The Adversity Advantage with Doug Bopst

Todays guest is TV personality Kristen Doute. You may recognize Kristen from her long time role on Vanderpump Rules or perhaps from her content online. Kristen’s role on the show came to an end a few years ago and today she shares her story and reveals a side of her that you may not be as familiar with. We talk about reality tv, cancel culture, dating, mental health and so much more!   Thanks to this episode's sponsor:   Masszymes: Masszymes can help ensure that all the protein that you consume breaks down into absorbable amino acids. Go to masszymes.com/DOUGFREE and you will automatically get access to your unique coupon code to claim your free bottle.     What to Listen For:   0:00 Intro 1:21 What took Kristen to hollywood? 5:02 The beginning of Vanderpump Rules 7:41 How REAL is reality TV? 10:41 Did her role on the show impact her off camera? 12:19 How did drama get planned on the show? 15:22 The side of Kristen you may not be familiar with 17:10 How did being called “crazy” impact her? 22:05 Kristen gets kicked off Vanderpump Rules & “cancelled” 27:53 Does she have PTSD? 28:57 Kristen speaks on cancel culture 33:46 Unexpected blessings  35:38 Does it bother her that they are filming a new season of Vanderpump? 38:11 How she pulled herself out of a dark place 43:32 How has Kristen rebuilt her self esteem? 47:23 Is she dating? 50:49 What’s next for her? 52:42 What’s most misunderstood about her?     Follow Kristen:    Instagram  Tiktok Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's guest is dating coach Blaine Anderson, also known as @datingbyblaine on social media. And as you know, dating could be quite challenging in the online and offline world that we live in today and I was highly impressed with Blaine's direct and no nonsense advice on social media. I personally have gotten a lot of value out of her content and I think you are going to learn a ton in this conversation. And while Blaine, specifically coaches men, we get into both  perspectives in our discussion, so I know you'll enjoy it whether you are male or a female. So get your pen and paper ready as you tune into this dating master class.   Thanks to this episode's sponsor:   InsideTracker: Created by leading scientists in aging, genetics, and biometrics, InsideTracker analyzes your blood, DNA, and fitness tracking datato identify where you’re optimized—and where you’re not. You’ll get a daily Action Plan with personalized guidance on the right exercise, nutrition, and supplementation for your body. For a limited time, you can get 20% off the entire InsideTracker store at insidetracker.com/doug   What to Listen For:   0:00 Intro 1:59 What are the biggest struggles people have with dating? 4:25 Why self discovery is so important when it comes to finding a partner 7:01 Blaine puts me to the test! 11:10 How to find love on Instagram 17:19 Biggest mistakes she sees her clients make 19:38 She thinks everyone should stop doing THIS 21:40 How to build attraction 23:55 A date is NOT an interview (do this instead)  26:57 Boosting confidence before a date 28:42 How women can be more approachable 30:34 Do THIS to meet someone (& get their number) when you’re out in public 36:27 How to not be a “nice guy” without being a jerk (& avoid the friend zone) 39:57 How to ask someone out that you are interested in  42:37 Discovering what you want in a partner & when is it time to make things exclusive 46:15 When is it appropriate to incorporate “touch?” 48:26 Blaine critiques my online dating profile 55:04 How to date someone that’s “out of your league” 57:01 How to become more confident with your appearance     Follow Blaine:    Instagram Website  Tiktok Take her masterclass here   Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's guest is Cameron Rogers, the voice behind @freckledfoodie. She's a content creator and host of the freckled foodie & friends podcast and through her multiple platforms, Cameron creates a space where content is approachable and authentic, and she is the truest version of herself. Prior to pursuing freckled foodie full time,  Cameron worked on Wall Street for five years until she was in a life altering accident and decided it was time to wave goodbye to the corporate world and change the direction of her work to embody things she deeply cares about. Cameron is a passionate advocate for mental health awareness and shares her struggles with her audience on things like pregnancy, postpartum depression, and parenting. Cameron is always in pursuit of a genuine discourse on the trials of motherhood and lately she has been super excited to share all the amazing benefits that have come from going alcohol free, which we dive into today and more! Thanks to this episode's sponsor:   Earth Echo Foods/Cacao Bliss: www.earthechofoods.com/dougbopst Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 15% off your order      What to Listen For:   1:59 Why did she quit drinking? 7:24 What’s kept her going? 9:29 How to attend events and not drink? 13:47 Dealing with shame 17:58 Why does she think alcohol has become so “normalized” 21:12 Has Cam had any cravings ? 23:35 Cam’s tools for self love and coping with stress 26:37 How did drinking impact her anxiety? 30:20 What’s her fitness routine like? 34:16 What you can do if you struggle with body image 38:29 Whats her advice for someone who is “sober curious?” 41:36 How to handle peer pressure 44:27 How has giving up alcohol made her a better Mom? Follow Cameron:    Instagram Website Podcast Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's guests are Layne Norton and Simon Hill. Simon and Layne were on the show earlier this year and it has been one of the most popular episodes. So I thought I would get them back on to keep the discussion going. I will link our first episode in the notes below and I highly encourage y'all to give it a listen. Layne Norton (aka Biolayne) is an entrepreneur, physique coach, bodybuilder, and powerlifter. Alongside his success as a competitor, Layne has his Ph.D. in nutrition science and is one of the most respected voices in the health and nutrition space. Simon Hill is a nutritionist and physiotherapist with a bachelor's degree in science and a master's degree in nutrition science on a mission to help people make informed lifestyle choices. His podcast, The Proof with Simon Hill, extends beyond nutrition to other crucial lifestyle factors that impact our well-being.   As promised this is the second part of our most recent convo and today we discuss insulin, insulin resistance, exercise, longevity, and gut health and more!    Thanks to this episode's sponsor:   Masszymes: Masszymes can help ensure that all the protein that you consume breaks down into absorbable amino acids. Go to masszymes.com/DOUGFREE and you will automatically get access to your unique coupon code to claim your free bottle.   What to Listen For:   00:00 Intro 00:58 Does INSULIN & really matter & what’s best way to combat insulin resistance? 16:59 Is it healthy for your blood sugar to spike? (or should it be flat) 25:43 Why exercise is so important for longevity 27:53 Science based tool tips to increase your lifespan 33:22 Does walking help? 37:54 Biggest thing you can do to improve your bone mineral density (& why it can help you live longer) 44:59 Are there ways to improve your gut health & is gut health worth the “hype?”   Episode resources:   Simon Hill | Instagram, Twitter, Website The Proof Podcast Layne Norton | Website, Instagram, Twitter, LinkedIn, YouTube, Facebook   Previous convos with Simon & Layne: Simon & Layne #2 Part 1 of 2 Simon & Layne #1   Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's guests are Layne Norton and Simon Hill. Simon and Layne were on the show earlier this year and it has been one of the most popular episodes. So I thought I would get them back on to keep the discussion going. I will link our first episode in the notes below and I highly encourage y'all to give it a listen.   Layne Norton (aka Biolayne) is an entrepreneur, physique coach, bodybuilder, and powerlifter.  Alongside his success as a competitor, Layne has his Ph.D in nutrition science and is one of the most respected voices in the health and nutrition space. Simon Hill is a nutritionist and physiotherapist with a bachelor's degree in science and a master's degree in nutrition science on a mission to help people make informed lifestyle choices. His podcast, The Proof with Simon Hill, extends beyond nutrition to other crucial lifestyle factors that impact our well-being.   This episode I believe is the longest one I have done yet and so I broke it down into two parts. In this first part, we cover protein quality, why adherence matters, the best diet for fat loss, and the nuances of the highly debated topic: “are all calories created equal?” In the second part which will be released on Thursday, we cover insulin, insulin resistance, exercise, longevity, and gut health.   Thanks to this episode's sponsor:   InsideTracker: Created by leading scientists in aging, genetics, and biometrics, InsideTracker analyzes your blood, DNA, and fitness tracking datato identify where you’re optimized—and where you’re not. You’ll get a daily Action Plan with personalized guidance on the right exercise, nutrition, and supplementation for your body. For a limited time, you can get 20% off the entire InsideTracker store at insidetracker.com/doug   What to Listen For:   00:00 Intro 02:13 Animal vs Plant protein (quality, amino acids, best for muscle building, digestibility etc.) 23:39 Why ADHERENCE matters and best diet for fat loss 34:09 Are all calories REALLY created equal & does food quality matter? 44:49 Stay tuned for part 2 of 2 (releases Thursday)   Episode resources: Simon Hill | Instagram, Twitter, Website The Proof Podcast Layne Norton | Website, Instagram, Twitter, LinkedIn, YouTube, Facebook   Simon and Layne #1: https://dougbopst.com/layne-norton-simon-hill-on-why-nutrition-shouldnt-be-this-confusing/   Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today’s guest is Dr. Gabor Maté. Gabor Maté is a retired physician who spent 20 years in family practice and worked for over a decade in Vancouver’s Downtown East Side with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. He is the bestselling author of four books published in thirty languages, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, Gabor is an internationally renowned speaker highly sought after for his expertise on addiction, trauma, childhood development, and the relationship of stress and illness. The occasion for today’s chat is to discuss his newest book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness and Healing in a Toxic Culture that was just released a few days ago. This episode is an absolute MASTERCLASS on all things healing, parenting, trauma and addiction!    Thanks to this episode's sponsor:   Magic Spoon: Visit https://magicspoon.com/ and use the promo code "DOUG" at checkout to receive $5 off your first order     What to Listen For:   00:00 Intro 01:46 Is trauma root cause of addiction? 05:11 How does trauma change our brains? 07:34 Why our brains love opiates 12:11 Can parents prevent their kids from addiction? 14:30 THIS mistake by parents is detrimental to kids emotional development  17:07 Signs of childhood trauma in adults 20:45 How does stress and our emotions impact our health?  25:09 How do we heal from trauma and reduce stress?  28:34 Why we need authenticity AND attachment for survival (& how to have both) 33:30 How does a skeptic embrace spirituality? 37:23 Why is the drug epidemic so bad? 41:02 How does someone recover from addiction? 44:47 Gabor’s thoughts on the 12 step programs 47:40 The “4 A’s” that can help you become “whole” 51:51 His most VALUABLE advice for loving someone with addiction Connect with Gabor:   Website Instagram The Myth of Normal   Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today’s guest is Adrian Grenier. Many of you will recognize Adrian from playing Vincent Chase on the incredibly popular HBO show Entourage. But, Adrian is much more than “Vinny Chase.” Today he has cemented his place as a change agent who leverages his influence and passion for film to make impactful investments, create meaningful content and help make the world a better place. Adrian is also an entrepreneur and environmentalist and has started companies such as DuContra Ventures, The Lonely Whale Foundation and his newest endeavor, Earth Speed Media. While a lot of you may only know Adrian from his role on Entourage, he has made a radical transformation since that time and I’m looking forward to unpacking his story and all the ins and outs that go with in todays episode.   Thanks to this episode's sponsor: Masszymes: Masszymes can help ensure that all the protein that you consume breaks down into absorbable amino acids. Go to masszymes.com/DOUGFREE and you will automatically get access to your unique coupon code to claim your free bottle.   What to Listen For:   00:00 Intro 01:42 When did Adrian hit rock bottom? 04:25 What did healing look like? 07:34 Were his addictions fueled by his lifestyle or by trauma? 09:33 Why he dismissed the pain in his life 12:39 Becoming Vincent Chase (and why it was a challenge) 16:03 Did he ever get lost in his role as Vince?  19:51 The dark side of FAME 26:16 How he rediscovered true meaning and purpose in his life 31:35 Redefining success: from fame and money to farm and manure 34:24 What’s parenting going to be like for Adrian? 37:56 Adrian’s fitness routine 39:14 Where’s he at with acting? 42:51 What’s a project that he’s most excited about right now?  Connect with Adrian:   Earth Speed Instagram Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's guests are husband and wife, John Kim and Vanessa Bennett. John also known as “The Angry Therapist” pioneered the online life coaching movement seven years ago, after going through a divorce, which led to his total rebirth. He quickly built a devoted following of fans who loved the frank and authentic insights that he freely shared on social media. John became known as an unconventional therapist who worked outta the box by seeing clients at coffee shops on hikes or in a CrossFit box. John's wife, Vanessa Bennett is an author, a holistic psychotherapist, a clinical entrepreneur and mental health content creator. She co-hosts the “Cheaper Than Therapy” podcast and leads soul based retreats and workshops. Vanessa also creates and facilitates curriculum for non profits, corporate events and conferences.   This episode is an absolute masterclass on all things healing, relationships and dating. We get into what make can make a relationship better as well as what can make one suffer. John and Vanessa reveal how to find true love, heal from your past relationships and why chemistry in the beginning can be a RED FLAG.  Our discussion also gets into how to properly “fight” in a relationship, how to become a better partner and so much more!     Thanks to this episode's sponsor:   Masszymes: Masszymes can help ensure that all the protein that you consume breaks down into absorbable amino acids. Go to masszymes.com/DOUGFREE and you will automatically get access to your unique coupon code to claim your free bottle.     What to Listen For:   00:00 Intro 01:55 What makes relationships successful that often gets overlooked? 04:33 How to properly “fight” with your partner 09:27 Do not do THIS when fighting with your partner 11:50 Signs that your past is holding you back in relationships 16:21 Why great chemistry in the beginning can be a RED FLAG 25:25 What to do when honeymoon phase wears off 28:11 Getting over failed relationships  30:46 Should you get back with your ex? 33:40 How to properly apologize 36:41 Does cheating always end relationships? 41:10 Small things that add A LOT of value to relationships 46:20 Signs your relationships is STALE!    Connect with John: Website Instagram   Connect with Vanessa:   Website Instagram   Buy their book here   Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Todays’ guest is 70 year old fitness coach Pauline Adeleke! Pauline has been into fitness all of her life and at the youthful age of 70 years young, she has taken on the task of educating others about the undeniable benefits of exercise and fitness.    She has successfully set out to accomplish this mission by inspiring and motivating people of all ages through her ageless fitness lifestyle channel on YouTube and providing fitness training sessions with clients in person as well as remotely, but things haven't always been easy for her. Pauline met her husband, John, while working as an international flight attendant. John was one of Nigeria's premier entrepreneurs and intellectuals. He had a vision for his country that would supersede any country in Africa or the world for that matter. Mr. Adeleke was a multi-millionaire a hundred times over and provided a jet setting lifestyle for Pauline and their children with their residents in New York and homes all over. But within seven years, the magical ride would cease with the abrupt and sudden death of Mr. Adeleke, leaving Pauline and her two children financially barren . How did she overcome such a tremendous setback raising two children, ages four and five on her own? Well, I guess you're gonna have to listen to the episode to find out.   Thanks to this episode's sponsor:   Join Thrive Market today to get 40% off your first order and a free gift worth over $50. Visit thrivemarket.com/dougfitness.     What to Listen For:   00:00 Intro 02:42 Pauline’s teenager years 05:58 How she met her husband. (wild story) 16:15 Shattered dreams for Pauline  25:02 What happened to all of the money?  27:08 How she overcame such a tremendous setback 30:44 How did she begin to rebuild her life? 32:52 Doing THIS with her kids outside of school helped them become VERY successful  37:49 How did she handle the stress of being a single parent? 40:11 Did she ever lose faith? 44:32 When did she decide she wanted to pursue a fitness career? 47:31 Longevity tips from Pauline! (She’s 70 years young) 48:33 How to escape the victim mindset? 52:26 What’s next for Pauline?!    Connect with Pauline: YouTube Instagram   Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Todays guest is Liz Plosser. Liz is the Editor-in-Chief of Women’s Health, where she oversees the brand across its print and digital platforms and various brand extensions, reaching an audience of 47+ million women monthly.     Liz has been in the wellness industry for more than 18 years, previously overseeing digital strategy as SVP of Content at Well+Good, and prior to that, serving as the Senior Director of Content & Communications at SoulCycle. She is the former Deputy Editor of SELF, and before that she helped earn Cosmopolitan its first-ever national magazine award at the helm of the global brand’s health coverage. Liz was also the Editorial Director of CosmoBody, an on-demand subscription fitness channel.     Her first book, Own Your Morning, was released by Hearst Home in September 2021 was released in paperback a few weeks ago.   We discuss the current diet culture that exists as well as the current media landscape regarding it and how we can do better to improve both. Liz shares how she manages to keep readers engaged while staying to true to the integrity of the Womens Health brand and what specific type of stories really inspire her. She gives some solid advice for readers consuming content and also shares the secret to a great morning routine, how to get back on track after falling off and more!    Thanks to this episode's sponsor:   Organifi: Try the new Green Juice Crisp Apple to hydrate, energize, and support cortisol balance. Visit ORGANIFI.COM/DOUG  and use code DOUG for 20% off any item..     What to Listen For:   00:00 Intro 01:55 Liz’s opinion of the current “women’s health” media landscape 05:49 Headlines vs. integrity 10:51 Liz’s advice for those reading health publications 19:44 How can we improve diet culture and messaging? 29:43 What types of stories inspire Liz? 33:25 Does Liz plan to cover more topics on mental health/addiction? 36:07 Dealing with comparison 38:49 Liz’s morning routine 42:51 Getting back into a routine after falling off track  Connect with Liz: Instagram Buy Liz’s book here   Connect with Women’s Health:   Website Instagram   Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices