal of when a wife initiates sex and continuously gets rejected. The impact this has on a marriage can cause insecurities that will effect both of you. Having been through sexual rejection in our marriage there are some questions you need to ask yourself so that you can break free of this cycle. How do I connect with my husband before we walk into the bedroom? Are there underlying issues that need to be addressed? Would an Intimacy Lifestyle benefit our marriage? We believe in both of you and your willingness to serve each other. What makes initiating sex with your husband difficult?  LIVE EVENT Oct. 13, 2012 - He Zigs, She Zags: Get Your Communication on the Same Path 7 Days of Sex Challenge Right click to download | Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week Tony and Alisa catch you up on all of the exciting developments that are being worked on at ONE Extraordinary Marriage. Over the last year the growth of listeners and readers has been amazing. All of your input via email, voice mail, or commenting on Facebook or Twitter have had us discussing how we can impact you and more marriage now and into the future. We need your help and prayers as we continue on this journey. He Zigs, She Zags: Get Your Communication on the Same Path Live Event - Our 1st live event will be held October 13th, inSan Diego.  Who do you know that needs to work on their communication?  Who can you introduce us to that we might be able to help us promote this event? Live Talk Radio Show - It is our desire to connect with you in a live talk show format, where you can call in and get your questions answered on the air. This will be on internet radio so that no matter where you are you can still listen in. Right now our biggest needs are advertisers to launch the show. New Products - It's time to help you build your marriage toolbox and we are creating the tools to help you do just that.  Through step-by-step exercises we will get you moving toward that extraordinary marriage. Make sure you sign up for the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Newsletter. Right click to download | Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Facing those skeletons in your closet can be hard. This week Tony shares about getting his girlfriend pregnant in college and then paying for the abortion. This event still impacts him 21 years later. Bringing up the skeletons in you past might not be worth the anguish to you. Fear, anxiety, and judgement stop you from letting go and releasing the skeletons. Instead you are held hostage, afraid to become the spouse you desire. You probably hear those voices telling you that you can't bring up these events to your spouse. The voices tell you that you are not worthy and by sharing you are only going to do damage to your marriage. The reality is that you can do it! You are brave! Jesus is holding out his hand right there next to you. He has come along side you to be there when you go through this time.  He's there with a listening ear, not trying to solve the problem but a source of hope and love. Taking that step out of the boat and onto the crashing waves and toward Jesus can be life-changing.  Your marriage will grow and flourish because you are being your most authentic self. What's keeping you in your boat? He Zigs, She Zags: Get Your Communication on the Same Path (Live Event) Voice of Truth - Casting Crowns Right click to download the MP3 | Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question or call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Is sex a stigma in your marriage? Has the past held you back from completely enjoying the amazing bond you could be having with your spouse? Sex ed or learning about the birds and the bees are an integral part of how you view sex in your marriage. Parents or other respected individuals may not have talked to you about sex, told you it was bad, or mentioned very little that didn't help you prepare for sex in marriage. You may have even been called names or had labels put on you because you looked a certain way. The lack of sex education combined with being labeled growing up has left you frustrated. Friends, movies, porn, or experimenting played a big part in how you approach sex in your marriage, but you can't seem to let the past go. This week Tony & Alisa share what they learned or didn't learn about the birds and the bees growing up. They want to help you overcome the past so that you can fully enjoy sex with your spouse. Right click to download the MP3 | Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question or call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The lights are dim in your bedroom and in the corner there is a blue chair. Jesus is sitting there. He is omnipresent in your life and right now he is waiting for you to allow Him into your sex life. Unfortunately, the reality is that you are to quick to compartmentalize Him out of your bedroom. You want to control this area as the thought of Him being there is a bit weird. Instead of developing a reliance on God to help flourish your marriage you are trying to control all aspects of it. You cannot do this thing called marriage by yourself.  We challenge you this week to invite Jesus into your marriage, into your bedroom. Jesus is sitting in a blue chair in your bedroom as you make love to your spouse. What’s running through your mind? See what others had to say on Facebook. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices