The Dildorks

Let’s be cool and heat things up: this week we’re discussing temperature play!Weather | Sensation Play | Easy vs. Advanced | Ice | Topping | Risks | Wax | Toys | Enemas | Lube & Oil | Emotions | Safewording Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

The hosts dive deep into the often-overlooked skills of bottoming in the kink community. They explore the complex dynamics of topping and bottoming, discussing the relationship between pain and pleasure. Key topics include effective communication strategies, the art of dirty talk, and coping mechanisms for pain. The conversation emphasizes trust and self-awareness, illuminating the emotional aspects of BDSM. They even touch on the humor of navigating bisexuality, making for an engaging and enlightening listen.

The hosts discuss personal experiences and growth with vulvas and vaginas. They explore feelings, debunk misconceptions, discuss vaginal odor, and anxieties during sex. They emphasize the importance of body positivity and calling vulvas by their correct name.

Happy New Year! This week we’re reviewing how our sex lives progressed in 2019, and looking forward to discuss our 2020 sex goals.You’re Wrong About | Overall Trends | Sex Ed | Decentering Sex | Bad Sex | Keeping Track | Number of Partners | Locations | Best Sex | Roleplay | Phone Sex | Topping | Hypno-Topping | Sex Toys | Sex Media | Last Year’s Goals | Passion Projects | Apologies | Submitting | New Orgasms | Dicks Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

In this podcast, the hosts discuss taboo kinks such as incest porn, ethnoreligious roleplays, and forced feminization. They also explore the benefits of roleplay in couples and embracing the weirdness of sex. The concept of race play and ancestral trauma is explored, as well as personal taboos and limits in sexual play. They wrap up with a playful discussion about dirty talk and political figures.

This episode explores taboo kinks like intoxication, consensual non-consent, and sleepy sex. The importance of communication, boundaries, and aftercare in taboo play is emphasized. They also discuss recognizing triggers, using safewords in BDSM scenes, and exploring the effects of shrooms and intoxicants on kink. The chapter on forced-by fantasies delves into power dynamics and subversion. The hosts express gratitude, mention the episode sponsor, and discuss future episode plans.

Almost everyone’s curious about hypnosis, so we’re back this week doing Hypno 101! Learn about how trance works, what it feels like, and what kinky stuff you can do with it. Mind Play | Scripts | Pre-Talk | Negotiation | Speaking in Trance | Children | Surprises | Vetting Tops | Inductions | Relaxation | Fixation | Resisting | Confusion | Covert Hypnosis | Rapid Inductions | Coercion | Derren Brown | Are We There Yet? | Utilization | Fractionation | Triggers | Aftercare | Hypno Bondage | Love Dial | Indirect Suggestions | Phrasing | Arousal | Dials | Tools Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

We attended a hypnokink event together recently so this week we decided to chat about erotic hypnosis! Hear about our fantasies surrounding this kink, some scenes Kate has done, and some hypnosis misconceptions we love to debunk. TES Hypnokink Group | Distractions | Validity | Tricks | Orgasm Countdown | Lazy Tops | Mindlessness | Perception vs. Reality | Metaphor | Relaxing | Risks | Two Hyp Chicks | The Brainwashing Book | Fantasies | Intelligence Play | Undoing | Service | Training | Nipples Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

This week Bex sits down with Rachael Rose, a chronically ill and disabled sex educator, to talk about their shared diagnosis: ADHD! Find out how this condition intersects with sex, dating, creativity, and more.Diagnosis | ADHD Brain | Getting Things Done | Homework | Brain Engagement | Watching Movies | Gender Bias | Restlessness | Gamification | Time Blindness | Reaching Out | Notifications | Relationships | How to ADHD | Motivation | Food | Deep Dives | Noisy Brain Workshop | Distraction | Sex Tips | Joy | NRE | Long-Distance | Looking Forward Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

This podcast explores sex and kink in long-distance relationships, including tips for Skype sex, protocols in LDRs, and the decision of having sex on an airplane. They also discuss reading erotica together, concerns with Bluetooth sex toys, the importance of aftercare in virtual sexual activities, and the challenges of traveling with sex toys and gender nonconforming gear.