

The Clark Kegley Podcast
Clark Kegley - Refusing to Settle
Welcome to the Clark Kegley Self-Improvement Podcast! If you're looking to take your personal growth to the next level, you've come to the right place. Our show is all about identity shifting - transforming yourself into the 2.0 version of you.
From mindset shifts to actionable steps, you'll discover the tools you need to overcome limiting beliefs, build confidence, and achieve your goals. Whether you're struggling with self-doubt, seeking greater fulfillment, or simply looking to make positive changes in your life, this podcast has something for you.
So join us as we explore the power of identity shifting and unlocking your full potential. The 2.0 version of you is waiting.
From mindset shifts to actionable steps, you'll discover the tools you need to overcome limiting beliefs, build confidence, and achieve your goals. Whether you're struggling with self-doubt, seeking greater fulfillment, or simply looking to make positive changes in your life, this podcast has something for you.
So join us as we explore the power of identity shifting and unlocking your full potential. The 2.0 version of you is waiting.
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Feb 22, 2025 • 21min
4 types of Self-Sabotage (and how to ESCAPE the Cycle)
Explore the hidden forces of self-sabotage that hold you back, likened to driving with a parking brake on. Discover four distinct patterns—procrastination, addiction, binge eating, and harmful relationship dynamics—that create a cycle of struggle. Uncover how these behaviors are connected to your 'shadow self,' and learn actionable steps to break free. Reflective questions guide you in understanding and overcoming these barriers, empowering you to create the life you truly want.

Feb 15, 2025 • 15min
10 Harsh Truths About Relationships You Need to Hear
Relationships today are a complex labyrinth, filled with misconceptions. Discover the harsh truth: stop searching for 'the one' and start becoming the right partner. Let go of your ex completely—they're just a ghost. The idea that relationships are 50/50 is a myth; real love means both partners give 100%. Learn how outside opinions can poison your connection and why understanding love addiction is crucial. Plus, beware of using therapy jargon; it might just cloud your real feelings. Get ready for no-nonsense advice!

Feb 6, 2025 • 36min
I Spent $20,000 on Life Coaching. Here's Everything I Learned
Dive into a journey of personal transformation with a hefty price tag. Discover how confronting fears can lead to breakthroughs, and learn the importance of stepping outside your comfort zone. The conversation emphasizes committing to inner work and the necessity of slowing down for clarity. Say goodbye to perfectionism and embrace consistent action instead. This insightful discussion challenges you to break free from self-sabotage, promoting a more productive and fulfilling life.

Jan 30, 2025 • 10min
How to Make the Greatest Comeback of Your Life
NEW Join our Refusing to Settle Newsletter: Weekly ideas to shift your identity and design a life you love. Join 50k+ readers ready to crush it 👊 https://www.clarkkegley.com/free-ques... Change doesn’t have to be complicated. We tend to overcomplicate transformation with endless steps, podcasts, books, and advice. But in this video, I want to take a step back and make the whole thing very simple. We'll break down 4 powerful steps to help you make the greatest comeback of your life this year. Whether last year got away from you or you feel stuck in outdated goals, I hope these steps help you redefine what you want, make decisions you're stoked about, and build unstoppable momentum. If you’re ready to cut through the noise and create lasting change, this is your blueprint. Let’s get it! Get the 11 questions to change your life now (free gift for yt subs): https://www.clarkkegley.com/free-ques... The Best of Series | 10-years In The Making: • THE BEST OF - Clark Kegley | Top Vide... MY FAVORITE TOOLS 🟣 Book List - read if you want to grow - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/best-books... 🔴 YouTube Gear - how I film my videos - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/youtube-gear 🔴 Studio Gear - make filming easier - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/studio-gear SOCIAL / clarkkegley / clarkkegley / theclarkkegley WE'RE HIRING Apply to join the team: https://forms.gle/bQsQqqrJfiCU31nYA WHO AM I Hey there, I’m Clark Kegley, a former pro drummer turned self-improvement advocate. Here on YouTube, I provide guidance to help you transform into your 2.0 version. P.S. Some of the links in this description are affiliate links, meaning I get a commission if you purchase through them. It's a great way to support the channel at no extra cost to you 👊 Refusing to settle, Clark

Jan 23, 2025 • 14min
How I Quit Alcohol for 1,000+ Days (7 TACTICAL techniques YOU can try)
Alright guys, back with more sober content! I’m making this one to share a few tactical tips our last sober vids didn’t cover. Tons of you mentioned you're are curious about what your life could look like without alcohol—even if you don’t consider it a problem. My goal with this series is to provide judgment-free advice and maybe even a new perspective. SMASH that like button if you dig it (lol). Oh! Are you getting the free newsletter yet? Crazy if you’re not. I send it every Saturday morning, and it’s jam-packed with tips to help you crush it. It’s free—just drop your email here: https://www.clarkkegley.com/free-ques... 🙌 You’ll discover: 3 tactical tips to make quitting easier 3 mental reframes to help you stick with it Why you don’t need a “rock bottom” moment to quit How to shift from feeling like you’re “giving up” to realizing how much you’re gaining The surprising benefits (and challenges) of a sober lifestyle Plus, I’ll share my best advice for starting with a 30-day no-alcohol challenge and what to expect as you take those first steps. If you’re ready to break free from old habits and create a life you love, this is for you. 00:00 How to Use This 01:19 TIP 1 03:54 TIP 2 05:09 TIP 3 06:15 TIP 4 07:16 TIP 5 07:54 TIP 6 10:28 TIP 7 13:37 What to do next 💡 Bonus: Want extra support? Get my FREE journaling guide, 11 Questions to Change Your Life, and weekly tips straight to your inbox. Link: https://www.clarkkegley.com/free-ques... 👉 Let me know what you think in the comments—and remember, you’ve got this. Start your journey today. The Best of Series | 10-years In The Making: • THE BEST OF - Clark Kegley | Top Vide... MY FAVORITE TOOLS 🟣 Book List - read if you want to grow - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/best-books... 🔴 YouTube Gear - how I film my videos - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/youtube-gear 🔴 Studio Gear - make filming easier - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/studio-gear SOCIAL / clarkkegley / clarkkegley / theclarkkegley WE'RE HIRING Apply to join the team: https://forms.gle/bQsQqqrJfiCU31nYA WHO AM I Hey there, I’m Clark Kegley, a former pro drummer turned self-improvement advocate. Here on YouTube, I provide guidance to help you transform into your 2.0 version. P.S. Some of the links in this description are affiliate links, meaning I get a commission if you purchase through them. It's a great way to support the channel at no extra cost to you 👊 Refusing to settle, Clark

Jan 18, 2025 • 13min
7 One-Minute Habits That Save Me 20+ Hours a Week
Get the 11 questions to change your life now (free gift for yt subs): https://www.clarkkegley.com/free-ques... What’s up, guys! In this video, I’m sharing seven one-minute habits that save me over 20 hours a week. (Relax, getting up at 5AM is not one of them, I promise lol.) So, what do I mean by "20 hours"? It’s about cutting wasted time and boosting productivity. Put it this way: what used to take 6-7 hours now takes 1 or 2. Or maybe you stop losing 3 hours a day to scrolling. When I stack up all the ways these tips have helped, 20 hours a week is actually conservative! Real productivity isn’t about cramming in tactics—it’s about FOCUS. That’s why these work. Let’s go! 00:00 How this works 00:39 Habit I 01:32 Habit II 03:24 Habit III 04:56 Habit IV 07:16 Habit V 08:43 Habit VI 09:56 Habit VII 12:00 What to do next The Best of Series | 10-years In The Making: • THE BEST OF - Clark Kegley | Top Vide... MY FAVORITE TOOLS 🟣 Book List - read if you want to grow - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/best-books... 🔴 YouTube Gear - how I film my videos - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/youtube-gear 🔴 Studio Gear - make filming easier - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/studio-gear SOCIAL / clarkkegley / clarkkegley / theclarkkegley WE'RE HIRING Apply to join the team: https://forms.gle/bQsQqqrJfiCU31nYA WHO AM I Hey there, I’m Clark Kegley, a former pro drummer turned self-improvement advocate. Here on YouTube, I provide guidance to help you transform into your 2.0 version. P.S. Some of the links in this description are affiliate links, meaning I get a commission if you purchase through them. It's a great way to support the channel at no extra cost to you 👊 Refusing to settle, Clark

Jan 5, 2025 • 13min
3 Decisions That Will Define Your 2025 (And Change Your Life)
Welcome to 2025! If you’re ready to make it your breakout year, this video is for you. Changing your life doesn’t happen by accident—it starts with 3 decisions. These aren’t your typical ‘New Year, New Me’ resolutions. We’re talking about real, actionable commitments that will help you create massive momentum and lasting transformation. Watch now and set yourself up for a year you’ll never forget. 👊 FREE BONUS: 11 Q's to Change Your Life in 2025: https://www.clarkkegley.com/free-ques... The Best of Series | 10-years In The Making: • THE BEST OF - Clark Kegley | Top Vide... 00:00 How to Change Your Life 00:37 COMMITMENT I 04:25 COMMITMENT II 08:47 COMMITMENT III MY FAVORITE TOOLS 🟣 Book List - read if you want to grow - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/best-books... 🔴 YouTube Gear - how I film my videos - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/youtube-gear 🔴 Studio Gear - make filming easier - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/studio-gear SOCIAL / clarkkegley / clarkkegley / theclarkkegley WE'RE HIRING Apply to join the team: https://forms.gle/bQsQqqrJfiCU31nYA WHO AM I Hey there, I’m Clark Kegley, a former pro drummer turned self-improvement advocate. Here on YouTube, I provide guidance to help you transform into your 2.0 version. P.S. Some of the links in this description are affiliate links, meaning I get a commission if you purchase through them. It's a great way to support the channel at no extra cost to you 👊 Refusing to settle, Clark

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Dec 31, 2024 • 15min
The Ultimate Guide to Journaling: Change Your Life in 2025
Time for the ultimate guide to keeping a journal! This has been our little end-of-year tradition for over 7 years now, and I couldn’t be more excited to share it with you again. In this video, I'll show you why journaling is hands-down the BEST thing you can do to change your life in 2025. We’ll break it down into three parts: WHY you should journal, WHAT this method is, and HOW to do it. Hope you dig it, and happy new year! P.S. To get you started, here’s a free bonus: my favorite 11 Questions to Change Your Life. https://www.clarkkegley.com/free-ques... More Journaling Vids: • The 5 Journaling Techniques That Chan... • these 5 journaling questions let you ... • The ULTIMATE guide to keeping a Journ... • the ultimate guide to keeping a journal • I Journaled Everyday for 10 years. He... The Best of Series | 10-years In The Making: • THE BEST OF - Clark Kegley | Top Vide... MY FAVORITE TOOLS 🟣 Book List - read if you want to grow - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/best-books... 🔴 YouTube Gear - how I film my videos - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/youtube-gear 🔴 Studio Gear - make filming easier - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/studio-gear SOCIAL / clarkkegley / clarkkegley / theclarkkegley VIDEO CHAPTERS 00:00 How to CHANGE YOUR LIFE in 2025 00:30 PART I 03:45 PART II 05:10 PART III ABOUT THIS VIDEO Unlock the power of journaling with this ultimate guide! Learn how to journal for self-growth and discover the best journal method to transform your life in 2025. Perfect for beginners or seasoned journalers, this guide dives into journaling ideas for self-improvement, journaling prompts for clarity, and actionable tips for goal setting. Whether you're exploring how to start journaling for mental health or looking for journaling tips to stay consistent, this video has it all. Start your journey with easy, practical methods to improve focus, reflect deeply, and create a roadmap for success. Make 2025 the year of transformation through journaling! WE'RE HIRING Apply to join the team: https://forms.gle/bQsQqqrJfiCU31nYA WHO AM I Hey there, I’m Clark Kegley, a former pro drummer turned self-improvement advocate. Here on YouTube, I provide guidance to help you transform into your 2.0 version. P.S. Some of the links in this description are affiliate links, meaning I get a commission if you purchase through them. It's a great way to support the channel at no extra cost to you 👊 Refusing to settle, Clark

Dec 19, 2024 • 14min
5 Life-changing books YOU MUST READ in 2025
Discover the life-changing impact of five essential books that promote personal growth. Delve into the distinction between building true wealth and merely earning money, unlocking creativity through dream exploration. Explore Radical Acceptance, a powerful concept for embracing your current reality without judgment. Learn how literature can help you overcome resistance and ignite action, featuring insights from 'The War of Art.' Get ready to transform your perspective and life with these pivotal reads!

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Dec 5, 2024 • 9min
If you give me 9 minutes, I’ll unlock 5 yrs of motivation with ONE question...
Dive into the intriguing world of motivation as personal stories illustrate the push and pull of pleasure versus pain. Discover how to tackle procrastination by understanding the psychological factors at play. The discussion encourages reflecting on your own behavior, prompting listeners to take action for enhanced emotional well-being. Plus, one powerful question promises to unlock five years of motivation in just nine minutes!