ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Your marriage isn't going the way that you expected when you said "I do" to your spouse. Actually... Your spouse has expressed that it's time for the two of you to either separate for a time or get a divorce. You need to know that you are not alone. We know this doesn't make things better and yet we get many emails each and every day from couples who are where you are. In all honesty our society, as a whole does not set you up for success. Most people come into marriage with no real idea on how to make a long term relationship work. In many cases you take a reactive stance instead of a proactive stance in your marriage. This means that you will react to circumstances as they come instead of actively creating the environment that you wish to have. Living in a disposable world has created an interesting dynamic in marriage. Everything from the clothes that you wear to the cars that you drive are made so that you can get a new one even before you need it. If this model isn’t making you happy anymore or seems to have lost its luster then get a new one. That’s great when your tires wear out, not so great when the two of you have drifted apart because you aren’t working on your marriage. The old isn't working for you and the drift has certainly started... It's time for you to save your marriage. In today’s show Tony and Alisa talk about what you can do to begin the process so that you can answer the question, "how do I save my marriage". EPISODE SPONSOR - Save My Marriage There can be many reasons why you find yourself needing to save your marriage an emotional or physical affair, continued fighting and conflict, being separated due to work, ailing parents, or personal choice, mental or behavioral issues and/or pornography, alcohol, or drug abuse. You now find yourselves creeping to the edge of divorce when there is little to no emotional intimacy, spiritual connectedness and physical/sexual intimacy A divorce brings change. This should not be taken lightly at any time. If this is you, now is the time to get help. Grab Save My Marriage today. Contract of Reconciliation Worksheets One-on-One Strategic Coaching Session Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The time is right and you are ready to make love to your spouse. You've been romancing each other and it's your time to initiate sex. There are certain rituals that you both may have before you make love. These may include, but not limited to... Dimmed lights Light candles or turn them on Warm the bed (turn on electric blanket) Turn up the heat Turn on the sound machine Take a shower Essential oil diffuser On the other had what you do afterwards also plays a part in your sexual intimacy. You may... Hurry up to get the towel or the sheets are going to get dirty. Aren't the sheets already dirty? Jump up and out of bed to get cleaned up or you may bask in the joy as you cuddle. No matter what time it is or what may be coming up you take a shower to clean off. There's also the do we put clothes back on or sleep naked. Both the before and after sex rituals are an area that need to be looked at and discussed in your marriage. In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about the many rituals that can take place before and after sex because there's a lot more happening than just the physical act. EPISODE SPONSOR Discover How to FINALLY Reignite Your Passion and Truly Enjoy Your Marriage (and Your Sex Life) Again…Even if it’s Been Stale for YEARS! Just Minutes from Now, You and Your Spouse Can Feel Like Newlyweds Again! Grab Intimacy Reignited NOW! Ecotones Sound + Sleep Machine Scheduling Sex & The Intimacy Lifestyle Where Are Your Priorities The Truth Shall Set You Free Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

When you first met your spouse there was this time when each of you were each others priority. You made sure that you spent time together and if something got in the way you'd reschedule that obligation. As time has past the priorities of life have now take over. Instead of making sure you and your spouse have time together it's everything else that takes priority. Is this the way you want to live your life and marriage? We don't think so because you are listening to this show. It's time to take action, pick one specific change, that you want in your marriage today. In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about the importance of choosing your priorities instead of letting your obligations dictate your life. EPISODE SPONSOR – Connect Like You Did When You First Met Learn the most relevant and critical questions most of our couple clients have had to deal with. We categorized these questions by topic and gave them a natural, orderly sequential flow. The result? An easy to use, handy reference tool. A tool that will dramatically change the course and tone of those most critical discussions you need to have with your spouse… forever. He Zigs, She Zags: Get Your Communication on the Same Path Strategic Coaching with Alisa DiLorenzo Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

There’s a reason that things are so good at the beginning of a relationship... Both you and your partner are putting forth effort into making the relationship work, into learning all about each other, and being on your best behavior. Then comes the ring, the wedding and life: kids, bills, obligations and the two of you... well you get relegated to the back burner. All those little things that were so important in the beginning don’t seem so important as the two of you have the stability and commitment of the marriage. The reality is a different story though. When you don't invest in your marriage and get back to basics this is a recipe for disaster. Why? Because your spouse's need to know that they are valued and desired. In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about going back to basics and the importance of continuing to do what you did at the beginning of the relationship to your spouse. EPISODE SPONSOR – Connect Like You Did When You First Met Learn the most relevant and critical questions most of our couple clients have had to deal with. We categorized these questions by topic and gave them a natural, orderly sequential flow. The result? An easy to use, handy reference tool. A tool that will dramatically change the course and tone of those most critical discussions you need to have with your spouse… forever. Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

To tell the truth or not to tell the truth? That is something you may ask yourself when talking to your spouse. It's something that seems so minimal and yet it can have a huge impact on your marriage foundation. There are topics that are not always easy to bring up to your spouse. Topics that can make you feel uncomfortable or “fudging” things a little bit. The reality is that you aren’t “fudging” things you are destroying your foundation. When you and your spouse are able to tell the truth and be open with each other that is when your marriage begins to grow. In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about how and why it matters that you tell the truth when you are talking to your spouse. EPISODE SPONSOR – The Perfect Love Letter Checklist When you grab The Perfect Love Letter Checklist you will receive 5 simple steps to never get stuck on what to write about, discover the secret ingredients to craft the perfect love letter, no matter how uncreative you think you are, exactly what to say to make your spouse melt every time, and how to deliver your romantic letter in a way that will WOW your spouse. Connect Like You Did When You First Met: 101 Proven Questions for Couples Divorce Is Off The Table Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

the book 50 Shades of Grey has become the most successful erotica book ever to be written. It's a #1 Best Seller with over 100 million copies sold. In it's path it has left many who have read it yearning for more in their marriage. The problem is that you feel let down and unsatisfied with what you have. Erotica, the written form of pornography, impacts you as much as someone who is viewing naked pictures on the internet. The hold erotica has on you, your mind and how you view your spouse are as detrimental. It's time to realize that if you desire more in your marriage then it is time to ditch the erotica so that you and your spouse can experience true sexual intimacy. In this week's show Tony & Alisa talk about a women’s dirty little secret...also known as erotica. EPISODE SPONSOR – How to Argue Less (in 2 Minutes) Stop Bickering With One Simple Movement. It Really Is This Simple, Try It And Be Amazed... You'll instantly learn how this One Simple Movement can breaks the tension and changes your body language as it diffuses the situation in a LOVING and respectful manner. Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

When you choose to only have sex when your kids are away or when everyone is, can be limiting in terms of when the two of you can be sexually intimacy. Giving yourself permission to have sex when the kids are home can be liberating. Your kids are not going to die if they find out that their parents have sex. In fact, they might just feel a bit more secure about their family knowing that their parents are choosing to be sexually intimate. In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about what you can do to become more comfortable having sex when the kids are home. EPISODE SPONSOR – Connect Like You Did When You First Met Learn the most relevant and critical questions most of our couple clients have had to deal with. We categorized these questions by topic and gave them a natural, orderly sequential flow. The result? An easy to use, handy reference tool. A tool that will dramatically change the course and tone of those most critical discussions you need to have with your spouse... forever. Ecotones Sound + Sleep Machine The Sex Talk Blueprint Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Delayed ejaculation is a condition in which it takes an extended period of sexual stimulation for a man to reach sexual climax and release semen from the penis. There are times when a man will not achieve climax as well. There are three causes to why you may be experiencing delayed ejaculation during sexual intercourse. These include physical, psychological or medicinal. In this week's show Tony & Alisa talk about delayed ejaculation and the physical as well as the emotional ramifications this can cause for a couple. ***Please note that Tony and Alisa are not medical doctors. Nothing in today’s show is medical advice. Should you have an ongoing issue please seek out help from your medical professional. EPISODE SPONSOR - Stop the Bickering in Your Marriage Learn a simple, easy strategy that will stop escalation in its tracks, spare your marriage of tons of unnecessary stress and drama. This strategy is proven to work with our coaching clients virtually every time. Download this free report. It's pure, no-fluff, actionable information. Once you read it, you can apply it within minutes! Includes an easy-to-use 6-point checklist to help you stay on track. Stop Premature Ejaculation with the Ejaculation Trainer He Zigs, She Zags: Get Your Communication on the Same Path Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Premature ejaculation occurs when a man ejaculates sooner during sexual intercourse than he or his partner would like. It's a time when you can feel embarrassed and/or lacking as a man. The ability to extend sexual pleasure is directly related to your manhood and premature ejaculation doesn't make you feel this way. The moment after this happens is a critical time between you and your spouse. What the two of you do, how you react, and where you go from here are all important as you process the situation. In this week's show Tony & Alisa talk about the physical as well as the emotional ramifications of premature ejaculation. ***Please note that Tony and Alisa are not medical doctors. Nothing in today’s show is medical advice. Should you have an ongoing issue please seek out help from your medical professional. EPISODE SPONSOR - Stop the Bickering in Your Marriage Learn a simple, easy strategy that will stop escalation in its tracks, spare your marriage of tons of unnecessary stress and drama. This strategy is proven to work with our coaching clients virtually every time. Download this free report. It's pure, no-fluff, actionable information. Once you read it, you can apply it within minutes! Includes an easy-to-use 6-point checklist to help you stay on track. Stop Premature Ejaculation with the Ejaculation Trainer He Zigs, She Zags: Get Your Communication on the Same Path Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

There are many things competing for your time, attention and energy and yet you want to have the best marriage you can possible have. Being over committed, busy and overwhelmed is not healthy for you or your marriage. When you have too many things to do or too many things vying for your attention (no matter how good they are) you tend to place less of a priority on your relationships. They are good for the most part, but you want a great marriage! In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about why it can be important to say no to good things so that you can say yes to great relationships. EPISODE SPONSOR Give us 30 minutes and we will give you a sexy body you’ll love to share with your spouse. It’s time to take your life back, look and feel fantastic, and be the spouse and parent you and your family deserve. Thrive90 Fitness was designed specifically to take you by the hand and lead you to the best shape of your life while keeping your family first – guaranteed! Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices