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Apr 23, 2025 • 19min

BONUS — Why we should stop apologising for the culture we love with Caroline O'Donoghue

Are chick flicks and rom-coms your secret indulgence but you feel too embarrassed to admit it? Caroline O'Donoghue, host of the hit podcast, Sentimental Garbage, says it's time to stop apologising for the culture we love. Under the tongue-in-cheek banner 'Justice for Dumb Women', O'Donoghue celebrates the pop-culture we've long been told we should feel ashamed for loving, from Sex and the City to Taylor Swift (and Twilight).So, get out the friendship bracelets and drop the cynicism as Yumi Stynes and Caroline take the guilt out of guilty pleasures.Take our audience survey. We want to know what you want to hear more of from us!https://forms.office.com/r/R5uACN6GWUThis episode contains references to Sentimental Garbage, Caroline O’Donoghue, Dolly Alderton, women’s culture, women’s media, Netflix, streaming, pop culture, female friendships, para social relationships.
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Apr 21, 2025 • 27min

How to fix a whiffy vagina

In a lively discussion, Professor Deborah Bateson, an expert in sexual health at the University of Sydney, tackles the often-taboo topic of vaginal odor. The conversation dives into the causes of bacterial vaginosis, its emotional impact, and surprising findings on its transmission. Lacey shares her personal experiences with awkward moments and hygiene struggles, sparking laughter and empathy. The episode also features humor and a song dedicated to the vagina, promoting body positivity and open dialogue about women's health.
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Apr 14, 2025 • 27min

Are our boys ok? Fighting online misogyny with Kate Scott

What does the manosphere and the rise of online misogyny mean for our relationships with boys and men?The Netflix drama Adolescence shows the violent consequences of being steeped in hateful messages about women. It follows 13-year-old Jamie, an incel, angry at the world because he's been sexually rejected by a girl. The show has started conversations about the real-world consequences of online misogyny.Some boys are drawn to the manosphere by the promise of bigger muscles, getting laid and tips on getting rich, but the darker corners of these online spaces encourage violence against women and call for a return to traditional gender roles. When Andrew Tate, the hugely influential manfluencer's catch cry is "choke the bitch out", how worried should we be?In this episode, Yumi Stynes sits down with Kate Scott from the University of Sydney to talk about the allure of the manosphere and what draws boys and men away from these communities once they've been sucked in.This episode contains references to misogyny, extremism, incels, violence against women, red pill, Adolescence, Andrew Tate, manosphere, social media, gender, online activity, Hustlers University, red pill, algorithm.
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Apr 7, 2025 • 33min

Sugar babies — dating men for money

Charlotte's sugar daddy took her to the fanciest restaurant in Melbourne. Soraya's gave her a trust fund. Meet the attractive young women dating rich older men as Yumi Stynes peeks into the lives of sugar babies. Find out how the online sugar dating world (the sugar bowl) facilitates the kind of romance you pay for, and what can go wrong when sex mixes with money, wealth and power. Yes, there's a holiday in Thailand that goes terribly awry (think White Lotus, with less guns). Plus, researcher Srushti Upadhyay from The University at Buffalo explains how the economy of intimacy works, and what it means for all of us when we put a price on relational labour.This episode contains references to sex, sugar baby, sugar daddy, sugar dating, beauty, wealth, White Lotus, Chloe and Greg, Chelsea and Rick, Seeking Arrangement, sex work, cost of living crisis, business, transactions.
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Mar 31, 2025 • 32min

'All Women Want' — how to have great sex, with Alyx Gorman

Alyx Gorman, lifestyle editor at The Guardian Australia and author of 'All Women Want,' dives deep into the complex world of female sexuality and pleasure. She addresses the significant orgasm gap between heterosexual women and men, emphasizing the need for better communication in sexual relationships. Alyx also explores generational differences in sexual practices, including the controversial topic of choking. With anecdotes from her experiences, including a revealing visit to a sex party, she encourages women to embrace their desires and enhance their sexual fulfillment.
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Mar 24, 2025 • 33min

Perimenopause: but aren’t I too young?

Perimenopause is hitting younger women harder than expected, with night sweats and hot flashes disrupting their lives. Hear powerful stories of women facing premature ovarian insufficiency and the emotional toll it takes on their dreams of motherhood. Relationships are tested as intimacy becomes complicated by these challenges. The podcast also sheds light on the science behind early menopause, emphasizing the importance of awareness and support. Transformative personal journeys foster a sense of community and encourage open conversation about this often-taboo topic.
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Mar 17, 2025 • 27min

Perimenopause: is this the end of sex?

In this enlightening conversation, Dr. Sheryl Kingsberg, a leading expert in reproductive biology and sex during perimenopause, joins Yumi Stynes to tackle the intricacies of sexual health at this life stage. They discuss personal stories of intimacy challenges, decreased libido, and the often-taboo topic of vaginal dryness. Dr. Kingsberg offers practical advice on hormone therapy and opens the door to embracing change, encouraging women to advocate for their sexual health. This vibrant exchange blends humor and hope, making the subject both relatable and empowering.
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Mar 10, 2025 • 27min

Perimenopause: why you can't think straight

Join Dr. Pauline Mackey, a distinguished professor at the University of Illinois, who specializes in the intersection of women's brains and hormones. Together with Yumi Stynes, they unravel the struggles of perimenopause, discussing how brain fog and mood swings are common yet misunderstood. Explore the effects of fluctuating hormones on memory and emotional health, discover the link between sleep disturbances and cognitive function, and learn valuable coping strategies to navigate this challenging phase of life.
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Mar 3, 2025 • 31min

Perimenopause: WTF is happening to our bodies

Dr. Susan Davis, an endocrinologist and expert on sex hormones and aging, dives into the often bewildering journey of perimenopause. She discusses the physical and emotional symptoms like hot flashes, mood swings, and weight gain that many women grapple with. Personal stories highlight the challenges around hormone replacement therapy and the importance of self-care during this life transition. Listeners will find valuable insights into managing their health and advocating for their needs as they navigate this pivotal stage.
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Feb 26, 2025 • 3min

INTRODUCING – The perimenopause diaries

Perimenopause: it's a huge physical, mental and sexual upheaval in a woman's life and yet, there's so much confusion as to how to make it through.Perimenopause is the months and years leading up to the last period, where a woman's hormones get feisty on their way down to retirement. This hormone fluctuation can lead to a range of symptoms, from hot flashes and night sweats to painful sex, mood swings and RAGE!In this four-part series, Yumi Stynes speaks to women in the thick of perimenopause as well as world-leading experts in the field to find out how to best manage during this phase without going postal.This episode contains references to perimenopause, hot flashes, night sweats, HRT, Hormone Replacement Therapy, MHT, Menopausal Hormone Therapy, estrogen, vaginal dryness, vaginal atrophy, brain fog, depression, anxiety, rage, anger, irritation, primary ovarian insufficiency, genito-urinary syndrome of menopause.

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